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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
No!! Really??
I am afraid there are plenty of people on here who cannot (or will not) accommodate. Hotels are wonderful things for meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
Your profile says you cant accomodate..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or they dont want virtual strangers in their house for safety or personal reasons, they keep life and swinging seperate.... noone want the awkward moment you meet your 75 year old neighbour on the doorstep after having a screamer in the night before! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant accomodate simply because i dont want my friend who i rent a room to knowing my private life. Doesnt mean were 'all' hiding a relationship. "
This I would think is very common |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ?
Your profile says you cant accomodate..?"
She might not be single!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ?
Your profile says you cant accomodate..?
She might not be single! "
Ahhhhh but its ok for a female to put that on profile cos they never lie  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes it does because I am a single parent which I guess a lot of single women on here would be , I'm not judging anyone just curious that's all."
There are a lot of single male parents on here. Plus people who care for their parents, plus people who share houses. Current recession and all that. I find its best to ask really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it does because I am a single parent which I guess a lot of single women on here would be , I'm not judging anyone just curious that's all."
So there are no single full time dads on here then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant accomodate simply because i dont want my friend who i rent a room to knowing my private life. Doesnt mean were 'all' hiding a relationship. "
Why should a single guy worry about what his friend/lodger would think because he had a different woman round every so often?
Hell if I was the friend/lodger I'd be bloody envious and ask for a few tips. R |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant accomodate simply because i dont want my friend who i rent a room to knowing my private life. Doesnt mean were 'all' hiding a relationship.
Why should a single guy worry about what his friend/lodger would think because he had a different woman round every so often?
Hell if I was the friend/lodger I'd be bloody envious and ask for a few tips. R"
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"I cant accomodate simply because i dont want my friend who i rent a room to knowing my private life. Doesnt mean were 'all' hiding a relationship.
Why should a single guy worry about what his friend/lodger would think because he had a different woman round every so often?
Hell if I was the friend/lodger I'd be bloody envious and ask for a few tips. R"
And when the friend asks where you meet all these women? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never accommodate as I would hate anyone to be utterly overwhelmed and intimidated when they arrived at my mansion and saw the luxury I surround myself in. Oh and I don't want to explain the boxes of tampax, wedding pics, kids stuff etc....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant accomodate simply because i dont want my friend who i rent a room to knowing my private life. Doesnt mean were 'all' hiding a relationship.
Why should a single guy worry about what his friend/lodger would think because he had a different woman round every so often?
Hell if I was the friend/lodger I'd be bloody envious and ask for a few tips. R
And when the friend asks where you meet all these women? "
If he's a friend be straight up with him, it's not like it's illegal.
If he's not such a friend just tap the side of your nose and wink.  R |
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"I cant accomodate simply because i dont want my friend who i rent a room to knowing my private life. Doesnt mean were 'all' hiding a relationship.
Why should a single guy worry about what his friend/lodger would think because he had a different woman round every so often?
Hell if I was the friend/lodger I'd be bloody envious and ask for a few tips. R
And when the friend asks where you meet all these women?
If he's a friend be straight up with him, it's not like it's illegal.
If he's not such a friend just tap the side of your nose and wink. R"
I live with a friend and I have absolutely no intention on telling him about my life on fab. |
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"Yes it does because I am a single parent which I guess a lot of single women on here would be , I'm not judging anyone just curious that's all."
Do you go through life making sweeping generalisations and assumptions?  |
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"I cant accomodate simply because i dont want my friend who i rent a room to knowing my private life. Doesnt mean were 'all' hiding a relationship.
Why should a single guy worry about what his friend/lodger would think because he had a different woman round every so often?
Hell if I was the friend/lodger I'd be bloody envious and ask for a few tips. R
And when the friend asks where you meet all these women? "
I have my own apartment, bunped into my next door neighbour tonight, had a natter in the foyer for 10 minutes or so. He doesn't seem worried about what happens at my place, I don't care what he does in his. I used to share an apartment with friends in Manchester centre, they knew about my tastes, only got annoyed once when things went on for a lot time and very noisy, (that was with just one woman). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does because I am a single parent which I guess a lot of single women on here would be , I'm not judging anyone just curious that's all.
Do you go through life making sweeping generalisations and assumptions? "
*passes broom* |
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
If my ex husband were on here he would have "can't accommodate" on his profile and he's 100% single. He wouldn't accommodate because he'd sold his house to move into his mums flat to look after her. She died suddenly early this year and he wouldn't want to "sully" her home.
I don't meet men that don't accommodate as one man, whilst lying in my bed, said when asked to accommodate as my daughter was returning from uni "no, I don't invite people off the internet into my home, it's not a knocking shop!"
I assume all have that _iew so I don't meet anyone that doesn't accommodate. That automatically s out the married men anyway! |
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"Plus some people don't want to accommodate as they aren't comfortable having strangers they met off the internet know where they live."
Agreed if it works both ways and you use hotels. It's the ones that don't want you in their house but have no qualms coming to yours! Hell...no! |
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"I never accommodate as I would hate anyone to be utterly overwhelmed and intimidated when they arrived at my mansion and saw the luxury I surround myself in. Oh and I don't want to explain the boxes of tampax, wedding pics, kids stuff etc....
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*Giggles* |
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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago
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We have found most single guys who have approached us to be honest enough to tell us if they are in a relationship if asked. It's to their credit and would probably give a reason for not being able to accomodate.
We don't normaly date single guys but do not rule that out. |
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Wow miss you actually Posted a thread and had your own opinion on this forum  Nice to see the rabble are still quick to attack 
Us minions are only supposed to read and sit in awe at the regulars knowledge of swinging and never question anything they say or form our own opinion.. Good luck xxx "
Just goes to show how we all see things differently. Nearly every other post is single male bashing: it's sport on here!
Sometimes however, people don't automatically "attack" single men as what is being claimed is applicable to all members of Fab.
It's also hypocritical to complain about something you're guilty of yourself! If I posted a thread questioning what single men had to hide by hiding their profile I'd not be surprised if I were challenged about mine!  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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A lot will be married
A lot will house share
A lot will live with parents
A lot just choose not to
Just ask them outright, they can answer or not. You then decide if you take it further.
I can but I choose not to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I put that I can't accommodate as I house share but even if I didn't I'd not want ro invite men I barely know to my house.
However one of the men I play with has been here and is always welcome here purely because he isn't a one off, has a lot of experience, I _iew him as a friend and feel comfortable with him.
As I found out recently, too many men have too many secrets and issues so I'd rather keep my distance from most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never accommodate as I would hate anyone to be utterly overwhelmed and intimidated when they arrived at my mansion and saw the luxury I surround myself in. Oh and I don't want to explain the boxes of tampax, wedding pics, kids stuff etc....
*Giggles*"
I also have a large collection of rare stuffed Beavers from around the world displayed around my house. In the past single fems have complained as they don't like playing when there is Beaver around. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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As I found out recently, too many men have too many secrets and issues so I'd rather keep my distance from most. "
From my experience, there are certainly as many women with issues and some will do the most damaging things to reap revenge to people who don't dance to their tune. Them having your name and address can't be taken back, or facebook accounts that can upset your family.
It is a risk everyone takes once you open pandoras box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive asked single guys why they cant accommodate as I admit to finding it odd, they have said because live with family, or sharehouse. Personally, sharehouse doesn't bother me, its their personal life, no-one else's but its their choice, I don't judge them. I cant accommodate and say so in profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive asked single guys why they cant accommodate as I admit to finding it odd, they have said because live with family, or sharehouse. Personally, sharehouse doesn't bother me, its their personal life, no-one else's but its their choice, I don't judge them. I cant accommodate and say so in profile. "
So you find it odd single guys can't accommodate yet neither can you? Hellooooo!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive asked single guys why they cant accommodate as I admit to finding it odd, they have said because live with family, or sharehouse. Personally, sharehouse doesn't bother me, its their personal life, no-one else's but its their choice, I don't judge them. I cant accommodate and say so in profile.
So you find it odd single guys can't accommodate yet neither can you? Hellooooo!!!"
yes I said I find It odd as they are single I assume they can accommodate its why I ask them why not and I accept their answer. I did say that. Im married as you know, so cant. I knew id get slagged |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive asked single guys why they cant accommodate as I admit to finding it odd, they have said because live with family, or sharehouse. Personally, sharehouse doesn't bother me, its their personal life, no-one else's but its their choice, I don't judge them. I cant accommodate and say so in profile.
So you find it odd single guys can't accommodate yet neither can you? Hellooooo!!! yes I said I find It odd as they are single I assume they can accommodate its why I ask them why not and I accept their answer. I did say that. Im married as you know, so cant. I knew id get slagged"
Not slagging you off at all. Just pointing out your hypocrisy. |
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"I never accommodate as I would hate anyone to be utterly overwhelmed and intimidated when they arrived at my mansion and saw the luxury I surround myself in. Oh and I don't want to explain the boxes of tampax, wedding pics, kids stuff etc....
*Giggles*
I also have a large collection of rare stuffed Beavers from around the world displayed around my house. In the past single fems have complained as they don't like playing when there is Beaver around."
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"Ive asked single guys why they cant accommodate as I admit to finding it odd, they have said because live with family, or sharehouse. Personally, sharehouse doesn't bother me, its their personal life, no-one else's but its their choice, I don't judge them. I cant accommodate and say so in profile. "
Sorry, it's this kind of thinking I find strange. You find it odd single blokes don't accommodate but see nothing wrong you not accommodating! |
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"Ive asked single guys why they cant accommodate as I admit to finding it odd, they have said because live with family, or sharehouse. Personally, sharehouse doesn't bother me, its their personal life, no-one else's but its their choice, I don't judge them. I cant accommodate and say so in profile.
So you find it odd single guys can't accommodate yet neither can you? Hellooooo!!! yes I said I find It odd as they are single I assume they can accommodate its why I ask them why not and I accept their answer. I did say that. Im married as you know, so cant. I knew id get slagged"
Aaah, you're married, gotcha!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wow miss you actually Posted a thread and had your own opinion on this forum Nice to see the rabble are still quick to attack
Us minions are only supposed to read and sit in awe at the regulars knowledge of swinging and never question anything they say or form our own opinion.. Good luck xxx "
Who was attacking?? Everyone was giving their opinion of why a single man might not accomodate. Is it only ok if everyone agrees? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
It could be that they aren't single, but also for any of the reasons other people have given. I think there's usually more clues, like what they say in the profile text and if they will meet you in a public place for a coffee meet. Trust your instinct and if it feels wrong don't risk it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm single but can't accommodate due to kids because even when younger ones are at school o have two adult children who live here . If s single man says he can't accom then that's up to them doesn't always mean they are hiding a wife away ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it does because I am a single parent which I guess a lot of single women on here would be , I'm not judging anyone just curious that's all."
single parent and married?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does because I am a single parent which I guess a lot of single women on here would be , I'm not judging anyone just curious that's all.
single parent and married??"
My mistake. Apologies to op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference is not to accom. Purely as I prefer not being in my home environment when playing. It's nice to go out to a hotel and meet on neutral ground. I also feel it adds to the fun.
I guess my front room and bedroom are sacred areas for me 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because you can accommodate does not mean your not single everybody got different reasons.i house share so can only accommodate at weekend sometime.never judge until you know the full facts!!!!!!! |
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Wow miss you actually Posted a thread and had your own opinion on this forum Nice to see the rabble are still quick to attack
Us minions are only supposed to read and sit in awe at the regulars knowledge of swinging and never question anything they say or form our own opinion.. Good luck xxx "
Bollocks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a single dad making it hard to juggle life and work but we all have our reasons why we can and cannot accom . Best just to ask ."
That's all I do. Just ask if you're not sure  |
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If anyone wants to avoid married 'singles' then whether they can accommodate makes a good filter, it will be right more often than it's wrong.
That will only bother either:
People who are married but cheating
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People who have genuine other reasons for not accommodating.
To the first group I'd say tough
To the second, sorry but that's life. |
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Im single but do not accom because the floorboards are so fcking squueeky my housemates can hear evrythin n it wrecksvmy head, i had one woman round not even that much of a session n the woman nex door looked disgusted, always pic her now haha, so i avoid my place
peopld can be gen n not accom |
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"Sometimes people don't want to meet at their home due to bunny boilers and nutters, both of which are common on here "
Agree...yet I've seen people demand others accommodate them whilst being protective about their space. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never demand anything like that but I would never meet for the first time at my home, does that mean I'm married and cheating......no, you never really know who you are meeting
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
i don't accommodate but in single, some people just don't want folks they meet off here at their home
i could accommodate i just choose not to but i don't expect others to accommodate me im happy to use a hotel so I'm really not bothered if they cant
some just like privacy there's not always a cynical reason behind it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ?
i don't accommodate but in single, some people just don't want folks they meet off here at their home
i could accommodate i just choose not to but i don't expect others to accommodate me im happy to use a hotel so I'm really not bothered if they cant
some just like privacy there's not always a cynical reason behind it "
Here here I concur spot on I agree and others |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
I haven't accomodated for anyone since my house got burgled.... My house is my space and I don't feel comfortable having anyone in that space that I dont know....
so should you think any worse of me then??? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
playing devils advocate... you are here as a "single" and you don't accomodate either... So should we all doubt you as well???? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ?
playing devils advocate... you are here as a "single" and you don't accomodate either... So should we all doubt you as well????"
questioning the womanfolk: are you mad |
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"I would never demand anything like that but I would never meet for the first time at my home, does that mean I'm married and cheating......no, you never really know who you are meeting
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I'm not disagreeing with you: I'd not allow strangers into my house either. I'm talking about those that state they won't accommodate in their private space...but you have to accommodate them in yours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cant and its because of two reasons
1. I live with parents at the minute (sad I know)
2. If I was in my own place I wouldn't like giving my address out to complete strangers as there are so many time wasters out there.
Even so I do agree that most of the time the single men wont be able to accom is because they live with there wife haha |
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The problem with threads like these is that only those with a genuine reason not to accommodate will post. Someone is hardly going to post and say "I don't accommodate because I'm not really single and my wife wouldn't like it" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
Some won't be...just like some single women won't be. Some will house share, have kids too or live with family. Why not used the advanced search feature and look for those that can accom? Problem solved (unless the mrs comes home early from work!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or maybe cause they share a house or for the same reasons i dont its my home my safe place my private place outside of swinging...dont want people knowing where i live. |
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"The problem with threads like these is that only those with a genuine reason not to accommodate will post. Someone is hardly going to post and say "I don't accommodate because I'm not really single and my wife wouldn't like it""
A few have, and not just men either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just not being able to accommodate is no sign of not being single.
Only being able to meet between 8-5 during the week and then only for an hour, and never at weekends or evenings is a big giveaway though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm proud that I can accomodate and anyone who comes here for a meet/social is treated with respect and are allways offered wine etc.,lol, sometimes even breakfast....treat people right, you get more respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it does because I am a single parent which I guess a lot of single women on here would be , I'm not judging anyone just curious that's all.
So there are no single full time dads on here then ? "
yes there are, me |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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One of the sites I was on haqd an active campaign against single guys (I say active as it was constant bashing against ANY "single male" in sight, even in the chat rooms, and the moderators did nothing ... rather if anyone defended ANY single male that was receiving the onslaught, that person would for some reason would find their account locked.. strange).
The "group" running this "campaign" had one simple idea: any guy that could not accomodate was married and cheating on his partner. A female on the other hand was "exercising her prerogative", and they could be told otherwise as to any other possibilities from these two scenarios. It was disgusting. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ?
playing devils advocate... you are here as a "single" and you don't accomodate either... So should we all doubt you as well????"
Lol Fabio, this is the bit where the response is "This thread is not discussing me - its about the men who can't". Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ?
Some won't be...just like some single women won't be. Some will house share, have kids too or live with family. Why not used the advanced search feature and look for those that can accom? Problem solved (unless the mrs comes home early from work!)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ?
Your profile says you cant accomodate..?"
Touch hypocritical ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some might well be in a relationship and playinig away. Mostly though you will find they houseshare, live with parents or just plain dont want you in there home as they have kids, dont want neighbours to know etc.
When I first started I would only meet in hotel (I would pay) as it was easier to get to for most couples and gave them a chance to get out their home for some fun.
I do meet in home now and so far only had one instance of someone dropping round on the off chance. Didn't like to to do it but I pretended I was out so didn't have to explain the gangbang going on in !! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I won't accommodate, I have dodged a bullet if two by sticking to that, including a guy who wanted to lock me in a castle and keep me for himself.
If no one has my address I get to keep this site if the moat.
Safety first! |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"I won't accommodate, I have dodged a bullet if two by sticking to that, including a guy who wanted to lock me in a castle and keep me for himself.
If no one has my address I get to keep this site if the moat.
Safety first!"
so from your experience, would you judge a single guy that could not accomodate?
(PS: Not saying I can't// I Can actually) |
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"I won't accommodate, I have dodged a bullet if two by sticking to that, including a guy who wanted to lock me in a castle and keep me for himself.
If no one has my address I get to keep this site if the moat.
Safety first!"
To be fair he had a castle and could accommodate |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I won't accommodate, I have dodged a bullet if two by sticking to that, including a guy who wanted to lock me in a castle and keep me for himself.
If no one has my address I get to keep this site if the moat.
Safety first!
so from your experience, would you judge a single guy that could not accomodate?
(PS: Not saying I can't// I Can actually)"
I wouldn't jump to conclusions.
As I don't accom it makes it easier if they do but I understand there are many reasons why they may not be able or want to.
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I won't accommodate, I have dodged a bullet if two by sticking to that, including a guy who wanted to lock me in a castle and keep me for himself.
If no one has my address I get to keep this site if the moat.
Safety first!
To be fair he had a castle and could accommodate "
That is really funny.. I was quite scared at one point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its funny how the men get judged if they cant accomodate. But if women cant, then its okay.
..everyone has their own reasons. I can accomodate at times but not all the time. But i am as single as they come.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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like others have said......
its not that we can't accommodate its that we won't accommodate
something along the lines of people having the choice of where they meet....something like that anyway |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"We're a couple who can't accommodate. Do we count lol ?
Seriously though, we have our teenage daughter at home so that kind of scuppers things on the accommodation front."
Swingers? And can't accomodate? You clearly must have someone at home you're keeping your nawty secret from - how bad!!! Lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant accomodate simply because i dont want my friend who i rent a room to knowing my private life. Doesnt mean were 'all' hiding a relationship.
Why should a single guy worry about what his friend/lodger would think because he had a different woman round every so often?
Hell if I was the friend/lodger I'd be bloody envious and ask for a few tips. R"
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
Why do some people naturally jump to this conclusion when a man cant accomodate!
Maybe they house / flat share
Maybe they just like their privacy and dont want to.
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"Reading profiles of single men there appears to be rather a lot who can't accomodate.......maybe due to the fact they aren't single after all ? "
...... or some of us are genuine single parents like myself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always makes me wonder when couples profiles say they can't accom. So why is that people always expect the worse of single guys. Through my own experience many so called couples turn out to be single bi guys. |
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