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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why do couples put up for meets when they ain't even had 1 verification !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

to get a meet?

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By *onestjohn1962Man over a year ago

Sheffield

"to get a meet?"

so they can get verified?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

Some people don't ask for/receive verifications.

Or maybe it is their first meet??

Or a host of other reasons.

You can filter non verified people if it bothers you

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By *ames blackMan over a year ago

Middlesbrough

How do you get a verification without a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plenty of obvious fakes on here, the cpls profiles which have been here for over a year but not 1 verification make me laugh!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably not a real couple .... Just a bloke dreaming

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How do you get a verification without a meet?"

u dont, unless its cam or a fake verify

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes but I've had the same couple waste my time 3 times asking for the same meet that never happens just total timewasters tbh

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Why do couples put up for meets when they ain't even had 1 verification !!!!

when you were first trying to get a meet, did you ever use one of the site functions to help

as they are

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"to get a meet?"

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By *eddonistikMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Why do couples put up for meets when they ain't even had 1 verification !!!!

What you mean by 'put up for meets'? Meet today? Events? or just having it on their profile?

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By *eddonistikMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Probably not a real couple .... Just a bloke dreaming "

I always insist on speaking to the woman as well as the man before confirming the meet, this does work as a useful filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just odd couples been on fab over a year and not 1 verification they either just a sad bloke pretending or pic collectors

And they say single males are bad when some couples are just as worse !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you meet people at a club, asking them to verify may not be appropriate... We don't ask for verifications in this scenario as it sounds like we are needy or just putting 'notches on the bedpost'.

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

"Yes but I've had the same couple waste my time 3 times asking for the same meet that never happens just total timewasters tbh"

Do you mean you have talked to them and arranged one or just that you've messaged them without reply?

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By *lassy pairCouple over a year ago

Greenwich London

Because every one have to start from somewhere

Don't you think

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It ain't notches on your bed post it proves who you say you are and that your genuine and not a timewaster!!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

just don't contact them, block them for future reference as people you are not interested in and scroll down to the next meet

life on here is easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

U have to remember OP, they may be just checking for other options, theyll have lots n lots of mails(and males), its most likely theyd prefer a female, or couple

ranting here about timewasting etc isnt going to solve much

also,m ur profile says u dont accom..perhaps they dont want to meet at their home?

try going through all the variables before spouting "TIMEWASTERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you meet people at a club, asking them to verify may not be appropriate... We don't ask for verifications in this scenario as it sounds like we are needy or just putting 'notches on the bedpost'.

you mean you dont ask to see there CV and References

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just don't contact them, block them for future reference as people you are not interested in and scroll down to the next meet

life on here is easy

Yep - it sure is

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By *lassy pairCouple over a year ago

Greenwich London

Also it doesn't mean if you are a member for over a year without 1 vervication you are fake maybe it was a good idea at the time when they join the site, then change their mind and now they are back again, many reason for that so you can't really judge

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being discreet I never verify or show a verification, its the last thing married guys want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Me thinks he should lay off that wee Iron Bru

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"U have to remember OP, they may be just checking for other options, theyll have lots n lots of mails(and males), its most likely theyd prefer a female, or couple

ranting here about timewasting etc isnt going to solve much

also,m ur profile says u dont accom..perhaps they dont want to meet at their home?

try going through all the variables before spouting "TIMEWASTERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR""

it seems to me they have wasted a lot of his time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also it doesn't mean if you are a member for over a year without 1 vervication you are fake maybe it was a good idea at the time when they join the site, then change their mind and now they are back again, many reason for that so you can't really judge

or nobody actually wants to fuck them ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes but I've had the same couple waste my time 3 times asking for the same meet that never happens just total timewasters tbh"

Why on earth would you allow that to happen? I think that says more about how you select meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes but I've had the same couple waste my time 3 times asking for the same meet that never happens just total timewasters tbh"

So, they let you down twice. And you went back for a third time? The words, punishment and glutton spring to mind!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Yes but I've had the same couple waste my time 3 times asking for the same meet that never happens just total timewasters tbh"

Well, more fool you then.. assuming they actually wasted your time by arranging a meet with you and not showing 3 times..

If you just mean they posted a meet 3 times but haven't met you... well that's not timewasters, that's just people who don't want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"U have to remember OP, they may be just checking for other options, theyll have lots n lots of mails(and males), its most likely theyd prefer a female, or couple

ranting here about timewasting etc isnt going to solve much

also,m ur profile says u dont accom..perhaps they dont want to meet at their home?

try going through all the variables before spouting "TIMEWASTERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR"

it seems to me they have wasted a lot of his time"

yes 3 times, well who can eventually take the blame for that eh???

my gobby cunt iron bru drinkingness might be something to do with knowing the site scene fairly well?-I'm not having a prob with "timewasters"...so I've no need to rant

and dont worry OP, I say the same thing to women and cpls who moan/rant about timewasters etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i've been here years but don't put up verifications!? but i'm very genuine

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

people are very quick to throw out the word timewaster.....

in effect... unless you have actually organised a meet, and they dont turn up... your time hasn't been wasted because you are not doing something you wouldn't have been doing anyway...

if you are trying to say you would not have been on the site anyway and would have been browsing/reading/replying.... I would call BS.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i've been here years but don't put up verifications!? but i'm very genuine

Neither do I when my profile isn't hidden and last time I looked I was genuine. Sometimes as is allowed though, I think too many people would rather take what another has said about someone than find out for themselves if they are compatible.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts.

To the OP - Filters, common sense, a bit of tolerance for the fact that people might not want to use the site in exactly the same way as you do.

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