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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When can people understand that meeting is not always going to end up with sex ????????
Are people that shallow ???
Or is it not always important that there is no connection or attraction ????
Well there is the question  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just try to avoid those kind of people. You have to click with someone over a drink and a chat before knowing whether you want to have sex with them.
Fun and relaxed all the way here  |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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I have had to turn a couple of blokes down lately coz they weren't prepared to meet for a social first to see if there was a connection. ..they just wanted a guaranteed shag! Aint happening with me |
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"I have had to turn a couple of blokes down lately coz they weren't prepared to meet for a social first to see if there was a connection. ..they just wanted a guaranteed shag! Aint happening with me "
I'm with you on this one x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I'm afraid with the tiny amount of free time I have, and the fact I rarely do repeat meets, I am likely to expect a shag when I meet. A drink and chat first is fine, but if I have chatted to them on here I don't really see the need for me to have to additionally vet them via a social. Just the way I do things though. I respect totally what others do meetwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not got a problem with social meets and in my case great if get one as I'm terrible in pictures  . But surely leads more to excitement of arranging another meet if social meet went ok. Just my thought of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When can people understand that meeting is not always going to end up with sex ????????
Are people that shallow ???
Or is it not always important that there is no connection or attraction ????
Well there is the question "
That is one of the reasons we like a purely social first as it is more relaxed and we find if a play meet is then arranged it is also more relaxed as you have all met before.
It is an interesting point though because we have met some amazing people when we relaxed the rule and agreed to play on the first meet. Perhaps it was because we all just knew we wanted to play on those occasions. Does make us wonder what the best way to do things is!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm afraid with the tiny amount of free time I have, and the fact I rarely do repeat meets, I am likely to expect a shag when I meet. A drink and chat first is fine, but if I have chatted to them on here I don't really see the need for me to have to additionally vet them via a social. Just the way I do things though. I respect totally what others do meetwise."
Well that's great if it works for all involved
I don't take long to know if you have a connection but it has to be there don't you think ?
Quick can be good sometimes and sometimes not ?
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm afraid with the tiny amount of free time I have, and the fact I rarely do repeat meets, I am likely to expect a shag when I meet. A drink and chat first is fine, but if I have chatted to them on here I don't really see the need for me to have to additionally vet them via a social. Just the way I do things though. I respect totally what others do meetwise.
Well that's great if it works for all involved
I don't take long to know if you have a connection but it has to be there don't you think ?
Quick can be good sometimes and sometimes not ?
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I have done social meets. If I am not sure about them and want to meet first to see if there is a spark I'm happy to do so. Strangely though they are the ones I've not met again, yet the ones I contact with a view of getting naked with them pretty much straight away have mostly worked out very well. Hopefully they thought so too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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People have different preferences which Is great
Personally I am a big flirt but I find that part if the fun but also understand people who don't want the social thing just the sexy thing with no connection or not even knowing eachother name
Life is a diverse thing and we should respect everyone's wishes !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just try to avoid those kind of people. You have to click with someone over a drink and a chat before knowing whether you want to have sex with them.
Fun and relaxed all the way here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When can people understand that meeting is not always going to end up with sex ????????
Are people that shallow ???
Or is it not always important that there is no connection or attraction ????
Well there is the question "
Because people that don't meet in the way you chose to are shallow?
When can people understand that we all have different things of meeting and as long as it works for them, it's not wrong it's just their choice?
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"People have different preferences which Is great
Personally I am a big flirt but I find that part if the fun but also understand people who don't want the social thing just the sexy thing with no connection or not even knowing eachother name
Life is a diverse thing and we should respect everyone's wishes !
Like these forums "
Whoever said I don't know their names, or don't have a connection? Just because I may not meet the same way as you do, doesn't make what I choose to do wrong. |
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"People have different preferences which Is great
Personally I am a big flirt but I find that part if the fun but also understand people who don't want the social thing just the sexy thing with no connection or not even knowing eachother name
Life is a diverse thing and we should respect everyone's wishes !
Like these forums "
Nice u-turn OP, have you considered politics? |
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