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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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what do women look for on guys or couples profiles? i have people look at mine all the time but hardly chat to people. I dont stalk people on here and i wont chase after anybody like alot do apparently so are people just picky or is my profile shit lol |
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Your profile doesn't read very well, no punctuation, for some people this is important.
Your pictures show very little of you, and more of some random female who you appear to be fucking bareback. This will put off even more people.
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over a year ago
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"what do women look for on guys or couples profiles? i have people look at mine all the time but hardly chat to people. I dont stalk people on here and i wont chase after anybody like alot do apparently so are people just picky or is my profile shit lol"
We look for humour, informative information about someone from what they do like to what they don't. If they travel or accommodate and generally we look for hooks of phrases that make us think they are our kind of people. |
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I like to see pics which give a good impression of body shape - I like back/bum pics and shoulder pics and torso shots, they don't have to be face pics! Though having one available is necessary cos I won't meet someone who I can't recognise.
I don't like to see lots of action shots (some don't offend me) or lots of cock shots (ditto). I also don't like pics which show just two square inches of the person who the profile belongs to and lots of a naked play mate. Pics that show bareback are a turn off to many, especially on a single profile. yes you may have an impressive back catalogue of pics taken with partners with whom you had consensual bareback sex and you may have both been tested to the ultimate. But your profile is a brief shop front glimpse and people make their minds up very quickly.
I also like some effort to be put into the profile text; tell me what you're interested in, if you can't accom then give a clue why (not passing judgement on attached, I just like to know the facts so I can make my own decision and I don't want to condemn house sharers or single parents as cheaters), tell me if you have any restrictions on meet times and tell me what you won't do.
A personal bugbear is "will try anything"  Really? Anything? This is a site full of open-minded sexual venturers, anything on here can be far more than you have any conception of! 
Please note OP I haven't been to your profile (yet) so these are general preferences and not personal comments about you.
Hope this helps. |
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"i do think alot of people treat this site like facebook lol"
There are plenty who meet. But some are only here for chat - this is where the profile should reflect this.
And the forums are full of chatty, gossipy people with too much time on our hands and a desire to talk crap with likeminded peeps.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i do think alot of people treat this site like facebook lol
There are plenty who meet. But some are only here for chat - this is where the profile should reflect this.
And the forums are full of chatty, gossipy people with too much time on our hands and a desire to talk crap with likeminded peeps. "
lmao fair enough. if some people choose to pay for a site and use it like facebook thats there choice. thats why i wont pay lol |
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"i do think alot of people treat this site like facebook lol
There are plenty who meet. But some are only here for chat - this is where the profile should reflect this.
And the forums are full of chatty, gossipy people with too much time on our hands and a desire to talk crap with likeminded peeps. lmao fair enough. if some people choose to pay for a site and use it like facebook thats there choice. thats why i wont pay lol"
I use the forums to chat and keep in touch with friends.
But I also use the site to meet people for sex.
So it's not exactly facebook is it?
And I choose to pay for the extra site facilities, primarily the notes function and being able to tell who I have been in contact with previously - this enables me to keep track of who I have turned down and remind people of that fact...  |
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"fair enough i just block if i dont like. dont have to keep track then "
The block list has a limit before people fall off. If I blocked everyone who sent me a civil message that I decline then I wouldn't have space for the numpties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, from my point of view, I don't like pics with women in them. Some can put me off the man. The 8 inch cock would hurt so that could put me off. I do like a tall man and you sound normal and fun. All things considered I would talk to you if you were local to me  Oh and you are nice looking but I like a smiley face pic |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We look for...
Interesting and a fairly detailed profile that gives us a bit of an insight to the person/couple and what they are looking for.
Clear photos that show more than a close up of a cock, boob or bit of leg. Can't tell anything from those kind of pics..
Green tick - preferably with a few verifications on show or at least the summary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought you were a woman because your main pic is of tits.
I disregard anyone unable to upload their pics the right way up.
You say 'your face pic gets mine' yet have two face pics in your gallery (albeit one is sideways...). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought you were a woman because your main pic is of tits.
I disregard anyone unable to upload their pics the right way up.
You say 'your face pic gets mine' yet have two face pics in your gallery (albeit one is sideways...)."
I agree I thought you were a woman!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought you were a woman because your main pic is of tits.
I disregard anyone unable to upload their pics the right way up.
You say 'your face pic gets mine' yet have two face pics in your gallery (albeit one is sideways...)."
Haha I thought the same thing, skipping through I thought the OP was a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to see pics which give a good impression of body shape - I like back/bum pics and shoulder pics and torso shots, they don't have to be face pics! Though having one available is necessary cos I won't meet someone who I can't recognise.
I don't like to see lots of action shots (some don't offend me) or lots of cock shots (ditto). I also don't like pics which show just two square inches of the person who the profile belongs to and lots of a naked play mate. Pics that show bareback are a turn off to many, especially on a single profile. yes you may have an impressive back catalogue of pics taken with partners with whom you had consensual bareback sex and you may have both been tested to the ultimate. But your profile is a brief shop front glimpse and people make their minds up very quickly.
I also like some effort to be put into the profile text; tell me what you're interested in, if you can't accom then give a clue why (not passing judgement on attached, I just like to know the facts so I can make my own decision and I don't want to condemn house sharers or single parents as cheaters), tell me if you have any restrictions on meet times and tell me what you won't do.
A personal bugbear is "will try anything" Really? Anything? This is a site full of open-minded sexual venturers, anything on here can be far more than you have any conception of!
Please note OP I haven't been to your profile (yet) so these are general preferences and not personal comments about you.
Hope this helps."
Better stick to match or lovehoney ...This is a swingers site after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to see pics which give a good impression of body shape - I like back/bum pics and shoulder pics and torso shots, they don't have to be face pics! Though having one available is necessary cos I won't meet someone who I can't recognise.
I don't like to see lots of action shots (some don't offend me) or lots of cock shots (ditto). I also don't like pics which show just two square inches of the person who the profile belongs to and lots of a naked play mate. Pics that show bareback are a turn off to many, especially on a single profile. yes you may have an impressive back catalogue of pics taken with partners with whom you had consensual bareback sex and you may have both been tested to the ultimate. But your profile is a brief shop front glimpse and people make their minds up very quickly.
I also like some effort to be put into the profile text; tell me what you're interested in, if you can't accom then give a clue why (not passing judgement on attached, I just like to know the facts so I can make my own decision and I don't want to condemn house sharers or single parents as cheaters), tell me if you have any restrictions on meet times and tell me what you won't do.
A personal bugbear is "will try anything" Really? Anything? This is a site full of open-minded sexual venturers, anything on here can be far more than you have any conception of!
Please note OP I haven't been to your profile (yet) so these are general preferences and not personal comments about you.
Hope this helps.
Better stick to match or lovehoney ...This is a swingers site after all "
and of course, everyone meets for sex at the mere sight of a hard cock....
you do realise some people actually like to have a connection with people they are going to have sex with....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to see a decent effort made on a profile, telling me a bit about them, what they want from the site, what they can offer, if they can't accomplish to say why. As for public pics, torso, bum, teasy pics, cock shots just make me pass a profile by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to see pics which give a good impression of body shape - I like back/bum pics and shoulder pics and torso shots, they don't have to be face pics! Though having one available is necessary cos I won't meet someone who I can't recognise.
I don't like to see lots of action shots (some don't offend me) or lots of cock shots (ditto). I also don't like pics which show just two square inches of the person who the profile belongs to and lots of a naked play mate. Pics that show bareback are a turn off to many, especially on a single profile. yes you may have an impressive back catalogue of pics taken with partners with whom you had consensual bareback sex and you may have both been tested to the ultimate. But your profile is a brief shop front glimpse and people make their minds up very quickly.
I also like some effort to be put into the profile text; tell me what you're interested in, if you can't accom then give a clue why (not passing judgement on attached, I just like to know the facts so I can make my own decision and I don't want to condemn house sharers or single parents as cheaters), tell me if you have any restrictions on meet times and tell me what you won't do.
A personal bugbear is "will try anything" Really? Anything? This is a site full of open-minded sexual venturers, anything on here can be far more than you have any conception of!
Please note OP I haven't been to your profile (yet) so these are general preferences and not personal comments about you.
Hope this helps.
Better stick to match or lovehoney ...This is a swingers site after all
and of course, everyone meets for sex at the mere sight of a hard cock....
you do realise some people actually like to have a connection with people they are going to have sex with.... "
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"I like to see pics which give a good impression of body shape - I like back/bum pics and shoulder pics and torso shots, they don't have to be face pics! Though having one available is necessary cos I won't meet someone who I can't recognise.
I don't like to see lots of action shots (some don't offend me) or lots of cock shots (ditto). I also don't like pics which show just two square inches of the person who the profile belongs to and lots of a naked play mate. Pics that show bareback are a turn off to many, especially on a single profile. yes you may have an impressive back catalogue of pics taken with partners with whom you had consensual bareback sex and you may have both been tested to the ultimate. But your profile is a brief shop front glimpse and people make their minds up very quickly.
I also like some effort to be put into the profile text; tell me what you're interested in, if you can't accom then give a clue why (not passing judgement on attached, I just like to know the facts so I can make my own decision and I don't want to condemn house sharers or single parents as cheaters), tell me if you have any restrictions on meet times and tell me what you won't do.
A personal bugbear is "will try anything" Really? Anything? This is a site full of open-minded sexual venturers, anything on here can be far more than you have any conception of!
Please note OP I haven't been to your profile (yet) so these are general preferences and not personal comments about you.
Hope this helps.
Better stick to match or lovehoney ...This is a swingers site after all "
Yep. You're right.
What with all my meets ending in us walking barefoot on the beach at sunset...
Though I am curious as to what kind of meets I can get through LoveHoney? What with them being a sex toy retailer not a dating/hook up site. |
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