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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.
I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.
If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret 
my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)
Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.
My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.
his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)
What are your thoughts on the situation ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds a bit like your friend is using you to test his wife. So if she happily let's you seduce her won't he be thinking "hmmmm I obviously can't trust my wife". Who's next? The plumber, postie etc..... Don't do it. You'll lose your buddy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recipe for disaster. She will feel used, and you'll be lying to her ("Our little secret" - yea right). Your mate might think it's an exciting plan, but once the deed is done he might not like the thought at all.
Some fantasies should remain just that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.
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There is obviously no communication in this marriage, why doesn't he just talk to her rather than pimp her out without warning? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.
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Playing games won't solve anything. Give her time to decide for herself, she's not a toy, she has her own mind and should t be tricked into it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why not tell her beforehand?"
because: she may get cold feet and not try! I will not push the situation and if the flirting doesn't happen , then that will be it. But if the flirting starts, it could be interesting |
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Hope she tells you to fuck right off .......
Swinging is for consenting adults ........
Deception is a completely different game
It may be fun for you and your mate but you are showing her no respect whatsoever............
This can only end up a disaster.............. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why does the phrase ' There is one born every minute' instantly spring to mind  "
Don't some people need gentle encouragement to gain the confidence to go to the next step....
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hope she sees right through it and tells you both to fuck off.
She hasn't got the confidence to have a 3sum?? She's going to have even less when she clicks on how much you have both disrespected her.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why does the phrase ' There is one born every minute' instantly spring to mind
Don't some people need gentle encouragement to gain the confidence to go to the next step....
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If it happens it happens , if it don't it don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't see this ending well...."
Neither me it would have been far better and more repectful to discuss it with her. She may even see it as an attack if it goes badly and then who knows what. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hope she sees right through it and tells you both to fuck off.
She hasn't got the confidence to have a 3sum?? She's going to have even less when she clicks on how much you have both disrespected her.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not tell her beforehand?
because: she may get cold feet and not try! I will not push the situation and if the flirting doesn't happen , then that will be it. But if the flirting starts, it could be interesting "
Oh it's gonna be interesting alright lol. If you try it on with her and she politely declines then she's probably not gonna want to be around you again as she won't be comfortable. If she accepts and you end up smashing her back doors in then what if she decides she liked it so much she wants more but behind hubbies back?
Doomed I say...you're all DOOMED! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok : the general consensus is , not a good idea......
thank you all for your input.
will update this further if I go through with it.
I may just fix the appliance and leave.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hope she tells you to fuck right off .......
Swinging is for consenting adults ........
Deception is a completely different game
It may be fun for you and your mate but you are showing her no respect whatsoever............
This can only end up a disaster.............."
Couldn't agree more x |
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"What does OP mean?"
Original poster.
I've done some weird shit but this is all wrong, totally unfair on her. Hopefully she'll tell you to pis off, figure out what he's done and divorce him. If a couple are going to swing they should both know about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've read all this thread and feel that you and the husband have very little or no respect for this woman. If she doesn't have a lot of confidence now she will have none when she discovers what you two have been planning behind her back if you go through with this. Her husband should talk to her and if she is aware and happy to proceed then, and only then go ahead with things. |
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"I've read all this thread and feel that you and the husband have very little or no respect for this woman. If she doesn't have a lot of confidence now she will have none when she discovers what you two have been planning behind her back if you go through with this. Her husband should talk to her and if she is aware and happy to proceed then, and only then go ahead with things."
ok.. point well taken !!!
I will not be doing this so !!! |
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"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.
I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.
If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret
my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)
Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.
My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.
his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)
What are your thoughts on the situation ?
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you are being set up, he wants to leave his wife and is just looking for proof of her infidelity.
something I have seen several times.
Lets hope you are single or it may affect you as well.
be carefull. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.
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You only know what he has told you.  |
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"I've read all this thread and feel that you and the husband have very little or no respect for this woman. If she doesn't have a lot of confidence now she will have none when she discovers what you two have been planning behind her back if you go through with this. Her husband should talk to her and if she is aware and happy to proceed then, and only then go ahead with things."
ok.. point well taken !!!
I will not be doing this so !!! |
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"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.
I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.
If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret
my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)
Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.
My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.
his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)
What are your thoughts on the situation ?
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Are you serious?!!
If you think there's any part of the above scenario that will end well for YOU:...good...luck!  |
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"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.
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It gets worst! Poor woman being pumped out by her creep of a husband and his sleazy mate! |
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"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.
There is obviously no communication in this marriage, why doesn't he just talk to her rather than pimp her out without warning?"
Not just me then!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hope she tells you to fuck right off .......
Swinging is for consenting adults ........
Deception is a completely different game
It may be fun for you and your mate but you are showing her no respect whatsoever............
This can only end up a disaster.............."
Have to agree with this
My opinion on these kind of things is usually to each their own but this can't possibly end well 
Things like this should only happen when ALL the people involved are in agreement...
This might be fun for you and your buddy but c'mon she isn't a play thing to be used and abused... Unless of course she wants to be but in this case she clearly doesn't as she's totally in the dark about it all!
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"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.
It gets worst! Poor woman being pumped* out by her creep of a husband and his sleazy mate! "
*pimped even |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally i think he should ask his wife if she's up for it and introduce her to the joys of swinging...
Ju x  "
He did ask his wife and she said NO as she lacks confidence.... |
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So you haven't managed to get your wife interested then as per a thread from a couple of weeks ago? Why not ask your friend to do what he's asked you to do with your wife! At least then both ladies will have a better understanding of what they're married to! Z |
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Just tell her that you guys where having a man to man down the pub and he told you that he said the idea of his wife fucking another man turned him on.
You don't need to lie and you don't need to seduce her and loose a friend. If she's hot on the idea SHE will approach her husband. If there is any chemestry between you two you might even get an invite.
Don't be surprised though if she shave the guy next door instead though. Lol |
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Just tell her that you guys where having a man to man down the pub and he told you that he said the idea of his wife fucking another man turned him on.
You don't need to lie and you don't need to seduce her and loose a friend. If she's hot on the idea SHE will approach her husband. If there is any chemestry between you two you might even get an invite.
Don't be surprised though if she shave the guy next door instead though. Lol |
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"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.
I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.
If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret
my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)
Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.
My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.
his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)
What are your thoughts on the situation ?
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And is your mate going to be down your house? Fucking your missus and setting her up for that mfm you so very much wanted a couple weeks ago? Maybe you should stick to fantasies section mate! |
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"So you haven't managed to get your wife interested then as per a thread from a couple of weeks ago? Why not ask your friend to do what he's asked you to do with your wife! At least then both ladies will have a better understanding of what they're married to! Z"
So busted what a creepy man |
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"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.
I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.
If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret
my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)
Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.
My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.
his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)
What are your thoughts on the situation ?
And is your mate going to be down your house? Fucking your missus and setting her up for that mfm you so very much wanted a couple weeks ago? Maybe you should stick to fantasies section mate! "
brilliant |
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"So you haven't managed to get your wife interested then as per a thread from a couple of weeks ago? Why not ask your friend to do what he's asked you to do with your wife! At least then both ladies will have a better understanding of what they're married to! Z
well spotted sherlock
that maybe a next step
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"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.
I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.
If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt
with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret
my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)
Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.
My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.
his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)
What are your thoughts on the situation ?
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Stay well away it is bad news i hv bn there with awful results |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just fix whatever it was you where going to do, have a cup of tea be civil and leave. Then go tell your mate that he is a cock for not respecting his wife and charge him for the work you have done fixing whatever it was. |
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I'd get rid of your friend, straight away. He sounds like a thoroughly nasty piece of work. Don't let him drag you and his poor wife down to his scum level. I've come across this type of scenario before, and it always sucks. |
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"Hmmmm not a bad idea that. Get a lady in the house and ask her to do a little flirting.
Then find some mug to come along and get all the diy jobs done for zilch.
Nice thinking. "
I think you have hit on something there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not a good idea
I took the advice from people here.
I did NOT go through with it
thanks again for all your input
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And tune in next week folks for the gripping last installment called "Why has my wife left me for my my mates wife???" |
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