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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When browsing through profiles to find potential meets it becomes apparent that some couples have been on here 2 or 3 years and have never had a meet that ended in sexy fun.
Whilst that is their right, as we are a couple who like to have sexy fun, we would find it useful if, amongst all the profile boxes, there was a "Social meet only" box. This way we could avoid spending time reading the profiles of those folks who only want to have a drink in the pub.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When browsing through profiles to find potential meets it becomes apparent that some couples have been on here 2 or 3 years and have never had a meet that ended in sexy fun.
Whilst that is their right, as we are a couple who like to have sexy fun, we would find it useful if, amongst all the profile boxes, there was a "Social meet only" box. This way we could avoid spending time reading the profiles of those folks who only want to have a drink in the pub.
What do others think? "
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Whilst I agree that people should make it clear they are only interested in what is known as a social meet (a drink down the pub), I also think that a definition of "sexy fun" would be helpful. It seems that no one wants to pin themselves down about what they actually want out of a meet, but this results in hours of wasted time. This is a sex site after all, isn't it about time people were clear about what they require or are looking for. As you could not have a box for everything, perhaps it would be better if people were just honest. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"When browsing through profiles to find potential meets it becomes apparent that some couples have been on here 2 or 3 years and have never had a meet that ended in sexy fun.
Whilst that is their right, as we are a couple who like to have sexy fun, we would find it useful if, amongst all the profile boxes, there was a "Social meet only" box. This way we could avoid spending time reading the profiles of those folks who only want to have a drink in the pub.
What do others think? "
How do you know they have never had a play meet?
Some people choose to only show social meet verifications and keep any play ones private.
They could be out having rampant session very week.  |
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Maybe these couples just say social first to avoid any expectations. We have arranged just social before but has ended in sexy fun. Personally I don't think it's a great idea but that's just my opinion. Opinions are like arseholes. Everyone has one. Carl |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When browsing through profiles to find potential meets it becomes apparent that some couples have been on here 2 or 3 years and have never had a meet that ended in sexy fun.
Whilst that is their right, as we are a couple who like to have sexy fun, we would find it useful if, amongst all the profile boxes, there was a "Social meet only" box. This way we could avoid spending time reading the profiles of those folks who only want to have a drink in the pub.
What do others think?
How do you know they have never had a play meet?
Some people choose to only show social meet verifications and keep any play ones private.
They could be out having rampant session very week. "
True, we assume if the play meet is not shown they did not have one. It is their choice.
The social only box would clarify the position of those that do not show veris. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe these couples just say social first to avoid any expectations. We have arranged just social before but has ended in sexy fun. Personally I don't think it's a great idea but that's just my opinion. Opinions are like arseholes. Everyone has one. Carl"
If someone had a social meet that led to sexy fun, why would they not mention the sexi fun in the veri? 
if sexy fun is not mentioned we would suggest it is pretty certain there was none.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When browsing through profiles to find potential meets it becomes apparent that some couples have been on here 2 or 3 years and have never had a meet that ended in sexy fun.
Whilst that is their right, as we are a couple who like to have sexy fun, we would find it useful if, amongst all the profile boxes, there was a "Social meet only" box. This way we could avoid spending time reading the profiles of those folks who only want to have a drink in the pub.
What do others think?
How do you know they have never had a play meet?
Some people choose to only show social meet verifications and keep any play ones private.
They could be out having rampant session very week. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe these couples just say social first to avoid any expectations. We have arranged just social before but has ended in sexy fun. Personally I don't think it's a great idea but that's just my opinion. Opinions are like arseholes. Everyone has one. Carl
If someone had a social meet that led to sexy fun, why would they not mention the sexi fun in the veri?
if sexy fun is not mentioned we would suggest it is pretty certain there was none. "
I completely disagree, always meet socially first and then decide to play or not, and the majority of the time "sexy fun" is not mentioned in verification's.
Verification's are there to show people are genuine and meet, not what position they did it in!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe these couples just say social first to avoid any expectations. We have arranged just social before but has ended in sexy fun. Personally I don't think it's a great idea but that's just my opinion. Opinions are like arseholes. Everyone has one. Carl
If someone had a social meet that led to sexy fun, why would they not mention the sexi fun in the veri?
if sexy fun is not mentioned we would suggest it is pretty certain there was none. "
I often show socials but not the subsequent play meets. The only meets I have now on this profile are social... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe these couples just say social first to avoid any expectations. We have arranged just social before but has ended in sexy fun. Personally I don't think it's a great idea but that's just my opinion. Opinions are like arseholes. Everyone has one. Carl
If someone had a social meet that led to sexy fun, why would they not mention the sexi fun in the veri?
if sexy fun is not mentioned we would suggest it is pretty certain there was none.
I completely disagree, always meet socially first and then decide to play or not, and the majority of the time "sexy fun" is not mentioned in verification's.
Verification's are there to show people are genuine and meet, not what position they did it in!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More filters, NO NO NO
do you just want to click one button and find your perfect match, nearly as boring as buying your fruit and veg on line,
you would miss so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We found social meets are a good way to start then if you turn up and there pics are 10 years out of date then your not going to do something you wil regret.  |
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I don't like veris that give gynaecolgical details or that tell you how many times someone came or if he made her squirt. 
As a single female I want to know if he turned up, was on time, looked like his pics, was capable of coherent conversation, good grooming and personal hygiene etc. Sexual attraction is very individual so I don't care if the last woman shagged him for 18 hours with household appliances and half the contents of the fridge or if she decided he wasn't for her, I just want to know he's genuine and will turn up and I'll decide the rest myself.
So I generally show social veris, written after the coffee meet and any play info is private.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't like veris that give gynaecolgical details or that tell you how many times someone came or if he made her squirt.
As a single female I want to know if he turned up, was on time, looked like his pics, was capable of coherent conversation, good grooming and personal hygiene etc. Sexual attraction is very individual so I don't care if the last woman shagged him for 18 hours with household appliances and half the contents of the fridge or if she decided he wasn't for her, I just want to know he's genuine and will turn up and I'll decide the rest myself.
So I generally show social veris, written after the coffee meet and any play info is private. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Every one has a right to show whatever veris they wish. However, for those that actually want to have sex, it is useful to see some comment about sex in a veri. Also, for those that have limited meet time and may have to pay for baby sitters, an evening in the pub is a waste of time if what they really want is sex. So perhaps some compromise is required? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...if sexy fun is not mentioned we would suggest it is pretty certain there was none. "
I completely disagree. I only display verifications which are discreet about what actually happened on a meet. Whether we had sex or not is nobody's business except ours.
All my meets are 'social only' at first.
If anyone views my verifications and decides not to ask me for a meet, because I haven't published a 'sucks like a Dyson' verification .... move along, I'm not short of meets! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe these couples just say social first to avoid any expectations. We have arranged just social before but has ended in sexy fun. Personally I don't think it's a great idea but that's just my opinion. Opinions are like arseholes. Everyone has one. Carl
If someone had a social meet that led to sexy fun, why would they not mention the sexi fun in the veri?
if sexy fun is not mentioned we would suggest it is pretty certain there was none.
I completely disagree, always meet socially first and then decide to play or not, and the majority of the time "sexy fun" is not mentioned in verification's.
Verification's are there to show people are genuine and meet, not what position they did it in!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...if sexy fun is not mentioned we would suggest it is pretty certain there was none.
I completely disagree. I only display verifications which are discreet about what actually happened on a meet. Whether we had sex or not is nobody's business except ours.
I agree , I will only meet socially first as I am very fussy , if there is no chemistry its a mp no for anything else , and I certainly don't want graphic description of what we had been up to , that is between us. And I assumed verification is just there to show you are genuine !
If anyone views my verifications and decides not to ask me for a meet, because I haven't published a 'sucks like a Dyson' verification .... move along, I'm not short of meets!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't like veris that give gynaecolgical details or that tell you how many times someone came or if he made her squirt.
As a single female I want to know if he turned up, was on time, looked like his pics, was capable of coherent conversation, good grooming and personal hygiene etc. Sexual attraction is very individual so I don't care if the last woman shagged him for 18 hours with household appliances and half the contents of the fridge or if she decided he wasn't for her, I just want to know he's genuine and will turn up and I'll decide the rest myself.
So I generally show social veris, written after the coffee meet and any play info is private.
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"...if sexy fun is not mentioned we would suggest it is pretty certain there was none.
I completely disagree. I only display verifications which are discreet about what actually happened on a meet. Whether we had sex or not is nobody's business except ours.
All my meets are 'social only' at first.
If anyone views my verifications and decides not to ask me for a meet, because I haven't published a 'sucks like a Dyson' verification .... move along, I'm not short of meets!"
I don't want all and sundry to know everything about my meets, I feel it's an invasion on my privacy.
I'm genuine and thats all veri's are for in my opinion. |
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