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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When setting up profiles and approaching people on here, is it fair to demand something from others if you're not prepared to do it yourself or refuse to do it?
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But without some idea of what the OP is talking about it's really hard to answer.
When we are in d/s mode there are loads of things I wouldn't or couldn't do myself that I'll demand that Debs does. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"When setting up profiles and approaching people on here, is it fair to demand something from others if you're not prepared to do it yourself or refuse to do it?
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People can ask or demand for what they like on their profile or in messages. Whether they get it, is a different story!
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"When setting up profiles and approaching people on here, is it fair to demand something from others if you're not prepared to do it yourself or refuse to do it?
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I find that by not 'demanding' anything but by asking and discussing likes and dislikes, I get everything I want and more. |
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"When setting up profiles and approaching people on here, is it fair to demand something from others if you're not prepared to do it yourself or refuse to do it?
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Yes it is, you might like having something done to you but hate doing it. Spanking springs to mind as an immediate example. |
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I'm thinking along the lines of "treat people how you like to be treated" 