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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hey all. Ive always wondered what is the best way to grab someones attention. for me personally I always struggle with the first msg so I usually stick with the simple question of how are u? or would u like to chat? this is not everyones cup of tea I know but how would u start?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hey all. Ive always wondered what is the best way to grab someones attention. for me personally I always struggle with the first msg so I usually stick with the simple question of how are u? or would u like to chat? this is not everyones cup of tea I know but how would u start? "
Simples,
A.S.L, how big is your cock? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"hey all. Ive always wondered what is the best way to grab someones attention. for me personally I always struggle with the first msg so I usually stick with the simple question of how are u? or would u like to chat? this is not everyones cup of tea I know but how would u start?
Simples,
A.S.L, how big is your cock?"
are u asking me or is that how u start lmao  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to send a wink and if they wink back,I message them. To send a detailed message and see it's been deleted without even being read,is a complete waste of time and effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, I never really found it a science.. I write some emails and put something I thought was amusing or silly, usually something on their profile that made me smile, and I just say hi and leave it at that, if she's up for a giggle, then maybe she'll message me back, but I'm cool if they don't.. Most of the time I'm making myself laugh as I'm writing them anyway 
Uhoh. Gotta go. The nice people in white coats are coming. Must be "medicine time" already...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its best to say that u like the look of their crack and want ur spunk oozing out of it..its my most successful line...honest"
I get massive discounts at tesco when I mention this very line at the customer services desk..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so generally I should send a msg and some how refer to there profile? would that get me more attention? "
At least it would prove that you have read the profile and paid attention to it. |
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"hey all. Ive always wondered what is the best way to grab someones attention. for me personally I always struggle with the first msg so I usually stick with the simple question of how are u? or would u like to chat? this is not everyones cup of tea I know but how would u start? "
I just delete messages like that. To me it smacks of laziness. It makes me think they sender does not read profiles and messages many people daily. |
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"hey all. Ive always wondered what is the best way to grab someones attention. for me personally I always struggle with the first msg so I usually stick with the simple question of how are u? or would u like to chat? this is not everyones cup of tea I know but how would u start? "
Sounds like an automatic delete to me, however like others I am drawn towards looking at the the profile before reading the message, (then deleting). The profile needs to be interesting, your's says buggar all apart from the fact you're married. That probably won't help either |
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hi all, interesting reply's to the question , but here's our problem, we spend the summer months working on Corfu. been on this site for around five months and managed to meet several nice couple's , but the admin have twice removed our profile for breaching site rules, also told us not to send out copy/paste massages (spam), which we used to do as a first contact, so now our profile is short because I cannot think what would please the admin, so at the minute we only massage people who :look at us: which I fairness is working very well, so its a bit like never judge a book by its cover when reading profiles, and why are there so many single men posing as couple? ...lov to all Connie xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What you have to remember is that everyone wants a different 1st communication, could be a 1 liner, detailed message or a wink... it doesnt bother me which one it is because ultimatly if your profile is shit or you dont have any public photos ( dont have to be face) then it would get my attention. If I got a message just saying "hi" and I liked the profile then thats fine by me. |
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"hey all. Ive always wondered what is the best way to grab someones attention. for me personally I always struggle with the first msg so I usually stick with the simple question of how are u? or would u like to chat? this is not everyones cup of tea I know but how would u start? "
Try "Get ya coat on! You've pulled!" Or "Do you cum here often...? Well ya will if you meet me!" 
Maybe not... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As an example to the OP this is what we would send.
Hi Jon, have read your profile and like the look of it. Would be interested in chatting a bit a getting to know a bit more. We really enjoy going to clubs and see you have it on your interests.
Would be great if you fancied meeting up for a drink then head off to a club if all Goes well
*pics attached*
Him&her xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As an example to the OP this is what we would send.
Hi Jon, have read your profile and like the look of it. Would be interested in chatting a bit a getting to know a bit more. We really enjoy going to clubs and see you have it on your interests.
Would be great if you fancied meeting up for a drink then head off to a club if all Goes well
*pics attached*
Him&her xx
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right i'm cutting and pasting that   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an example to the OP this is what we would send.
Hi Jon, have read your profile and like the look of it. Would be interested in chatting a bit a getting to know a bit more. We really enjoy going to clubs and see you have it on your interests.
Would be great if you fancied meeting up for a drink then head off to a club if all Goes well
*pics attached*
Him&her xx
right i'm cutting and pasting that "
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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago
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"As an example to the OP this is what we would send.
Hi Jon, have read your profile and like the look of it. Would be interested in chatting a bit a getting to know a bit more. We really enjoy going to clubs and see you have it on your interests.
Would be great if you fancied meeting up for a drink then head off to a club if all Goes well
*pics attached*
Him&her xx
right i'm cutting and pasting that
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so don't quote Coldplay songs to this couple and attach pictures of David Cameron reading the Sun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an example to the OP this is what we would send.
Hi Jon, have read your profile and like the look of it. Would be interested in chatting a bit a getting to know a bit more. We really enjoy going to clubs and see you have it on your interests.
Would be great if you fancied meeting up for a drink then head off to a club if all Goes well
*pics attached*
Him&her xx
right i'm cutting and pasting that
so don't quote Coldplay songs to this couple and attach pictures of David Cameron reading the Sun!"
Never realised I had to taylor it to anyones profile as well- that's hard work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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being honest here for me if they send a pic and I like the look of them I will reply no matter what wording they put, if i'm not attracted to them no matter how good a message they write i'm not going to be interested in meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"being honest here for me if they send a pic and I like the look of them I will reply no matter what wording they put, if i'm not attracted to them no matter how good a message they write i'm not going to be interested in meeting "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its best to say that u like the look of their crack and want ur spunk oozing out of it..its my most successful line...honest"
that's the one that attracted me to you |
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