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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
Good luck! |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
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How? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do the proper thing and report all these time wasters then, help admin make this a better place  "
I think that depends on what they mean by a timewaster. Their version may very well be someone else's way of finding out if they are compatible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
How?"
There are more that 5 times the amount of single guys than girls the odds speak for themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's shame u feel like that,so many bi fems who talk the talk,don't walk the walk x I have woman message chat on phone then run lol but perservere as there are some genuine out there if u change mindand stay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do the proper thing and report all these time wasters then, help admin make this a better place
I think that depends on what they mean by a timewaster. Their version may very well be someone else's way of finding out if they are compatible. "
Yeah fair enough we were using our idea of a time waster I.e. someone who didn't turn up. You know what they say about assumption  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
How?
There are more that 5 times the amount of single guys than girls the odds speak for themselves"
Yup, exactly right! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tried every combination. Fact is its full of people looking for an ego boost with no intention of meeting. It's a shame but until something is fine I'm not throwing more money it. Raise it to £100 life membership and that would get rid if the idiots. Most other sites can't be used unless you pay ... You dan register free but not contact people. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
How?
There are more that 5 times the amount of single guys than girls the odds speak for themselves
Yup, exactly right! "
Yes...so that will increase their chances of meeting a single guy.
But they want to meet a single bi female. How will looking for men for MMF help them do that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up !  "
Well I'm looking for my first Fab couple  (NOT first ffm) but I must admit I'm damn nervous. My previous experiences have been (a) I already knew the woman and the guy wasn't her partner, and (b) the various combinations you can get at clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up !
Well I'm looking for my first Fab couple (NOT first ffm) but I must admit I'm damn nervous. My previous experiences have been (a) I already knew the woman and the guy wasn't her partner, and (b) the various combinations you can get at clubs."
Oh and I was dating a swinger at the time of (b). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tried every combination. Fact is its full of people looking for an ego boost with no intention of meeting. It's a shame but until something is fine I'm not throwing more money it. Raise it to £100 life membership and that would get rid if the idiots. Most other sites can't be used unless you pay ... You dan register free but not contact people. "
we have used a site that is £50 a year to join, and we havent renewed our membership there because its full of timewasters and fakers.
its just they have a bit of money to waste obviously.
money doesnt equate to intent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
How?
There are more that 5 times the amount of single guys than girls the odds speak for themselves
Yup, exactly right! "
if wanting to play with another female is what they are looking for, then meeting single bloke just aint gonna do the job.
possibly just as well looking for other couples, where the bloke is a voyeur. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up ! "
Bye! Now, i've just got to wait on the other thousands of guys and couples getting fed up.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up !
Well I'm looking for my first Fab couple (NOT first ffm) but I must admit I'm damn nervous. My previous experiences have been (a) I already knew the woman and the guy wasn't her partner, and (b) the various combinations you can get at clubs."
hmmmm, interesting....  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
How?
There are more that 5 times the amount of single guys than girls the odds speak for themselves"
So because there are lots of males about they should change what they are looking for?
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Tried every combination. Fact is its full of people looking for an ego boost with no intention of meeting. It's a shame but until something is fine I'm not throwing more money it. Raise it to £100 life membership and that would get rid if the idiots. Most other sites can't be used unless you pay ... You dan register free but not contact people. "
Timewasters have money too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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op We was on a swing site payed a lot more than a 100 a year for this site and still full of people just playing games never meeting ..I am sure a lot are, As some get off on just looking at pics and thinking about it all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tried every combination. Fact is its full of people looking for an ego boost with no intention of meeting. It's a shame but until something is fine I'm not throwing more money it. Raise it to £100 life membership and that would get rid if the idiots. Most other sites can't be used unless you pay ... You dan register free but not contact people.
Timewasters have money too "
True. |
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up ! "
I felt he same once. Then after thinking about it I decided to fight them. If you leave then the timewasters have won. Stay and fight (and block) them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up !
I felt he same once. Then after thinking about it I decided to fight them. If you leave then the timewasters have won. Stay and fight (and block) them."
I'd rather shag em! Make love, not war! |
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I can imagine it's very frustrating but patience is the key. Perhaps improving your selection criteria/methods might help, eg. A social first in a bar so if she doesn't turn up, you get an evening out anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the whole timewaster thing. If your getting them surely your selection process needs looking at. "
You have been very lucky not to come across one.
OP I had a few timewasters and have felt like leaving but why should i because of the idiots, maybe hide your profile for now and see how you feel in a few days
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too "
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up ! "
Don't give up. Whatever situation that anyone is looking for here on Fab, there are multiple timewasters. Most timewasters never meet anyone, I suspect. Anything more than a couple of messages, without exchanging a mobile number, screams of a timewaster. Whether its MFM, FMF, 121, Group ... there are always timewasters. Dump them and keep looking. You'll win.  |
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"I don't get the whole timewaster thing. If your getting them surely your selection process needs looking at.
You have been very lucky not to come across one.
OP I had a few timewasters and have felt like leaving but why should i because of the idiots, maybe hide your profile for now and see how you feel in a few days
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well we are careful. But we've been on here on and off for years and never had a timewaster just loads of fun. We are very picky tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tried every combination. Fact is its full of people looking for an ego boost with no intention of meeting. It's a shame but until something is fine I'm not throwing more money it. Raise it to £100 life membership and that would get rid if the idiots. Most other sites can't be used unless you pay ... You dan register free but not contact people. "
Ohhhh I get it now , time wasters don't have money. Why didn't I think of that before  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it's a whole lot better for couples when no shows occur? My thought processes:
If you have arranged the time and the place but the third person doesn't show or cancels at the last minute, you still have each other. Use your imagination and role play that missing third person into your sex.
I have a filthy imagination and I can just see you both in the hotel room. (F) you're tied to the bed, blindfolded and (M) has toys... you get the DP or DVP. Leave (F) tied and call room service... ohhhh imagination is fantastic (in fact it is often better than the threesome would have been ). |
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up !
Don't give up. Whatever situation that anyone is looking for here on Fab, there are multiple timewasters. Most timewasters never meet anyone, I suspect. Anything more than a couple of messages, without exchanging a mobile number, screams of a timewaster. Whether its MFM, FMF, 121, Group ... there are always timewasters. Dump them and keep looking. You'll win. "
I don't agree - I like to exchange quite a few messages before I meet anyone. It's the way I find out if we are compatable - I don't have sex with just anyone after a couple of messages. Also, some people I message I might not ever meet but they are interesting and friendly people and I like to keep the cyber social aspect of swinging going for me as well as the physical sexual meets. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!."
Aint that the truth....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
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Pfffffffffffffftttttt I have only just decided (last week or so) to try and dabble in the couples' market. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tried every combination. Fact is its full of people looking for an ego boost with no intention of meeting. It's a shame but until something is fine I'm not throwing more money it. Raise it to £100 life membership and that would get rid if the idiots. Most other sites can't be used unless you pay ... You dan register free but not contact people. "
We were on two other sites before and they were a complete waste of money.
We pay three lots of site supporters on here and been more than worth it.
As people have said I think you need to look at your selection processes and get yourself out to clubs or socials were you can then meet people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Pfffffffffffffftttttt I have only just decided (last week or so) to try and dabble in the couples' market."
Couples are best  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread."
Bingo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread.
Bingo"
Oh we gonna have a game , cool not played for ages. Just let me get me dabber |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Pfffffffffffffftttttt I have only just decided (last week or so) to try and dabble in the couples' market.
Couples are best "
Yeah, the hubby can make the coffee! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread.
Bingo
Oh we gonna have a game , cool not played for ages. Just let me get me dabber "
HOUSE! Too late. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Pfffffffffffffftttttt I have only just decided (last week or so) to try and dabble in the couples' market.
Couples are best
Yeah, the hubby can make the coffee! "
Or tea! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread.
Bingo
Oh we gonna have a game , cool not played for ages. Just let me get me dabber
HOUSE! Too late. "
Oh not fair I was only waiting on 69 as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Pfffffffffffffftttttt I have only just decided (last week or so) to try and dabble in the couples' market.
Couples are best
Yeah, the hubby can make the coffee!
Or tea! "
One sugar for me please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely it's a whole lot better for couples when no shows occur? My thought processes:
If you have arranged the time and the place but the third person doesn't show or cancels at the last minute, you still have each other. Use your imagination and role play that missing third person into your sex.
I have a filthy imagination and I can just see you both in the hotel room. (F) you're tied to the bed, blindfolded and (M) has toys... you get the DP or DVP. Leave (F) tied and call room service... ohhhh imagination is fantastic (in fact it is often better than the threesome would have been )."
absolutely, cupcake, thats why you will very rarely see us complain about it.
have a great time with or without other people involved, and sometimes without each other involved lol
sex, like life, is what you make it.
dont rely on other people to give you the happiness and enjoyment you can give yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread.
Bingo
Oh we gonna have a game , cool not played for ages. Just let me get me dabber "
Fab bingo just for you....
Here's your scorecard, if any of your messages today contain the following words or phrases mark them off til you get a full house...
VWE
Hung
Genuine
Blowjob
Any Luck?
Pics attached
Friendly
'Mmmmm'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread.
Bingo
Oh we gonna have a game , cool not played for ages. Just let me get me dabber
Fab bingo just for you....
Here's your scorecard, if any of your messages today contain the following words or phrases mark them off til you get a full house...
VWE
Hung
Genuine
Blowjob
Any Luck?
Pics attached
Friendly
'Mmmmm'
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I've won already then! Mind you, it a message i sent though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up !
Don't give up. Whatever situation that anyone is looking for here on Fab, there are multiple timewasters. Most timewasters never meet anyone, I suspect. Anything more than a couple of messages, without exchanging a mobile number, screams of a timewaster. Whether its MFM, FMF, 121, Group ... there are always timewasters. Dump them and keep looking. You'll win.
I don't agree - I like to exchange quite a few messages before I meet anyone. It's the way I find out if we are compatable - I don't have sex with just anyone after a couple of messages. Also, some people I message I might not ever meet but they are interesting and friendly people and I like to keep the cyber social aspect of swinging going for me as well as the physical sexual meets. "
Hi Steve, I don't disagree ... its just that I personally find speaking with people far more interesting and enjoyable than exchanging neverending text messages. Its also a far quicker way of finding out about each other and seeing if there is a mutual attraction. Also, its so much easier to say "hey, why don't me meet up socially, and see if we click". It works for me, but I accept that its each to his own way, and I certainly don't denigrate yours |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread."
Spot on and very true... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tried every combination. Fact is its full of people looking for an ego boost with no intention of meeting. It's a shame but until something is fine I'm not throwing more money it. Raise it to £100 life membership and that would get rid if the idiots. Most other sites can't be used unless you pay ... You dan register free but not contact people. "
Except that would also get rid of those of us who are not idiots but couldn't afford that kind of money |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This gets said a lot, and is 1 way to look at it, but another way is that the amount of people on the site that are fantasists or time wasters your bound to hit a rough spell, so ride it out, you get nothing in life easy, persevere and the good times will come. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread.
Spot on and very true..."
I concur....if I posted an attention whore post saying I'm leaving....nobody would give a shiny shite! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Having read ( I appreciate, I don't have to ) hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of these types of posts, I would suggest it may have influenced the behaviours of the people they speak of by 0.0001%
and I am being generous.
I am sure it cleanses the soul though, so fill your boots but please appreciate it achieves nowt but that.
good luck for the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say I'm about done here. It's one time waster after another ... No meets just let downs and after the last moron gave us grief I give up ! "
Well, you seem to have some very good veris? |
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"You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
Good luck!"
Can you explain how meeting a man when they're looking for a bi woman meets their needs as I don't get it. |
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"You state on your profile that you want a single bi female for FFM.
It might be easier if you start with a MMF rather than FFM. It will significantly increase your chances of finding someone here.
How?
There are more that 5 times the amount of single guys than girls the odds speak for themselves
Yup, exactly right!
Yes...so that will increase their chances of meeting a single guy.
But they want to meet a single bi female. How will looking for men for MMF help them do that?"
Thought it was just me! |
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too "
Not just couples though: ego has no gender. Personally I think it's silly announcing you're leaving...especially when you don't! |
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"Don't get these spit the dummy posts. Thousands of people have had thousands of meets. Yes there will be time wasters but why not look for people who've specifically had meets then if it bothers you so much?
Ranting on here about it and giving it the old "it's my ball and I'm going home" nonsense just makes you come across as childish to be honest. If you don't want to use this any more, don't. I get the feeling on here that some couples just expect things to happen as they are couples.
Ok that's my rant too
These type of posts, and their replies usually depend on the sex of the op!
If its a guy, its usually, see ya don't let the door hit you on the way out.
If its a couple, they get a mixed bag of replies, go, or don't go it will get better.
If its a lass, its usually, nooo, please don't go, i'll fuck you anytime!
Just another type of 'look at me' thread."
Indeed! |
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"I don't get the whole timewaster thing. If your getting them surely your selection process needs looking at. "
+1
If there were that many timewasters no one would be getting meets.
Assuming when the OP says timewasters they mean actual timewasters who arrange a meet and don't show...
If it's people changing their mind / cancelling with notice, I don't see them as timewasters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time wasters...tell me about it!
I am tired of endless messages....lets just meet and see if we connect!!
well said too much chat and not enough get up and go"
No No, you got it wrong should be get it up and cum.  |
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do wonder if people who start these type of threads have the same principle when they eg leave a pub..
do they stand up and loudly state 'we are leaving, the beer was piss, no one laughed at our jokes and we had to wait to be served'..
or like most of us do they say bye to friends and just toddle off.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think the fact is that too many couple are wanting the same thing...all wanting a single bi fem,we are the same still looking for the right lady to play with.
think the male half of most of the couples on here arent comfortable with another pair of bollocks swingin about lol thats why they want a girl on her own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do wonder if people who start these type of threads have the same principle when they eg leave a pub..
do they stand up and loudly state 'we are leaving, the beer was piss, no one laughed at our jokes and we had to wait to be served'..
or like most of us do they say bye to friends and just toddle off.."
Yeah, but those people actually leave the pub! Not hang around inside the door for an extra couple days! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do wonder if people who start these type of threads have the same principle when they eg leave a pub..
do they stand up and loudly state 'we are leaving, the beer was piss, no one laughed at our jokes and we had to wait to be served'..
or like most of us do they say bye to friends and just toddle off..
Yeah, but those people actually leave the pub! Not hang around inside the door for an extra couple days! "
The ones hanging around by the door moping get sympathy shags.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do wonder if people who start these type of threads have the same principle when they eg leave a pub..
do they stand up and loudly state 'we are leaving, the beer was piss, no one laughed at our jokes and we had to wait to be served'..
or like most of us do they say bye to friends and just toddle off.."
Exactly!
Oh and they're still here I see. At least they got lots of attention from this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"think the fact is that too many couple are wanting the same thing...all wanting a single bi fem,we are the same still looking for the right lady to play with.
think the male half of most of the couples on here arent comfortable with another pair of bollocks swingin about lol thats why they want a girl on her own "
Actually I think that the male half of "most" couples are perfectly comfortable with the idea of other men. It's true for some but certainly not most.
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