FabSwingers.com
 

FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Not Getting.

Not Getting.

Jump to: Newest in thread

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I sometimes have the same problem. Perseverance is key. Try mailing those who you are interested in with a meet posted.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I sometimes have the same problem. Perseverance is key. Try mailing those who you are interested in with a meet posted. "

I will try that.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cant beleive your saying that no suitable men around...I reckon the ration is around 30 men to 1 woman on here

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do. "

Why not try the Browse function and go looking for them? ... one liners and 'fancy a fuck' messages acceptable from the penised section of society

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cant beleive your saying that no suitable men around...I reckon the ration is around 30 men to 1 woman on here"

I have to agree with the OP, I've got meets for this weekend and had one message

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do. "

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!! "

Well yes i had gathered that not everyones attracted to me, thanks for pointing that out to me anyway.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Cant beleive your saying that no suitable men around...I reckon the ration is around 30 men to 1 woman on here"

Pearls and swine come to mind. When I put up an ad for a meet I get dozens of guys who are no where near my preferences which are very clear on my profile. Obviously they fail to read it.

Now when looking for a meet I look at meet ads for when I want to meet or browse single men. I read both the profile and any verifications before I even consider mailing. It's not difficult.

So, whilst I could easily get a shag any night I wanted, that's not what I'm after. I have to have some potential attraction or I won't get naked. I'm not just a hole to be filled.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I use the browse function as well as putting a meet up. Raises my odds significantly from zero chance to erm, zero chance! But, i do get the pleasure of seeing my messages deleted as well as my meet ignored!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do. "

In fairness, in view of your recent thread where a guy sent along his mate and you never realised I doubt I'm the only forumite to assume that is what you did anyway?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

In fairness, in view of your recent thread where a guy sent along his mate and you never realised I doubt I'm the only forumite to assume that is what you did anyway?"

Yeah, he wasnt bad looking though.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I use the browse function as well as putting a meet up. Raises my odds significantly from zero chance to erm, zero chance! But, i do get the pleasure of seeing my messages deleted as well as my meet ignored! "

Now i am surprised with you being such a laid back funny man.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!! "

Hey but us fems are soooooo entitled to be treated sooooo different to you men don't ya know

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ust a TeaseMan  over a year ago

Earth

Its just one of those things. You could put a meet up next week and get lots of mail.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!! "

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I use the browse function as well as putting a meet up. Raises my odds significantly from zero chance to erm, zero chance! But, i do get the pleasure of seeing my messages deleted as well as my meet ignored!

Now i am surprised with you being such a laid back funny man. "

I'd just settle for the laid!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ohohoWoman  over a year ago

Up North

I put the request up and either wink or message those I am interested in.

Don't wait to be approached.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *eddonistikMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"Cant beleive your saying that no suitable men around...I reckon the ration is around 30 men to 1 woman on here"

But sadly the majority of them are wankers

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Cant beleive your saying that no suitable men around...I reckon the ration is around 30 men to 1 woman on here

But sadly the majority of them are wankers"

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do. "

just persevere and you'll find the right guys

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

just persevere and you'll find the right guys"

Had quite a few interested in coming round the friday just before bank holiday, trouble is most people have to drive about 20 miles to see me usually.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *eddonistikMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

just persevere and you'll find the right guys

Had quite a few interested in coming round the friday just before bank holiday, trouble is most people have to drive about 20 miles to see me usually.

"

That's not that amazingly farShame you're in Southampton and I'm in Manchester, I'd have gone 20 miles for you

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

just persevere and you'll find the right guys

Had quite a few interested in coming round the friday just before bank holiday, trouble is most people have to drive about 20 miles to see me usually.

That's not that amazingly farShame you're in Southampton and I'm in Manchester, I'd have gone 20 miles for you "

Would you, thats nice. Lots of men i am interested in live in places like ireland and manchester, its always the way.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!! "

I totally agree with Obi here!

Men would have been slated for this post!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!!

I totally agree with Obi here!

Men would have been slated for this post! "

ooh well im terribly sorry, how very dare i .

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cant beleive your saying that no suitable men around...I reckon the ration is around 30 men to 1 woman on here"

So well there might be but I also struggle to meet. Mostly weekends and they often cancel which is great to know but sometimes too late to arrange a replacement. Not only that I've more chance of meeting when I'm working at the weekend than when I'm not

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I put the request up and either wink or message those I am interested in.

Don't wait to be approached. "

I tried that approach and just got messed around so shall be more cautious next time or just not bother and spend the weekend chilling with chocolate

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!!

I totally agree with Obi here!

Men would have been slated for this post!

ooh well im terribly sorry, how very dare i . "

Take the moral high ground if you want, but you know it is the truth!!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!!

I totally agree with Obi here!

Men would have been slated for this post!

ooh well im terribly sorry, how very dare i .

Take the moral high ground if you want, but you know it is the truth!! "

Well actualy i just posted this as a bit of a joke, you know, tongue in cheeck sort of thing. Didnt expect people to take it quite so seriously.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *eddonistikMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

just persevere and you'll find the right guys

Had quite a few interested in coming round the friday just before bank holiday, trouble is most people have to drive about 20 miles to see me usually.

That's not that amazingly farShame you're in Southampton and I'm in Manchester, I'd have gone 20 miles for you

Would you, thats nice. Lots of men i am interested in live in places like ireland and manchester, its always the way. "

Sod it, move to Manchester

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!!

I totally agree with Obi here!

Men would have been slated for this post!

ooh well im terribly sorry, how very dare i .

Take the moral high ground if you want, but you know it is the truth!!

Well actualy i just posted this as a bit of a joke, you know, tongue in cheeck sort of thing. Didnt expect people to take it quite so seriously. "

As per previous post made, I am in the doubt camp

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *eddonistikMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!!

I totally agree with Obi here!

Men would have been slated for this post!

ooh well im terribly sorry, how very dare i .

Take the moral high ground if you want, but you know it is the truth!!

Well actualy i just posted this as a bit of a joke, you know, tongue in cheeck sort of thing. Didnt expect people to take it quite so seriously.

As per previous post made, I am in the doubt camp "

She has good veri's, I'm used to the wankers and timewasters, so do have sympathy. As I said if she was up here I'd be contacting her.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

  

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not getting many suitable men interested in my meet for friday, maybe i should just put, anything, anywhere, like they do.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Just a thought!!

Not every guy on here is of the 'any holes a goal' mentality!!

I can imagine this thread going oh so differently had the OP been a single guy!! It would have been full of 'patience', 'it's not instashag' and 'personal preference' comments!!

I totally agree with Obi here!

Men would have been slated for this post!

ooh well im terribly sorry, how very dare i .

Take the moral high ground if you want, but you know it is the truth!!

Well actualy i just posted this as a bit of a joke, you know, tongue in cheeck sort of thing. Didnt expect people to take it quite so seriously.

As per previous post made, I am in the doubt camp

She has good veri's, I'm used to the wankers and timewasters, so do have sympathy. As I said if she was up here I'd be contacting her. "

Yes i think the men who have actualy met me can judge me better than people on the forums.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic

0.1406

0