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Won't meet council peeps...

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing to discuss. It takes all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Apparently they are less intelligent!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

probably a thin line for some between preference and prejudice..

hey ho..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nothing to discuss. It takes all sorts."

So why comment?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A comment is not a discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not unusual to see that on a profile. Then there's the Professionals Only ones too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A comment is not a discussion.

Your opinion is just that.....YOURS!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not unusual to see that on a profile. Then there's the Professionals Only ones too

What if they are a professional living in a council flat..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......"

Her preference, just as we all have our own no problem.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Do you not know they all have nits and don't wash?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you not know they all have nits and don't wash?

I had heard they used bith sides if the toilet paper to save money for fags n sky tv.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had a few shags and knicker fumbles 'round the flats

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

There's a few areas round here where I wouldn't meet people. Not coz of the people but the areas I wouldn't fancy asking through on my own they are well known for trouble. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I though it was an anti civil servants thread

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By *ucky1Man over a year ago

a straightjacket

What if someone had actually bought an ex council flat

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By *andACouple over a year ago

glasgow

If that's their preference then I don't see a problem with it. Not something we would have on our profile but each to their own.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Apparently they are less intelligent!"

Oh. Well I used to live in a council flat and had a degree in English. Maybe I should have gotten a Phd too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe she does not like ferrets ?

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Do you not know they all have nits and don't wash?

I had heard they used bith sides if the toilet paper to save money for fags n sky tv."

Toilet paper? Surely they scrounge and cut up newspapers to use both sides of to afford that extra bottle of vodka?

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......"

Who are you to comment on others?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not unusual to see that on a profile. Then there's the Professionals Only ones too

What if they are a professional living in a council flat..?

well thats me buggered then

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......"

How does she know they're council flats. Does she check the mortgage/private rental agreement first?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe the council areas round her way are rough neighbourhoods and shes afraid to go alone/leave her car there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A comment is not a discussion.

Your opinion is just that.....YOURS! "

Of course it is. Did I say my opinion counts for everybody else's?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

There are some council estates I wouldn't visit someone in either. Before they tore it down, the nearest estate to where I lived then was the North Peckham...doctors wouldn't visit after certain hours!

I've not stayed in someones home overnight because I wasn't comfortable. He lived in a bedsit in a converted hotel. It was mainly single men that lived there. You had to go down the hall, down a half landing to use the loo: and you can imagine the state they were in!

That said, I live in Dulwich, hardly a dump but had a couple of meets ask if their cars would be safe parked on the street.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"probably a thin line for some between preference and prejudice..

hey ho.."

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"There's a few areas round here where I wouldn't meet people. Not coz of the people but the areas I wouldn't fancy asking through on my own they are well known for trouble. X"

That's the thing, but as always some always see things as a personal slight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you not know they all have nits and don't wash?

I had heard they used bith sides if the toilet paper to save money for fags n sky tv."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I also know someone who wont meet certain individuals on here if they support a certain football team

I like meeting people that support other teams. Nothing better than fucking the opposoition now n again! Especially the jambos,

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I won't meet people living under the viaduct

shoot me for fuck sake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we were both born and raised on council estates.. many of our current friends are professional types, a large social mix of backrounds.. We have long discarded our prejudices about where someone comes from, what they own and their social status..totally bloody irrelevant..attitude and personality maketh the person no matter where they are from, how educated..or not, what they have or what don't! In our book, anyone without that simple attitude or judges of social standing or material wealth we'd avoid like the plague...still each to their own...innit!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"There's a few areas round here where I wouldn't meet people. Not coz of the people but the areas I wouldn't fancy asking through on my own they are well known for trouble. X

That's the thing, but as always some always see things as a personal slight."

That should of said walking through but you got my point!! One rods not far from me is where loads of drug dealers hang out and whenever there's trouble you can bet that street is in the paper. No chance you'd catch me walking round there late at night on my own!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

I won't meet people living under the viaduct

shoot me for fuck sake"

Even if they look like Rupert Penry-Jones and have a big cock?!!

Yeah...right!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I also know someone who wont meet certain individuals on here if they support a certain football team

I like meeting people that support other teams. Nothing better than fucking the opposoition now n again! Especially the jambos,

On our very first swing we had it away with a couple where the guy worked for DHL

We are both Royal Mail so she was literally screwing the competition

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I won't meet people living under the viaduct

shoot me for fuck sake

Even if they look like Rupert Penry-Jones and have a big cock?!!

Yeah...right!!!

he would be researching a role, that's ok

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

And there's a block of flats not too far from me that the lift never works, they are really run down and the communal stair ways stink of piss, there's always needles and used j_nnys laying around. I know how bad they were coz my nan lived there before she died. They were lovely flats tho! (Well hers was at least coz she looked after it) but you wouldn't catch me in there again now I don't care how lovely the persons house was I was going to see! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I also know someone who wont meet certain individuals on here if they support a certain football team

I like meeting people that support other teams. Nothing better than fucking the opposoition now n again! Especially the jambos,

On our very first swing we had it away with a couple where the guy worked for DHL

We are both Royal Mail so she was literally screwing the competition

Surely he was screwing her!

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

This is one of those situations where the phrase i am slowly coming to loathe - "each to their own" is highly appropriate.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"This is one of those situations where the phrase i am slowly coming to loathe - "each to their own" is highly appropriate."

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

"I also know someone who wont meet certain individuals on here if they support a certain football team

I like meeting people that support other teams. Nothing better than fucking the opposoition now n again! Especially the jambos,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

whats the difference from women who say they wont meet soldiers then?

maybe shes too posh to meet council flat tennants?

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I think its really nice of her to inform everyone living in council houses/flats thats its ok for them all to block her and find people not so far up their own arses....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I also know someone who wont meet certain individuals on here if they support a certain football team

I like meeting people that support other teams. Nothing better than fucking the opposoition now n again! Especially the jambos,

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I also know someone who wont meet certain individuals on here if they support a certain football team

I like meeting people that support other teams. Nothing better than fucking the opposoition now n again! Especially the jambos,

On our very first swing we had it away with a couple where the guy worked for DHL

We are both Royal Mail so she was literally screwing the competition

Surely he was screwing her!

Nope , Mrs J was on top and enjoying every minute .

I had a French Gymnast , there was six of us , and it was a hell of an introduction into swinging .

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"This is one of those situations where the phrase i am slowly coming to loathe - "each to their own" is highly appropriate."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"whats the difference from women who say they wont meet soldiers then?

maybe shes too posh to meet council flat tennants?"

Councils don't run the barracks!

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

maybe shes too posh to meet council flat tennants?"

Yeah that must be the reason....

Because all council residents are common as muck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People are entitled to meet who they want. I'm sure you have preferences

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not unusual to see that on a profile. Then there's the Professionals Only ones too

What if they are a professional living in a council flat..?

well thats me buggered then

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your place is council? Looks nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe the council areas round her way are rough neighbourhoods and shes afraid to go alone/leave her car there!"

Maybe read the whole thread and you'll see I mentioned she said it was because they are less intelligent and nothing to do with feeling unsafe. But hey just carry on picking out bits and try to appear funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"People are entitled to meet who they want. I'm sure you have preferences

A pulse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe the council areas round her way are rough neighbourhoods and shes afraid to go alone/leave her car there!

Where on your post does it say 'she said they are less intelligent'?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Maybe the council areas round her way are rough neighbourhoods and shes afraid to go alone/leave her car there!

Where on your post does it say 'she said they are less intelligent'?"

Didn't on the original one. Was a couple of posts down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People are entitled to meet who they want. I'm sure you have preferences

A pulse

even that is not a prerequisite, if they are still warm.......PMSL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe the council areas round her way are rough neighbourhoods and shes afraid to go alone/leave her car there!

Where on your post does it say 'she said they are less intelligent'?

Didn't on the original one. Was a couple of posts down. "

The 'apparently' one? So that meant she said it? Not the ops opinion? Why not put it in original post then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People who live in council flats are not less intelligent they just live with their, head-in-the-clouds

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

It may indeed be a preference but we can certainly say something about the thought process that lead to it . It is a pre judgmental one !

Totally disagree with the non caring each to their own attitude for all situations

Each to their own means you don't care if a person is racist, homophobic , sexist , xenophobic tribal or any other such generalised sweeping judgment based on assumption stereotype fear ignorance as apposed to reason and data

When some nonchalantly pompously declare it's a preference suggesting said preference is immune to objective scrutiny and comment they are wrong

Some preferences seem to be innate , and harmless let's say she prefers blond haired men however I would suggest it nieve at best to accept or perpetuate that many so called preferences do not have a considered often misguided or ignorant (meaning derived from poor inaccurate information ) thought process behind them

The couple mentioned by the op although perfectly entitled to their ignorant opinion are not immune from us articulating why they are ignorant judgmental and rude to make a sweeping statement that suggests all people in a particular kind of housing are not worthy of the couples company

Guess what kind of accommodation I live in lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pompous eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It may indeed be a preference but we can certainly say something about the thought process that lead to it . It is a pre judgmental one !

Totally disagree with the non caring each to their own attitude for all situations

When some nonchalantly pompously declare it's a preference suggesting said preference is immune to objective scrutiny and comment they are wrong

Guess what kind of accommodation I live in lol

A penthouse council place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not unusual to see that on a profile. Then there's the Professionals Only ones too

What if they are a professional living in a council flat..?

Like our friend above

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"probably a thin line for some between preference and prejudice..

hey ho.."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Should "professionals" be allowed to take up much needed Council homes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should "professionals" be allowed to take up much needed Council homes

I know what you mean but where do you draw the line?

By profession? By income? By money in the bank? It could go right down to anybody who owns a television above 22 inches.

Quite difficult once you start means testing for housing entitlement. What happens if a dustman does an open university degree and then becomes a lawyer?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

By tv inches lol I like that one.

Dunno maybe we will find out when our friend comes back online later....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe the council areas round her way are rough neighbourhoods and shes afraid to go alone/leave her car there!

Where on your post does it say 'she said they are less intelligent'?

Didn't on the original one. Was a couple of posts down.

The 'apparently' one? So that meant she said it? Not the ops opinion? Why not put it in original post then? "

Apology accepted

but like I say read the whole thing before you chip in with your hilarious posts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe the council areas round her way are rough neighbourhoods and shes afraid to go alone/leave her car there!

Where on your post does it say 'she said they are less intelligent'?

Didn't on the original one. Was a couple of posts down.

The 'apparently' one? So that meant she said it? Not the ops opinion? Why not put it in original post then?

Apology accepted

but like I say read the whole thing before you chip in with your hilarious posts.

Apology? What apology? Just find it a bit weird to see you picking out my post for critisism when others have said the exact same thing as me! But hey ho. Maybe next time you post a thread, you might want to put everything in the original post. That way we can then reply accordingly!

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By *imjohnCouple over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......"

Avoid these weirdo's mate lol! some think their shit don't stink so just humour them xx

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Should "professionals" be allowed to take up much needed Council homes

Without getting into a Fabsters definition of professional, why shouldn't council areas have a mix of tenants?

Employed, unemployed, low paid, 40% tax rate payers, pensioners and so on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because council housing is surely for people who need assistance.

I am assuming that a professional is capable of helping him or herself and should not be reliant on the welfare system to house them.

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Because council housing is surely for people who need assistance.

I am assuming that a professional is capable of helping him or herself and should not be reliant on the welfare system to house them. "

That's the traditional thinking but in a situation where teachers and nurses can't afford to buy within travelling distance of their workplace, do we have to rethink?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

maybe shes too posh to meet council flat tennants?

Yeah that must be the reason....

Because all council residents are common as muck

No they arent but a lot of people who have bought their council house or flat, look down their noses at people who havnt, as soon as you say that you live in a council house a lot of people on here will judge you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't have the housing stock though do we?

I think it needs retaining for the most vulnerable in society and other methods like the government grants to help people in work afford their own homes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There appears to me to be huge class divide on FAB. I find it fascinating, but also slightly disturbing that someone would openly state they are not looking for people who live in social housing, proving that the social stigma of class is alive even when it comes to sex. This is of course the same thing in relation to ethnicity, which has been discussed many times in different posts. M

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some see peoples homes as a reflection of their life style, maybe she see's someone who lives in council accommodation as being unemployed or on a low income, meaning not having a very good job and not the type of person she wished to meet

That's not my opinion of people in council houses by the way but I do think lots see people in council houses as being poor or on low income

I cant see it as and different to those who ask for professional people myself, at the end of the day its upto the individual who they meet be that based on looks or income

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe the council areas round her way are rough neighbourhoods and shes afraid to go alone/leave her car there!

Where on your post does it say 'she said they are less intelligent'?

Didn't on the original one. Was a couple of posts down.

The 'apparently' one? So that meant she said it? Not the ops opinion? Why not put it in original post then?

Apology accepted

but like I say read the whole thing before you chip in with your hilarious posts.

No they haven't. You jumped on my post without even reading it properly. The answer to your smart alec reply was in the 3rd post. I originally forgot to put it on but added it straight after but someone had already posted. I'm pretty sure I don't answer to you and will post how I see fit. You have a habit of trolling me. Please you really aremy type lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There appears to me to be huge class divide on FAB. I find it fascinating, but also slightly disturbing that someone would openly state they are not looking for people who live in social housing, proving that the social stigma of class is alive even when it comes to sex. This is of course the same thing in relation to ethnicity, which has been discussed many times in different posts. M "

But that is evident on both sides though. Look above at some comments like stuck up their own arses etc.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......"

I have no idea why you are stunned, Surely its up to the lady who she wants to meet or is that not allowed any more ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......

I have no idea why you are stunned, Surely its up to the lady who she wants to meet or is that not allowed any more ?"

Because she was saying that all council folk are less intelligent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......"

"Nothing to discuss. It takes all sorts."

"Totally disagree with the non caring each to their own attitude for all situations

When some nonchalantly pompously declare it's a preference suggesting said preference is immune to objective scrutiny and comment they are wrong

I was wrong. Taoist made that clear.

Well put.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Some are seeing it as a slight, others safety. I will not go anywhere I don't feel safe and a London council estate at night wouldn't make me feel safe. It doesn't mean I'm looking down on the person living there.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

on here people can slate the better off, but for fuck sake the better off must never even breathe, have an eye motion that may elude to have a slightly negative opinion of the lesser so well off.

you will be doomed........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......

I have no idea why you are stunned, Surely its up to the lady who she wants to meet or is that not allowed any more ?

Because she was saying that all council folk are less intelligent. "

Well, lovely looking ladies can be more picky, i thought youd know that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......

I have no idea why you are stunned, Surely its up to the lady who she wants to meet or is that not allowed any more ?

Because she was saying that all council folk are less intelligent. "

did I miss that bit, the opening post just says she wont meet council flat tenants, it don't even say she has any thing against council houses

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......

I have no idea why you are stunned, Surely its up to the lady who she wants to meet or is that not allowed any more ?

Because she was saying that all council folk are less intelligent.

did I miss that bit, the opening post just says she wont meet council flat tenants, it don't even say she has any thing against council houses

Jeez read the whole post rather than jump on. 3 rd comment down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps admin can add an extra filter so people can opt in or out of seeing profiles of council residents

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"We don't have the housing stock though do we?

I think it needs retaining for the most vulnerable in society and other methods like the government grants to help people in work afford their own homes. "

That's what Help to Buy is supposed to be doing but the more we learn about it the less likely it looks to be capable of it.

Quite apart from anything else, how can a scheme which 'helps to buy' homes at £600,000 be said be be designed to help people on limited income who are trying to but their first or second home?

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

buy. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes very true, I once met someone in an area I didn't feel safe at all. My heart was pounding for all the wrong reasons and when the person I met opened the door and didn't look anything like the photo it was such a relief to be able to say, um I think you've lied to me a bit here and make my excuses and get out of there as fast as I could. Safety must always be first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How come some people on here are able to have an interesting exchange of _iews about my post yet others can't help but just nit pick over the fine details. Yes I did omit info on original post but immediately added the important bit. If people actually bothered to read as the intelligent peeps have we could have a good chat about snibbery etc...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But that is evident on both sides though. Look above at some comments like stuck up their own arses etc. "

Yes also agree here, it's amazing how sexual preferences in many ways are shaped by social understandings/stereotypes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Snobbery even lol. Another one for the nit pickers.

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By *r Mahogany70Man over a year ago

Leicester

"It may indeed be a preference but we can certainly say something about the thought process that lead to it . It is a pre judgmental one !

Totally disagree with the non caring each to their own attitude for all situations

When some nonchalantly pompously declare it's a preference suggesting said preference is immune to objective scrutiny and comment they are wrong

Guess what kind of accommodation I live in lol

Well done Taoist, you've articulated my thoughts on the "each to their own" and "personal preference" brigade perfectly. Two phrases that are guaranteed to stifle any meaningful (or stupid) discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't have the housing stock though do we?

I think it needs retaining for the most vulnerable in society and other methods like the government grants to help people in work afford their own homes.

That's what Help to Buy is supposed to be doing but the more we learn about it the less likely it looks to be capable of it.

Quite apart from anything else, how can a scheme which 'helps to buy' homes at £600,000 be said be be designed to help people on limited income who are trying to but their first or second home?"

I don't know the ins and outs to be honest but it's helped mr notts daughter buy her first home, not £600k I might add lol. But going back to council housing, I feel there are too few to be offering them to people perhaps otherwise capable of homing themselves. I get the idea of mixing people up and I agree in theory thats a good thing, but not at the expense of housing the most vulnerable in society.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......

I have no idea why you are stunned, Surely its up to the lady who she wants to meet or is that not allowed any more ?

Because she was saying that all council folk are less intelligent.

did I miss that bit, the opening post just says she wont meet council flat tenants, it don't even say she has any thing against council houses

Jeez read the whole post rather than jump on. 3 rd comment down."

im at work I don't have time to read the whole thread

I suppose you can see where she's coming from tho, people with higher intelligence tend to have better jobs, hence higher paid and not living in council accommodating, after all you don't see many doctors or lawyers living in a council house

That's not to say I agree with her as I have lived in council accommodation.....no hang on that's just proved her point

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

I have a quick Google and am pleased to be able to report I couldn't find any instances of anyone being assaulted (or worse) by a council house.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"on here people can slate the better off, but for fuck sake the better off must never even breathe, have an eye motion that may elude to have a slightly negative opinion of the lesser so well off.

you will be doomed........"

Oh so true! The amount of anti professional threads there are, but dare to mention you don't want to visit a council estate and it all kicks off!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On a technicality the OP stated council flats specifically, so all you peeps in council houses are good to go meet this charming lady whoever she may be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"on here people can slate the better off, but for fuck sake the better off must never even breathe, have an eye motion that may elude to have a slightly negative opinion of the lesser so well off.

you will be doomed........

Oh so true! The amount of anti professional threads there are, but dare to mention you don't want to visit a council estate and it all kicks off!"

to be fair there are some council estates I don't like to visit, but that's based on each individual place I don't think all council estates are rough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We couldnt care less if you live in a council house or a 10 bed mansion, you can be a bin man or a multi millionaire but if we dont click its game over, for us its not about your income or the position in life you hold its about the person

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By *i015Man over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

"I also know someone who wont meet certain individuals on here if they support a certain football team

I like meeting people that support other teams. Nothing better than fucking the opposoition now n again! Especially the jambos,

I personally would love to shag a lady that supports Pompey, especially if she's wearing the kit while I'm wearing my Saints top

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We couldnt care less if you live in a council house or a 10 bed mansion, you can be a bin man or a multi millionaire but if we dont click its game over, for us its not about your income or the position in life you hold its about the person "

as we accommodate 99% of the time people could be coming from tents and caravans for all we know lol.

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By *RYBBWCouple over a year ago

Leeds.

"I think its really nice of her to inform everyone living in council houses/flats thats its ok for them all to block her and find people not so far up their own arses....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as we accommodate 99% of the time people could be coming from tents and caravans for all we know lol.

Just as long as they set em up in the front room eh.

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By *i015Man over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

There's probably some people on here that don't meet posh people, personally I've met someone from a council estate (though not from here) and I think they are lovely, they might have filthy minds and mouths but that's what appeals to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's probably some people on here that don't meet posh people, personally I've met someone from a council estate (though not from here) and I think they are lovely, they might have filthy minds and mouths but that's what appeals to me."

You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can honestly say I have never even asked anyone if they rent or buy their house, its not a question that has ever accrued to me to ask, I would rather meet in hotels than go to peoples homes anyway so as long as they cough up their half of the hotel room I really don't care, they can still live at home with mummy for all I care

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By *i015Man over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

Not different breed, just different type of personality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about if thay meet people at clubs and parties and hotels ok cars how would thay know where thay lived ? with out going to there house?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple over a year ago

Nr coleford

surprised that there's council homes left as mist have been sold off to housing associations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

Not different breed, just different type of personality"

really?

so if you met someone in a pub, had no idea at all of their back ground, you could tell what type of home they lived in?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

Not different breed, just different type of personality"

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple over a year ago

Nr coleford

should be most oops typo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about if thay meet people at clubs and parties and hotels ok cars how would thay know where thay lived ? with out going to there house?"

Get them to bring the deeds with em!

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

A few years back the tabloids reported one of the leaders of a main union, gmb I believe. Lives in a council house yet earns over 100k a year.

So..

Low rent opposed to a high mortgage.

No repair bills

More disposable income.

Mmmm who the idiot?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

Not different breed, just different type of personality"

Really? So you can tell if the man on the street is a council tenant or home owner by his personality then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He is.

A selfish one at that.

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

On a slight tangent. One thing you notice in US swing clubs is that the ladies keep their jewellery on at all times times.

This is probably partly a security thing but it's also works as a 'this is how wealthy we are' reminder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How come some people on here are able to have an interesting exchange of _iews about my post yet others can't help but just nit pick over the fine details. Yes I did omit info on original post but immediately added the important bit. If people actually bothered to read as the intelligent peeps have we could have a good chat about snibbery etc..."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It's bizarre, as I've no clue what is a council property, what's housing association, been purchased by resident, or is a buy to let property any more.

I'd choose where to spend my time based on area, who's there and what's on offer. But, I have heard of some dire areas to visit, but probably doesn't restrict itself to the type of property.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How the hell will she know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of the people on council estates near me have 6 fingers . The ladies love it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......"

What's the problem? Why is everyone else allowed preferences but not her? Why can't people meet who they want to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can honestly say I have never even asked anyone if they rent or buy their house, its not a question that has ever accrued to me to ask, I would rather meet in hotels than go to peoples homes anyway so as long as they cough up their half of the hotel room I really don't care, they can still live at home with mummy for all I care

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm from a council estate and lived in a council flat until a few years ago when I bought my house...my flat was better decorated though because at that time I had more disposable income. So now I own my house but desperately need to get the place looking like a home...not sure what that does for my social standing!!

As for intelligence, I have a degree so have academic intelligence, but also think growing up in a council estate with little money has given me 'street smarts' and maybe even helped me have common sense. I know lots of intelligent people who can be so stupid at times because they're not used to having to think for themselves.

Think I've lost myself a bit in my own ramblings here, but basically where you live is often a result of circumstance not intelligence...and intelligence comes in many different forms. I'd rather meet someone with common sense and the ability to hold a conversation than than a mensa IQ and no social skills (I know you can have both but it seems to be rare!) regardless of where they come from

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I can honestly say I have never even asked anyone if they rent or buy their house, its not a question that has ever accrued to me to ask"

Nor I!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

"Not different breed, just different type of personality"

Hi, Mr Garnett!

Not everybody lives on council estates by choice. Yes, I am lovely, and yes, I have a filthy mind, but it was necessity that caused me moving there for a while. Same assorted kinds of folk as elsewhere. My time there was as OK as it was in other places where the wind took me. Bloody stereotyping. Grrr.

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

That's the other thing I have missed this week......... Outrage

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By *lim_jim1964Man over a year ago

peterborough

"Do you not know they all have nits and don't wash?

I had heard they used bith sides if the toilet paper to save money for fags n sky tv.

Toilet paper? Surely they scrounge and cut up newspapers to use both sides of to afford that extra bottle of vodka?"

Only the Sun though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you not know they all have nits and don't wash?

I had heard they used bith sides if the toilet paper to save money for fags n sky tv.

Toilet paper? Surely they scrounge and cut up newspapers to use both sides of to afford that extra bottle of vodka?

Only the Sun though!"

Nah. The mails better!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It may indeed be a preference but we can certainly say something about the thought process that lead to it . It is a pre judgmental one !

Totally disagree with the non caring each to their own attitude for all situations

When some nonchalantly pompously declare it's a preference suggesting said preference is immune to objective scrutiny and comment they are wrong

Guess what kind of accommodation I live in lol

A penthouse council place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't even believe this profile exists. I reckon warsguy has started this thread to "out" council home tennants so he can avoid them himself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't even believe this profile exists. I reckon warsguy has started this thread to "out" council home tennants so he can avoid them himself.

i've heard of dafter things on here

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I don't think it would be too difficult to articulate or illustrate why a persons income and their intelligence are not an exact correlation nor should be used to generalise assume or prejudge anything xx

No dis respect a degree is not an illustration of intelligence either

And intelligence is no indicator regarding how interesting, funny or amiable a person maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think it would be too difficult to articulate or illustrate why a persons income and their intelligence are not an exact correlation nor should be used to generalise assume or prejudge anything xx

No dis respect a degree is not an illustration of intelligence either

And intelligence is no indicator regarding how interesting, funny or amiable a person maybe

did you swallow the dictionary before posting that to prove a point?

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Did not need to say that about degree it was made clear there is no universal intelligence in the above post xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No dis respect a degree is not an illustration of intelligence either

And intelligence is no indicator regarding how interesting, funny or amiable a person maybe

You have alluded to being a council home tennant and your profile states you are a professional. Okay that is a grey area I agree, but it obviously means something to you.

Now I'm trying to guess what profession uses a thousand words instead of 10

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

No dis respect a degree is not an illustration of intelligence either

And intelligence is no indicator regarding how interesting, funny or amiable a person maybe

did you swallow the dictionary before posting that to prove a point?

I only bite during meets he he

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By *unmeisterMan over a year ago

London & West Midlands

"Apparently they are less intelligent!

Oh. Well I used to live in a council flat and had a degree in English. Maybe I should have gotten a Phd too. "

Judging by your pics you have put your education to good use and moved on xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are people so averse to reading words of more than one syllable? Taoist is not expressing himself in Latin, is he? It's perfectly understandable language.

I guess the analogy about crabs in a bucket always trying to pull back the one trying to crawl out is a valid one.

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Maybe I use the word professional as a euphemism suggesting I ply my trade professionally xx

Oddly my house is opposite a council estate xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why are people so averse to reading words of more than one syllable? Taoist is not expressing himself in Latin, is he? It's perfectly understandable language.

I guess the analogy about crabs in a bucket always trying to pull back the one trying to crawl out is a valid one."

Only crabs on this post are running amongst a few peeps pubes lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Naughtynphos it's YOU lol

I have often heard of this clique - I didn't bloody realise it was you all along

you see ive just turned into a right snobby bitch since I got my mortgage

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By *unmeisterMan over a year ago

London & West Midlands

I have standards. I would happily shag a slapped or a slag...but no way would I have anything to do with someone who lives in a council flat

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Naughtynphos it's YOU lol

I have often heard of this clique - I didn't bloody realise it was you all along

you see ive just turned into a right snobby bitch since I got my mortgage

A mortgage on a kennel!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Naughtynphos it's YOU lol

I have often heard of this clique - I didn't bloody realise it was you all along

you see ive just turned into a right snobby bitch since I got my mortgage

A mortgage on a kennel!!!!!

both, the dogs live in the house

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are people so averse to reading words of more than one syllable? Taoist is not expressing himself in Latin, is he? It's perfectly understandable language.

I guess the analogy about crabs in a bucket always trying to pull back the one trying to crawl out is a valid one."

It takes a bit more concentration to read some of the Long winded posts and it's hurting my poor little brain. I'm obviously not as cleva as what you must be and I haven't got a friggin scoot doo what your chuffin going on about crabs and buckets for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not scoot doo

SCOOBY DO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes not professional live in posh house

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By *uper_gMan over a year ago

london

I think this is just purely down to stereo typing. Where as the majority of council tennants are what some people see as a lower class, less educated or common. This is not always the case, I know plenty of people who have their own property and they are not to the standard of some council properties I have been in. But I can understand some peoples choice by not wishing to mix with these people purely because there is more chance of the council tennants being a bit on the tough side! (If that's how you might want to put it). Better to rule it out totally by just eliminating them from your preference!

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......

I have no idea why you are stunned, Surely its up to the lady who she wants to meet or is that not allowed any more ?

Because she was saying that all council folk are less intelligent. "

that's fair enough mate but you didn't say that she had said that in your post ?

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

" .....

Now I'm trying to guess what profession uses a thousand words instead of 10

Solicitors. Traditionally paid by the word.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" .....

Now I'm trying to guess what profession uses a thousand words instead of 10

Solicitors. Traditionally paid by the word."

Probably right on that because he also led us up the garden path to make us think he lived in council property and now it transpires he doesn't. That's another trait that solicitors have

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By *i015Man over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

Not different breed, just different type of personality

Really? So you can tell if the man on the street is a council tenant or home owner by his personality then?

Not sure about other areas but were I live you can spot the type of people that live in council estates

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is this school . If you juge people for where they live then you not worth meeting.not all aerse full of drugys. professional people have druggy as well just looking the papers you see one every day. So don't juge people on where they live.

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

So many houses/ flats in council built estates are now privately owned (thanks to Thatcher) you can no longer tell which is which.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

Not different breed, just different type of personality

Really? So you can tell if the man on the street is a council tenant or home owner by his personality then?

Not sure about other areas but were I live you can spot the type of people that live in council estates"

I think you should apply to UKIP. I believe they have a vacancy. What are your _iews on cleaning behind fridges by the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So many houses/ flats in council built estates are now privately owned (thanks to Thatcher) you can no longer tell which is which."

and many mortgages are cheaper than rent so has no reflection on your income either

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just read a rather lovely looking ladies profile and was stunned by her last paragraph. She will not meet people from council flats lol!!!

Discuss......

I have no idea why you are stunned, Surely its up to the lady who she wants to meet or is that not allowed any more ?

Because she was saying that all council folk are less intelligent.

that's fair enough mate but you didn't say that she had said that in your post ?"

As been explained before I added it immediately after as I realised it was very relevant. Unfortunately someone posted before me so my post appeared one post after my original. Too far down for you to read lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Naughtynphos it's YOU lol

I have often heard of this clique - I didn't bloody realise it was you all along

you see ive just turned into a right snobby bitch since I got my mortgage

A mortgage on a kennel!!!!!

both, the dogs live in the house

Woof woof.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have to say my posts usually succeed in hitting the limit of replies but it's such a shame there's so much nit picking and nastiness.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts - can people keep their personal digs off the forums please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought I was following this quite well. What happened !

Hey ho - good thread - very thought provoking

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive removed posts - can people keep their personal digs off the forums please"

I'd be quite happy if you closed it. I only posted as I had never come across a profile whereby someone was refusing to meet people from council flats as she felt they would be less educated and I wasn't sure if it was a fair comment or discrimination. Unfortunately the usual clique and took over. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"we were both born and raised on council estates.. many of our current friends are professional types, a large social mix of backrounds.. We have long discarded our prejudices about where someone comes from, what they own and their social status..totally bloody irrelevant..attitude and personality maketh the person no matter where they are from, how educated..or not, what they have or what don't! In our book, anyone without that simple attitude or judges of social standing or material wealth we'd avoid like the plague...still each to their own...innit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Can I just add I was raised in a council house in a very poor 'council' area of London hence why I raised my eyes at her profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I just add I was raised in a council house in a very poor 'council' area of London hence why I raised my eyes at her profile."

So was Bianca the one with the red hair on eastenders, shes not a snob.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Can I just add I was raised in a council house in a very poor 'council' area of London hence why I raised my eyes at her profile.

So was Bianca the one with the red hair on eastenders, shes not a snob.

Awesome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My grandparents, sister two uncles live in council accommodation and I temporarily did too with a boyfriend before we bought a house together.

I am not offended by people having preference to who they choose to meet though. My attitude for those that are is - great - they have just shown themselves as someone you also don't care to spend any time with.

If she didn't put that and you somehow got a meet with her, had a great session in the bedroom and after during idle chat she started making unkind comments about people in council accommodation, I'm sure you'd be pretty angry.

So no harm done - block her and find someone who shares your values instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My grandparents, sister two uncles live in council accommodation and I temporarily did too with a boyfriend before we bought a house together.

So no harm done - block her and find someone who shares your values instead. "

Actually doing more blocking reading the posts on here after my original posts. Very productive.

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By *i015Man over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

"Ive removed posts - can people keep their personal digs off the forums please

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You make it sound as if we are a different breed altogether!

Not different breed, just different type of personality

Really? So you can tell if the man on the street is a council tenant or home owner by his personality then?

Engage brain before typing please..........

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