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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

What is it with ''Types'' . All i ever hear is ''Sorry you not my type'' blah blah blah. I though women like something different , someone unique. I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf. I dont follow the pack, in a lot of profile women state ''I dont really have a type'' then reply''sorry you not my type'' . I get there has to be some attraction, i must appeal to some one out there . I'm not that bad am i, like i was telling my good looking brother Qwazi Modow. Its wats on the inside right ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry can't answer that you're not my type

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What is it with ''Types'' . All i ever hear is ''Sorry you not my type'' blah blah blah. I though women like something different , someone unique. I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf. I dont follow the pack, in a lot of profile women state ''I dont really have a type'' then reply''sorry you not my type'' . I get there has to be some attraction, i must appeal to some one out there . I'm not that bad am i, like i was telling my good looking brother Qwazi Modow. Its wats on the inside right ?? "

I have to admit i find this an issue with alot of women in my area too. Its as if yoir totally unwated lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its simply their way of saying they don't fancy you.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Its simply their way of saying they don't fancy you."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

How long do you think they would stay once they noticed you sent them a fake pic?

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Its simply their way of saying they don't fancy you."

You wouldn't think you'd need to explain the bleeding obvious would you!

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

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"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

Well, your personality is certainly shining through on your posts.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

ask your recent meet what attracted her to you, she will be able to give you an informed and very relevant answer and work with that.

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By *astpoetMan  over a year ago

where the world takes me


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

How long do you think they would stay once they noticed you sent them a fake pic? "

There really are some unbelievably desperate & almost bitter people on this site!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

Good luck with that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

Umm !!!! Yer that's a plan !!!! Once they are there they will always say "oh wtf I'm here ! I'm horny ! Got my stockings on ! So why the f@ck not !" That's how it works I'm sure !!!!

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You are a self confessed GEEK and your pic does make you look like one (to me)...

You have labelled yourself a TYPE!

Although I do like all types, geeks are certainly not one of them...

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

pop a fake face pic up, I would laugh

pop a fake cock pic up and it is smaller in real life, I would deck them

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By *astpoetMan  over a year ago

where the world takes me


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Umm !!!! Yer that's a plan !!!! Once they are there they will always say "oh wtf I'm here ! I'm horny ! Got my stockings on ! So why the f@ck not !" That's how it works I'm sure !!!! "

I'm sure the poster is so irresistible he won't even make it to the meet spot due to woman dropping at his feet along the way.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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How long do you think they would stay once they noticed you sent them a fake pic?

There really are some unbelievably desperate & almost bitter people on this site! "

Oh please........

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"pop a fake face pic up, I would laugh

pop a fake cock pic up and it is smaller in real life, I would deck them "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A 'type'.

..is a trait by which the female species decide whether or not to ravish the flesh of another being. This particular trait may be found in one generic species and in other cases may be a rare trait by which she has to dig deeper.

Courtesy of my own random dictionary.

Good luck mate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Either i dont like the look of them or i dont like what is written on their profile or both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have you ever thought that maybe it's just a polite way of saying whoever hit you with the ugly stick must be real real tired now?

Lol JK but seriously, when we turn people down because we don't find them attractive we tend to just say 'you're not our type' or 'you're not what we're looking for'.

Nobody wants to hear that they're not attractive, even if it is only personal opinion.

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By *lackshadow7Man  over a year ago

Toronto


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

Here's a shovel. Keep digging.....

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

Here's a shovel. Keep digging....."

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By *ohohoWoman  over a year ago

Up North


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

So that's the only choices available? Think I will stick to who I have met. Good looking, charming gentlemen who are devils in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, "

Some people who role play sub would enjoy that


"or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

A person goes for a sexual meet and there are no use of hands?

Taking you seriously, actually I'd stick with my toy rather than meet up with a guy who wasn't my type.

Glad to see you're in the forums varying the type of thread you make

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever thought that maybe it's just a polite way of saying whoever hit you with the ugly stick must be real real tired now?

Lol JK but seriously, when we turn people down because we don't find them attractive we tend to just say 'you're not our type' or 'you're not what we're looking for'.

Nobody wants to hear that they're not attractive, even if it is only personal opinion."

Surely after a while you get used to people not finding you attractive, some men i dont find attractive but other women do.

some men have had or got better looking women than me so they dont like it when i say they arent really my type.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

I'm a good looking bastard and I would not dare do any of the above!!!!

Unless asked first.

Joking aside I think the above is quite wrong. Are you saying that all men of that type commit that sort of behaviour.

You are coming across as bitter.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

Is this a dating site?? The men I've met have been charming, good looking, sexy and not one of them hit me!!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

Why does the good looking bloke have to be a bastard? I've met many good looking men who've been perfect gentlemen!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

Why does the good looking bloke have to be a bastard? I've met many good looking men who've been perfect gentlemen! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My 'type' isn't set in stone, I have preferences but have found all kinds of men sexy.

Sexiness isn't about appearances as I keep finding out

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

So that's the only choices available? Think I will stick to who I have met. Good looking, charming gentlemen who are devils in the bedroom. "

You too?!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf. "

Now Wolverine, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm he can be my Alpha .

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf.

Now Wolverine, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm he can be my Alpha ."

Most definitely

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


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some men have had or got better looking women than me so they dont like it when i say they arent really my type."

I think that attitude is behind a lot of threads by men who struggle on here: ego can't handle being turned down by women they wouldn't look twice at in their local boozer!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

dont really have a type other than i love the more mature woman. but then again most younger guys do lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why don't you just go for a re brand?

It's all about packaging.

I like geek chique but yr on a sex site and I am not sure if that is the the most alluring image. Just saying.

You need thick skin on this site tbh...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf.

Now Wolverine, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm he can be my Alpha .

Most definitely "

I'd even share

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It's not always looks that turn people off.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf.

Now Wolverine, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm he can be my Alpha .

Most definitely

I'd even share "

Thanks, how kind of you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dunno who the hot guy is in my pics, I googled him...

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

Op, bottom line I like your look, I also like your profile, what I don't like is your sense of entitlement which is very ugly!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"It's not always looks that turn people off. "

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I dunno who the hot guy is in my pics, I googled him..."

He's gotta nice arse whoever he is!

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I seriously think that if getting a meet took this much effort, battering and drama.....

I would pay for sex.

never have but jesus........ I think I would

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Op, bottom line I like your look, I also like your profile, what I don't like is your sense of entitlement which is very ugly! "

That's exactly what I was thinking yesterday. Unfortunately his posts have really put me off him now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I seriously think that if getting a meet took this much effort, battering and drama.....

I would pay for sex.

never have but jesus........ I think I would "

Me too.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

Here's a shovel. Keep digging....."

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By *opping_candyWoman  over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

Ergh I hate the one or the other options. Similar to when people say 'Would you rather have someone with a small cock who is good with his hands and knows what to do with it, or someone with a big cock who just rams away all night'.

People, personalities and indeed cocks are not simply one or the other! So why should we decide to meet someone who is mediocre in the looks department (and I'm not saying you are, this is a theoretical meet) because apparently that means they're not going to beat the crap out of me? I've met some very good looking guys and have never felt threatened by a single one.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan  over a year ago

dundee


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "
just get a gimps mask that you insist on wearing at meets, sure the ladies will be none the wiser

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

some men have had or got better looking women than me so they dont like it when i say they arent really my type.

I think that attitude is behind a lot of threads by men who struggle on here: ego can't handle being turned down by women they wouldn't look twice at in their local boozer!"

I dont go to the pub though.

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By *irtyDee33Woman  over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

I'm on here for dirty fun so if the attraction ain't there then no way!!

I'm not looking to find out that far about the guy, just if he's hot in bed lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Op, bottom line I like your look, I also like your profile, what I don't like is your sense of entitlement which is very ugly!

That's exactly what I was thinking yesterday. Unfortunately his posts have really put me off him now."

Not gone the way he wanted I suspect. Probably a decent guy who has gone about it the wrong way and now has shot himself well and truly in the ass!

And not in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

ok ladies , Thankyou very much for your kind words . I'v apologise about my attitude . I'v been on other forums in other sites and thems just full off piss takers . I know i was on the defensive . I was only asking for advice , folk was taking the piss , its hard enough for guys , in my defence all i said was ''chill the fuck out'' i never insulted , name called or was personal . Give a guy a break . I'm here holding my hands up fronting it out , still asking and taking advice .. Respec x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , Thankyou very much for your kind words . I'v apologise about my attitude . I'v been on other forums in other sites and thems just full off piss takers . I know i was on the defensive . I was only asking for advice , folk was taking the piss , its hard enough for guys , in my defence all i said was ''chill the fuck out'' i never insulted , name called or was personal . Give a guy a break . I'm here holding my hands up fronting it out , still asking and taking advice .. Respec x"

Sadly the attitude seems to be an undercurrent across mutliple posts and threads

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

wel... you may not be getting much sex, but i would suspect your thread are fucking your chances!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

it seems i have very much so shot my self in the proverbial . I'm a decent guy , my personality has not come over well at all . The couple friends i'v made on here seem ok with me . All i'm trying to do is ask advice from seasoned fabswingers on the best ways to go about things . I'm listening to what I'm being told . But still.........

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"Op, bottom line I like your look, I also like your profile, what I don't like is your sense of entitlement which is very ugly!

That's exactly what I was thinking yesterday. Unfortunately his posts have really put me off him now.

Not gone the way he wanted I suspect. Probably a decent guy who has gone about it the wrong way and now has shot himself well and truly in the ass!

And not in a good way. "

I want to know in which way getting shot in the ass could be considered good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

just cause I might not be attracted to what someone looks like doesn't mean I'd be mean. Nobody wants to hear 'I don't find you attractive' That would kill your ego! Or I might respond that way if I think the language/tone of your message indicated you might not be my kind of person..

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"it seems i have very much so shot my self in the proverbial . I'm a decent guy , my personality has not come over well at all . The couple friends i'v made on here seem ok with me . All i'm trying to do is ask advice from seasoned fabswingers on the best ways to go about things . I'm listening to what I'm being told . But still........."

Stuart, my advice is to delete your profile and set up a different one taking on board all the tips that have been so generously given. They'll be none the wiser if you don't post on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Its simply their way of saying they don't fancy you.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

oh contre.... I'm very kind . I cam't work very long story, i volunteer twice a week . I love animals , i'm letting my friend live with me rent free , i herp mothers with push chairs , pensioners with shopping , i'v only ever been arrested for . I can hold my head up with pride . I'm a good guy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got accused of being shallow after putting sorry you are not my type... It was my polite way of saying 'you're too grey, too old and too short' which may be shallow too but was the truth... I thought I was being polite!! Then men complain when we don't reply at all...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"it seems i have very much so shot my self in the proverbial . I'm a decent guy , my personality has not come over well at all . The couple friends i'v made on here seem ok with me . All i'm trying to do is ask advice from seasoned fabswingers on the best ways to go about things . I'm listening to what I'm being told . But still.........

Stuart, my advice is to delete your profile and set up a different one taking on board all the tips that have been so generously given. They'll be none the wiser if you don't post on the forums"

one step ahead of you bud , thanks . Less i know there are decent folk on here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I got accused of being shallow after putting sorry you are not my type... It was my polite way of saying 'you're too grey, too old and too short' which may be shallow too but was the truth... I thought I was being polite!! Then men complain when we don't reply at all... "
be honest . Tell the truth , yr to slim , dont like ur glasses , you look gay , then least we know what to change ,

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"I got accused of being shallow after putting sorry you are not my type... It was my polite way of saying 'you're too grey, too old and too short' which may be shallow too but was the truth... I thought I was being polite!! Then men complain when we don't reply at all... "

Yeah, well us short arses are sensitive souls

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

everybody has a type, that may not be set in stone as in will only meet people over 6ft with blonde hair but either you are attracted to someone or your not, not every bodies going to be for you and your not going to be for everyone, that's just life deal with it, we all get rejected at some time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I got accused of being shallow after putting sorry you are not my type... It was my polite way of saying 'you're too grey, too old and too short' which may be shallow too but was the truth... I thought I was being polite!! Then men complain when we don't reply at all... be honest . Tell the truth , yr to slim , dont like ur glasses , you look gay , then least we know what to change , "

You can quit smoking but you cannot quit your height. Truth isn't always helpful.

Honestly, the nicest way people can say no thank you is by non-response. This doesn't "attack" one's ego.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I got accused of being shallow after putting sorry you are not my type... It was my polite way of saying 'you're too grey, too old and too short' which may be shallow too but was the truth... I thought I was being polite!! Then men complain when we don't reply at all... be honest . Tell the truth , yr to slim , dont like ur glasses , you look gay , then least we know what to change , "

thats a slippery slope to being unhappy.

you have to be you, no matter what a website full of people say.

if you start trying to change yourself to suit 1 person, you will find 20 others that dont like it.

not to mention the fact that, once you change to get your foot in the door from your looks, they could find your actually a really annoying person, so you are back to square 1, you just dont look like you anymore.

this place is not a place for ego boosting, unless you have a pair of tits and a minge (in fact, you dont even need that, you just need to have a female profile and men will tell you how great you are, without any pics or anything).

if i were you (and being serious) i would leave the site and try and find happiness in the real world, with someone that will take you for you, and not be a carbon copy of what you think other people will like you for being.

but thats just me.

i dont get horny and let my cock overtake my own sensibilities.

maybe im not a typical bloke in that sense

but hey, i was happy with me before i came here, and i will be happy once we decide to leave here, and the only person that will change me, is me, for me. no one else

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

I'm on here for dirty fun so if the attraction ain't there then no way!!

I'm not looking to find out that far about the guy, just if he's hot in bed lol"

oh dee you are a naughty girl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't say I have a type as such as I've not got a set thing I go for so could be blonde, brunette, ginger, black hair, tall short, fat, thin, black, Caucasian, Asian I welcome all to message but that doesn't mean that I will find everyone of these "types" attractive it's an individual thing fro person To person an yes personality is important but so Is sexual attraction and I'm sorry but in my opinion it's look that decide that after all when was the last time you turned to your friends while out and said "phwor look at her she's got a great personality"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

i find it funny you peeps think I'm not happy. My life is great Thankyou , apart from the lack of sex ... Pmsl , how you people read things so very very wrong ,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would quit while you're ahead but then again I don't think you're ahead

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London

*Awaits another 'apology' thread*....

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By *istress v in yorksCouple  over a year ago

south Yorkshire

It's not rocket science, it's polite for saying they don't fancy you, would you rather them point it out? Just move on, simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What is it with ''Types'' . All i ever hear is ''Sorry you not my type'' blah blah blah. I though women like something different , someone unique. I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf. I dont follow the pack, in a lot of profile women state ''I dont really have a type'' then reply''sorry you not my type'' . I get there has to be some attraction, i must appeal to some one out there . I'm not that bad am i, like i was telling my good looking brother Qwazi Modow. Its wats on the inside right ?? "

So you're moaning about women having a 'type' and at the same time treating women as if they were all one homogenous 'type'.

Good. This can't possibly go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

no more apologizing , i'v said my bit , tried to blend in , i know I'm a decent person , dont really care what the people on here think about me as you dont know me , i asked for help with my profile and its got every ones back up .... Not really a friendly bunch

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

Then you would just be a liar !

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"no more apologizing , i'v said my bit , tried to blend in , i know I'm a decent person , dont really care what the people on here think about me as you dont know me , i asked for help with my profile and its got every ones back up .... Not really a friendly bunch "

I gave constructive advice to be honest

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

ask your recent meet what attracted her to you, she will be able to give you an informed and very relevant answer and work with that. "

and I offer it again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

I didn't realise that all good looking men were violent sexual abusers.

And that ugly blokes are perfectly safe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Then you would just be a liar !"

howso ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

ask your recent meet what attracted her to you, she will be able to give you an informed and very relevant answer and work with that.

and I offer it again"

i listened

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Then you would just be a liar !howso ?"

Are you for real and asking why??? Sheesh..............

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

ask your recent meet what attracted her to you, she will be able to give you an informed and very relevant answer and work with that.

and I offer it again i listened "

good luck

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I got accused of being shallow after putting sorry you are not my type... It was my polite way of saying 'you're too grey, too old and too short' which may be shallow too but was the truth... I thought I was being polite!! Then men complain when we don't reply at all... be honest . Tell the truth , yr to slim , dont like ur glasses , you look gay , then least we know what to change , "

But why would you be unnecessarily cruel? If someone says you're too short there's nothing you can do about it, so how does that help?

Accept you won't appeal to everyone, accept no one has to justify their decisions to you, lose the sense of entitlement and you'll find the site enjoyable!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I got accused of being shallow after putting sorry you are not my type... It was my polite way of saying 'you're too grey, too old and too short' which may be shallow too but was the truth... I thought I was being polite!! Then men complain when we don't reply at all... be honest . Tell the truth , yr to slim , dont like ur glasses , you look gay , then least we know what to change ,

You can quit smoking but you cannot quit your height. Truth isn't always helpful.

Honestly, the nicest way people can say no thank you is by non-response. This doesn't "attack" one's ego."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Then you would just be a liar !howso ?

Are you for real and asking why??? Sheesh.............."

i would be going back to the drawing board and taking in all the advise i'v gained make a better , more swinger friendly profile , with better pictures , change and progression is human instinct ,

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Then you would just be a liar !howso ?

Are you for real and asking why??? Sheesh..............i would be going back to the drawing board and taking in all the advise i'v gained make a better , more swinger friendly profile , with better pictures , change and progression is human instinct , "

As long as they are of YOU then that's all you can do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Then you would just be a liar !howso ?

Are you for real and asking why??? Sheesh..............i would be going back to the drawing board and taking in all the advise i'v gained make a better , more swinger friendly profile , with better pictures , change and progression is human instinct ,

As long as they are of YOU then that's all you can do."

Thats the hard part , taking a decent picture, i'm not photo genic the camera isn't my friend unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

Why does the good looking bloke have to be a bastard? I've met many good looking men who've been perfect gentlemen! "

of course they are required to be bastards just like skinny women are required to be bitches. how fair would it be to have good looking nice guys in the world? you can't have your cake and eat it to!

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London


"no more apologizing , i'v said my bit , tried to blend in , i know I'm a decent person , dont really care what the people on here think about me as you dont know me , i asked for help with my profile and its got every ones back up .... Not really a friendly bunch "
Not really a friendly bunch? I'm sorry to tell you this, but you dug your OWN mahoosive hole and you still don't seem to know when to stop digging...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Then you would just be a liar !howso ?

Are you for real and asking why??? Sheesh..............i would be going back to the drawing board and taking in all the advise i'v gained make a better , more swinger friendly profile , with better pictures , change and progression is human instinct ,

As long as they are of YOU then that's all you can do. Thats the hard part , taking a decent picture, i'm not photo genic the camera isn't my friend unfortunately "

Can't be that bad surely get the camera out and get that Athletic body on show.

No penis pics next to household objects mind.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no more apologizing , i'v said my bit , tried to blend in , i know I'm a decent person , dont really care what the people on here think about me as you dont know me , i asked for help with my profile and its got every ones back up .... Not really a friendly bunch Not really a friendly bunch? I'm sorry to tell you this, but you dug your OWN mahoosive hole and you still don't seem to know when to stop digging..."

She's right you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"no more apologizing , i'v said my bit , tried to blend in , i know I'm a decent person , dont really care what the people on here think about me as you dont know me , i asked for help with my profile and its got every ones back up .... Not really a friendly bunch Not really a friendly bunch? I'm sorry to tell you this, but you dug your OWN mahoosive hole and you still don't seem to know when to stop digging...

She's right you know"

Seem's the damage is done . I'v tried to apologise . I posted a thread saying sorry . Don't know what more i can do

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"no more apologizing , i'v said my bit , tried to blend in , i know I'm a decent person , dont really care what the people on here think about me as you dont know me , i asked for help with my profile and its got every ones back up .... Not really a friendly bunch Not really a friendly bunch? I'm sorry to tell you this, but you dug your OWN mahoosive hole and you still don't seem to know when to stop digging...

She's right you know Seem's the damage is done . I'v tried to apologise . I posted a thread saying sorry . Don't know what more i can do"

relax, join in and banter, get yourself known for more than just seeking meets......

try a club, a social and if you can't

join in and laugh...... it's works wonders and may get you what you ultimately seek.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

You're not my type = I don't find you attractive = I find you unattractive.

Which one would you rather receive in a message?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Its simply their way of saying they don't fancy you."

Suck it up sunshine. Everyone has a 'type' subconciously, even if they don't admit it.

You've just got to be patient and hope that someone likes the look of you. I'm STILL waiting for a lady to like me enough to want to play...lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Then you would just be a liar !howso ?

Are you for real and asking why??? Sheesh..............i would be going back to the drawing board and taking in all the advise i'v gained make a better , more swinger friendly profile , with better pictures , change and progression is human instinct ,

As long as they are of YOU then that's all you can do. Thats the hard part , taking a decent picture, i'm not photo genic the camera isn't my friend unfortunately "

Im not photo genic just make sure you are wearing your best clothes and your clean and tidy, get someone to take pics of you when your not expecting them too, then they will be more natural looking.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

Quite right mate. Put Quasi's photos up and you'll soon be inundated!

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By *stonMTMan  over a year ago

cleveland

No one likes rejection,but that life cant make some one like you

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By *lackCherryCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

Hmm a single guy looking just for FF couples and women and not getting any success ?

really ?

There are about 50 guys to every woman who meets guys on here and the women are inundated with messages and can afford to wait for guys who meet their exact preferences, so with that in mind a lot are going to turn you down when your entire search is focused on the two smallest (number wise) areas of FAB you have to accept its going to take a lot of time and effort on your part and there is no quick fix.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hmm a single guy looking just for FF couples and women and not getting any success ?

really ?

There are about 50 guys to every woman who meets guys on here and the women are inundated with messages and can afford to wait for guys who meet their exact preferences, so with that in mind a lot are going to turn you down when your entire search is focused on the two smallest (number wise) areas of FAB you have to accept its going to take a lot of time and effort on your part and there is no quick fix.

"

You look phenomenal . Thank you for your advice . You must be very popular

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

. Hasn't it been a day of sunshine.?

Poor mossx

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Umm !!!! Yer that's a plan !!!! Once they are there they will always say "oh wtf I'm here ! I'm horny ! Got my stockings on ! So why the f@ck not !" That's how it works I'm sure !!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through . "

If someone sent me fake pic then arranged a meet, I'd turn around walk straight back out, wouldn't be interested in personality shining through as fake pics would already tell me they have a rotten personality to lie about who they are!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It is mostly a well mannered way of saying no thank you.

It does make me laugh later when I see their status bitching about time wasters.

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By *lackCherryCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"It is mostly a well mannered way of saying no thank you.

It does make me laugh later when I see their status bitching about time wasters.

"

How are the two related ?

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By *lackCherryCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"

You look phenomenal . Thank you for your advice . You must be very popular "

Thanks, though your talking to Mr Cherry mrs tends to sign off as Mrs ;p

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They are well mannered to start with, then the muppets get to them and they start bitching.

You going to get time waster on this site. I have had a few. I just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just LOVE the forums...you just couldn't make this stuff up!!!!! How some people ever reached adulthood i'll never know. Rod (LMFAO)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP your posts really are coming across as repetitive, self obsessed and bitter. How many times can you ask the same questions?? You're really not increasing your chance of more meets! Talk to the people you have met and find out what attracted them - them project these good points.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

Is this a dating site?? The men I've met have been charming, good looking, sexy and not one of them hit me!! "

Not even a playful spank on the bum?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What is it with ''Types'' . All i ever hear is ''Sorry you not my type'' blah blah blah. I though women like something different , someone unique. I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf. I dont follow the pack, in a lot of profile women state ''I dont really have a type'' then reply''sorry you not my type'' . I get there has to be some attraction, i must appeal to some one out there . I'm not that bad am i, like i was telling my good looking brother Qwazi Modow. Its wats on the inside right ?? "

nicer than saying "sorry, you look like a serial killer" or "oooh you have shifty looking eyes" or " no way am I having sex with a man who wears a baseball cap, backwards!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

Is this a dating site?? The men I've met have been charming, good looking, sexy and not one of them hit me!!

Not even a playful spank on the bum?"

Ooohh I'd feel cheated without at least one little spank! Especially if I went to the effort of being very bad

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"It is mostly a well mannered way of saying no thank you.

It does make me laugh later when I see their status bitching about time wasters.

How are the two related ?"

Didn't see the correlation either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

Is this a dating site?? The men I've met have been charming, good looking, sexy and not one of them hit me!!

Not even a playful spank on the bum?"

Ok maybe one has

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

much easier to meet people in real life, chemistry, scent, pheromones, you cannot replicate in a picture or on line, I would suggest you get a hobby that involves meeting people with similar interests, after all we spend more time on the toilet than having sex.

I have horses and spend time with other horse owners, that's how I make friends and get dates, this site is for fun and making new cyber buddies, I don't use it for meets or sex ( very often)

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By *lackCherryCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"It is mostly a well mannered way of saying no thank you.

It does make me laugh later when I see their status bitching about time wasters.

How are the two related ?

Didn't see the correlation either."

I would love someone to join up the two ideas and how they bear some relation mind.

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London


"It is mostly a well mannered way of saying no thank you.

It does make me laugh later when I see their status bitching about time wasters.

How are the two related ?

Didn't see the correlation either.

I would love someone to join up the two ideas and how they bear some relation mind.

"

Well I read it as (and I could be wrong) that the first line is referring to the OP in chatting to someone but then being blocked without any reason given. But then going on to bitch about that person being a timewaster...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"makes u wanna put up fake pictures , then once they meet , personality will shine through .

Then you would just be a liar !howso ?

Are you for real and asking why??? Sheesh..............i would be going back to the drawing board and taking in all the advise i'v gained make a better , more swinger friendly profile , with better pictures , change and progression is human instinct , "

Your response makes no sense to the prior comments.

If you put up fake pics it equates to telling lies.

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By *entgardenerMan  over a year ago

Tunbridge wells


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??"

To true 100% with u on this one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

To true 100% with u on this one "

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

To true 100% with u on this one

"

Just as well there is much more than just those two choices eh?

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By *lackCherryCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London


"ok ladies , would u rather be with a good looking bastard who treats u like a dog controls you hits you, or average looking guy who respects you , treats you well , never lay his hands on u ??

To true 100% with u on this one

Just as well there is much more than just those two choices eh?

No you either get a fugo or beaten by a hunk THATS ALL THERE IS IN LIFE ???

If he really is autistic (like he claimed) then these sort of absolute conditions make a lot of sense as there tends to be very little grey area for people like that due to the social awkwardness that accompany's it.

"

I'm sorry, but who's autistic? Have I missed something?

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By *lackCherryCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London


"

I'm sorry, but who's autistic? Have I missed something?

I'm pretty sure I saw him post he was earlier! maybe im having an episode.

"

Oh don't worry. I have loads of episodes!

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By *lackCherryCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'm sorry, but who's autistic? Have I missed something?

I'm pretty sure I saw him post he was earlier! maybe im having an episode.

Oh don't worry. I have loads of episodes! "

it looks like you're talking to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry can't answer that you're not my type "

lol brilliant

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What is it with ''Types'' . All i ever hear is ''Sorry you not my type'' blah blah blah. I though women like something different , someone unique. I'm not a sheep, I'm a wolf. I dont follow the pack, in a lot of profile women state ''I dont really have a type'' then reply''sorry you not my type'' . I get there has to be some attraction, i must appeal to some one out there . I'm not that bad am i, like i was telling my good looking brother Qwazi Modow. Its wats on the inside right ?? "

How would you prefer to be told that someone isn't interested?

Genuine question. Of course you'd prefer a yes but if the lady isn't interested, how would you prefer her to say it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

can't believe your still commenting on my post . . Move on to the next one . Been great chatting and reading ur opinions . Plenty off food for thought . I'l see you on the flip side thanks for coming , i was great , try the chicken . I'm here all week .

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"can't believe your still commenting on my post . . Move on to the next one . Been great chatting and reading ur opinions . Plenty off food for thought . I'l see you on the flip side thanks for coming , i was great , try the chicken . I'm here all week . "

So you're not going to answer the question then? Why not? It's a fair question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"can't believe your still commenting on my post . . Move on to the next one . Been great chatting and reading ur opinions . Plenty off food for thought . I'l see you on the flip side thanks for coming , i was great , try the chicken . I'm here all week .

So you're not going to answer the question then? Why not? It's a fair question. "

sorry i'm lost ....... "'why not'' ? What ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had it a few times and ill assume a 'delete' means the same thing.

Just ignore it as you are not going to impress the majority of them.

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