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1 nighters or fuck buddies
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"what do people prefer?
personally i prefer fuck buddies, but most guys i meet seem to prefer 1 nighters!!"
Prefer buddies every time. The more you meet the more you learn and the more enjoyment for both of you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Buddy for me. Ultimately I would love to find that special friend to have a "relationship" with is meals, cinema etc and of course lots of sex but without the hassle of a full on relationship. Doubt that though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bed buddy for me "
"Bed Buddy" - that sounds so much better and so much less crude than "Fuck Buddy"..... !
Agree - I've done the quickie sex thing and worked it out of my needy system - it was fun, but not fulfilling.
Now I'm looking for nice, interesting Bed Buddies - no strings but some socialising and friendship.
I might even go so far as to remember their names!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think whether you are single or not will a bearing on the answer
We entered swinging to spice things up but our sex life was still good before we became swingers.
One off meets mean swinging can still be our escape and less chance of being a way of life. We have met many other couples who like befriending other couples but keeping singles for one offs.
Obviously there are other couples who think opposite. We're just sharing our experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not just about being local though, you need a good, strong sexual chemistry with a great fuck buddy, someone whose friendship you enjoy outside of the bedroom, but who really excites and turns you on between the sheets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not just about being local though, you need a good, strong sexual chemistry with a great fuck buddy, someone whose friendship you enjoy outside of the bedroom, but who really excites and turns you on between the sheets."
Is that a girl friend or boy friend? Or have I missed something,  Sound like most of you want an open relastionship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer one offs, i will do re meets if we really get on but that's not often as not many men i meet are on the same wave length sexually as me, i wouldn't meet anyone to regular tho, i wouldn't meet anyone weekly id get bored of them after a few weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck buddy is best. If you are compatible with someone then the sex will get better and better"
in many cases i have found the opposite. In the past when i have met guys regular i have found as time goes buy they get complacent in the bedroom and stop making an effort, i used to met a guy who in the beginning was great sexually but towards the end of our meeting he just wanted a blow job and a shag, it felt like because he had got comfy with me he didn't feel he needed to impress me anymore, so i stopped meeting him, that's why i prefer on offs as men are usually at their best on a first meet as they are hoping for a re meet  |
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By *ike74Man
over a year ago
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I find the more you meet the better the sex as you get to know what that person likes and enjoys.
So for me this is the point of a meet to please as I could get of with a wet rag I am a bloke.
But much more enjoyable to see, feel, hear a lady enjoying herself and I know you can and have done this on one nighters but it is so much better when you know what they like and this comes from experience.
Do fb for me. |
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"Its not just about being local though, you need a good, strong sexual chemistry with a great fuck buddy, someone whose friendship you enjoy outside of the bedroom, but who really excites and turns you on between the sheets.
Is that a girl friend or boy friend? Or have I missed something? "
Clearly, given that there was no implication in that quote that I was looking for a male fuck buddy |
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The occasional one off meet is cool but nothing beats building a repoir with an indivisual or even a couple for that matter
I only want regular sex with my husband these days.
