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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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dont mind a bit younger, but over 20 years younger? hotpiece is certainly a milf and at 41 still gets loads of attention, but what is an acceptable younger age limit?
this isnt just one couple by the way, had quite a few either message or wink. |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"dont mind a bit younger, but over 20 years younger? hotpiece is certainly a milf and at 41 still gets loads of attention, but what is an acceptable younger age limit?
this isnt just one couple by the way, had quite a few either message or wink."
OP, acceptable is what YOU feel comfortable with. I've enjoyed sex with people a few years younger than me and I've had amazing sex with people 40 years older than me. It's strictly about how you feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dont mind a bit younger, but over 20 years younger? hotpiece is certainly a milf and at 41 still gets loads of attention, but what is an acceptable younger age limit?
this isnt just one couple by the way, had quite a few either message or wink."
hotpiece looks like a young guys wet dream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is acceptable for one would be different for another....
Embrace the flattery, if they're too young for you...........move on but it's not a bad thing.  |
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By *CM3Man
over a year ago
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"dont mind a bit younger, but over 20 years younger? hotpiece is certainly a milf and at 41 still gets loads of attention, but what is an acceptable younger age limit?
this isnt just one couple by the way, had quite a few either message or wink."
Surely thats entirely up to you two?? It is just a number after all!
And, lets be honest, its not really surprising, HOT! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am 43 and was looking for people over 20. Realistically that usually meant 28 was the youngest mail that was in my area, respectful, not a cock pic, not in text speak I couldn't understand etc.
Some younger guys were nice but I think 27 was my youngest veri ") |
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We get attention from much younger people mainly men, up to 35 years younger. They are after the same as every one else, some genuinely want to meet older people as a preference and some have no luck with younger people so think they'll try the older ones. Take it for what it is people wanting no strings attached sex with someone they find attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mostly feel that young guys don't want me for me.. and therefore won't entertain.. yet at parties and clubs we have often ended up playing with couples where the female is in her early 20s.. personally I love that..
You just do what your comfortable with.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"dont mind a bit younger, but over 20 years younger? hotpiece is certainly a milf and at 41 still gets loads of attention, but what is an acceptable younger age limit?
this isnt just one couple by the way, had quite a few either message or wink.
Surely thats entirely up to you two?? It is just a number after all!
And, lets be honest, its not really surprising, HOT! "
Haha yes, yes, and yes.
Aheem  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dont mind a bit younger, but over 20 years younger? hotpiece is certainly a milf and at 41 still gets loads of attention, but what is an acceptable younger age limit?
this isnt just one couple by the way, had quite a few either message or wink."
Show off ...the last time some half my age looked at me she said your funny you remind me of my grandad  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im always flattered when I get attention from a young man n my limit is 30 coz my eldest son is 24 n for me younger than than wud b wrong but each to their own x  "
aah, thats hit nail on the head, we have kids in early 20's so it just doesnt feel right for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 52 and have met men who were 30 years younger, you have to just to see what its like, if you like the look and sound of them, now i prefer to meet older men though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"dont mind a bit younger, but over 20 years younger? hotpiece is certainly a milf and at 41 still gets loads of attention, but what is an acceptable younger age limit?
this isnt just one couple by the way, had quite a few either message or wink.
Show off ...the last time some half my age looked at me she said your funny you remind me of my grandad "
lol,,now thats amusing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"dont mind a bit younger, but over 20 years younger? hotpiece is certainly a milf and at 41 still gets loads of attention, but what is an acceptable younger age limit?
this isnt just one couple by the way, had quite a few either message or wink.
Show off ...the last time some half my age looked at me she said your funny you remind me of my grandad
lol,,now thats amusing"
One does try but more often than not one puts ones big foot into ones big mouth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get loads of mail from young guys, id say 70% of my mail is from guys under 25, don't get it myself, i could understand if i looked like Pamela Anderson but f**k me i don't i suppose you set your own acceptable age limits if your happy shagging a 20 year old go for it, if not move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a daughter 27 years of age and it is wrong for me to go with any one of similar age I am 48 and my limit is 40 and I get nagged to drop it to 35 but I am sticking to my gun  "
Gun ..."'GUN " mental note to ones self do not mess with this women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a daughter 27 years of age and it is wrong for me to go with any one of similar age I am 48 and my limit is 40 and I get nagged to drop it to 35 but I am sticking to my gun "
I dont think about my son when i look at younger men, my hubbys got a daughter same age as me and it doesnt bother him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up to you what you think is an acceptable age limit, personally at 52 I wouldn't go anywhere near the 20's age group so whilst I get quite a lot looking both single males, females and couples, none of them can message me, thank god for the filters is all I can say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am wondering why this is a problem. We play with people in their twenties all the time, it is flattering that they always want to!
Mind they are always surprised when they find out how old we are lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We get attention from much younger people mainly men, up to 35 years younger. They are after the same as every one else, some genuinely want to meet older people as a preference and some have no luck with younger people so think they'll try the older ones. Take it for what it is people wanting no strings attached sex with someone they find attractive."
Well im 21 years younger and think your stunning  |
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"We get attention from much younger people mainly men, up to 35 years younger. They are after the same as every one else, some genuinely want to meet older people as a preference and some have no luck with younger people so think they'll try the older ones. Take it for what it is people wanting no strings attached sex with someone they find attractive.
Well im 21 years younger and think your stunning "
Thank you Mark |
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"Interesting that people consider it flattering to receive attention from younger people.
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I think some people find it flattering because we're all led to believe that younger people aren't interested in us old uns. We tend to take it for what it is |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Interesting that people consider it flattering to receive attention from younger people.
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I dont.....
I think SOME young men approach older women because they THINK we will appreciate the attention....or consider us an easy target!
Thats off putting for me!
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"kids at 20, come on folks at 18 they can marry fight and die for their country,
have their own children.etc etc......
So we should all welcome them into our beds with open arms??  "
More like open legs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have the opposite problem I'm (Mrs) only 23, yet people in their late 40's and upwards message me, it's like come on, you could be my parent!
Rant over lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"kids at 20, come on folks at 18 they can marry fight and die for their country,
have their own children.etc etc......
So we should all welcome them into our beds with open arms?? "
that's a personal choice, but they shouldn't be seen as children, they are adults.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always go for women 35 and up (not that I don't like younger)
The woman I'm having fun with at the mo is 40. We both don't see a problem with it obviously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never look at the age only look at what attracts me to someone it doesn't bother me how old or young ( with in legal age limit ) if someone is attractive then there attractive |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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I once approached a lady at 51 and I expressed my interest for sex. Initially she objected because she had a daughter around my age...I approached her again some time later and she thought of giving me a chance....and the result was mind-blowing sex. My advice to ppl with kids in their 20s is, if you are physically and mentally attracted, go for it. It's between consenting adults. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always have the opposite problem I'm (Mrs) only 23, yet people in their late 40's and upwards message me, it's like come on, you could be my parent!
Rant over lol"
That's kind of what I was eluding to. Rationally it should be more flattering that somebody wiser, more experienced.... older complements you. But actually that's just considered pervy.
I guess perhaps that's because it's a bit predatory - seeking out the more naive etc.
But then none of that explains why somebody older would consider a complement from somebody younger any more flattering than otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always have the opposite problem I'm (Mrs) only 23, yet people in their late 40's and upwards message me, it's like come on, you could be my parent!
Rant over lol"
We are in our forties but would neither look like or act like your parents. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting that people consider it flattering to receive attention from younger people.
maybe, if they are good looking and my type."
Well that's inevitably flattering, regardless of age |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always have the opposite problem I'm (Mrs) only 23, yet people in their late 40's and upwards message me, it's like come on, you could be my parent!
Rant over lol
We are in our forties but would neither look like or act like your parents."
You know their parents? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting that people consider it flattering to receive attention from younger people.
maybe, if they are good looking and my type.
Well that's inevitably flattering, regardless of age"
I guess so. Not all young people are attractive, same as old people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess so. Not all young people are attractive, same as old people."
Absolutely, visit any club on a busy Friday or Saturday and its very clear that age and perceived beauty have no real link what so ever |
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