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"I will admit to not liking it very much either. I hope I don't react childishly but its certainly not my favourite thing in the world" No one does..but doesnt mean you start abusive messages and childish name calling  | |||
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"Aint just men that react like that on here idiots abound both sexes." Well in my personal experience it has been men..... | |||
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"Its not nice being rejected but you got to be a man and accept it it happens to us all." If only they would without dishes out slags, fat, and other lovely names  | |||
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"Move on and keep looking for pussy "Good idea  | |||
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"Move on and keep looking for pussy
Good idea "Is yours free??? | |||
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"i wouldnt take it too seriously if they are young men but i did gett annoyed when an old man called me the c word because old people are supposed to know better, i had deleted his messages because he didnt like it that i didnt answere them straight away." I think the older ones are the worst tbh  | |||
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"Its not nice being rejected but you got to be a man and accept it it happens to us all. If only they would without dishes out slags, fat, and other lovely names " | |||
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"Are you rejecting me??? "Fraid so | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all. The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down."On tap? Really? Lol. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down."Lol its so pathetic | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "It's not only the men that do this! Single females and couples can be just the same! | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "I think you will find most of us do accept it. Just the idiotic minority that resort to ill mannered abuse and childish behaviour. When I was trained as a salesman we were told if you don't ask you don't get but if the answer is no just move on to the next prospect. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down."looks like a win win | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
I think you will find most of us do accept it. Just the idiotic minority that resort to ill mannered abuse and childish behaviour.
When I was trained as a salesman we were told if you don't ask you don't get but if the answer is no just move on to the next prospect."Think you should train these morons lol | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
It's not only the men that do this!
Single females and couples can be just the same! "
Exactly! I was surprised when I got a bit of abuse from a couple before when I said I wasn't interested!
I've been rejected before but I always try as stay positive! Plenty more fish in the sea, and all that! | |||
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"Are you rejecting me???
Fraid so "This is where I move on and keep looking for pussy | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with th eir childish name calling if you dont reply or say no??
Really "Prior to the internet, guys and girlssuffered the dejected walk of rejection, , I along with many others were rejected in a publiic arena, name calling got you no where as others saw and heard, you soon realised that it was nt the end of the world there were and would be others,, come to the internet and the anonymity it provides is the reason for the name calling, delete block move on, theres otjers,,  | |||
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"Aint just men that react like that on here idiots abound both sexes." I agree, | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "How do you define rejection though?? | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
How do you define rejection though??"By saying i dont want to meet or by not replying both are rejection | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
How do you define rejection though??
By saying i dont want to meet or by not replying both are rejection "Not really, if someone doesn't reply to my message , I don't class that as rejection, in fact you can only reject a person if you have met them. Profiles and online conversations don't really define who a person is or what they are like. If I meet someone and they aren't interested I class that as rejection | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
How do you define rejection though??
By saying i dont want to meet or by not replying both are rejection
Not really, if someone doesn't reply to my message , I don't class that as rejection, in fact you can only reject a person if you have met them. Profiles and online conversations don't really define who a person is or what they are like. If I meet someone and they aren't interested I class that as rejection "So whay would you call saying no to meeting someone? | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
How do you define rejection though??
By saying i dont want to meet or by not replying both are rejection
Not really, if someone doesn't reply to my message , I don't class that as rejection, in fact you can only reject a person if you have met them. Profiles and online conversations don't really define who a person is or what they are like. If I meet someone and they aren't interested I class that as rejection
So whay would you call saying no to meeting someone? "I wouldn't call it anything tbh, profiles are mostly bull shit anyway, how can they tell you what a person is really like. I suppose if you refuse to meet someone your rejecting there profile, not the person | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
How do you define rejection though??
By saying i dont want to meet or by not replying both are rejection
Not really, if someone doesn't reply to my message , I don't class that as rejection, in fact you can only reject a person if you have met them. Profiles and online conversations don't really define who a person is or what they are like. If I meet someone and they aren't interested I class that as rejection
So whay would you call saying no to meeting someone?
I wouldn't call it anything tbh, profiles are mostly bull shit anyway, how can they tell you what a person is really like. I suppose if you refuse to meet someone your rejecting there profile, not the person "Well whatever you call it they cant seem to accept it | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
How do you define rejection though??
By saying i dont want to meet or by not replying both are rejection
Not really, if someone doesn't reply to my message , I don't class that as rejection, in fact you can only reject a person if you have met them. Profiles and online conversations don't really define who a person is or what they are like. If I meet someone and they aren't interested I class that as rejection
So whay would you call saying no to meeting someone?
I wouldn't call it anything tbh, profiles are mostly bull shit anyway, how can they tell you what a person is really like. I suppose if you refuse to meet someone your rejecting there profile, not the person
Well whatever you call it they cant seem to accept it "Which is a shame, if they looked at it from my point if _iew they wouldn't get so annoyed | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol."Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol.
Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities."Hahaha | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol.
Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities."Can I ask why?? Obviously his wording sounds pathetic but not all couples get meets you know | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol.
Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities."Was going to ask you to send your plumber up my way to install new taps! | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol.
Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities.
Can I ask why?? Obviously his wording sounds pathetic but not all couples get meets you know "I think she means from eachother | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol.
Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities.
Can I ask why?? Obviously his wording sounds pathetic but not all couples get meets you know
I think she means from eachother "Ah, of course,  | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol.
Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities.
Can I ask why?? Obviously his wording sounds pathetic but not all couples get meets you know "We mean as in us being a couple we have sex. Morning, afternoon or evening. Whenever it takes our fancy. So for him to suggest we don't get any really was idiocy of the highest order. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "Its not just men. Women can be especialy venomous. We had to block emails from couples, because of absolute ***ts who couldn't fathom why they weren't wanted. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol.
Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities.
Can I ask why?? Obviously his wording sounds pathetic but not all couples get meets you know
We mean as in us being a couple we have sex. Morning, afternoon or evening. Whenever it takes our fancy. So for him to suggest we don't get any really was idiocy of the highest order. "I get you now, and your right, he must be a loon | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Its not just men. Women can be especialy venomous. We had to block emails from couples, because of absolute ***ts who couldn't fathom why they weren't wanted."I have had that also, one woman told me she was by far the best shag in here and that I must be gay, which was nice | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Its not just men. Women can be especialy venomous. We had to block emails from couples, because of absolute ***ts who couldn't fathom why they weren't wanted."Am sure they can i have only experienced it with guys tho | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Yesterday we got a tirade of abuse from someone we had the nerve to say no to. I mean how dare we ? Him being a self proffessed sex God and all.
The tool was so dumb he even went as far as saying we will never get any lol. Excuse me, we're a couple and have it on tap unlike the moron we turned down.
On tap? Really? Lol.
Well not quite on tap lol. But to accuse a couple of not getting any sex clearly advertised his mental capabilities.
Can I ask why?? Obviously his wording sounds pathetic but not all couples get meets you know
We mean as in us being a couple we have sex. Morning, afternoon or evening. Whenever it takes our fancy. So for him to suggest we don't get any really was idiocy of the highest order.
I get you now, and your right, he must be a loon "Yep ! A genuine fruit loop. | |||
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"In 5 yrs never once had any abuse from anyone ive said no thanks too,most have been very gracious about it Once ive said no thats the end of it,No further communication is needed If you're getting abuse then once you've said no thanks use your block button,they can't come back at you if you've used that...its simple really" Av only had it a few times mostly when i dont reply at all | |||
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"Rejection is part of the site. Not every one is for everyone! I get knocked back more often than not. It doesn't bother me. Not into name calling, what's the point? Doesn't get you any further. If someone actually bothers to message back with a 'sorry you're not for me', then I just thank them for their reply. Most don't even answer. Always think its polite to answer." That's my eperience on here too, but then I deserve it for being married and on here alone (and old!). I have sent several polite messages this morning and each one was deleted without a reply. Time to throw in the towel? Possibly. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Its not just men. Women can be especialy venomous. We had to block emails from couples, because of absolute ***ts who couldn't fathom why they weren't wanted.
I have had that also, one woman told me she was by far the best shag in here and that I must be gay, which was nice "Oh my god what a sap!!!! Lol some people really love themselves!!! | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Its not just men. Women can be especialy venomous. We had to block emails from couples, because of absolute ***ts who couldn't fathom why they weren't wanted.
I have had that also, one woman told me she was by far the best shag in here and that I must be gay, which was nice "Hahahahaha  | |||
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"In 5 yrs never once had any abuse from anyone ive said no thanks too,most have been very gracious about it Once ive said no thats the end of it,No further communication is needed If you're getting abuse then once you've said no thanks use your block button,they can't come back at you if you've used that...its simple really Av only had it a few times mostly when i dont reply at all " To be honest I don't think it makes a difference whether u reply or not with some people, if they have a bad attitude then they will attack!! Sod 'em | |||
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 ps, I do get more "Yes's" than "No"'s, so that probably explains my pretty relaxed attitude to the occasional "No". Just go with the flow. Some you win, some you lose. | |||
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"I've also had childish reply's from woman and couples after i've told them i dont want to meet. No one likes rejection." whilst we all want to be adored and worshipped,as adults we have to be mature enough to accept that we won't float everyones boat,so even if no one like rejection we should accept rejection gracefully | |||
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"I've also had childish reply's from woman and couples after i've told them i dont want to meet. No one likes rejection. whilst we all want to be adored and worshipped,as adults we have to be mature enough to accept that we won't float everyones boat,so even if no one like rejection we should accept rejection gracefully" This | |||
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"As I said before, I have grown to accept rejection as it happens on a daily basis. What I found harder to accept recently is a local couple that winked at me first and, when I replied positively (thinking this was the one I have been waiting for for ages), they didn't reply and deleted. What's all that about?" remember there are 2 in a couple.. maybe one said yes and another no thanks | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "It is some men not all of us, thank you. and they boys not men if they cannot handle a no thank you. | |||
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"Some guys should be greatful they even get a 'No'!" I reply to all messages, UNLESS the person messaging has clearly not read my profile, ie halfway round the UK, not verified or is of larger build. I always check the senders profile before I look at the message. If they are any of the things my profile states I don't want, I delete without reading. The other day I had this, and deleted the message. I had another message saying "you stuck up c**t "
so I replied " exactly how does you being illiterate and fat result in me being a stuck up c**t?" and then utilised my block button. . . . .
I wonder who came off more annoyed? Lmao. | |||
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"Some guys should be greatful they even get a 'No'! I reply to all messages, UNLESS the person messaging has clearly not read my profile, ie halfway round the UK, not verified or is of larger build. I always check the senders profile before I look at the message. If they are any of the things my profile states I don't want, I delete without reading. The other day I had this, and deleted the message. I had another message saying "you stuck up c**t "
so I replied " exactly how does you being illiterate and fat result in me being a stuck up c**t?" and then utilised my block button. . . . .
I wonder who came off more annoyed? Lmao. "Hahahhaahhaahaha so funny | |||
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"When you think that men outnumber the ladies about 100:1, I'm afraid that some of the guys are going to be unlucky (or the girls are going to be REAL busy lol). As said before, the decent guys just take it on the chin and move on without throwing a hissy fit. "Wish they could see this point of _iew lol | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "Some men are just arrogant/childish and can't handle it that someone has actually said "no" to them. Some men on the other hand have just had so much of it. They don't know how to react anymore. Sometimes they will just give up on asking/trying for meets/ chats with women and some will just lash out verbally. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "In my opinion they aren't men, but boys. If I send a message and it either gets deleted or on the occasion when I get a reply of no thanks, I take it no further, no pestering or trying to convert their thoughts. Just move on, not everyone is going to like what you have to offer, and with the amount of single blokes on here you lucky ladies have the pick of the litter. | |||
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"I has my status the other night saying ' watching QI , not just a pretty face ' all tongue in cheek and someone I had previously met at a social and turned him down sent me a messagwe' Pmsl your so not ' when I asked him what his problem was he said he hadn't a problem, just I wasn't pretty...." How does that make him then lol if not such a pretty face rejected him | |||
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"Some guys should be greatful they even get a 'No'! I reply to all messages, UNLESS the person messaging has clearly not read my profile, ie halfway round the UK, not verified or is of larger build. I always check the senders profile before I look at the message. If they are any of the things my profile states I don't want, I delete without reading. The other day I had this, and deleted the message. I had another message saying "you stuck up c**t "
so I replied " exactly how does you being illiterate and fat result in me being a stuck up c**t?" and then utilised my block button. . . . .
I wonder who came off more annoyed? Lmao.
Hahahhaahhaahaha so funny "Good for you girl x | |||
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"I has my status the other night saying ' watching QI , not just a pretty face ' all tongue in cheek and someone I had previously met at a social and turned him down sent me a messagwe' Pmsl your so not ' when I asked him what his problem was he said he hadn't a problem, just I wasn't pretty.... How does that make him then lol if not such a pretty face rejected him "ha ha wish I had told him he was an ugly so and so before instead of trying to be nice and just saying he wasn't my type ! | |||
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"I has my status the other night saying ' watching QI , not just a pretty face ' all tongue in cheek and someone I had previously met at a social and turned him down sent me a messagwe' Pmsl your so not ' when I asked him what his problem was he said he hadn't a problem, just I wasn't pretty...." Well STAN you certainly have attractive eyes and a lovely smile, boobs look good too I suppose I should now get my coat!!! | |||
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"I has my status the other night saying ' watching QI , not just a pretty face ' all tongue in cheek and someone I had previously met at a social and turned him down sent me a messagwe' Pmsl your so not ' when I asked him what his problem was he said he hadn't a problem, just I wasn't pretty.... How does that make him then lol if not such a pretty face rejected him ha ha wish I had told him he was an ugly so and so before instead of trying to be nice and just saying he wasn't my type !" | |||
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"I has my status the other night saying ' watching QI , not just a pretty face ' all tongue in cheek and someone I had previously met at a social and turned him down sent me a messagwe' Pmsl your so not ' when I asked him what his problem was he said he hadn't a problem, just I wasn't pretty.... Well STAN you certainly have attractive eyes and a lovely smile, boobs look good too I suppose I should now get my coat!!!"Wow a man who has read my profile .. shock horror lol | |||
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"I has my status the other night saying ' watching QI , not just a pretty face ' all tongue in cheek and someone I had previously met at a social and turned him down sent me a messagwe' Pmsl your so not ' when I asked him what his problem was he said he hadn't a problem, just I wasn't pretty.... Well STAN you certainly have attractive eyes and a lovely smile, boobs look good too I suppose I should now get my coat!!!
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"Can i ask what do they say? I know I am more prone to get rejected than others on here, as I have all the wrong 'look' and my height doesn't help either lol. ..sometimes I guess the adults love to be babies. So, what kind of things do they say? "Today i have been a stupid slut a rude bitch a fat disaster of a girl and fat and ugly LOL | |||
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"Can i ask what do they say? I know I am more prone to get rejected than others on here, as I have all the wrong 'look' and my height doesn't help either lol. ..sometimes I guess the adults love to be babies. So, what kind of things do they say?
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Today i have been a stupid slut a rude bitch a fat disaster of a girl and fat and ugly LOL "A lot of blind idiots on here then. | |||
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"Rejection is part and parcel of swinging....no one will appeal to everyone. I don't imagine that anyone really enjoys it. Just some people (men and women) take it better than others. " Exactly. And the workd keeps spinning | |||
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"Aint just men that react like that on here idiots abound both sexes. Well in my personal experience it has been men..... "well, tbf, seeing as you are only looking for men, the cross section of sample you have is somewhat limited. yes, it can be all groups that get offended, and offensive, when you say thanks but no thanks, not just men. in fact, we have found the last few blokes we have said no thanks to have actually been very polite. | |||
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"Aint just men that react like that on here idiots abound both sexes. Well in my personal experience it has been men.....
well, tbf, seeing as you are only looking for men, the cross section of sample you have is somewhat limited.
yes, it can be all groups that get offended, and offensive, when you say thanks but no thanks, not just men. in fact, we have found the last few blokes we have said no thanks to have actually been very polite."Im not just looking for men looking for females mostly | |||
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"I've also had childish reply's from woman and couples after i've told them i dont want to meet. No one likes rejection. whilst we all want to be adored and worshipped,as adults we have to be mature enough to accept that we won't float everyones boat,so even if no one like rejection we should accept rejection gracefully" Some more than most | |||
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"Aint just men that react like that on here idiots abound both sexes. Well in my personal experience it has been men.....
well, tbf, seeing as you are only looking for men, the cross section of sample you have is somewhat limited.
yes, it can be all groups that get offended, and offensive, when you say thanks but no thanks, not just men. in fact, we have found the last few blokes we have said no thanks to have actually been very polite.
Im not just looking for men looking for females mostly "in which case, set your message filters correctly and you will no longer get messages from men | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "Most of us can, it's just that small majority can't and therefore give the rest of us a bad name. Just use the delete and block buttons and quietly move on with your life | |||
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"Aint just men that react like that on here idiots abound both sexes. Well in my personal experience it has been men.....
well, tbf, seeing as you are only looking for men, the cross section of sample you have is somewhat limited.
yes, it can be all groups that get offended, and offensive, when you say thanks but no thanks, not just men. in fact, we have found the last few blokes we have said no thanks to have actually been very polite.
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in which case, set your message filters correctly and you will no longer get messages from men"So i have to block all men?? Just coz a prob wont meet guys doesnt mean i have to block them all does it | |||
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"Aint just men that react like that on here idiots abound both sexes. Well in my personal experience it has been men.....
well, tbf, seeing as you are only looking for men, the cross section of sample you have is somewhat limited.
yes, it can be all groups that get offended, and offensive, when you say thanks but no thanks, not just men. in fact, we have found the last few blokes we have said no thanks to have actually been very polite.
Im not just looking for men looking for females mostly
in which case, set your message filters correctly and you will no longer get messages from men
So i have to block all men?? Just coz a prob wont meet guys doesnt mean i have to block them all does it "no, but it would stop you getting messages off the ones that get aggressive. appreciate you may like the atention that getting messages of single guys gives you, but if you have no intention of meeting any then its really not a problem if you do block them, surely? | |||
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"Our way of saying no is firstly to say thanks for getting in touch but then say we already have too many regular partners to party with and are not looking for any more at the moment. It is not necessarily true. That seems to go down better than saying "you have a face like a bull dog chewing a wasp & even if you were the last man on the planet etc" " that just leaves you open to getting repeat messages tho. I'd rather just be honest. My reply is a non specific 'thanks, but you're not for me' message. Occasionally I will be asked why, to which I reply I do not have to explain my choices. Very occasionally I will get an abusive message back. Most either are thankful for the reply, or just delete. | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "Because to put it bluntly they think if your on here then you will service anyone including them . The minute this proves not to be true the sycophant mask slips and there true feeling about women who use these sites surface . Hence the name calling starts a case of be nice to women on a sex site even though you don't really respect her for being here as long as you may get sex..( sorry don't shot the messenger over this fact about how some guys _iew things ) the minute that's not the case speak your mind express your true thoughts on women who use these sites . I'm sorry but its true its not there pride being hurt or any other cod wash its purely a case of they never respected you from the word go so when you turn them down they tell you there true thoughts for the first in there dealings with you as sex is now off the table . | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
Because to put it bluntly they think if your on here then you will service anyone including them .
The minute this proves not to be true the sycophant mask slips and there true feeling about women who use these sites surface .
Hence the name calling starts a case of be nice to women on a sex site even though you don't really respect her for being here as long as you may get sex..( sorry don't shot the messenger over this fact about how some guys _iew things )
the minute that's not the case speak your mind express your true thoughts on women who use these sites .
I'm sorry but its true its not there pride being hurt or any other cod wash its purely a case of they never respected you from the word go so when you turn them down they tell you there true thoughts for the first in there dealings with you as sex is now off the table . "Lol thats a good explanation into a guys mind | |||
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"I would much rather have a message saying no thanks than just have a message deleted.Its a courtesy thing and yes there is room for it on swinger site. Not everyone can be attracted to everyone eitehr physically or mentally and we all need to accept that, so no one should mind being rejected politely should they?" Well said. | |||
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"I would much rather have a message saying no thanks than just have a message deleted.Its a courtesy thing and yes there is room for it on swinger site. Not everyone can be attracted to everyone eitehr physically or mentally and we all need to accept that, so no one should mind being rejected politely should they? Well said." My thoughts exactly, as courtesy costs nothing. But the argument that is flung back at this is that the ladies are inundated with messages. Most of mine are sent to couples though, so that one doesn't wash either. | |||
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"I would much rather have a message saying no thanks than just have a message deleted.Its a courtesy thing and yes there is room for it on swinger site. Not everyone can be attracted to everyone eitehr physically or mentally and we all need to accept that, so no one should mind being rejected politely should they? Well said. My thoughts exactly, as courtesy costs nothing. But the argument that is flung back at this is that the ladies are inundated with messages. Most of mine are sent to couples though, so that one doesn't wash either." Too bad if no one likes it....if u reply u then get half of them askin why or tryin to convince you otherwise..so not replyin is a simple solution.. | |||
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"I would much rather have a message saying no thanks than just have a message deleted.Its a courtesy thing and yes there is room for it on swinger site. Not everyone can be attracted to everyone eitehr physically or mentally and we all need to accept that, so no one should mind being rejected politely should they? Well said. My thoughts exactly, as courtesy costs nothing. But the argument that is flung back at this is that the ladies are inundated with messages. Most of mine are sent to couples though, so that one doesn't wash either. Too bad if no one likes it....if u reply u then get half of them askin why or tryin to convince you otherwise..so not replyin is a simple solution.. "I can only speak for myself but, if I get a reply saying no thanks, I will send a reply back thanking them for having the courtesy of replying (as so many don't). I have never, and will never, resorted to rudeness as I am very well aware I am not everyone's cup of tea, quite the opposite. | |||
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"I would much rather have a message saying no thanks than just have a message deleted.Its a courtesy thing and yes there is room for it on swinger site. Not everyone can be attracted to everyone eitehr physically or mentally and we all need to accept that, so no one should mind being rejected politely should they? Well said. My thoughts exactly, as courtesy costs nothing. But the argument that is flung back at this is that the ladies are inundated with messages. Most of mine are sent to couples though, so that one doesn't wash either. Too bad if no one likes it....if u reply u then get half of them askin why or tryin to convince you otherwise..so not replyin is a simple solution..
I can only speak for myself but, if I get a reply saying no thanks, I will send a reply back thanking them for having the courtesy of replying (as so many don't). I have never, and will never, resorted to rudeness as I am very well aware I am not everyone's cup of tea, quite the opposite."And im sure there are others like you but there is a lot that jus then continue to hassle you and obviously i am not able to tell which category the guy is gona come into so to save hassle then its easier just not to reply..because if they had the decency to read my profile in the first place they shouldnt be sendin a message askin to meet me so i also get pissed off at lack of people readin my profile as it states clearly what im after | |||
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"I would much rather have a message saying no thanks than just have a message deleted.Its a courtesy thing and yes there is room for it on swinger site. Not everyone can be attracted to everyone eitehr physically or mentally and we all need to accept that, so no one should mind being rejected politely should they? Well said. My thoughts exactly, as courtesy costs nothing. But the argument that is flung back at this is that the ladies are inundated with messages. Most of mine are sent to couples though, so that one doesn't wash either. Too bad if no one likes it....if u reply u then get half of them askin why or tryin to convince you otherwise..so not replyin is a simple solution.. "I'll take it as I am not their type physically or personality wise. If a bloke walked up to you and started a conversation. You wouldn't just walk off would you. You probably hear him out and say no thanks. If someone just deletes their message. I'll just consider them as rude and not bother with them again. So I won't go out sending insults as they aren't worth it. | |||
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"I would much rather have a message saying no thanks than just have a message deleted.Its a courtesy thing and yes there is room for it on swinger site. Not everyone can be attracted to everyone eitehr physically or mentally and we all need to accept that, so no one should mind being rejected politely should they? Well said. My thoughts exactly, as courtesy costs nothing. But the argument that is flung back at this is that the ladies are inundated with messages. Most of mine are sent to couples though, so that one doesn't wash either. Too bad if no one likes it....if u reply u then get half of them askin why or tryin to convince you otherwise..so not replyin is a simple solution..
I'll take it as I am not their type physically or personality wise. If a bloke walked up to you and started a conversation. You wouldn't just walk off would you. You probably hear him out and say no thanks. If someone just deletes their message. I'll just consider them as rude and not bother with them again. So I won't go out sending insults as they aren't worth it. "Why are they rude for not replying to your message? | |||
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" Why are they rude for not replying to your message? Some folk use Fab in the exact same way as they use their cars, hidden behind the windscreen or the computer screen some folk act in a manner they would never do in a face to face situation. No reply may well signify no interest but its no less rude than much of what goes on on our roads on a day to day basis "Looks like im rude then | |||
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Looks like im rude then "And may i add.....95% of messages i recieve are some creep askin if i fancy a meet..without as much even sayin hello..so why should i take time to reply to that..if someone said to me in the street fancy sex..damn right i would walk away | |||
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"Use your filters, block all guys, then do some legwork and search for the ones that take your fancy and send the initial message." I dont search anyone on here actually have no idea how to do it properly haha | |||
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"Use your filters, block all guys, then do some legwork and search for the ones that take your fancy and send the initial message. I dont search anyone on here actually have no idea how to do it properly haha "Click the browse tab. A whole load of options to choose from including distance from you, age bracket, preferences, and via the advanced search, you can filter out non verified people, newbies, etc. | |||
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" Why are they rude for not replying to your message? Some folk use Fab in the exact same way as they use their cars, hidden behind the windscreen or the computer screen some folk act in a manner they would never do in a face to face situation. No reply may well signify no interest but its no less rude than much of what goes on on our roads on a day to day basis
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"ye a reply saying no is better than just deleting at least u know they read it rather than mass deleting" Why should I reply to someone who clearly hasn't read my profile ? I will however reply to men who have taken the time to read it even ift I am saying no thank you | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "There is a bigger percentage of women who can't handle rejection and take the hump trust me on that. The bitchiness is fueled by the over inflated egos they get on here. Granted its still only a small percentage maybe 5% but thats probably twice as many as a percentage as men. | |||
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"If a man sends a message to someone outside the age range, or obviously not meeting the wanted critreia in someones profile they don't deserve a reply. But if you read the profile, match the criteria and send a well constructed message, not a one liner, you deserve a reply. Its called couretsy and politeness which is lacking more and more on here." Yeah, that sounds fair enough. Even if it is a polite no thank you, god knows I've sent enough of them to men who fancy a shot. | |||
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"We had a shitty message last week when a guy realised after sending 3 or 4 messages that we weren't interested in him attending our party we were holding. So then he's messaging calling us rude fucking bastards for not replying. I thought I was being polite. I should have replied after message one saying "no you're not coming because you're an ugly minging bastard" but hey ho you just can't win all of them "Las nyt i was called sexy, 10 mins later i became fat and hacket
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really "Rejection always "hurts" but my life will always go on. I would never resort to name calling or snivelling. What's the point of it? Xx | |||
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"Why is it that "men" on here cant seem to handle rejection? Start with their childish name calling if you dont reply or say no?? Really
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