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VERIFY or not to VERIFY
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been a member for a while on here and love it to bits
I've been with 4 lovely women on here but I asked them not to verify me.
The reason for this is because I don't want to come across as a male slut, but I think this may be hindering my chances . Am i a bit daft or what or is it better.
What do you all think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a member for a while on here and love it to bits
I've been with 4 lovely women on here but I asked them not to verify me.
The reason for this is because I don't want to come across as a male slut, but I think this may be hindering my chances . Am i a bit daft or what or is it better.
What do you all think?"
4 oh you man whore lol
Seriously mate, its up to you but the majority of people wont meet without a verification, it shows you are genuine and not a timewaster. Want to click, show the tick simples squeek |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Personally, over a year and no meet veris means you wouldn't come up if I were searching your area cos I always use the advanced search option to only find those meet verified so I'd never see your profile. If you were to contact me (and you got past the initial numpty filter), I'd be less likely to engage in conversation as you've no meet verifications. I can't see 4 meets making you a less likely prospect but I'm sure it may be to some. If you're happy with how you're doing in Fabland then carry on, if not, maybe ask one of your lady friends to verify you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely all you need to do is just remove the older veri's as they get staler. Bit of common sense needed that's all. Or is this some crafty way of saying "Hey look at me. I'm a real player. I know how to please the ladies now." If so it sure is a good un. ;0) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As my profile states I only meet well verified guys, so I wouldn't meet you.
And 4 in a year makes you a slut???..... Goodness me there's lots of people on here who have more than that in a night lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a member for a while on here and love it to bits
I've been with 4 lovely women on here but I asked them not to verify me.
The reason for this is because I don't want to come across as a male slut, but I think this may be hindering my chances . Am i a bit daft or what or is it better.
What do you all think?"
I know what you mean, its getting the balance right, just enough to show that you are genuine bit not to many that makes you look like you slut  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No not at all its just that I remember wanting to meet this girl who stated that if you have a lot of verifications that she wouldn't want a meet .
Turns out she didn't like me anyway but that sort of stuck in my mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why wouldnt you meet anyone that's been here for over a year and hasnt met? Why is that suspicious?
Not everybody takes this site seriously and comes here every day and some people dont fancy their chances but still come back at a later date anyway.
That's a bit harsh really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us veris form part of our screening especially when it comes to single males. So you would never even come up in our searches we would suggest the same goes for a lot of other users too.
It's up to you what you show and don't show at least you would have a tick even with out showing anything. Like has been said over a year without so much as a green tick looks bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a member for a while on here and love it to bits
I've been with 4 lovely women on here but I asked them not to verify me.
The reason for this is because I don't want to come across as a male slut, but I think this may be hindering my chances . Am i a bit daft or what or is it better.
What do you all think?"
Just don't accept verifications, when offered, but do it in the nicest possible way. Or accept one, to show you've been verified, but don't publish it. I don't show them, because I don't want to be responsible for the verifier to be the recipient of perhaps unwanted requests. Being private is good, and shows concern for the people you've been with. Hope this helps. Mike  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why wouldnt you meet anyone that's been here for over a year and hasnt met? Why is that suspicious?
Not everybody takes this site seriously and comes here every day and some people dont fancy their chances but still come back at a later date anyway.
That's a bit harsh really."
I only meet verified guys no matter how long they have been on here for. The main reason for this is my safety. I need to know who i'm meeting is who they say they are and isn't going to kill me or something!!
It also helps to know that they have a clue what swinging is about, is respectful, non pushy, likely to not waste my time ect.
Verifications exist for a reason and we're allowed to use them as we see fit.
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Why wouldnt you meet anyone that's been here for over a year and hasnt met? Why is that suspicious?
Not everybody takes this site seriously and comes here every day and some people dont fancy their chances but still come back at a later date anyway.
That's a bit harsh really."
For me, if you've not met anyone in a year, I'd wonder if you were serious about meeting or a windup merchant...I have limited time to play so like to be as sure as possible that the person/couple were going to show up and no meet veris would be one of the alarm bells. That being said, I was contacted once by a couple with no meet veris who'd been on site over a year - I asked why, they explained and eventually we met and had a great time so although its unlikely I'd pursue a meet with non verified, it's not impossible |
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