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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a single guy swinger I have always thought its your place to offer your home for a meet it shows your up front about a meet definitely single and to offer as a host a comfortable relaxed laid back time for your invited friends.
Travel now that a tricky one due to fuel costs time etc but personally I have travelled 200 miles to meet a very special couple I know so for me distance isn't a problem.
Hotels just don't do it for me at all so sterile and just not the right atmosphere with some stranger either side of your room maybe listening in !!.
I am not a club person I have been to Chams with friends as a guest and it just isn't me but each to their own.
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Hotel.
Drinks and maybe dinner first getting to know each other.
Back to the room. Glass of wine and slowly undress each other.
I bring my own sexy music as I also am not keen on others listening.
All night action.
Large shower we can frolic in.
Leave messy hotel room for someone else to clean.
Also it's nice to get away sometimes.
Hotel for me is my preferred location.  |
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I used to accommodate for same rwason proved I was single. Now in a couple prefer to travel.
I have travelled up to about 2 hrs for a meet before.
Hotels.... prefer not to but can be fun
Clubs... defo prefer this option as if they dont turn up least you still have people to chat to. Or if they not as they say there is no pressure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer not to accommodate as I once had a rather alarming experience where someone I had played with once, would regularly show up unannounced and ask for a quick one!
After being told to stay away, they then used to sit in the car outside and watch the house.. It was seriously creepy!
Now I have a lodger who doesn't know I swing or am bisexual so prefer to travel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hotel.
Drinks and maybe dinner first getting to know each other.
Back to the room. Glass of wine and slowly undress each other.
I bring my own sexy music as I also am not keen on others listening.
All night action.
Large shower we can frolic in.
Leave messy hotel room for someone else to clean.
Also it's nice to get away sometimes.
Hotel for me is my preferred location. "
Plus, as been said after, theres less chance of leaving yourself open to unhinged nutjob stalker types. And no chance a neighbour will give you a strange look and usher the kids indoors the next time they see you after you and your playmates spent the night bumping naughties loudly. Very loudly. Never forget the knowing look I got off an ex-neighbour after an evening of spanking fun   |
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