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over a year ago
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Question for all the cuckold couples.
It is a big fantasy of mine to watch my wife with another guy. Now I know this would never happen but I'm curious how the conversation begins! I cant imagine when my wife would say if I said to her at breakfast one day "I want to watch you with another man!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cuckold isnt about watching your wife with another man - it is a form of D/s play - sometimes with bi elements, and it is more to do with the dynamic between the woman (hotwife/cuckqueen) and the man (cuck) - she might enjoy humiliation of the cuck (getting satisfaction from the bull that her cuck cant provide her) denial, chasity etc
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By (user no longer on site)
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dude, wasn't having a go, just that if you are asking for cuckold play - the people that respond to you might be looking for something different from you if you get my meaning |
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We were watching a 'mucky' film together and a guy hid in the wardrobe and watched his wife have sex with another man. My boyfriend said he'd love to try that and I thought he meant he'd wanted to have sex with me whilst someone watched 
He then explained that he wanted to be the one in the wardrobe 
That's how we got started  |
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"Question for all the cuckold couples.
It is a big fantasy of mine to watch my wife with another guy. Now I know this would never happen but I'm curious how the conversation begins! I cant imagine when my wife would say if I said to her at breakfast one day "I want to watch you with another man!""
reckon you should make up a willy wonka style gold ticket on photoshop and pop it inside a box of cereal. The prize is sex with another guy it might make her giggle or if she goes ape shit you can say it must have been a employee with a grudge at the factory |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cuckold isnt about watching your wife with another man - it is a form of D/s play - sometimes with bi elements, and it is more to do with the dynamic between the woman (hotwife/cuckqueen) and the man (cuck) - she might enjoy humiliation of the cuck (getting satisfaction from the bull that her cuck cant provide her) denial, chasity etc
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This!
Big difference to watching your wife to be a cuckhold. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its just swinging isnt it"
Indeed it is
OP we just discussed it in an open manner when we first started swinging, he doesn't watch though, joins in.
Or point your wife to this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is how we got started a couple of years ago. We were having one of our open and honest discussions about sex and it got onto what do you want to do that we can't do with just the two of us.
I said I wanted to go with another girl and see if I liked it as much as I thought I would. C told me that he wanted to see me with another guy (or 2 lol) and would love to see me with a girl. So we started slowly, loved every minute of it and here we are!
Sometime honesty just works. I know it took a lot for C to tell me he really wanted to watch me with someone else. He has since told me he thought there was a 50% chance I would flip out!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is how we got started a couple of years ago. We were having one of our open and honest discussions about sex and it got onto what do you want to do that we can't do with just the two of us.
I said I wanted to go with another girl and see if I liked it as much as I thought I would. C told me that he wanted to see me with another guy (or 2 lol) and would love to see me with a girl. So we started slowly, loved every minute of it and here we are!
Sometime honesty just works. I know it took a lot for C to tell me he really wanted to watch me with someone else. He has since told me he thought there was a 50% chance I would flip out!
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We're starting to have more open conversations so hopefully they will progress. I think my chances are more like 90% she'd flip at the moment!
Thanks for all your comments. Especially like the willy wonka one!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Head over to mojoupgrade.com with her and do the questionnaires separately.
It only shows compatible answers so you can get a clearer idea without scareing each other! We did them a while back and then retake them every now and then and sometimes new things pop up.
And it's fun!
xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were watching a 'mucky' film together and a guy hid in the wardrobe and watched his wife have sex with another man. My boyfriend said he'd love to try that and I thought he meant he'd wanted to have sex with me whilst someone watched
He then explained that he wanted to be the one in the wardrobe
That's how we got started "
Judging by your pics, you've made it quite far!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Head over to mojoupgrade.com with her and do the questionnaires separately.
It only shows compatible answers so you can get a clearer idea without scareing each other! We did them a while back and then retake them every now and then and sometimes new things pop up.
And it's fun!
xx"
Thank you, really does sound fun! Best done when horny? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its just swinging isnt it"
Lol yeah I'm pretty sure it falls under voyerism,swinging what your actually talking about falls under the more "normal" catagories |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cuckolding has a far range from quite mild to severe. For some its even a lifestyle for others it is an occasional thing.
It would take a few pages to explain all the possibilities however severe can include the cuck (husband or boyfriend) not being allowed sex with his partner anymore. The cuck having to wear a male chastity device, cleaning both the cucktress and the bull after sex, humiliation of the cuck, wearing od female attire for the cuck like panties.
These are just some of the things a cuck might have to undertake but by no means all. There are a lot of so called bulls who really have no idea what cuckold is about and just want to fuck a mans wife or girlfriend when its much more than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cuckolding includes many variations, including at the very mild end includes watching your partner been pleasured, vouyerism is totally different, and the word swinging covers the whole spectrum, so if your cuckolding your swinging, if your wife swapping your swinging etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were watching a 'mucky' film together and a guy hid in the wardrobe and watched his wife have sex with another man. My boyfriend said he'd love to try that and I thought he meant he'd wanted to have sex with me whilst someone watched
He then explained that he wanted to be the one in the wardrobe
That's how we got started "
Yes it can all begin from sharing like this, lovely does not mean it has to be full blown cuckold, but is part of it |
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