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cumming to quickly is wrecking my life
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Im a genuine guy, so horny all the time, but as soon as my bellend touches vagina or even foreplay it tingles like hell and i blow, its gegting worse, but i love swinging i dunno wat to do, viagra helps but i cant keep taking it because i have no impotency probs, please guys girls i need advice, its annoying as i can fuck for hours wen i av a steady partner, people on here are not so nice or you just see the disalointment, so annoying its making me stress likd anything, feel like a failure, i got a pretty big cock too so women get turned o but im havin to stop n start n its just really shit, cant get a eg fb cos why take me back. When im shit. |
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Im such a horny guy i can play all day, its the thrill 8f sex especially someone new, even if my balls are empty as soon as im hard and i put it in, my cock goes solid and i cum, even f im empty, then mybhard on drops off, trust me ive tried playing for hours an it still happens. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Im such a horny guy i can play all day, its the thrill 8f sex especially someone new, even if my balls are empty as soon as im hard and i put it in, my cock goes solid and i cum, even f im empty, then mybhard on drops off, trust me ive tried playing for hours an it still happens."
wear a condom, it will take a lot of the sensation away |
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Focus on pleasing your partners other ways with lots of foreplay and toys etc completely focus on that and not what GOUR cock is doing. It sounds like a mental issue, you are thinking about it too much.
Maybe if you do this people will want to meet more and you can relax into great sex |
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Yes i know, and it is in my head as i know ive got stamina , and strangely if i meet a girl just out in town and its all just natural im fine, but i think the expectation of good sex on a site lke this makes things worse.
Condoms yes i agree, but whe you know your capable without its kinda annoying, ill have to get a desens spray maybe???
I just hate wasting a womans time and when the foreplay is great and the sex lasts a second haha you get some real harsh reactions at times.
Im appreciating all replys people. |
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Lol thats a good shout, but i quite like larger ladies too. Lol
I am hoping a guy whos experienced the same and got around kt will let me in on what they did.
breathing techniques can help apparently.
If i drink alcohol i have no problems, but you cant be getting pissed and driving to meet people.
If only i could drive ldgally on 4 pints id be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One pump chump.
Maybe think of something else to take your mind off it... Like the sports results, a shopping list or Vanessa Feltz naked."
Whoa now hold on Vanessa Fletz naked - this guy wants to stop cumming quick not lose his hard on!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Condoms yes i agree, but whe you know your capable without its kinda annoying, ill have to get a desens spray maybe???
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Huh? if you know condoms work... and I'd certainly advocate safe sex... where's the problem?
Apologies but it's not very clear as to whether you're wanting bareback! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just hate wasting a womans time and when the foreplay is great and the sex lasts a second haha you get some real harsh reactions at times.
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Are you only capable of one round? Surely let the lady know you'll recover and second time around you can concentrate on her? |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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To be honest I like cum and if you can repeat its really not something that would bother me... For play is fun and I would have fun in a sexy way with this situation...
In Shakespeare's words. "Nothing is good or bad, it's how we think of it that makes it so"
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Ive had mix experience wkth condoms, i play safe where appropriate......
Yes i can recover and play again but ad i said b4, it can happen again......
dont get me wrong ill have times ehere things go right..... just seems my luck on here is getting worse.
Im not one to shy from a bad situation, ill get over it. Just needect put this out there and get the responses, |
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I hav been told by sum its a big turn on that it happened
but when you love sex, you want to be able to perform
my biggest turn on is wen a woman cums....
missionary is definately the worse, my cock is just so sensitive i think, bell gets masive and throbs so much, im there squeezing it lol.
It makds u feel stupid, but hey, sgit happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Is it me or have you already answered your own question?!
You have stamina with a regular partner so you know it's nothing medical, your fine after a drink and condoms work for you as well?!
To me you've got quite a few options there
In summary a social drink with someone you've met before, put a condom on and your a fucking stallion!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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well stopping & starting is good in my book, love to keep a guy on the edge. Plenty to teasing whilst you wait for the tingling to subside. Then bring him up to edge again. Besides nothing wrong with shooting & then recovering to shoot again. Repeat cumming is brilliant. Stop worrying about it, I'm sure a girl would love it. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's just down to nerves, the more you think about it the worse it will get!! I suffered with it for a few months when I was younger seemed to be ok when I'd had a drink, but as I got more confident in myself it stopped!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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this is a tip from Billy Connelly, 'try saying the nines times table'.
try taking your mind off what you are doing for a short while, once you are past the point of where you normally cum you might feel a better and enjoy it. As it seems to me you are worrying about your performance, this might be hampering you maybe.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the condoms, or numbing lube works well. I used to last just a minute before. When I used that stuff I lasted 20mins"
Anbesol works as well as the numbing lube. Or Bonjela.
And before yas all laugh on an orgasm denial website I am a Domme on the subs use these products so they can edge and practise tease and denial without cumming.
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"the condoms, or numbing lube works well. I used to last just a minute before. When I used that stuff I lasted 20mins
Anbesol works as well as the numbing lube. Or Bonjela.
And before yas all laugh on an orgasm denial website I am a Domme on the subs use these products so they can edge and practise tease and denial without cumming.
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yes this  edge practice does wonders over time  |
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"Lol thats a good shout, but i quite like larger ladies too. Lol
I am hoping a guy whos experienced the same and got around kt will let me in on what they did.
breathing techniques can help apparently.
If i drink alcohol i have no problems, but you cant be getting pissed and driving to meet people.
If only i could drive ldgally on 4 pints id be fine. "
Taxi or public transport... but pissed up meets ain't a good way to roll  |
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The OP says it's the contact with the vagina that makes him shoot his load early and it's affecting his meets off here yet the two non-displayed verifications he has are from men 
Guess the owners of the vaginas didn't bother verifying him. |
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"The OP says it's the contact with the vagina that makes him shoot his load early and it's affecting his meets off here yet the two non-displayed verifications he has are from men
Guess the owners of the vaginas didn't bother verifying him."
Verifications aren't mandatory you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a genuine guy, so horny all the time, but as soon as my bellend touches vagina or even foreplay it tingles like hell and i blow, its gegting worse, but i love swinging i dunno wat to do, viagra helps but i cant keep taking it because i have no impotency probs, please guys girls i need advice, its annoying as i can fuck for hours wen i av a steady partner, people on here are not so nice or you just see the disalointment, so annoying its making me stress likd anything, feel like a failure, i got a pretty big cock too so women get turned o but im havin to stop n start n its just really shit, cant get a eg fb cos why take me back. When im shit. "
Lol....too bad mate , wear like 3 condoms at once ...might help take out the sensitivity ... |
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Well if you can cum over and over it shouldn't really be a problem. If you cum when having sex it will probably turn the woman on and then cum again I love it when the man cums it makes me cum too |
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"The OP says it's the contact with the vagina that makes him shoot his load early and it's affecting his meets off here yet the two non-displayed verifications he has are from men
Guess the owners of the vaginas didn't bother verifying him.
Verifications aren't mandatory you know. "
Really? Cheers for the info  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One pump chump.
Maybe think of something else to take your mind off it... Like the sports results, a shopping list or Vanessa Feltz naked.
Whoa now hold on Vanessa Fletz naked - this guy wants to stop cumming quick not lose his hard on!!!"
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I have another account too, so this is ridiculous, one guy does sports massage n the other is a fella i knew for years round corner , he veri me to get the veri there........
caz could confitm my real acc has many female verifications.
Not that i have to justify anything, its clear to see im fairly honest hence this god damn thread
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This can help but the blood pumps like fck and sumtimes i do that n it kinda makes it blow too........ was told if i get circ my bell will get used to bein in contact with stuff more... i love my cock tho how it looks etc, so wuud b a desperate measure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This can help but the blood pumps like fck and sumtimes i do that n it kinda makes it blow too........ was told if i get circ my bell will get used to bein in contact with stuff more... i love my cock tho how it looks etc, so wuud b a desperate measure"
We can't help, D would have you cumming in seconds. She tends to have that effect! |
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"On a serious note doesn't pinching the base of the penis stop the need to cum?"
actually you squeeze just below the glans . It can help you last 5 -10 mins longer , but won't make you a cum when ever I want man |
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Had some priceless info, and its worked, so far, outlasted her last night, cud i have the answer, wankin with foreskin back to get cock used to sesitivity .
Also found by just pushin my belll in n out for a lil bit, teasing her helped, slowly work it in.
Horny as fck, but need to calm the fck down, if i have solved this ill be fcking happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've has instances of this when guys have been with us and yes it is rather disappointing. As you say it is something going on in the head. Probably need to think about mowing the lawn or the gas bill or something when you first start. |
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Cum on over big boi, and lets play 
Very frustrating.
