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Spreading not just your legs but S.T.I'S!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry if i sound like im on a moral crusade, having a look through the profiles and realising how many people are going bareback!! not just 1 to 1 but gangbangs as well, I'm quite shocked at how many verifications they have as well, it is russian roulette don't care what you say, just read up on a few sexual diseases to get an understanding, if some like visiting the gum clinic every week ok fine, au naturel is lovely and in a perfect world it would be amazing, but because of the spread of disease sexually you just have to play it safe, of course unless you have a death wish or your a sexual terrorist then i suppose you have some fucked up reason. |
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and the counter argument is protection is not 100% and many STI's can be passed even when using barrier based protection.
I'm of the school that using protection and regular checkups are the way to go, I get the limitations but id rather take some precautions than none.
I would suggest those who openly have pictures of BB or bareback gang bangs are doing you a favour in making easier to avoid them though
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"Sorry if i sound like im on a moral crusade, having a look through the profiles and realising how many people are going bareback!! not just 1 to 1 but gangbangs as well, I'm quite shocked at how many verifications they have as well, it is russian roulette don't care what you say, just read up on a few sexual diseases to get an understanding, if some like visiting the gum clinic every week ok fine, au naturel is lovely and in a perfect world it would be amazing, but because of the spread of disease sexually you just have to play it safe, of course unless you have a death wish or your a sexual terrorist then i suppose you have some fucked up reason."
i'll look after my sexual health and you look after yours |
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"Sorry if i sound like im on a moral crusade, having a look through the profiles and realising how many people are going bareback!! not just 1 to 1 but gangbangs as well, I'm quite shocked at how many verifications they have as well, it is russian roulette don't care what you say, just read up on a few sexual diseases to get an understanding, if some like visiting the gum clinic every week ok fine, au naturel is lovely and in a perfect world it would be amazing, but because of the spread of disease sexually you just have to play it safe, of course unless you have a death wish or your a sexual terrorist then i suppose you have some fucked up reason."
Not just spreading your legs but STI'S ...SERIOUSLY !! is this aimed only at females? sounds like it going by your heading title  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people choose to play bb that is their choice, its not for you to judge or moralise, if you don't like it avoid those people.
After all we are all adults and are entitled to play as we like.
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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Wow.. I can't remember seeing a thread on the subject of bareback started by couples or single females met with such hostility .. but a guy starts one and he gets the book thrown at him! Wow.
I guess swinging really is the community where single guys keep their opinions to themselves, their gobs shut and be grateful for what they get. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Wow.. I can't remember seeing a thread on the subject of bareback started by couples or single females met with such hostility .. but a guy starts one and he gets the book thrown at him! Wow.
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IF said couples/Females worded it the way the OP has....
They would have gotten the same responses.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe the OP Has caught something more than a nasty cold recently ? Everyone is entitled to their opinion but to come on a public forum and lay down the law,well you deserve all that's coming to you. I personally don't give a flying fuck what anybody else does and talking to people in a patronising manner,will get you nowhere fast. |
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"Wow.. I can't remember seeing a thread on the subject of bareback started by couples or single females met with such hostility .. but a guy starts one and he gets the book thrown at him! Wow.
I guess swinging really is the community where single guys keep their opinions to themselves, their gobs shut and be grateful for what they get."
In fairness sweetness, my response to the sanctimonious op would be the same regardless of gender. |
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"Wow.. I can't remember seeing a thread on the subject of bareback started by couples or single females met with such hostility .. but a guy starts one and he gets the book thrown at him! Wow.
IF said couples/Females worded it the way the OP has....
They would have gotten the same responses...."
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Wow.. I can't remember seeing a thread on the subject of bareback started by couples or single females met with such hostility .. but a guy starts one and he gets the book thrown at him! Wow.
I guess swinging really is the community where single guys keep their opinions to themselves, their gobs shut and be grateful for what they get.
In fairness sweetness, my response to the sanctimonious op would be the same regardless of gender. "
I wish I can find the thread (amongst the masses of bareback threads) but I recall one form month's ago where the poster was calling for people who bareback to be thrown off the site.. and the most negativity they got was worded "each to their own".
Am I supporting any moral crusade? ofcourse not. Am I for/against people who bareback? Each to their own: as long as I'm healthy and do my part to keep the people I play with healthy that's all am bothered about.
But this is a bit rough on the Op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow.. I can't remember seeing a thread on the subject of bareback started by couples or single females met with such hostility .. but a guy starts one and he gets the book thrown at him! Wow.
I guess swinging really is the community where single guys keep their opinions to themselves, their gobs shut and be grateful for what they get.
In fairness sweetness, my response to the sanctimonious op would be the same regardless of gender. "
And mine
I agree with the OP's sentiment but I don't need or particularly want a lecture on the need to be sensible with my sexual health and when the misogynistic undercurrent of the header is taken in to account I do find the tone of the post offensive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just voicing my concern about how some are playing russian roulette with there sexual health, It was more a target at the bareback gangbang parties which there seems to be a few of them, so condemn me for having an opinion I don't mind, no it's not targeted at women the title was purely for shock, of course these forums are quick to shoot single guys opinions down, but I don't care we live in a democracy of free speech everyones aloud an opinion, Thats exactly what im doing.
The reason i brought up the subject! was because I was reading a few profiles on here, I just hadn't realised how much of it was going on, i'm not telling people what to do just saying be careful, I suppose if people are gonna play that way they should educate themselves on the matter, seriously you will be alarmed at how many std's / sti's are out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer bare back, find condoms ruin the moment. But we know the risks and do play safe if other people prefer. It's all down to personal choice and what makes you feel safe, with piece of mind |
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