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The new meet summary is a great addition to fab , what is the most number of meets you have seen on a profile?? I have just seen one with over 160 men and couples & 354 meets, even accounting for parties and socials that's good going. Have you seen more, and do you see high numbers of verifications as a good or bad sign?? |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?"
I can see where your coming from, a few is fine but 100s just seem a bit excessive, that's only my opinion though |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
on the advice of someone ive hidden a few of mine "
I recently did the same on the advice of a friend on Fab |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
on the advice of someone ive hidden a few of mine "
I see, but you still have your summary active, was it the content of the verifications that made you hide them?? |
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"The new meet summary is a great addition to fab , what is the most number of meets you have seen on a profile?? I have just seen one with over 160 men and couples & 354 meets, even accounting for parties and socials that's good going. Have you seen more, and do you see high numbers of verifications as a good or bad sign??"
354!!!! Christ she must have a turnstile in her knickers........Next!!!! |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
I can see where your coming from, a few is fine but 100s just seem a bit excessive, that's only my opinion though "
As as someone who's organised many social nites the past with as many as 100+ attending and many verifications coming from them I think it's very unfair to make assumptions ... I'm very selective in who I choose to have fun with . |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
I can see where your coming from, a few is fine but 100s just seem a bit excessive, that's only my opinion though As as someone who's organised many social nites the past with as many as 100+ attending and many verifications coming from them I think it's very unfair to make assumptions ... I'm very selective in who I choose to have fun with ."
Did we touch a nerve? Next!!!!!! |
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"The new meet summary is a great addition to fab , what is the most number of meets you have seen on a profile?? I have just seen one with over 160 men and couples & 354 meets, even accounting for parties and socials that's good going. Have you seen more, and do you see high numbers of verifications as a good or bad sign??
354!!!! Christ she must have a turnstile in her knickers........Next!!!!"
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Totally depends on how you see swinging and what floats your boat .
Lets say an average couple like us get to play once a week . Thats potentially 52 verifications a year . If we go to clubs we nay play in a group. So there could be 6 veris from that . And one may attend socials where there may be dozens more .
When people say they are put off by too many is it because they want more than nsa sex ?
As I said it depends what you are looking for - some of us are very active with lots of different playmates , and others not so much . Each to their own but one should never judge  |
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"Totally depends on how you see swinging and what floats your boat .
Lets say an average couple like us get to play once a week . Thats potentially 52 verifications a year . If we go to clubs we nay play in a group. So there could be 6 veris from that . And one may attend socials where there may be dozens more .
When people say they are put off by too many is it because they want more than nsa sex ?
As I said it depends what you are looking for - some of us are very active with lots of different playmates , and others not so much . Each to their own but one should never judge "
I agree, it's only my opinion , I suppose I treat this site as a part time hobby rather than a lifestyle, so the number of people I meet reflects that |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
I can see where your coming from, a few is fine but 100s just seem a bit excessive, that's only my opinion though As as someone who's organised many social nites the past with as many as 100+ attending and many verifications coming from them I think it's very unfair to make assumptions ... I'm very selective in who I choose to have fun with ."
And not forgetting that Fab has been on the go for several years, so a lot of verifications over say 8 years, means nothing! |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
I can see where your coming from, a few is fine but 100s just seem a bit excessive, that's only my opinion though As as someone who's organised many social nites the past with as many as 100+ attending and many verifications coming from them I think it's very unfair to make assumptions ... I'm very selective in who I choose to have fun with .
And not forgetting that Fab has been on the go for several years, so a lot of verifications over say 8 years, means nothing!"
Would you meet someone who has had over 300 meets?? Even over 8 years that's about 3 a month, and that only accounts got the verified meets, I certainly wouldn't , but I will reiterate that's only my opinion |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
I can see where your coming from, a few is fine but 100s just seem a bit excessive, that's only my opinion though As as someone who's organised many social nites the past with as many as 100+ attending and many verifications coming from them I think it's very unfair to make assumptions ... I'm very selective in who I choose to have fun with ."
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But how do you know genuineguy how those verifications have come about?
Many people do social meets to determin if there is sexual chemistry there to take that onto a play meet not everyone will play with every single person they meet socially.
As I said I've arranged many social events on here some with 100 plus people if you think for one min I've shagged each and everyone if them just because they verified me your very much mistaken lol |
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"But how do you know genuineguy how those verifications have come about?
Many people do social meets to determin if there is sexual chemistry there to take that onto a play meet not everyone will play with every single person they meet socially.
As I said I've arranged many social events on here some with 100 plus people if you think for one min I've shagged each and everyone if them just because they verified me your very much mistaken lol "
I am not suggesting there all from meets, and tbh what people do on here is their business, it's a swinging site after all, I just wouldn't meet anyone with 350 verified meets.  |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
I can see where your coming from, a few is fine but 100s just seem a bit excessive, that's only my opinion though As as someone who's organised many social nites the past with as many as 100+ attending and many verifications coming from them I think it's very unfair to make assumptions ... I'm very selective in who I choose to have fun with .
And not forgetting that Fab has been on the go for several years, so a lot of verifications over say 8 years, means nothing!
Would you meet someone who has had over 300 meets?? Even over 8 years that's about 3 a month, and that only accounts got the verified meets, I certainly wouldn't , but I will reiterate that's only my opinion "
We are all here for our own particular purposes and what suits one, definitely won't suit another. I think it's reasonable to take into account that not all of the meets will be "fun" meets, but social ones too. Also, what about where someone verifies you every time you meet, if you have one or two regular friends? |
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"I personally dont like to see a lot of verifications on a profile as find it a bit intimidating...maybe thats just me though?
I can see where your coming from, a few is fine but 100s just seem a bit excessive, that's only my opinion though As as someone who's organised many social nites the past with as many as 100+ attending and many verifications coming from them I think it's very unfair to make assumptions ... I'm very selective in who I choose to have fun with .
And not forgetting that Fab has been on the go for several years, so a lot of verifications over say 8 years, means nothing!
Would you meet someone who has had over 300 meets?? Even over 8 years that's about 3 a month, and that only accounts got the verified meets, I certainly wouldn't , but I will reiterate that's only my opinion
We are all here for our own particular purposes and what suits one, definitely won't suit another. I think it's reasonable to take into account that not all of the meets will be "fun" meets, but social ones too. Also, what about where someone verifies you every time you meet, if you have one or two regular friends?"
Good point, like I said previously it's a life style for some people so they probably get more time to meet people, the lucky fuckers |
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"The new meet summary is a great addition to fab , what is the most number of meets you have seen on a profile?? I have just seen one with over 160 men and couples & 354 meets, even accounting for parties and socials that's good going. Have you seen more, and do you see high numbers of verifications as a good or bad sign??
354!!!! Christ she must have a turnstile in her knickers........Next!!!!"
I find it odd that people on a swinging site can be critical of people having meets... 
And the misogynistic undercurrent of this thread does not sit comfortable. I can't help but suspect a single man would be being applauded for his success |
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"The new meet summary is a great addition to fab , what is the most number of meets you have seen on a profile?? I have just seen one with over 160 men and couples & 354 meets, even accounting for parties and socials that's good going. Have you seen more, and do you see high numbers of verifications as a good or bad sign??
354!!!! Christ she must have a turnstile in her knickers........Next!!!!
I find it odd that people on a swinging site can be critical of people having meets...
And the misogynistic undercurrent of this thread does not sit comfortable. I can't help but suspect a single man would be being applauded for his success"
Actually maybe a revolving door so more people can squeeze in at same time lol. |
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"What about those who hide all their veri's and do not show the verification summery.
They may have had a 1000 meets and you'd never know.
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It would be really insane if there were other websites for meeting people... and some people might even meet in real life. Imagine a world where verifications didn't tell the whole story...
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