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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters.
Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms!
Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with?
I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job! |
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It seems your suffering with similar mental issues as me, if u see my current post thatll make sense, personally i never expect a squirter if it happens , it happens, dont worry though, i dont think guys compare on how you squirt.
Good luck with it. X |
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Your over thinking it...
Just focus on you guys having fun and everything will fall into place.
Just because one woman squirts and another doesn't, doesn't mean anything. Everyone reacts in different ways it doesn't make them any less or any more sexy or appealing.
Being confident, relaxed, knowing what you want and determined to have your own fun. That's sexy...
Happy to give tuition in person is required lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It seems your suffering with similar mental issues as me, if u see my current post thatll make sense, personally i never expect a squirter if it happens , it happens, dont worry though, i dont think guys compare on how you squirt.
Good luck with it. X"
Yeah dude I read it. Hope you get it sorted mate, it must be hard.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think it is often the way that it is spoken about on here, like it is the be and end all of sexual pleasure and you are a sexual inferior if you can't.
Be proud of what drives your sexual pleasure and go for it 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your over thinking it...
Just focus on you guys having fun and everything will fall into place.
Just because one woman squirts and another doesn't, doesn't mean anything. Everyone reacts in different ways it doesn't make them any less or any more sexy or appealing.
Being confident, relaxed, knowing what you want and determined to have your own fun. That's sexy...
Happy to give tuition in person is required lol"
Oof, nice
Might take you up on that offer :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont let it worry you.
squirting is not an orgasm anyway, its just cumming, so in actualitty, its the same as a bloke being with a heavy cummer and being embarrassed about not cumming as much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters.
Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms!
Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with?
I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!"
Your gorgeous! No man in his right mind would care if you squirted or not |
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"Your over thinking it...
Just focus on you guys having fun and everything will fall into place.
Just because one woman squirts and another doesn't, doesn't mean anything. Everyone reacts in different ways it doesn't make them any less or any more sexy or appealing.
Being confident, relaxed, knowing what you want and determined to have your own fun. That's sexy...
Happy to give tuition in person is required lol
Oof, nice
Might take you up on that offer :P "
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Not everyone loves a squirter! But I dont hate them either! If it happens it happens and if it doesnt no biggie. As much as I (male) liked to be swallowed if we play with a couple and the fem doesn't swallow no biggie. I don't think less of her and still had fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh my gosh,don't worry at all or be put off,this obsession with squirting is out of control and is'nt a true orgasm
Don't believe that all men are into it because they're not,its nowhere near as satisfying as a real orgasm and its bloody messy,enjoy the reactions your body has to pleasure and don't worry about how other peoples body reacts,just be glad you hav'nt got to clear all the mess up afterwards  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh my gosh,don't worry at all or be put off,this obsession with squirting is out of control and is'nt a true orgasm
Don't believe that all men are into it because they're not,its nowhere near as satisfying as a real orgasm and its bloody messy,enjoy the reactions your body has to pleasure and don't worry about how other peoples body reacts,just be glad you hav'nt got to clear all the mess up afterwards "
Yeah, no I would have to clean up lol. Potential meet would be at our place lmao! |
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As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm, I can understand thinking otherwise if you have not experienced the sensation. However that is not to say the be all and end all. In fact depending on the situation it can be quite daunting being in full throes with a new couple/person/group and being unable to control it.
From personal experience I find the best sign that someone is enjoying themselves are their facial expressions and body language, that you cannot fake.
Dont be worried that you dont squirt, if it helps think of it as you have less cleaning to do   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh my gosh,don't worry at all or be put off,this obsession with squirting is out of control and is'nt a true orgasm
Don't believe that all men are into it because they're not,its nowhere near as satisfying as a real orgasm and its bloody messy,enjoy the reactions your body has to pleasure and don't worry about how other peoples body reacts,just be glad you hav'nt got to clear all the mess up afterwards
Yeah, no I would have to clean up lol. Potential meet would be at our place lmao!"
get lots of old towels down then! And keep her off your mattress,even better make her stay on the kitchen floor if its wipe clean.....joke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because someone squirts doesn't mean they are having a orgasm and that's the important thing not the squirting we've met couples where the female squirts but give me a orgasm anyday that is so much nicer at the end if the day it's about having fun not worrying about how wet the room gets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never squirted! Well there was this one time my sheet had a shot of lady juice across it but I was on my own!
I don't get as wet as I used to do since I had the coil fitted so we have to use lube, I so wish I got really wet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honey we don't all gush/squirt, I have but not always. And as you say it doesn't mean you are not enjoying yourself. As long as all parties are satisfied & you've enjoyed it that is all that matters.
It's not a competition to see who can gush/squirt the most or which guy can last the longest or whose a heavy cummer or not.
This should al be fun with no pressure or expectations. xx |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters.
Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms!
Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with?
I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!"
theres a big facination about it, and I can see how women would feel challenged by it.
It essentially goes down to the guys you are meeting.. once a guy has the spectacle of squirting he thiniks he's gods gift as he's doing something right, so will probably focus on the squirt rather than good sex.
Some women can squirt others cant - its a plain and simple fact. My tip would be to practice reverse cowboy (your figure asside) that will definitely have them flooding to your needs lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm, "
it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more.
I (Venus) know the difference.
i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT.
however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare |
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You've had some good advice here..
I've never squirted but it doesn't bother me, have had some incredible orgasms and still enjoy myself. If we were playing and another girl squirted i'd be fine.
It's not a competition as to loudest/fastest/wettest/biggest etc.
I just like to enjoy  |
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm,
it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more.
I (Venus) know the difference.
i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT.
however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare"
Have to disagree, I squirt when I orgasm and I dont always squirt when climaxing.
DEFINATELY NOT for yourself maybe. Not for all, please be aware you are not the mould for all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm,
it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more.
I (Venus) know the difference.
i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT.
however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare
Have to disagree, I squirt when I orgasm and I dont always squirt when climaxing.
DEFINATELY NOT for yourself maybe. Not for all, please be aware you are not the mould for all "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm,
it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more.
I (Venus) know the difference.
i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT.
however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare
Have to disagree, I squirt when I orgasm and I dont always squirt when climaxing.
DEFINATELY NOT for yourself maybe. Not for all, please be aware you are not the mould for all "
agreed, which makes your OP inaccurate too because you said it is an orgasm, maybe for you, but not for all.
please be aware, you are not the mould for all lol |
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agreed, which makes your OP inaccurate too because you said it is an orgasm, maybe for you, but not for all.
please be aware, you are not the mould for all
I said an orgasm for me so therefore your point of it definately not being an orgasm is invalid. Think carefully about what you say sweetie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What is this obsession with squirting? I just don't get why it's so important, I couldn't give a rats ass if someone squirts or not, as long as we're all having fun and enjoying it who cares. |
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"What is this obsession with squirting? I just don't get why it's so important, I couldn't give a rats ass if someone squirts or not, as long as we're all having fun and enjoying it who cares."
The point I have been.trying to make, yet somehow has been construed in other ways  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"agreed, which makes your OP inaccurate too because you said it is an orgasm, maybe for you, but not for all.
please be aware, you are not the mould for all
I said an orgasm for me so therefore your point of it definately not being an orgasm is invalid. Think carefully about what you say sweetie "
how very condescending, sweetie.
your post said it IS an orgasm, nothing about it being personal, i have read, and reread it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've never squirted before either and never even thought about it till coming on fab! Does seem to be the ultimate goal for some peeps but hasn't bothered me yet , but starting to feel like it is expected lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters.
Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms!
Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with?
I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!"
Mrs b can squirt lots but hasnt always on meets sometimes it only happens with mr c its not sonething that bothers us in order to squirt mrs b has to feel completly relaxed and sonetimes thsts difficult to do on meets with nerves and all that i wouldnt worry |
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"agreed, which makes your OP inaccurate too because you said it is an orgasm, maybe for you, but not for all.
please be aware, you are not the mould for all
I said an orgasm for me so therefore your point of it definately not being an orgasm is invalid. Think carefully about what you say sweetie
how very condescending, sweetie.
your post said it IS an orgasm, nothing about it being personal, i have read, and reread it."
I shall repeat myself, yet again, maybe then you will understand? Yes I said squirting is an orgasm. The reason for that? Because I squirt when climaxing. Doesnt take a genius. Not once did I say everyone does, infact the reason behind the initial post was that as a squirter, I dont always find it to be an advantage. You seem to have got on your high horse dictating that is most definatley not an orgasm. A point that is invalid. You do not experience a climax when squirting personally; does not maketh a non existent truth. You have used opinion and stamped over fact with distaste. So yes condescending I may be to yourself. In my brief experience of you I feel it was needed. Now get off that high horse and realise that we are all different. That was the point of my initial post had you read correctly to begin with.
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I dont squirt regularly at all, Phil is not a huge squirting fan to be honest, we prefer our sheets as dry as possible lol, it does'nt mean that i am not turned on at all and its no reflection on my partner either, i think you either do or you dont its what some peoples body does and others dont, i really would'nt stress it too much to be honest as long as everyone is having a good time thats all that matters |
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I have took off my profile the bit where I put I get very wet, cos I am so sick and tired of men who see making me squirt or gush as their goal. I can do it with my vibrator, I don't need a man for that. And to be honest it just makes for a whole lot of washing after.
There is too much emphasis on the whole squirty thing, just as a few years ago the 'in' thing seemed to be women being bi curious. I was made to feel like an odd ball by some men for being straight!
Just be confident that you are fine the way you are lady !
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I sometimes worry about that too, only mr b has ever made me squirt and I must admit I do love the feeling but nobody else has ever pushed the right buttons lol |
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I shall repeat myself, yet again, maybe then you will understand? Yes I said squirting is an orgasm. The reason for that? Because I squirt when climaxing. Doesnt take a genius. Not once did I say everyone does, infact the reason behind the initial post was that as a squirter, I dont always find it to be an advantage. You seem to have got on your high horse dictating that is most definatley not an orgasm. A point that is invalid. You do not experience a climax when squirting personally; does not maketh a non existent truth. You have used opinion and stamped over fact with distaste. So yes condescending I may be to yourself. In my brief experience of you I feel it was needed. Now get off that high horse and realise that we are all different. That was the point of my initial post had you read correctly to begin with.
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you can repeat yourself all you like, it still doesnt change the fact you said it is an orgasm, i said it isnt.
obviously, in your opinion, you are correct, and likewise with mine.
doesnt call for condescention or talking down to people just for having a differing opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is this obsession with squirting? I just don't get why it's so important, I couldn't give a rats ass if someone squirts or not, as long as we're all having fun and enjoying it who cares."
No me neither, my sheets get messy enough as it is with all the spunk and lube. |
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I rarely if ever gush or squirt apart from with my regular play partner... We play with women that he jokes need a paddling pool when we play...
It doesn't bother me at all.. however the problem I do have is when my play partner is soaking the place with the other lady.. and I'm having to stop as I have got dry... Yet the moment my play partner touches me it's like Niagara falls lol.
Just enjoy yourself. |
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm,
it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more.
I (Venus) know the difference.
i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT.
however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare"
See I won't gush or squirt without an orgasm. Lol funny how we are all different. X |
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters.
Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms!
Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with?
I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!"
The minute you start comparing yourself to other people is the minute you should stop swinging in my opinion. It isn't a competitive sport and if you aren't emtionally equipped it will only deepen insecurities.
I don't squirt, gush or otherwise expel copious liquid I have the absolute (if you were to believe what you read here)worst thing a woman could have in neatly trimmed pubic hair and yet believe it or not men still want to have sex with me...amazing isn't it? In the words of Marvin Gaye "believe half of what you see and something and nothing of what you hear" and you will start to get a realistic idea of what people really think about all this stuff. |
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm,
it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more.
I (Venus) know the difference.
i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT.
however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare
See I won't gush or squirt without an orgasm. Lol funny how we are all different. X"
and its those differences that make everyone attractive to most. x |
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters.
Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms!
Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with?
I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!"
I'm a squirted but depends what mood I'm in ,we've had plays where hubby has made the other women squirt but I havent As long aa you have fun and relax if someone else doesn't like it that's their loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You could always fake it and let out a sneaky pee at the right moment (which too be honest I think is quite common).
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but not in my fucking mouth thanks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I went to a meet recently & the woman was a gusher/squirter. She got no more (no less) attention than I did.
Go & enjoy yourself, don't deny yourself the pleasure.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Seems like the bee all end all to sex.
My ex would punch he's chest if he made me squirt, wow he felt manly.
I can squirt, got to be right environment, mood person I'm with. I get loads of enjoyment from sex without squirting.
Doesn't matter if the other women squirts more, just enjoy yourself.
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"It seems your suffering with similar mental issues as me, if u see my current post thatll make sense, personally i never expect a squirter if it happens , it happens, dont worry though, i dont think guys compare on how you squirt.
Good luck with it. X
Yeah dude I read it. Hope you get it sorted mate, it must be hard.
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Not for long apparently (sorry)
I don't get the squirting thing especially as a badge of honour. |
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters.
Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms!
Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with?
I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!"
Nah I don't think squirting is all that! With a gorgeous body like yours you don't need to squirt |
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Seems squirting has become the new "big thing", like anal used to be.
For us, it seems guys try too hard to make a woman gush or squirt, and loose sight of just having fun.
Jayne has just started gushing, it doesnt happen all the time, and we don't mention it to people we play with, just in case they go all "must make it happen" on us lol!
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters.
Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms!
Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with?
I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!"
I wouldn't be, i squirt on occasions but when i meet as a couple i avoid the type of play that makes me squirt as i'd be mortified if i did. I just concentrate on what we both like and my playmate has never complained that the other fem didn't squirt, he was just thankful she came. |
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