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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lots of guys like to workout as a means of improving their strength, fitness and overall physique, but in various fitness discussions I've often read women say things along the lines of
'I like a man who's toned but not too muscular'
What is too muscular?
'I go for guys with strong legs and big hairy chests'
I'd imagine this person probably wouldn't have the toned six pack look, probably more of a Rugby type build.
What athlete/actor/celebrity would women define as having the ideal male physique? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"David Beckham 
Hmmm, bit more than that for my taste - more swimmers, sprinters and rowers than 5000mtr types, I'm into shoulders."
So a Michael Phelps type? The mans shoulders are so broad I'm sure he has to turn sideways to walk through a door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not too fussy, any shape as long as he is tied to my bondage table, with an errection..simples.
Beauty and physique is only a light switch away, sex starts between the ears and works down.
If you are bothered about shape, colour, size, age you obviously need some help.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have nothin to say really just postin the vain hope someone will say me.im goin to change my name to shallow hal.seen as im here ill say there is no ideal male physique.women like dif things."
your pretty close to mine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"there is no ideal male physique.women like dif things."
They do, but at the same time, I'm sure there are certain qualities in a male physique that the majority of women are attracted to, and the physique that possesses the most of them is what would be defined as 'ideal'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No ideal type for me either - as it is the whole package I am interested in.
I don't like overweight men or too muscular.
I like to see definition but when a guys arms are wider than me it is off putting. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"I have nothin to say really just postin the vain hope someone will say me.im goin to change my name to shallow hal.seen as im here ill say there is no ideal male physique.women like dif things.
your pretty close to mine "
Thank u.wish I was close to u.ur my ideal body type hun.I adore curvy girls mmmm |
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I like big thighs but only on certain people it doesn't look right on everyone.
I see allsorts at the gym, big muscles don't suit some people they just look silly, I've been with various size blokes from slim to very big (muscular), to be honest a guys physique isn't what attracts me to him in the first place. There are a few things that would put me off but I can't think of a specific physique I like. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"David Beckham is very fit I agree 
Daniel Craig is more my taste  "
Daniel craig in bond or in girl with dragon tattoo.very different bodies.if ur a gym goer guys bodies change all the time.iv put on over a stone in last month and prob put on bout a stone more before im finished.depends on type of trainin ur doin |
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"iv put on over a stone in last month and prob put on bout a stone more before im finished.depends on type of trainin ur doin"
If you gained a stone in a month that would be more down to what you were eating rather than your training - a man who can gain a stone of muscle in a couple of YEARS has done exceptionally well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"David Beckham is very fit I agree
Daniel Craig is more my taste
Daniel craig in bond or in girl with dragon tattoo.very different bodies.if ur a gym goer guys bodies change all the time.iv put on over a stone in last month and prob put on bout a stone more before im finished.depends on type of trainin ur doin"
I don't think his head fits his body!! 
He looks like a frankinbond!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If only there was one type of body women like it would make life so easy lol. I think women can appreciate a good body or hard work put into it, but still not fancy the person. But its seems David Beckham is getting some major love on this thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of guys like to workout as a means of improving their strength, fitness and overall physique, but in various fitness discussions I've often read women say things along the lines of
'I like a man who's toned but not too muscular'
What is too muscular?
'I go for guys with strong legs and big hairy chests'
I'd imagine this person probably wouldn't have the toned six pack look, probably more of a Rugby type build.
What athlete/actor/celebrity would women define as having the ideal male physique?"
Bradley cooper........
great bod and a fantastic sexy "come hither" smile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nik likes muscles,big but lean and tall .
We ask for athletic/muscular men when we want meets.you would be amazed at what some men consider muscular.
We had a meet last night and he was a big man.I'm not small 6'-2 or 3 and 100kg but he was bigger than me.
She considers the Olympia guys over muscled but regular competition bbuilders are fine.
She thinks Arnold in his prime is perfect shape for a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stone Cold Steve Austin...Mmmmmm....I love big upper bodies and thighs...yip, that'll do for me, I may be tiny but I am a handful!  "
I'll open a can of whoop ass on u lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tom Hardy!
Although to be fair in the 'real world' I'd go for a little less muscles than he has. "
I should add thats based on him in the film Warrior, his every day body is perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as I find them attractive that's good, however I would not kick guy Martin or cal crutchlow out of bed, even better if I had just taken their leathers off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think a mans physique is that important, as long as your confidant and happy in your own skin that's what counts "
It is though,this is a site based on looks.you can dress it up as much as you want but if there s someone you don't find attractive you aint going to fuck them.
Nik doesn't find fat men or pencil necks attractive so all the coffee in columbia aint going to get her to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think a mans physique is that important, as long as your confidant and happy in your own skin that's what counts
It is though,this is a site based on looks.you can dress it up as much as you want but if there s someone you don't find attractive you aint going to fuck them.
Nik doesn't find fat men or pencil necks attractive so all the coffee in columbia aint going to get her to meet them."
Totally agree, if looks don't play any part then you are fucking someone just because you can or for the sake of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...the idea body type which i am going for is more of a broad shoulders, a muscular back and tree trunk thighs and cute bum lol.
I dont think i can get full on abs again. Those days are over i think  |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Nik likes muscles,big but lean and tall .
We ask for athletic/muscular men when we want meets.you would be amazed at what some men consider muscular.
We had a meet last night and he was a big man.I'm not small 6'-2 or 3 and 100kg but he was bigger than me.
She considers the Olympia guys over muscled but regular competition bbuilders are fine.
She thinks Arnold in his prime is perfect shape for a man."
Arnie in his prime was the best body ever.monster arms chest n shoulders n tiny waist.unfortunetly was done with the help of steroids so mayb shudnt b held up as the ideal. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nik likes muscles,big but lean and tall .
We ask for athletic/muscular men when we want meets.you would be amazed at what some men consider muscular.
We had a meet last night and he was a big man.I'm not small 6'-2 or 3 and 100kg but he was bigger than me.
She considers the Olympia guys over muscled but regular competition bbuilders are fine.
She thinks Arnold in his prime is perfect shape for a man.
Arnie in his prime was the best body ever.monster arms chest n shoulders n tiny waist.unfortunetly was done with the help of steroids so mayb shudnt b held up as the ideal."
That's the one. Its true that he looked great, but I've read accounts saying that he was using steroids right from his very first workout when he was just 16. In order to see what the highest amount of muscle a man can naturally attain is, I only look up to bodybuilders from the 40s and before, prior to the availability of steroids. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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There's no ideal for me either. I like different features, on different people, for different reasons.
Most women seem to like men with hairy chests. I prefer minimal body hair.
I like toned in general but there's no particular perfect example for me.
I like men with a brain, an imagination, an adventurous streak and a sense of humour too.
Not asking much (esp. for a fat bird) eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't try to be what you think everyone else wants you to be! Just be what "you" want you to be!! Not matter what Shape you are you will not please everyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of guys like to workout as a means of improving their strength, fitness and overall physique, but in various fitness discussions I've often read women say things along the lines of
'I like a man who's toned but not too muscular'
What is too muscular?
'I go for guys with strong legs and big hairy chests'
I'd imagine this person probably wouldn't have the toned six pack look, probably more of a Rugby type build.
What athlete/actor/celebrity would women define as having the ideal male physique?"
Yours!! Jeez I'm smooth today!! |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Nik likes muscles,big but lean and tall .
We ask for athletic/muscular men when we want meets.you would be amazed at what some men consider muscular.
We had a meet last night and he was a big man.I'm not small 6'-2 or 3 and 100kg but he was bigger than me.
She considers the Olympia guys over muscled but regular competition bbuilders are fine.
She thinks Arnold in his prime is perfect shape for a man.
Arnie in his prime was the best body ever.monster arms chest n shoulders n tiny waist.unfortunetly was done with the help of steroids so mayb shudnt b held up as the ideal.
That's the one. Its true that he looked great, but I've read accounts saying that he was using steroids right from his very first workout when he was just 16. In order to see what the highest amount of muscle a man can naturally attain is, I only look up to bodybuilders from the 40s and before, prior to the availability of steroids."
But thats not takin in new training methods and supplements.just look bow much other sports has come on like running.there wasnt even whey protein in 40s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What athlete/actor/celebrity would women define as having the ideal male physique?
Yours!! Jeez I'm smooth today!!"
Thankyou, and so am I - hot shower and a fresh razor x
"In order to see what the highest amount of muscle a man can naturally attain is, I only look up to bodybuilders from the 40s and before, prior to the availability of steroids.
But thats not takin in new training methods and supplements.just look bow much other sports has come on like running.there wasnt even whey protein in 40s"
Read up on them sometime and you'll find that most experts agree that protein aside (though old time bodybuilders would have gotten plenty of that anyway), most supplements are crap and have little to no benefit to any lifter who uses them.
You build your muscles by eating well, lifting heavy and getting plenty of rest after - the old timers knew this and its no different today, modern fancy training methods, rather like supplements offer no improvement upon that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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.not many women are in to the body building physique it would seem. Now that is a perfect body.
I love female bodybuilders. Still trying to find one near me lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What athlete/actor/celebrity would women define as having the ideal male physique?
Yours!! Jeez I'm smooth today!!
Thankyou, and so am I - hot shower and a fresh razor x
Yummy!!x
In order to see what the highest amount of muscle a man can naturally attain is, I only look up to bodybuilders from the 40s and before, prior to the availability of steroids.
But thats not takin in new training methods and supplements.just look bow much other sports has come on like running.there wasnt even whey protein in 40s
Read up on them sometime and you'll find that most experts agree that protein aside (though old time bodybuilders would have gotten plenty of that anyway), most supplements are crap and have little to no benefit to any lifter who uses them.
You build your muscles by eating well, lifting heavy and getting plenty of rest after - the old timers knew this and its no different today, modern fancy training methods, rather like supplements offer no improvement upon that."
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"What athlete/actor/celebrity would women define as having the ideal male physique?
Yours!! Jeez I'm smooth today!!
Thankyou, and so am I - hot shower and a fresh razor x
In order to see what the highest amount of muscle a man can naturally attain is, I only look up to bodybuilders from the 40s and before, prior to the availability of steroids.
But thats not takin in new training methods and supplements.just look bow much other sports has come on like running.there wasnt even whey protein in 40s
Read up on them sometime and you'll find that most experts agree that protein aside (though old time bodybuilders would have gotten plenty of that anyway), most supplements are crap and have little to no benefit to any lifter who uses them.
You build your muscles by eating well, lifting heavy and getting plenty of rest after - the old timers knew this and its no different today, modern fancy training methods, rather like supplements offer no improvement upon that."
Like I said earlier I have put on over a stone in a month.that wudnt have been possible in the 40s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What athlete/actor/celebrity would women define as having the ideal male physique?
Yours!! Jeez I'm smooth today!!
Thankyou, and so am I - hot shower and a fresh razor x
In order to see what the highest amount of muscle a man can naturally attain is, I only look up to bodybuilders from the 40s and before, prior to the availability of steroids.
But thats not takin in new training methods and supplements.just look bow much other sports has come on like running.there wasnt even whey protein in 40s
Read up on them sometime and you'll find that most experts agree that protein aside (though old time bodybuilders would have gotten plenty of that anyway), most supplements are crap and have little to no benefit to any lifter who uses them.
You build your muscles by eating well, lifting heavy and getting plenty of rest after - the old timers knew this and its no different today, modern fancy training methods, rather like supplements offer no improvement upon that.
Like I said earlier I have put on over a stone in a month.that wudnt have been possible in the 40s"
And I already called you on it further up:
'If you gained a stone in a month that would be more down to what you were eating rather than your training - a man who can gain a stone of muscle in a couple of YEARS has done exceptionally well' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A stone in a month is nothing but water
All the golden era bb's were on dianbol ect.so what,they looked fecking amazing.
The fitness model blokes are a decent size,like body builders but smaller proportions |
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I used to be far more "ripped" than I am now but I didn't like it. I'm toned and have 6-pack etc but sometimes people go too far and it looks awful. I think each to their own. I know a lot of girls that genuinely don't like muscles on guys. |
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"I used to be far more "ripped" than I am now but I didn't like it. I'm toned and have 6-pack etc but sometimes people go too far and it looks awful. I think each to their own. I know a lot of girls that genuinely don't like muscles on guys."
I'll assume you're referring to the pro bodybuilder types who have skin like tanned cellophane with veins and muscles popping out all over the place. Naturally, most people who attempt to get that kind of definition will end up tiny as a result, as the body cannot maintain much in the way of muscle mass without a reasonable amount of fat providing the energy reserves to support it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do not like gents that resemble a sag of potatoes, as in lumpy all over the place.
Therefore, not keen on body builders, sorry!
Those who make it to the covers of Men's Health look as if they try too hard, and I suspect they would not miss a single opportunity to admire their own reflections.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I happen to work in a completely female dominated environment and most of my colleagues say that they prefer this and that (usually, tall, toned etc) but they have married guys that are completely the opposite lol Jus because people fantasise about specific characteristics, doesn't mean that's all they find attractive |
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I've been considering this and if it's down to 'ideal' then for me, I would say I'm attracted to men who are a slightly improved versions of themselves. Someone who keeps the beer belly away, doesn't fake tan or shave all over and cares enough to clean his shoes. |
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"I've been considering this and if it's down to 'ideal' then for me, I would say I'm attracted to men who are a slightly improved versions of themselves. Someone who keeps the beer belly away, doesn't fake tan or shave all over and cares enough to clean his shoes."
working on it...if I carries on, I'll reach that within the next two or so months |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thus far it seems that most women would define the ideal male physique as simply being one that looks fit, strong and healthy rather than the muscle pumped ideal so often sold by the media. |
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"Thus far it seems that most women would define the ideal male physique as simply being one that looks fit, strong and healthy rather than the muscle pumped ideal so often sold by the media."
Yup, strong looking, not pumped - no bulging muscle man boobs wanted IMO! |
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I don't know if there is an ideal, because I don't think perfection exists nor does prolonged satisfaction, at least in my eyes.
I don't think I'd ever be satisfied, or anyone would be for that matter, because we'd always see imperfections in ourselves somewhere, or atleast that's just my take, but shit, if I HAD To pick a body I'd take off the bat, it'd be the body of Chris Hemsworth. |
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"I don't know if there is an ideal, because I don't think perfection exists nor does prolonged satisfaction, at least in my eyes.
I don't think I'd ever be satisfied, or anyone would be for that matter, because we'd always see imperfections in ourselves somewhere, or atleast that's just my take, but shit, if I HAD To pick a body I'd take off the bat, it'd be the body of Chris Hemsworth."
Hmm, I'd settle for that
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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It depends on the person & their frame, John hates his size because he reckons he looks like a bouncer lol!
Being a 6'3" with a 50" chest & a 36" waist he is a large guy but when people meet him they say he should put average because he is not large but at that size he is.
Its the frame of people & how they carry their weight that catches how eyes not the "this is how they should be" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know if there is an ideal, because I don't think perfection exists nor does prolonged satisfaction, at least in my eyes.
I don't think I'd ever be satisfied, or anyone would be for that matter, because we'd always see imperfections in ourselves somewhere, or atleast that's just my take, but shit, if I HAD To pick a body I'd take off the bat, it'd be the body of Chris Hemsworth.
Hmm, I'd settle for that
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to be far more "ripped" than I am now but I didn't like it. I'm toned and have 6-pack etc but sometimes people go too far and it looks awful. I think each to their own. I know a lot of girls that genuinely don't like muscles on guys.
I'll assume you're referring to the pro bodybuilder types who have skin like tanned cellophane with veins and muscles popping out all over the place. Naturally, most people who attempt to get that kind of definition will end up tiny as a result, as the body cannot maintain much in the way of muscle mass without a reasonable amount of fat providing the energy reserves to support it."
Yup. I wasn't that bad but getting there , now I'm more lean, defined and toned and still have the 6-pack. Result |
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"if I HAD To pick a body I'd take off the bat, it'd be the body of Chris Hemsworth."
Having seen his physique prior to Thor, I'd seriously question whether or not he's natural. |
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"Lots of guys like to workout as a means of improving their strength, fitness and overall physique, but in various fitness discussions I've often read women say things along the lines of
'I like a man who's toned but not too muscular'
What is too muscular?
'I go for guys with strong legs and big hairy chests'
I'd imagine this person probably wouldn't have the toned six pack look, probably more of a Rugby type build.
What athlete/actor/celebrity would women define as having the ideal male physique?"
For me it's tall lean with angular bone structure. I will have to Google for a while to find someone you might know who has this look . See you in a few hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not too fussy, any shape as long as he is tied to my bondage table, with an errection..simples.
Beauty and physique is only a light switch away, sex starts between the ears and works down.
If you are bothered about shape, colour, size, age you obviously need some help. "
you have a bondage table! |
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