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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some bloke has gone a bit weired on me this afternoon because I refused to give him my email addresses for him to send a photo to.
I have two email addresses one for work with my full name and one I use at home again which has my full name.
He was upset that I didn't trust him.
Do other people give out information like this so easily? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should never mail photo's anyhow.... it encourages pic collectors who then have your photo to create false profiles on other sites and there's nothing to stop people sending you a virus if they have your mail address.
No reason not to have photo's on here (even if they are in private) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I'm always very careful when giving out email addresses or phone numbers, you just can't be too careful these days, what with fraud and identity theft, not to mention stalking and causing problems for family and/or friends. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope! I never give out personal information, just so people can send a face pic, if they can't upload one on here, then something is iffy to me "
This. It takes 5 mins to put a photo on here and mark it as private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope! I never give out personal information, just so people can send a face pic, if they can't upload one on here, then something is iffy to me
This. It takes 5 mins to put a photo on here and mark it as private. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't give any information out on here, I don't give email, phone number or anything, that's the point of this site so I can keep personal stuff personal any contact can be made thro here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He wanted to send a photo of a woman which I don't think you can upload as a single guy. She is part of a couple but they're not on fab because they're not swingers he said. They just enjoy meeting people for sex it seems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do not trust folk that cant send on here some say cos of their job etc i think thats crap brcause if sent via email whats the difference.
Something to hide ony opinion. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"He wanted to send a photo of a woman which I don't think you can upload as a single guy. She is part of a couple but they're not on fab because they're not swingers he said. They just enjoy meeting people for sex it seems "
I wonder if the woman knows about this.
Nowt so queer as fowk! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a separate email for fun, makes things easier and it doesn't have my real name on it "
this is only given after a meet tho, so pics of the meet can be exchanged x |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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Only a very select few people from here have my number. And not all of my meets get my number - very few in fact. If a person refuses to send me a face pic on here then my alarm bells ring immediately.
With pretty much everyone having smart phones these days it is pretty simple to just keep the communciation on fab and really don't understand why people would have a problem with this. The vast majority of the time I don't even feel the need to give out my number for this very reason! And if people have a problem with that then tough titties. |
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I don't jump through hoops, to allow other people to demonstrate that they're compatible with me. If they do that, behind the scenes, that's their business.
I've heard excuses - and that's all I see them as - of wrong operating system, mobile phone blocks, other halves etc etc. If someone can email a pic to me, they can email it to fab admin.
Invariably, I don't rush and stress myself, to get into the slip-stream of other's chaos. If someone is sorted, and takes the time to figure out what they need to do to get a decent, clear and informative profile, with some pics, whether private or public, then they're onto a good sound footing.
As for someone almost going into bully mode, just because you've been clear about what your boundaries are, then that's plainly wrong. If they've gone too far, then report to admin, and explain. Also, block them, for your own peace of mind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He wanted to send a photo of a woman which I don't think you can upload as a single guy. She is part of a couple but they're not on fab because they're not swingers he said. They just enjoy meeting people for sex it seems
I wonder if the woman knows about this.
Nowt so queer as fowk! "
I did think that after he said I'd HAVE to send a photo back straight away for her. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"He wanted to send a photo of a woman which I don't think you can upload as a single guy. She is part of a couple but they're not on fab because they're not swingers he said. They just enjoy meeting people for sex it seems
I wonder if the woman knows about this.
Nowt so queer as fowk!
I did think that after he said I'd HAVE to send a photo back straight away for her. "
He sounds an utter charmer! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He wanted to send a photo of a woman which I don't think you can upload as a single guy. She is part of a couple but they're not on fab because they're not swingers he said. They just enjoy meeting people for sex it seems
I wonder if the woman knows about this.
Nowt so queer as fowk!
I did think that after he said I'd HAVE to send a photo back straight away for her.
He sounds an utter charmer! "
Yes well I've shit out of luck with him now anyway because he reckons in the space of time I took messing him around about this, he's contacted a lady who has sent her photo and number. He has called her and they are meeting tomorrow. Naturally I'm devastated.
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
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We actually don't have face pics on here, had a nasty situation where our face pics came to light, complete with the link to our fab profile stamped across the bottom if it, in a small village like ours not so good, and people were able to view our pics, our verifications and know it was us, so we left here for a while.
These days we have a seperate email address and use that, not had any problems using that system so far this time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are carefulish. We have a seperate email address just for this and other things associated with it. One number that isn't linked to our fb page that we give out and no one knows our actual first name till we tell them it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He wanted to send a photo of a woman which I don't think you can upload as a single guy. She is part of a couple but they're not on fab because they're not swingers he said. They just enjoy meeting people for sex it seems
I wonder if the woman knows about this.
Nowt so queer as fowk!
I did think that after he said I'd HAVE to send a photo back straight away for her.
He sounds an utter charmer!
Yes well I've shit out of luck with him now anyway because he reckons in the space of time I took messing him around about this, he's contacted a lady who has sent her photo and number. He has called her and they are meeting tomorrow. Naturally I'm devastated.
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Don't forget to check for a veri tomorrow night! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can't I blocked him on the grounds I believe he is a nob.
Mind you this was the same guy last time we were on here asked me during half term to bring my child to a McDonald's to meet him for the first time. You see that's the problem with deleting your profile, you have the pain of remembering who you blocked before |
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"Nope... If they can't send a pic on here then I move on..
I only give my phone number after I've met, and I'm even re-thinking that after acquiring a bit of a stalker lately "
These are my rules too. If they can't send a pic here, they obviously have too much to hide and that, I don't trust. |
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