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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thankyou. I will still be around from time to time to chat on the forums as there are some interesting discussions. But I am not meeting anyone now. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thankyou for your kind words. Very sweet of you all.
I just found as a single woman, that psychologically, it wasnt doing me any good. I am talking from a very personal perspective so no judgement intended on anyone else. We are all different..and with different needs. But I need more....
So time for a break...to stop and re evaluate. X
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Think it's a good idea. Do what's good for you. Sometimes I take a break too cos I worry that psychologically it might affect my ability to do have a normal vanilla relationship with someone. Other times it's because there's no one interesting to meet. So I definitely understand you and I don't think the lovely people of Fab will judge you on that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think it's a good idea. Do what's good for you. Sometimes I take a break too cos I worry that psychologically it might affect my ability to do have a normal vanilla relationship with someone. Other times it's because there's no one interesting to meet. So I definitely understand you and I don't think the lovely people of Fab will judge you on that."
Exactly.....it has taken its toll a bit and particularly on potential vanilla relationships. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why don't you put all your pics in private, hide your profile and make sure all your filters are set so that you can't be messaged,you can still talk to your friends but you won't come up in searches,you can have a proper break then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's exactly what we did 6 months ago, felt like it was over taking our personal lives a bit so deleted out profile, and decided when the time was right we would re join.
Good luck and enjoy your break xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's exactly what we did 6 months ago, felt like it was over taking our personal lives a bit so deleted out profile, and decided when the time was right we would re join.
Good luck and enjoy your break xx"
when do you think you will be ready to rejoin then? lmao.  |
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"Why don't you put all your pics in private, hide your profile and make sure all your filters are set so that you can't be messaged,you can still talk to your friends but you won't come up in searches,you can have a proper break then "
This is good advice, just in case you missed it, or chose to ignore it.
Anyway, good luck with your time off, hope it yields what you are searching for. Be sure to update when you return. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why don't you put all your pics in private, hide your profile and make sure all your filters are set so that you can't be messaged,you can still talk to your friends but you won't come up in searches,you can have a proper break then "
Thanks. I didnt realise I could do that. X |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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"Thankyou for your kind words. Very sweet of you all.
I just found as a single woman, that psychologically, it wasnt doing me any good. I am talking from a very personal perspective so no judgement intended on anyone else. We are all different..and with different needs. But I need more....
So time for a break...to stop and re evaluate. X
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I completely get where you are at hun! Feel free to PM if you want to chat to someone who understands xx |
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