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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, you've had the chat, messaging, a social meet or maybe a bit more and then...nothing! Who is supposed to make the next move? How can one avoid looking desperate, grredy or needy?
Any thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chat, meet and have fun, leave a verification making sure the gent knows I am interested in meeting with him again, then leave it at that.
If he is interested in meeting again, he'll get in touch.
As for gents that I am interested in meeting, I let them know I am interested in meeting them, and leave it at that.
If they are interested, they will get in touch, otherwise they don't.
Sex is a recreational activity that I enjoy from time to time, and is not high on my list of priorities.
I certainly do not sit at home moping and waiting for the phone to ring, to receive texts, e-mails or PMs etc...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I want to chat, or whatever I'll get in touch. I don't get these weird rules that people live by.
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This! If they choose to think I'm odd because I may just text to see how they are etc then it is probably them who are odd... |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"So, you've had the chat, messaging, a social meet or maybe a bit more and then...nothing! Who is supposed to make the next move? How can one avoid looking desperate, grredy or needy?
Any thoughts? "
They could be sitting thinking the same thing....
Just send a quick text or message and see what happens. |
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