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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious, couples, when looking for another couple or person to meet who between you decides? Do you look and message together? Does one of you tend to feel the other has better judgement? Or one of you write messages which have more luck? Maybe do you only come on fab together or does only one of you? Or does one of you ever message without being sure if the other will agree?
I really am just interested (ok, nosy!!) but to put it out there here's how we tend to work. We generally log on separately and show each other if we spot anyone who catches our eye, then one of us sends messages, but if one of us spots people we really like the look of and know will be to the taste of the other too we'll send a message off. I like him to make any actual arrangements if we get to that stage and often I find his judgement and choices to be right on the money; I've yet to disagree with any of his suggestions for meets!
Maybe other people don't really have a 'way' of finding people and but would love to hear your thoughts! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
I (Mrs) spend more time on Fab in general so do more of the browsing. If I come across any profiles that I think might be of interest I add them to hotlist. Mr B will then go through and say, yes or no.
Would never send a message for a possible meet without both being in agreement.
If we get to the arranging a meet stage then we both make the arrangements.Very much in this together and if one isn't happy then that's it. |
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
Leeds. |
We decide after messaging someone for a while. If within three messages they're going on about banging away rampantly then we discount them. The same applies to those who only seem to want to exchange dirty messages or photo's. We also don't have any interest in men who only have cock photo's on their profile. They're a very bad selling tool suggesting that the owner of said appendage has little else to offer. |
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