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"You have only been on here for 7 days it was 5 months before I got a meet you just have to wait and keep trying lol "And theres not much on your profile ether could do with updating  | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong?" I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic. | |||
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"lol i wish getting a shag was as easy as paying someone a half assed compliment "What I meant was, most messages are automatically deleted without any reply...smart arse  | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic. " Am looking for advice, not sarcasm | |||
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"lol i wish getting a shag was as easy as paying someone a half assed compliment
What I meant was, most messages are automatically deleted without any reply...smart arse"its the same for us all mate | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong?" Could always try the opposite, you look terrible, unattractive and have a terrible body. I'd never wantto meet anyone like you.....see if that get's you a meet, lol  | |||
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Most women can see though compliments so I would try something else, maybe saying what you are looking for or mentioning something on their profile and asking for them to check out your profile etc.
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? Could always try the opposite, you look terrible, unattractive and have a terrible body. I'd never wantto meet anyone like you.....see if that get's you a meet, lol "Maybe I should give that a try | |||
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"That is advice
Most women can see though compliments so I would try something else, maybe saying what you are looking for or mentioning something on their profile and asking for them to check out your profile etc.
Then I would be patient. "Thank you | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic. Am looking for advice, not sarcasm" I wasn't being sarcastic. I really would delete all the above. The advice was that you're sending out dull and generic messages hence why its not working. | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic. Am looking for advice, not sarcasm" she wasn't being sarcastic. Women get hundreds of messages like yours. They don't stand out or tell us anything other than you pay compliments | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong?" Try waiting until they are actively seeking a meet , then message them and sell yourself to them then . Much more chance if they are the ones looking | |||
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"You're a nice looking man with a lovely smile. Show your personality in your messages and profile text. As in real life you have to attract women to you. You can't do with body language you only have text so try to bring your best side out " Thank you | |||
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"When we get message I look at the profile before looking at the message to see age,height and all that, then look at what is wrote in the profile and then of course the pictures.....if then and only then they have sparked my interest I read the message.... So yes I think your profile needs a little tweeking...also when massaging for the first time try a little humour its much more powerful than compliments..... Good luck hun Sammy" Have just updated it, thank you Sammy | |||
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"Sorry but a 10 word profile will get you nowhere! You get out of this site what you put in and from what I can see you can't be bothered to put much in!" you`ve got 2 pics of ur cleavage. sort it out | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong?" All that. It's clearly all wrong as not one woman has dropped to her knees for you. So stop doing it and also completely remove any expectations of getting anything from this site. That way you'll never be disappointed. Because the mate that told you this site was full of women dying for any cock and he got a threeway with some hot lesbians off've here, was a total liar. | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? All that. It's clearly all wrong as not one woman has dropped to her knees for you. So stop doing it and also completely remove any expectations of getting anything from this site. That way you'll never be disappointed. Because the mate that told you this site was full of women dying for any cock and he got a threeway with some hot lesbians off've here, was a total liar. " lol! class | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic. Am looking for advice, not sarcasm" The above is advice, people will see the first words of the message and think 'oh no, more dull generic mail.' As someone else said the profile is pretty empty, study other peoples profiles, you can learn a lot from them. An interesting profile doesn't half help, I couldn't give an estimate of the amount of women, couples and Tgirls I've met from here over the years I've met since I started on here. | |||
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"Sorry but a 10 word profile will get you nowhere! You get out of this site what you put in and from what I can see you can't be bothered to put much in!" | |||
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"When we get message I look at the profile before looking at the message to see age,height and all that, then look at what is wrote in the profile and then of course the pictures.....if then and only then they have sparked my interest I read the message.... So yes I think your profile needs a little tweeking...also when massaging for the first time try a little humour its much more powerful than compliments..... Good luck hun Sammy Have just updated it, thank you Sammy" I've just had another look at it and it still needs more work. I suggest you spend the evening looking at other single men's profiles and working on yours. | |||
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"Sorry but a 10 word profile will get you nowhere! You get out of this site what you put in and from what I can see you can't be bothered to put much in! you`ve got 2 pics of ur cleavage. sort it out :- p" Yup, so I have, but I certainly ain't complaining about lack of interest! | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong?" not showing any patience if this post is anything to go by!!! it can take months for single guys to get a meet lets face it your one of about 30000!!!!!!!  | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong?" Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box. Turn my mind on before my body.... | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box. Turn my mind on before my body...." I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box. Turn my mind on before my body.... I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on" Nice to see you're completely ignoring any good advice you've been given and instead getting all pissy with people. Good luck. | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box. Turn my mind on before my body.... I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on Nice to see you're completely ignoring any good advice you've been given and instead getting all pissy with people. Good luck."  | |||
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"Read their profile take something from that and add it to your message ... No copy and pastes - each woman is individual and so should the mails you send them Be yourself - don't say what you think they want to hear .... be YOU Good luck handsome " Thank you cutie | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic. Am looking for advice, not sarcasm she wasn't being sarcastic. Women get hundreds of messages like yours. They don't stand out or tell us anything other than you pay compliments " dont think was sarcasm I think was constructive criticism to sort out ya profile and as said u need to rethink ya chat up line us women get lots of ( nice pics and you look stunning if meant would be fine but most dont mean it ) | |||
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" Turn my mind on before my body.... I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on" Thank god for that, I haven't time for men who get arsey when they don't get what they want
I suggest you grow up before you try and get a meet because your attitude indicates you might be the kind of man who becomes abusive if rejected. | |||
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"No I'll revise my last statement. Nice to see you responding positively to comments from women who compliment you and getting pissy with those that don't. Again, good luck. " It is all so predictable I should have licked his are instead  | |||
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"That is advice
Most women can see though compliments so I would try something else, maybe saying what you are looking for or mentioning something on their profile and asking for them to check out your profile etc.
Then I would be patient. " | |||
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"We respond to messages that actually mention something we wrote about in our profile. This way we know the person read it instead of just looked at our pics. Good luck in your search. Be a gentleman first and give it time." Same here | |||
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"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong? Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box. Turn my mind on before my body.... I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on" Having an arrogant attitude with someone who has had actual meets will really do you a lot of good on here. You wonder why women and couples just delete your messages, simple you have a problem with people, several women have said you're good looking, quite true. However have you noticed none of them actually meet and shag you? | |||
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