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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi,
Not sure if anyone will reply to this but here goes :
I was just wondering would folks have an opinion on weather wealth makes a difference to people on here ?
I know in "real " life as it were that money is quite important to people but I'm wondering is it important on the swinging seen ?
Do men and women and couples meet people because they are wealthy and may provide the finer things in life or is all that a load of bull ?
As always feel free to reply privately etc etc
If you want to reply at all haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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money means nothing to me, as i have none.
BUT
having available funds to drive, get train etc means there are more opportunities to get out and meet people from here.
I would never not meet some one because they are not rich, but sometimes i feel like others judge me because i do not have a car or spare cash.
i am sure i have lost potential meets because of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I cannot afford to pay for the hotel room or petrol to get to the hotel and back, I do not meet.
AHs exist in all walks of life, regardless of socio-economical background, IMHO.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I cannot afford to pay for the hotel room or petrol to get to the hotel and back, I do not meet.
AHs exist in all walks of life, regardless of socio-economical background, IMHO. "
tell me about it, mostly in my town. this place is sooooo money orientated that even after 13 years am still an outsider because i am not rich.
i should move, but i cannot afford to, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people are miserable because they have no money then that's a consideration .
Then again if they are miserable in pursuit of more than they need the same applies .
But if we chat , meet , play and never know about their wealth or lack of it , then that's just perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Money does not buy love but it sure buys hapiness .whips and toys =money petrol = money a nice meal and a drink =money shooting your load in a fine looking ladies boat race fucking priceless  |
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I'm not mega rich but am well paid and probably well off by most people's criteria, as such I never mind booking the hotel and paying for it or paying the club entry as it only seems right, I think it's a bit harsh if you've invited someone and they're a bit tight on cash flow to expect them to pay 50% on principle when I can do more
So generally money as such makes no difference in who I meet with the exception of profiles that ask for clearly unreasonable 'contributions' off people wanting to meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a comfortable lifestyle far from rich but enough speare cash to be able to go clubbing (both swinging and fet events), get hotels etc on a regular basis. If our disposable income was lower then these would be the first areas where we would make cutbacks. So yes disposable cash does mean we have a lot more opportunities for fun.
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I think it does make a difference.....
A lot of people can't help it, they treat people differently which is why, so far, it's the only rule we've not broken/bent when swinging.
No one knows what we do for a living or how well / not well off we may be.
We swing with people because we want to. I really don't want or care to know what someone does or doesn't do. If we get on then great!
To the point if people start asking us or telling us we politely say we don't want to know.
So, it shouldn't matter, and I'd really like to say it wouldn't matter to us - but then why take the risk. I know it will matter to some, that's up to them, but we really don't want to know.
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"And how would someone know if the person they are arranging a meet with has money or not?
It's certainly not a question that would even cross my mind, never mind my fingers on a keyboard! "
Same here. Wealth doesn't necessarily mean monetary wealth nor does monetary wealth bring a classier or more educated sort of person. Monetary wealth obviously widens opportunities but personally, I couldn't care less how much money someone has.
I meet people for sex, not to wank on their bank statement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And how would someone know if the person they are arranging a meet with has money or not?
It's certainly not a question that would even cross my mind, never mind my fingers on a keyboard! "
some people just throw it in your face, I know a few people who love talking about their money |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not mega rich but am well paid and probably well off by most people's criteria, as such I never mind booking the hotel and paying for it or paying the club entry as it only seems right, I think it's a bit harsh if you've invited someone and they're a bit tight on cash flow to expect them to pay 50% on principle when I can do more
So generally money as such makes no difference in who I meet with the exception of profiles that ask for clearly unreasonable 'contributions' off people wanting to meet them"
im pretty much the same, im not rich but I have a well paid job and some savings, the guy I used to meet who was unemployed I was happy to pay for the hotel as I liked him and I liked meeting him and I would rather pay the whole bill to meet someone I liked than pass him by to meet someone I may not like as much because they had money to go halves on a room, makes no sense to me
I have to admit tho he did start taking the piss after a bit so I stopped meeting him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its the lack of transport that gets me. trains are ok, but to have really good time one needs longer as i have to get home, unless they or she accommodates overnight, like i can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When Elton john was asked if money made one happy he replied "money gives you choice, choice makes you happy". I kind of liked that response.
But as for being more successful on this site because you have a certain lifestyle or the like, no i believe i matters not a jot !! |
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"I'm not mega rich but am well paid and probably well off by most people's criteria, as such I never mind booking the hotel and paying for it or paying the club entry as it only seems right, I think it's a bit harsh if you've invited someone and they're a bit tight on cash flow to expect them to pay 50% on principle when I can do more
So generally money as such makes no difference in who I meet with the exception of profiles that ask for clearly unreasonable 'contributions' off people wanting to meet them
im pretty much the same, im not rich but I have a well paid job and some savings, the guy I used to meet who was unemployed I was happy to pay for the hotel as I liked him and I liked meeting him and I would rather pay the whole bill to meet someone I liked than pass him by to meet someone I may not like as much because they had money to go halves on a room, makes no sense to me
I have to admit tho he did start taking the piss after a bit so I stopped meeting him "
Exactly I don't mind being generous because I can, but when someone starts to expect more and more then it's take to say goodbye, generosity should never become payment or expectation |
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"I used to meet an unemployed guy and i'd pay for the hotel or club entry fee every time we met so other peoples money does not matter to me"
You see I wouldn't do this and I certainly wouldn't expect to be subsidised: it's a hobby, fun, not life and death.
I wouldn't meet someone I knew couldn't afford it to the point it affected me. I went to one playmates house and he asked me not to flush the toilet. I asked him why he said he was on a water meter and couldn't afford to waste water.
I asked about showering, as I was going to spend the weekend. He said I could but he looked pained: I didn't stay. I wasn't going to travel across London on public transport without showering.
For some people that wouldn't be a deal breaker, but if someone can't afford to flush their loo not for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet an unemployed guy and i'd pay for the hotel or club entry fee every time we met so other peoples money does not matter to me
You see I wouldn't do this and I certainly wouldn't expect to be subsidised: it's a hobby, fun, not life and death.
I wouldn't meet someone I knew couldn't afford it to the point it affected me. I went to one playmates house and he asked me not to flush the toilet. I asked him why he said he was on a water meter and couldn't afford to waste water.
I asked about showering, as I was going to spend the weekend. He said I could but he looked pained: I didn't stay. I wasn't going to travel across London on public transport without showering.
For some people that wouldn't be a deal breaker, but if someone can't afford to flush their loo not for me! "
no that would be a deal breaker for me but not from the money point of view but from the point of view that if I go to the loo I want to flush it and I would like a shower |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think flushing the loo and having a shower is pretty much essential for most!
Sadly, not for all! "
what if you want a number two? you really not going to leave it in the loo for all to se are you  |
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