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what is actually soft swinging
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over a year ago
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Soft swing is what you make of it, sometimes can involve no interaction with another couple of just fem & fem.
It is whatever you are comfortable with and boundaries set before a meet between all parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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as has been said, soft play starts at being in the same room with others watching, right the way up to, and before, someone puts their sexual organs in someone that isnt their partner.
we only do soft play, and it is fantastic.
anyone can fuck, it takes special people to make foreplay enjoyable for an evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as has been said, soft play starts at being in the same room with others watching, right the way up to, and before, someone puts their sexual organs in someone that isnt their partner.
we only do soft play, and it is fantastic.
anyone can fuck, it takes special people to make foreplay enjoyable for an evening."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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anyone can fuck, it takes special people to make foreplay enjoyable for an evening."
Rather insulting to those who can happily and without fear or jealousy combine both and no doubt derive as much enjoyment as you do |
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ditto to this, normally everything but penetration but like everything in life different people have different interpretations of it such as fem on fem the guys with own partners only.
I suppose the ultimate in soft play is a couple meeting a single fem or guy for separate room fun  not sure the single fem or guy will enjoy that but it can be witnessed often in hotels when you can hear the couple in the next room  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soft swing is....we always ask. Some people its girl on girl only. Others its no penetrative. Others its oral only. Ask. Its easier"
This is our attitude too, so many different interpretations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's what you do when the man can't get a hard on. Happens a lot  "
I certainly hope this is meant sarcastically! 
I regularly engage in soft only play, but don't suffer from any erectile problems, touch wood (yes, that was a terrible joke)!
In fact, a hard on can be just as essential for one as it is for the other, so your statement doesn't really track. 
"anyone can fuck, it takes special people to make foreplay enjoyable for an evening."
This, basically. + 1
Soft play forces you to use your imagination and actually pay attention to your partners' likes and responses, which isn't a bad thing for those people who wouldn't necessarily do that as a matter of course anyway!  |
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"So really soft swing is what you make out of it, we need to define it with others before the start right
what is involve and what is not "
You need to apply the same rules however you intend to play, discuss what limits you have, what you expect, what they expect and what will be involved. It makes it easier all round. |
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Soft play forces you to use your imagination and actually pay attention to your partners' likes and responses, which isn't a bad thing for those people who wouldn't necessarily do that as a matter of course anyway! "
Which has got to be a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's what you do when the man can't get a hard on. Happens a lot "
well, there is only 1 common denominator if you are getting lots of men that cant get hard lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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anyone can fuck, it takes special people to make foreplay enjoyable for an evening.
Rather insulting to those who can happily and without fear or jealousy combine both and no doubt derive as much enjoyment as you do "
how is it insulting?
merely stating anyone can have full sex and enjoy it, but to make an evening of the supposed 'prelude' to sex enjoyable, then it takes practice.
if you cant see that, then maybe you need to work on your foreplay technique |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's what you do when the man can't get a hard on. Happens a lot
well, there is only 1 common denominator if you are getting lots of men that cant get hard lol"
I hope you're not implying that it might be my fault
c'est la vie
I just shout at the bloke and hit it with a stick, John Cleese style |
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By (user no longer on site)
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anyone can fuck, it takes special people to make foreplay enjoyable for an evening.
Rather insulting to those who can happily and without fear or jealousy combine both and no doubt derive as much enjoyment as you do
how is it insulting?
merely stating anyone can have full sex and enjoy it, but to make an evening of the supposed 'prelude' to sex enjoyable, then it takes practice.
if you cant see that, then maybe you need to work on your foreplay technique"
Or maybe if you have never been properly fucked as part of an evening of hours of complete sexual enjoyment which includes mindblowing foreplay, satisfying fuckin and sensual after play in a kind of continuing loop maybe you need to work on your sexual game as whole, just saying like |
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