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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab?
Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind
Yep - Dr Sheldon Cooper floats my boat "
And I thought it was just me!
Yes... Combine smarts and funny and I'm in 7th heaven! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive?"
I like to talk about stuff. Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive?
I like to talk about stuff. Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time! "
I suppose I should have specified 'that you find SEXUALLY attractive' - I'm sure there are plenty of people you could hold a good conversation with, but that doesn't mean they're going to turn you on in the bedroom. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive?
I like to talk about stuff. Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time!
I suppose I should have specified 'that you find SEXUALLY attractive' - I'm sure there are plenty of people you could hold a good conversation with, but that doesn't mean they're going to turn you on in the bedroom."
I am more attracted to people with enquiring minds. He still has to fall within my (incredibly varied) type physically, but a repeat meet will be more likely if he has entertained my mind as well as my body (and feels the same way about me of course!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Very much so, yes. I love to be surprised and stimulated by a quirky, inventive, inquisitive, playful, mind.
I don't understand people who say, "I don't know what that means" on an online forum. You're ONLINE! Wiki it!  |
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive?"
"It's another whole area I can be stimulated and thrilled in - someone with a really sharp mind can stimulate mine!! Was talking about it with an eloquent friend once and he is happy for me to quote him:
"You want the full package, headfuck and all
Mind making the body do wonderful things
Satisfied mentally too
Swimming in a mutually nice headspace
Well, it should be fluid - gets your neurons racing
Nothing beats it
Flesh is limited
Needs to be a mix of sensuality
And intellectual interest
That makes you tingle from tip to toe"
Hmmmm!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like smart and witty gents that have a good imagination, a variety of interests and well-travelled.
However, peeps who are too intense and not capable of small talks who would steer nearly every conversation to be about himself would bore me to tears.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time!
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Been there, done that too!    "
Same, sometimes the depth of the conversations I have during meets sort of gets us side tracked from the possibility of actually having sex - I remember one time I got discussing with a woman the formation of the grand canyon  |
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"Very much so, yes. I love to be surprised and stimulated by a quirky, inventive, inquisitive, playful, mind.
I don't understand people who say, "I don't know what that means" on an online forum. You're ONLINE! Wiki it! "
I didn't know what it meant until I googled it and now I do. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Very much so, yes. I love to be surprised and stimulated by a quirky, inventive, inquisitive, playful, mind.
I don't understand people who say, "I don't know what that means" on an online forum. You're ONLINE! Wiki it!
I didn't know what it meant until I googled it and now I do. "
And now you have a new word to woo women with. Its a winner all round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can get physically aroused by unexpected turns of phrases or surprising verbal injections into conversations.
Very much so indeed
If the utterer of such turn-ons happens to have the physical stimuli that appeal to me anyway, then Nirvana awaits just after the next turn-off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive?"
because with intelligence comes sex appeal & if you can get inside a peron's mind then they can let go completely & the enjoyment is so much more. But it takes an intelligent person to realise that the mind/brain is the biggest & best sex organ. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yep, id fuck a nerd "
Shame I'm a geek
And yup intelligence is very sexy.....if you can make an intellectual connection over drinks everything else just flows (and ignites from previous experience ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've read that physical sex appeal between men and women is largely based upon characteristics that are deemed beneficial for survival - for example, a man with broad shoulders, a square jaw and strong muscles implying his ability to hunt, fight and protect his family, and a womans wide hips and full boobs suggesting her to be a healthy mother.
Humans are a little more sophisticated than just that though, we live in family units and social communities where a strong sense of reason and diplomacy is needed to keep things running smoothly, and this is where I believe the attraction to intelligence comes from, someone who has the ability to exist effectively within a unit, and can solve problems with their mind and not just through force. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab?
Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind"
I bet you have been dying to use that word in a forum!
I prefer my men dumb and hung! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i am supposed to be intelligent, lol.
weird mix of logical and creative, so i fix computers as a career, and write music and books as a hobby. Music is terrible and god knows what people will think of the book, lol.
I am a knowledge junkie, and can even nearly understand quantum physics.
of course i still cannot program my video recorder, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab?
Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind
Yep - Dr Sheldon Cooper floats my boat
And I thought it was just me!
Yes... Combine smarts and funny and I'm in 7th heaven!"
How about smarts and funny looking?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Very patronising of you to post a topic with a word,(Sapiophile),which many people in general don't know the meaning of!! This is a swinging/sex site, not Mastermind auditions!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very patronising of you to post a topic with a word,(Sapiophile),which many people in general don't know the meaning of!! This is a swinging/sex site, not Mastermind auditions!!!! "
See, and that makes the difference. I will look up on new things, no matter where I encountered them. If it doesn't blow your frock up - skip the thread. Some folk enjoy being enlightened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My first reaction after Googling the word was to post something in the line of invert snobbery being rift on FAB, and I decided against it.
Good to see some peeps confirming what I already know, again!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'ENLIGHTEND'!! Don't make me laugh, this isn't the Open University!!"
Can't make her mind up whether this is irony or an oxymoron.
Confuddled.
Please assist.
Sorry, Angel, you are not a Sapiophile.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very patronising of you to post a topic with a word,(Sapiophile),which many people in general don't know the meaning of!! This is a swinging/sex site, not Mastermind auditions!!!! "
so you mean because you don't understand it, the OP is patronising? But still felt the need to read the thread and say that?
Careful guys, if a word is too long, not used in everyday conversation and not in the Oxford children's dictionary, you will clearly be seen to patronise other users.
Let's hope I never have any reason to use antidisestablishmentarianism |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Omw.... Should we revert to text talk to help those who do not understand, to understand...?
I am a bit jumped up my own arse, I will admit, but I would rather that than be a pompous arse.
I'm not looking for mastermind types, but some conversation does go along way
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh, I case you do not want to google this...omw = oh my word
(Goes back to ironing after suggesting this thread might be better suited to the fantasy board..)
Smirks |
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"Can you give me an example of a conversation beween 2 sapiophiles? "
Well during this week alone, i was delightfully introduced to the Meaning of Liff by a lady on here. Amongst other subjects. Further along, we discussed the meaning and origins of names, specifically related to my country of origin.
I've always enjoyed learning, so these were great moments for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find it quite remarkable that because someone is seeking a particular type of person, one or two of those that it doesn't include or have no idea of the meaning call it patronising or being looked down upon.
Put down your copy of hello magazine and open up something a little more stimulating on the mind.
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We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
The same goes for racists, misogynists and homophobes. Though they generally fall into the stupid category anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
The same goes for racists, misogynists and homophobes. Though they generally fall into the stupid category anyway."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My brain can be stimulated by intelligent conversation but my other bits require a little bit more to get them all excited
Im not going to have an orgasm while just having the meaning of life whispered in my ear,but ill happily debate all manner of subjects until I decide to either seduce the arse off whoever im debating with because I fancy the pants off or say thanks for the stimulating chat im off home now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
The same goes for racists, misogynists and homophobes. Though they generally fall into the stupid category anyway."
now what have I said about keeping the words easy? Then you go and use misogynists?
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ..."
Now that WAS patronising |
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
The same goes for racists, misogynists and homophobes. Though they generally fall into the stupid category anyway.
now what have I said about keeping the words easy? Then you go and use misogynists?
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It just means people that don't like traditional Japanese seasonings... |
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
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Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well...I don't like being labeled by others but, I am drawn to those with open minds and those that are willing to challenge themselves and their own beleifs! |
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to... "
So it wouldn't matter if they didn't get the Genesis references? |
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to...
So it wouldn't matter if they didn't get the Genesis references?"
Haha, no, but you get EXTRA brownie points for knowing about lawnmowers!;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab?
Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind
Yep - Dr Sheldon Cooper floats my boat "
He's mine...but not for sex obviously! |
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to...
So it wouldn't matter if they didn't get the Genesis references?
Haha, no, but you get EXTRA brownie points for knowing about lawnmowers!;-)"
Know about lawnmowers? I AM a lawnmower, you can tell me by the way I walk... |
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people?
Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to...
So it wouldn't matter if they didn't get the Genesis references?
Haha, no, but you get EXTRA brownie points for knowing about lawnmowers!;-)
Know about lawnmowers? I AM a lawnmower, you can tell me by the way I walk..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ...
Now that WAS patronising"
No, it's simply logical, coherent and literate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ...
Now that WAS patronising"
No it isn't. Read it again perhaps.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ...
Now that WAS patronising
No, it's simply logical, coherent and literate. "
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ...
Now that WAS patronising
No it isn't. Read it again perhaps.
;)"
Hence the original smiley face... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can get physically aroused by unexpected turns of phrases or surprising verbal injections into conversations.
Very much so indeed
If the utterer of such turn-ons happens to have the physical stimuli that appeal to me anyway, then Nirvana awaits just after the next turn-off. "
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OK - translation mode:
Intelligent and surprising elements in a conversation turn me on.
If the man I'm talking to has the face, body, voice, and tactile approach that would appeal to me anyway, then the next stop will be Heaven.
Clearer now?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can get physically aroused by unexpected turns of phrases or surprising verbal injections into conversations.
Very much so indeed
If the utterer of such turn-ons happens to have the physical stimuli that appeal to me anyway, then Nirvana awaits just after the next turn-off.
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OK - translation mode:
Intelligent and surprising elements in a conversation turn me on.
If the man I'm talking to has the face, body, voice, and tactile approach that would appeal to me anyway, then the next stop will be Heaven.
Clearer now?
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Aww thanks . Why did you not just say that in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See above
Fuck me, go spend some time in the Halal meat thread, it will at least knock a few names off your list of people to contact if intelligence turns you on..."
Calm down kids, just a bit of fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Strangely however.. (Finding clever folks sexy) my fil is extraordinarily clever, had one of the highest IQ's in the country.
BUT he is as dull as dishwater...off to find me some thick types on the halal thread |
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"Strangely however.. (Finding clever folks sexy) my fil is extraordinarily clever, had one of the highest IQ's in the country.
BUT he is as dull as dishwater...off to find me some thick types on the halal thread "
From sapiophile to halalophile. . . . . . . 
what??? it could be a word!!!!!! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Nah...I went there and I found it tasteless
I find people on that thread are being a bit cut throat! "
I'm avoiding the thread altogether. I'm too poorly to deal with the xenophobia today. |
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"Nah...I went there and I found it tasteless
I find people on that thread are being a bit cut throat!
I'm avoiding the thread altogether. I'm too poorly to deal with the xenophobia today."
It is for the best. I had a peek and facepalmed hard. |
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I've spent quite a while at uni with degrees, diplomas , I can 100% confirm there are plenty of utterly dull and unsexy intelligent people about
However there's also lots of intelligent people who are funny, great on nights out and sexy as hell
So really no different to the general population really! |
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