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Anal sex is it for you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a bloke I can take it or leave it. I don't really see the point when I'm half an inch from a lovely pussy. But sometimes she really wants it that way, and I don't like to disappoint! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really enjoy it with a man I trust, my lover is quite big and it's not easy to start but once we get going I bloody love it!
He loves it as the taboo is a real turn on for him, and if I ask for it, seriously gets him going mmmmmmmmmm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Somewhere between the submission, the prostate being massaged and the sexual role reversal with your partner. Very liberating but also sensual.
Can't speak for everyone that's just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner is rather large and with a lot of lube I love it! It's a alrphnd feeling of climax without necessarily climaxing! Hard to explain I suppose!
I would love to do dp, had sex with a finger or two in my arse and that was out of this world! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An old gf introduced me to giving anal to her and I really didn't care for it much but did it just to keep her happy. Then one day she bought a strapon and she said it was my turn to receive........and I loved it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partner is rather large and with a lot of lube I love it! It's a alrphnd feeling of climax without necessarily climaxing! Hard to explain I suppose!
I would love to do dp, had sex with a finger or two in my arse and that was out of this world! "
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"An old gf introduced me to giving anal to her and I really didn't care for it much but did it just to keep her happy. Then one day she bought a strapon and she said it was my turn to receive........and I loved it! "
I love that story too and for the life of me cant remember what site I saw it on ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men enjoy anal sex with females?"
Its often a control thing others see to as taboo so want it others don't like road kill pussies talk to some guys its interesting what they tell you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men enjoy anal sex with females?
Its often a control thing others see to as taboo so want it others don't like road kill pussies talk to some guys its interesting what they tell you. "
Road kill pussies. Very good. One way of putting it! |
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By * n zCouple
over a year ago
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My o h doesn't like it at all, and I've done it several times in the past but have never really got into it, plus the hygiene part puts me off I know a few people who have had infections through indulging in anal, I'm happy to stick to pussy fun and other things I much prefer
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This I think is a trust thing have only ever had anal with one woman ever, it is trusting and only for us, when we feel like it. It is a very intimate thing where trust to stop, etc is paramount. We love it, but I doubt I would probably do it with another woman. Oh and she's done it to me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i can take it or leave it.
i dont find it any better, or worse, than vaginal sex.
V however, loves it and cums really really hard with anal stimulation, however, she has a very tight rusty bullet hole so its not often we get anal penetration, so its usually limited to finger play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont have a preference for anal over vaginal. But it is a fun thing to do, it does feel good.
I've always tried on request of the lady, not from myself, so maybe the question should be "why do ladies like men givign them anal sex".
Have also used it in a domination scenario where she was "made" to take it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it hurts ur doing it wrong.......
I always do anal me on top therefore I'm in control!
I have given men the best orgasm ever with anal! Riding them hard and fast but also knowing how to pivot to make it more enjoyable!
I love it but rarely horny enough to bother with the company I have most regularly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it hurts ur doing it wrong.......
I always do anal me on top therefore I'm in control!
I have given men the best orgasm ever with anal! Riding them hard and fast but also knowing how to pivot to make it more enjoyable!
I love it but rarely horny enough to bother with the company I have most regularly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had woman fuck me with a strapon and had a finger numerous amount if times and gotta be honest it's not something I think about unless it hurts but I do enjoy it especially when I know the woman is enjoying it ! Used to meet a woman off here who loved fingering and using her butt plug on me but think shed cum in a matter if minutes after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had woman fuck me with a strapon and had a finger numerous amount if times and gotta be honest it's not something I think about unless it hurts but I do enjoy it especially when I know the woman is enjoying it ! Used to meet a woman off here who loved fingering and using her butt plug on me but think shed cum in a matter if minutes after "
U want it to hurt? U enjoy the pain? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had woman fuck me with a strapon and had a finger numerous amount if times and gotta be honest it's not something I think about unless it hurts but I do enjoy it especially when I know the woman is enjoying it ! Used to meet a woman off here who loved fingering and using her butt plug on me but think shed cum in a matter if minutes after
U want it to hurt? U enjoy the pain? "
Sorry just my bad grammar no I don't like the pain lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love receiving anal, my partner who I've been with for nine months has only recently been able to enter brown town as he's very girthy, I've missed it very much??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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bums are tighter and harder to get into; both physically and persuading the women that say no to try it. Men like to win wars. Some men have asked if they can try it and after say it was nice but now they have done it not bothered to do it again. I have found that men that like receiving turn into anal sluts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"bums are tighter and harder to get into; both physically and persuading the women that say no to try it. Men like to win wars. Some men have asked if they can try it and after say it was nice but now they have done it not bothered to do it again. I have found that men that like receiving turn into anal sluts "
Anal sluts lol I'm far from that but now and again and could never take anything of any size lol |
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I don't do anal anymore, it always hurts for me and I decided I can live without it! But yet a well placed finger up my posterior can make me squirt. Maybe I need to find a guy with a chipolta dick? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what I want to know is why do men who read I have anal as an interest on my profile always automatically assume they will be doing the giving? "
lol I've had a few bow out graciously when I've said they take if I take |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"bums are tighter and harder to get into; both physically and persuading the women that say no to try it. Men like to win wars. Some men have asked if they can try it and after say it was nice but now they have done it not bothered to do it again. I have found that men that like receiving turn into anal sluts
Anal sluts lol I'm far from that but now and again and could never take anything of any size lol"
yet...you just need a good arse trainer lol |
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I think my name says it all (and for those who do - I live up to it) for me swinging is about carnal desire and pleasure and that's the sensations I experience with anal that it's just sheer naughty and intense. If I'm with a partner then vaginal sex is far more intimate and sensual but each to their own |
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"what I want to know is why do men who read I have anal as an interest on my profile always automatically assume they will be doing the giving?
lol I've had a few bow out graciously when I've said they take if I take "
A good point. I like both ways around (and I'm a man) but then I enjoy kinky.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do we enjoy anal sex with women, forbidden _ruit, something which in the main not spoken or talked about. sensation. intimate. another option , must be mutual. I enjoy it. |
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I'm indifferent to it. If i never had anal sex with a woman again for the rest of my life, i wouldn't feel like i missed out on anything.
There are way more pleasurable and easier to achieve acts that i'd rather do anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm indifferent to it. If i never had anal sex with a woman again for the rest of my life, i wouldn't feel like i missed out on anything.
There are way more pleasurable and easier to achieve acts that i'd rather do anyway"
exactly my thoughts on both counts |
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Bum love is wonderful.
D Does have little bum cums, these can be increased if a wand is used or the g spot vibro is in.
Mostly though Anal is at my request, i love the taboo side i adore the tightness i get a kick out of it as well if its used in roll play. Fave scenario is tying D up licking her till she has severe head rush, then squatting over her while she is face down with several pillows under her belly, this allows me very deep penetration and i can hold her hands behind her back , building up to a very hard deep cum. |
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Bum love is wonderful.
D Does have little bum cums, these can be increased if a wand is used or the g spot vibro is in.
Mostly though Anal is at my request, i love the taboo side i adore the tightness i get a kick out of it as well if its used in roll play. Fave scenario is tying D up licking her till she has severe head rush, then squatting over her while she is face down with several pillows under her belly, this allows me very deep penetration and i can hold her hands behind her back , building up to a very hard deep cum. |
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"I'm indifferent to it. If i never had anal sex with a woman again for the rest of my life, i wouldn't feel like i missed out on anything.
There are way more pleasurable and easier to achieve acts that i'd rather do anyway"
I feel the same way but from a female point of _iew |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men enjoy anal sex with females?"
3 reasons really :-
1. Generally it's a tighter experience for the guy
2. For women that enjoy it it's a different experience that can bring intense pleasure
3. DP , can allow 3 people to have wonderful pleasure . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men enjoy anal sex with females?"
It's driven as much by the woman's enjoyment of it, surely?
I've only ever done anal with women who got a thrill out it - wouldn't be much fun if the person on the receiving end wasn't into it too!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anal is done correctly then it's painless! If while entering the women feels pain the worst thing to do is jump off just completely stay still take a deep breathe and carry on......
I can take Adam anally 9" and thick and I love it!
I would let a bloke who wanted to experience anal that hadn't a good ride! A women on top is so men say out of this world when again done correctly!
Also use a anal / silicone lube!
Hope my tips help lol!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the company first of all. If she's not comfortable with it, then anal would not be enjoyable for both parties. But if she loves it...it's a whole new story lol
...for me, the thought that turns me on is that no part of her body is left untouched.
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A cock is tapered and the tip is more pliable than a finger so the head acts as a gentle dilator for the shaft that's follows
So unless you've got a guy that goes at it like a bull in a china shop and you're lubed it shouldn't really hurt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anal sex isn't 'forbidden _ruit', its a deeply intimate act that requires trust and submission, hence why it feels so good when its done correctly."
yes agree totally. something i enjoy both ways with my partner and it works. however with previous partners it just wouldn't happen. |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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I wonder just how common anal sex really is. Plenty of women say they enjoy it but what is the reality?
Take us for instance. In two years we attended friends house parties once a month, thats 24 parties. On average there were 10 couples in attendance, sometimes more. So that is at least 240 women.
At all of these both men and women were asked to state what was off limits before the fun started. Everyone said no anal!
I think that while some women enjoy it the reality is that its a very small number. |
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"I wonder just how common anal sex really is. Plenty of women say they enjoy it but what is the reality?
Take us for instance. In two years we attended friends house parties once a month, thats 24 parties. On average there were 10 couples in attendance, sometimes more. So that is at least 240 women.
At all of these both men and women were asked to state what was off limits before the fun started. Everyone said no anal!
I think that while some women enjoy it the reality is that its a very small number."
We don't agree, we love it, but would never do it at parties. No matter how much cleaning you do, accidents can happen and that would be considerably embarassing in someone's elses home or a club. We have seen it on the scene, sure many times, but not as often as we suspect people do at home.
Also we've only done it with people we known well on the scene, even in private. So we doubt any assessment of what you see in a club is an accurate depiction of numbers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not fond of it at all, it hurts its so tight, my cock does not like bring gripped that firmly.
tried it with lots of lube, feels nothing like a wet horny pussy.. and rimming is horrid if its all lube.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't have that much experience as most partners I've been with didn't like it or didn't want to try. But I met a girl recently who insisted on doing it.
I have never seen anyone cum so hard as as she did when I fucked her in the arse one night and I can't wait to do it again. Roll on January when I see her again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder just how common anal sex really is. Plenty of women say they enjoy it but what is the reality?
Take us for instance. In two years we attended friends house parties once a month, thats 24 parties. On average there were 10 couples in attendance, sometimes more. So that is at least 240 women.
At all of these both men and women were asked to state what was off limits before the fun started. Everyone said no anal!
I think that while some women enjoy it the reality is that its a very small number.
We don't agree, we love it, but would never do it at parties. No matter how much cleaning you do, accidents can happen and that would be considerably embarassing in someone's elses home or a club. We have seen it on the scene, sure many times, but not as often as we suspect people do at home.
Also we've only done it with people we known well on the scene, even in private. So we doubt any assessment of what you see in a club is an accurate depiction of numbers. "
Would agree with that conclusion but then again if a woman does want to do it at a club then she better starve a good 6 hours and douche 5 times beforehand ....lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anal sex isn't 'forbidden _ruit', its a deeply intimate act that requires trust and submission, hence why it feels so good when its done correctly."
I'm with you on everything but the submission...
It's why I don't do it with meets...jane |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men enjoy anal sex with females?"
OMG Really??!!
I love all sorts of anal play.
I'm in heaven when my girlfriend (open relationship) rimm my ass so intense that I almost feel her tongue deep inside me.
We both love it!!!
Regarding anal penetration, I only get hard and horny when I can see a kinky look on my GF face. At the moment we use anal beads and prostate massager. Orgasms that I get this way, are just unbelievable. Since we started enjoying anal pleasure to the full, my lady's clit started gushing her juices so intense, that she had to start face sitting me, to prevent changing my bed sheets every time we have sex.
P.S.
My lady promised me, that she'll surprise me soon, with a strap-on 
Can't wait for it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anal sex isn't 'forbidden _ruit', its a deeply intimate act that requires trust and submission, hence why it feels so good when its done correctly."
I agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i actually prefer anal sex. but thats because i like the pleasure pain principle. plus a damn good enema first means no concerns re shit dick.
sorry for being blunt. but thats the truth |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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To be honest anal sex has only worked amazingly well with one person. I remember it feeling unbelievably amazing. At times yes it wasn't going to. It is about trust and skill also relaxing and arousal x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love anal sex found it early at 19 and enjoyed ever since. One gf used to enjoy anal through her period and have many relationships that have been mutually enjoyable.
I know certain girls who orgasm through anal alone.
Personally I enjoy for a myriad of reasons but mostly because it's base as hell and that I like. The complete dominance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest anal sex has only worked amazingly well with one person. I remember it feeling unbelievably amazing. At times yes it wasn't going to. It is about trust and skill Aalso relaxing and arousal x"
A long time ago I had the same experience with a guy. My first time ever. He was patient etc, first time it didn't work, my fault not his, he patiently told me what to do and well lets just say I enjoyed myself and so did he. I wont say more, just that his cock was obviously the right size for me. Enough said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really enjoy it with a man I trust, my lover is quite big and it's not easy to start but once we get going I bloody love it!
He loves it as the taboo is a real turn on for him, and if I ask for it, seriously gets him going mmmmmmmmmm "
I know from experience why men like it, what do women feel since there's no sexual organ up there. Do you feel orgasm the way a man does getting anal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes a tight penetration, orgasm just the same, if not better,all kinds of sensations going on..a must try but a suggestion of trust and experience with patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really enjoy it with a man I trust, my lover is quite big and it's not easy to start but once we get going I bloody love it!
He loves it as the taboo is a real turn on for him, and if I ask for it, seriously gets him going mmmmmmmmmm
I know from experience why men like it, what do women feel since there's no sexual organ up there. Do you feel orgasm the way a man does getting anal?"
I could feel him, but no orgasm from me as I don't, but he told me he did. |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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"Answer to your first question is no.
To your second is I think its a combination of things that will be unique to each individuals.
I can only see one question"
Heading one question, thread content the second question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men enjoy anal sex with females?
OMG Really??!!
I love all sorts of anal play.
I'm in heaven when my girlfriend (open relationship) rimm my ass so intense that I almost feel her tongue deep inside me.
We both love it!!!
Regarding anal penetration, I only get hard and horny when I can see a kinky look on my GF face. At the moment we use anal beads and prostate massager. Orgasms that I get this way, are just unbelievable. Since we started enjoying anal pleasure to the full, my lady's clit started gushing her juices so intense, that she had to start face sitting me, to prevent changing my bed sheets every time we have sex.
P.S.
My lady promised me, that she'll surprise me soon, with a strap-on
Can't wait for it "
Finally we are on fabs together
LOVEHONEYLOVE
xxx
(FABFIELD profile will not be, as active as, it used to be - lovehoneylove) |
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