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Dogging...I just don't get it!
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I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me? |
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over a year ago
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I think it's all about the excitement of being outdoors and the fun it can be, plus the excitement of fun with strangers.
Now a days though its more organised and just swinging outdoors x |
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over a year ago
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?"
The cars headlights are usually on so enlightenment shouldn't be a problem.  |
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its not knowing who is going to turn up as well.. or if any one is.. creature comforts have to go by the wayside.. ive had some great times...and it sint for everyone.. its good youve seen it.. not liked it.. but not slagged it off !!.. unusual in here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to try it but have no idea where to go near me"
Best thing to do would be to arrange something with people from here for your first time, plus a little added safety helps |
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"I want to try it but have no idea where to go near me
Best thing to do would be to arrange something with people from here for your first time, plus a little added safety helps "
I think id like to just watch first and join in if I fancy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?"
I go dogging frequently. Always in heels and dressed to please. Your description sounds like a caricature of a dogging meet! The men (in the main) are well behaved and busy sites tend to be maintained by regulars who don't want morons spoiling their fun. Don't knock it till you've tried it. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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For me, I can have fun with a number of people all on the same night.
If I meet a single guy at his, then that is all that happens. If you try to arrange a meet with 7-8 people then peeps get cold feet, etc,
Whereas dogging, there are usually enough people out who like my looks to make it worth while.  |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?"
Relative new comer to this pastime I do not possess trainers or jogging suit least not for anything other than sport (an dogging is a pastime not sport lol). All other participants I have meet have been attired as you would expect in any swingers club....no not towels ffs. Like others have said the attraction is I think the anonymity and spontaneity of the liaisons between consenting adults. |
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! "
I think that one of the clubs near Manchester has this facility |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think the last dogging documentary is the reason for the line of thought on joggers etc.. let people think this, and that way we wont be inundated by people watching the watchers and doers !!"
So people watch watchers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its dirty sex !! "
Spot On! I luv to have a group of guys all tugging away at the cocks watching me (do whatever I happen to be doing at the time) and hopefully getting to suck as many cocks as I can or just get them to cum over me. It's just so filthy!!!!! |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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Drop the word dogging, moonlit evening, sand dunes and blanket. Waves crashing in the distance. A sexy playmate or a couple and it,s a winner.
Thing is dogging is supposed to be turn up on spec, spontaneous and seedy nsf but from what we,ve witnessed it,s more creepy than fun. Those that were into it in its infancy will say that the popular places have been ruined. |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?
I go dogging frequently. Always in heels and dressed to please. Your description sounds like a caricature of a dogging meet! The men (in the main) are well behaved and busy sites tend to be maintained by regulars who don't want morons spoiling their fun. Don't knock it till you've tried it."
Here we go again... I did not 'knock' it as you put it, I asked what makes people want to do it?
And I have only ever seen people dressed in joggers etc in pics on here. |
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over a year ago
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Then perhaps you should not be so easily influenced. And I didn't say you had knocked it, I used a very common phrase to make my point. However your post was slanted to sound derogatory, even if that was not your intent. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Its dirty sex !!
Yeah. All that litter and used condoms lying around. "
That CAN be a problem. If everyone takes responsibility for their own rubbish it's not as if it's hard work.
Condom wrappers and hard tissues attract local condemnation.
BTW. Don't stick your used condom on the roof of the car while you adjust your attire - if left overnight it can take the paint off. |
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Never felt the urge to try it. Kind of freaks me (mrs) out. At least at a club or meet you can choose but dogging just gives me the impression of a free for all. It's probably not, and I'm not slagging it off, just not for me and that bloody documentary with the weird people in masks didn't do anything for it either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get dogging either . I love the comfort of my own or someone else's home , a few drinks , lots of chat , a woman dressed in sexy lingerie and some horny and passionate fun . Dogging just doesnt appeal . I am not knocking it . Everyone has their own fetishes and if it turns them on then let them enjoy |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't get dogging either . I love the comfort of my own or someone else's home , a few drinks , lots of chat , a woman dressed in sexy lingerie and some horny and passionate fun . Dogging just doesnt appeal . I am not knocking it . Everyone has their own fetishes and if it turns them on then let them enjoy "
I'm with you there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer daytime dogging with Aranged meets,sometimes at night with people i know in secluded areas x I wouldnt feel safe tuning up on me own at night and cant c WHO im shagging lol i dont think im brave anough,at a club i feel safe |
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Just a thought but in the much derided Dogging Documentary there was a lady from the Bristol area who looked extremely fit and very sexily dressed who was effectively lining them up.
She seemed happy and content with what she was up to and certainly didn't fit the oft thought of stereotype |
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"I prefer daytime dogging with Aranged meets,sometimes at night with people i know in secluded areas x I wouldnt feel safe tuning up on me own at night and cant c WHO im shagging lol i dont think im brave anough,at a club i feel safe"
I would never recommend a female going on her own. |
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"I know what you mean you can't beat getting your kit off with a woman in a nice bed "
That was my point. I was curious as to why people wanted to be outside with a bunch of strangers.
But sadly one cannot ask a question or have an opinion without peeps shooting them down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean you can't beat getting your kit off with a woman in a nice bed "
But for those that enjoy Dogging that is not the case, for them you 'can't beat' the thrill of the Dogging Scenario.
No part of this lifestyle is one size fits all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its dirty sex !!
Spot On! I luv to have a group of guys all tugging away at the cocks watching me (do whatever I happen to be doing at the time) and hopefully getting to suck as many cocks as I can or just get them to cum over me. It's just so filthy!!!!!"
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! "
Xtasia have half cars for dogging x |
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we hate dogging as we find most of the guys that go to dogging spot are playing with eath other if no couples are about ,that means disease,,,how ever we do love outdoor fun but allways off fab  |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?"
No likey no lookie! Why should others need to justify to you why they find an activity exciting? Z |
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"we hate dogging as we find most of the guys that go to dogging spot are playing with eath other if no couples are about ,that means disease,,,how ever we do love outdoor fun but allways off fab "
And you make this sweeping generalisation because you have spent many years dogging at hundreds of sites up and down the country, and have seen this behaviour constantly and consistently........
OR.....
The idea of dogging is not your thing and you make assumptions based on sensationalist press releases? |
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"we hate dogging as we find most of the guys that go to dogging spot are playing with eath other if no couples are about ,that means disease,,,how ever we do love outdoor fun but allways off fab "
We have no desire to go dogging as its just not our thing but the idea that all the guys that do go are diseased is just so out there as to be completely ludicrous. |
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"we hate dogging as we find most of the guys that go to dogging spot are playing with eath other if no couples are about ,that means disease,,,how ever we do love outdoor fun but allways off fab "
Ridiculous statement. Apart from the comfort I see no difference between dogging and clubs. You are still sucking and fucking strangers and just because you are in a cosy club is no guarantee of a persons sexual health and I have seen enough guys pleasuring each other in clubs too. |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?"
I agree with you on this. I also have a selection of high heels & wouldn't want them rined & a group of guys in trainers & track suits doesn't do it for me. I do like outdoor fun though but noit with an audience. xx |
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies!
Xtasia have half cars for dogging x"
And even a picnic bench!  |
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! "
Xtasia in west brim already have indoor dogging area |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?"
I have to admit the thought of sucking a guys cock who's fully dressed with his cock poking out his zipper don't turn me on much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever happened to old school dogging, where a couple fucks in a car and is watched?
This thread sounds like most doggers here are into orgies/gangbangs/bukkakes. Not that there is anything wrong with such activities. |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?
No likey no lookie! Why should others need to justify to you why they find an activity exciting? Z"
What a stupid reply. If someone can't ask a question, what's the point in having a forum?  |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?
No likey no lookie! Why should others need to justify to you why they find an activity exciting? Z
What a stupid reply. If someone can't ask a question, what's the point in having a forum? "
thankyou! I just asked what the attraction was ! |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Tbh we don't see what the attraction is either. We don't think it's very clean or safe"
It's as clean and safe as the participants choose to make it - just like sex in clubs, house parties or the marital bed. |
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! "
Dont know if anyone has mentioned this yet - but cant be arsed to read the full thread
Hellfire club has a full multi person dogging vehicle situated in the ground floor dungeon area.
and Xtasia has a dogging style area in the loft with 2 car bonnet front ends and a picnic bench.
Apparently both are well used |
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies!
Dont know if anyone has mentioned this yet - but cant be arsed to read the full thread don't see the point of that
Hellfire club has a full multi person dogging vehicle situated in the ground floor dungeon area.
and Xtasia has a dogging style area in the loft with 2 car bonnet front ends and a picnic bench.
Apparently both are well used "
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"Tbh we don't see what the attraction is either. We don't think it's very clean or safe
It's as clean and safe as the participants choose to make it - just like sex in clubs, house parties or the marital bed."
Of course they arent as clean as in a home or club. There aren't showers at any dogging spots that I have heard of. The thought of someone going dogging and playing and not having any way of being clean doesn't sound very nice to me. |
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"Neither has anything to do with dogging."
well they do a little, as in recreating a dogging set up, although i agree it isnt dogging but good practise lol. |
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! "
Yes try Jaydees in my area they have an old Mercedes estate- yes made me chuckle when i first saw it |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Neither has anything to do with dogging.
well they do a little, as in recreating a dogging set up, although i agree it isnt dogging but good practise lol."
It's about as relevant as learning to swim without getting wet. |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?
I go dogging frequently. Always in heels and dressed to please. Your description sounds like a caricature of a dogging meet! The men (in the main) are well behaved and busy sites tend to be maintained by regulars who don't want morons spoiling their fun. Don't knock it till you've tried it.
Here we go again... I did not 'knock' it as you put it, I asked what makes people want to do it?
And I have only ever seen people dressed in joggers etc in pics on here."
I've yet to have anyone join me in joggers.. been mostly suited business men.. but I go in the day mostly. |
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Some get off on the risks and the unknown .. they never know who they may meet and have fun with ..... for me its far to risky could have all sorts of things .. and a lot of the time done in the dark so you maybe never know who they are .. |
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"Tbh we don't see what the attraction is either. We don't think it's very clean or safe
It's as clean and safe as the participants choose to make it - just like sex in clubs, house parties or the marital bed.
Of course they arent as clean as in a home or club. There aren't showers at any dogging spots that I have heard of. The thought of someone going dogging and playing and not having any way of being clean doesn't sound very nice to me. "
THe participants do shower before showing up on site.......the idea of grubby old men in trackie bottoms is all kinds of wrong.
I also go to clubs, and I have yet to see ANY of the men use the showers if they are provided. What I have seen in clubs are very d*unk blokes arriving after the pubs shut. Now, THAT you don't get when dogging.
Frankly, I am comfortable in what I do and could not care less about the thoughts of others. I do, however, think it unfair to "pigeonhole" people based on ideas of what they THINK goes on! |
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Used to arrange outdoor meets with my then play friend. He would post a meet so we had a couple of guys turn up and watch us and sometimes we would invite the guys to join us. Well one time my ex stripped me blindfolded me and tied me to a tree in a well known dogging area ! Tip!! Don't wear heels I ended up falling on my arse and twisting my ankle and breaking a nail  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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The OP is basing it on the pics she has seen on profiles....
Guys in joggers/trainers...with them down round their ankles...
These are the same dogging pics that I see on here...
Cant blame her for thinking that is what it is all about.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?"
After seeing that awful dogging tales on channel 4 nor do I |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Some get off on the risks and the unknown .. they never know who they may meet and have fun with ..... for me its far to risky could have all sorts of things .. and a lot of the time done in the dark so you maybe never know who they are .."
Some people, as you say, see that as a risk, others see it as a turn-on.
In all the time I've been involved in dogging - getting on for 30 years - I've not heard or read of an instance where a woman came to any harm as a result of going dogging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?
After seeing that awful dogging tales on channel 4 nor do I "
yes I see that too . lol Put me right off going into the woods . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some get off on the risks and the unknown .. they never know who they may meet and have fun with ..... for me its far to risky could have all sorts of things .. and a lot of the time done in the dark so you maybe never know who they are ..
Some people, as you say, see that as a risk, others see it as a turn-on.
In all the time I've been involved in dogging - getting on for 30 years - I've not heard or read of an instance where a woman came to any harm as a result of going dogging."
Well I would hate to be faces with a person I never liked in the dark and would feel like a peace of meat just there to please them . Sorry not for me I like to know who I am having sex with .. its far to risky with out that too . Open air sex with a person I know is fine as long as public cant see. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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In this case, as I said, it's about some people finding it a turn-on and others finding it too risky. It wouldn't do if we all liked the same things.
I, for one, don't get the attraction of BDSM beyond the visual aspect. The pain I'll leave to others.
One thought on dogging v other sorts of meets. Doggers tend to arrive by car/ van (and sometimes motorbike). All these carry a traceable identification mark - unlike the guys/ girls who simply meet strangers at a swing club, in a pub or, dare I say it, on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh we don't see what the attraction is either. We don't think it's very clean or safe
It's as clean and safe as the participants choose to make it - just like sex in clubs, house parties or the marital bed.
Of course they arent as clean as in a home or club. There aren't showers at any dogging spots that I have heard of. The thought of someone going dogging and playing and not having any way of being clean doesn't sound very nice to me.
THe participants do shower before showing up on site.......the idea of grubby old men in trackie bottoms is all kinds of wrong.
I also go to clubs, and I have yet to see ANY of the men use the showers if they are provided. What I have seen in clubs are very d*unk blokes arriving after the pubs shut. Now, THAT you don't get when dogging.
Frankly, I am comfortable in what I do and could not care less about the thoughts of others. I do, however, think it unfair to "pigeonhole" people based on ideas of what they THINK goes on!"
yeah they may of showered earlier on but doesn't mean they are clean and fresh does it. They could of been sitting about for hours waiting for something to happen. |
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"Neither has anything to do with dogging.
well they do a little, as in recreating a dogging set up, although i agree it isnt dogging but good practise lol.
It's about as relevant as learning to swim without getting wet."
a little over the top dont you think, it is after all recreating a dogging set up, in effect its a dogging simulater lol, its allowing people to try the actual happenings of a dogging meet to see if its for them, before trying it for real, so it does actually bear more relevance than learning to swim without getting wet. |
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"Neither has anything to do with dogging.
well they do a little, as in recreating a dogging set up, although i agree it isnt dogging but good practise lol.
It's about as relevant as learning to swim without getting wet.
a little over the top dont you think, it is after all recreating a dogging set up, in effect its a dogging simulater lol, its allowing people to try the actual happenings of a dogging meet to see if its for them, before trying it for real, so it does actually bear more relevance than learning to swim without getting wet."
to relevance.
Since arranged meets is the second generation of dogging (I stated about old school earlier), then perhaps dogging simulators are 3G |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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Since arranged meets is the second generation of dogging (I stated about old school earlier), then perhaps dogging simulators are 3G "
Dogging simulators are just an attempt to make money out of a bit of fakery. |
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Wow this thread took me back ... 33 years approx to when I was 15 and my mate and I borrowed my dad’s Polaroid camera to take photos through steamed up car windows in a local park and then tried and run off through the woods blinded by the camera flash! Moving on to when we could afford transport and took all night trips around Manchester, Cheshire and the Midlands (before Stan joined in the fun) buying night vision goggles, being astounded by mass turnouts (sometimes in fur coats and high heels – the ladies not me, I hasten to add!), ‘turf wars’ when the establishment didn’t take to new faces, boy racers, police interruptions, cold nights, warm hands, offers of money from old(er) men and all the other deliciously delinquent behaviour . I can still picture my mates face (and mine) in 1983-84 when a ‘lady’ at a well know spot in Cheshire showed her ass to our car headlights, got in as we stopped, placed two condoms on the dash and said “right boys, who’s first!” – had some 10 years or so of fun before hanging my dogging hat up.
These days the comforts of a warm, soft bed do appeal but it’s still good occasionally to step outside that comfort zone ... think I might be off to Sports Direct this weekend to buy some joggers |
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Since arranged meets is the second generation of dogging (I stated about old school earlier), then perhaps dogging simulators are 3G
Dogging simulators are just an attempt to make money out of a bit of fakery."
I assume they make their money through entrance fees and the many different room/environments they provide.
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?"
With you on that one.....no way am i getting my heels dirty lol  |
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"The OP is basing it on the pics she has seen on profiles....
Guys in joggers/trainers...with them down round their ankles...
These are the same dogging pics that I see on here...
Cant blame her for thinking that is what it is all about...."
Thankyou That was exactly what I said in the first place! The dogging pics I've seen have been of rather grotty looking guys with their knobs out and joggers on! I am sorry if that offended anyone... |
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By *nnyMan
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Thankyou That was exactly what I said in the first place! The dogging pics I've seen have been of rather grotty looking guys with their knobs out and joggers on! I am sorry if that offended anyone..."
Whilst all the ladies are straight from the beauty salon and dressed fit to grace the pages of Vogue????
I am sorry if that offended anyone...
Dogging isn't and never will be the glamour end of sex but it suits some people including, if you believe what boxes they check on their profiles, a goodly number of Fabsters. |
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?
No likey no lookie! Why should others need to justify to you why they find an activity exciting? Z
What a stupid reply. If someone can't ask a question, what's the point in having a forum? "
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"I like to peek at pics on here ( who doesn't?). And I've seen a lot of dogging meets. Usually an assorted group of guys and a couple women, all in anoraks, trainers or jog suits, with tops pulled up, bottoms pulled down as required. Now i'm a lady who likes high heels and pretty lingerie, and my home comforts: Heating and snuggly bed. So I just cannot see the attraction of dogging. Anyone care to enlighten me?
No likey no lookie! Why should others need to justify to you why they find an activity exciting? Z
What a stupid reply. If someone can't ask a question, what's the point in having a forum?
most treads on here appear to turn sour very quickly. "
Thank you. I cannot stand when someone just rubbishes an OP for asking a question. If they don't like the question, why do they read the thread? |
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! "
Xtasia has a dogging room !! |
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"who says yuou have to stay in the car !!..lol.. where i go there are picnic table and the ladies often get fucked on there"
I bet if a lot new that they would never eat there picnic off there again ,
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Thank you. I cannot stand when someone just rubbishes an OP for asking a question. If they don't like the question, why do they read the thread? "
There is also a strong suggestion having read from start to finish that the honest and factually based answers given have not sat well with some in the thread. Just my humble opinion |
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"Can you get had up for dogging in a public place ?"
its a funny law as its technically not illegal to have sex in a public place, yet it is illegal to put on a show for other people whether they want to see or not, work that out lol. |
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"Can you get had up for dogging in a public place ?
its a funny law as its technically not illegal to have sex in a public place, yet it is illegal to put on a show for other people whether they want to see or not, work that out lol."
weird so you can if no ones looking , if thay are its a show ? is that right ? |
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"Can you get had up for dogging in a public place ?
its a funny law as its technically not illegal to have sex in a public place, yet it is illegal to put on a show for other people whether they want to see or not, work that out lol.weird so you can if no ones looking , if thay are its a show ? is that right ?"
something like that lol, its a strange one, it certainly makes dogging illegal as invaribly there will be people watching, but you can go somewhere and have sex and not be breaking the law, but if there isnt anyone to see you having sex then how does anyone no if you were breaking the law or not lol, i have now confused myself. |
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"Can you get had up for dogging in a public place ?
its a funny law as its technically not illegal to have sex in a public place, yet it is illegal to put on a show for other people whether they want to see or not, work that out lol.weird so you can if no ones looking , if thay are its a show ? is that right ?
something like that lol, its a strange one, it certainly makes dogging illegal as invaribly there will be people watching, but you can go somewhere and have sex and not be breaking the law, but if there isnt anyone to see you having sex then how does anyone no if you were breaking the law or not lol, i have now confused myself."
But I bet half the fun is looking for some .. cant be easy as nine times out of ten people do this I think in the dark , lol |
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies!
Xtasia have half cars for dogging x
And even a picnic bench! "
Indeed they do |
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"Can you get had up for dogging in a public place ?
its a funny law as its technically not illegal to have sex in a public place, yet it is illegal to put on a show for other people whether they want to see or not, work that out lol.weird so you can if no ones looking , if thay are its a show ? is that right ?
something like that lol, its a strange one, it certainly makes dogging illegal as invaribly there will be people watching, but you can go somewhere and have sex and not be breaking the law, but if there isnt anyone to see you having sex then how does anyone no if you were breaking the law or not lol, i have now confused myself."
If you were seen by a policeman having sex in a public place, wouldn't he be able to arrest you and your partner for indecent exposure? |
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I don't get dogging at all. At what point are you sitting at your desk or wherever at work beavering away and you think I know what I'm gonna do when I finish work I'm going to go down the car park or woods and stand there and have a wank over someone having sex. Or decide you want to go down the woods and get fucked by loads of strangers with lynx and hoop aftershave on.
Would love to hear that conversation to there partner. Alright luv were going down to the carpark next to the beach and let all these strange blokes that havent been washed since this morning que up to fuck you while I sit and do my sudoku.
Seems proper strange to me |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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If you were seen by a policeman having sex in a public place, wouldn't he be able to arrest you and your partner for indecent exposure?"
In Scotland there'd need to be two cops.
There are no absolute rules about what the cops would do. It'd depend on the circumstances on the night, previous incidents you've been party to, your attitude ........ and a whole bunch of other stuff. |
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"Can you get had up for dogging in a public place ?
its a funny law as its technically not illegal to have sex in a public place, yet it is illegal to put on a show for other people whether they want to see or not, work that out lol.weird so you can if no ones looking , if thay are its a show ? is that right ?
something like that lol, its a strange one, it certainly makes dogging illegal as invaribly there will be people watching, but you can go somewhere and have sex and not be breaking the law, but if there isnt anyone to see you having sex then how does anyone no if you were breaking the law or not lol, i have now confused myself.
If you were seen by a policeman having sex in a public place, wouldn't he be able to arrest you and your partner for indecent exposure?"
unsure, all i no is the law states it isnt illegal to have sex in a public place but its illegal to put on a show ie, do it where others will see you, which makes it a strange one. |
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over a year ago
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unsure, all i no is the law states it isnt illegal to have sex in a public place but its illegal to put on a show ie, do it where others will see you, which makes it a strange one."
'where others WILL see you' is hard to define. 'Where others COULD see you' is a different test. |
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! "
They have a 'Dogging ' themed room in Xtasia, I think its the front of a car and camoflage netting n fake bushes . Not seen it yet tho
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unsure, all i no is the law states it isnt illegal to have sex in a public place but its illegal to put on a show ie, do it where others will see you, which makes it a strange one.
'where others WILL see you' is hard to define. 'Where others COULD see you' is a different test."
yes but if you do it where people could see you but nobody does, who is gonna no that you were having sex where you could be seen lol, your hardly going to walk into a police station and just own up to it are you lol, so basically its if someone sees you your breaking the law if they dont your not. |
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the police may get informed by the public and have pressure on them to do smething.. ie turn up when they have been advised dogging happens.. or even just patrol the area...
why shouldnt some one decide to go and get fucked by 10 people?.. it's their kick.. not for someone else to say they shouldnt... |
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"I don't get dogging at all. At what point are you sitting at your desk or wherever at work beavering away and you think I know what I'm gonna do when I finish work I'm going to go down the car park or woods and stand there and have a wank over someone having sex. Or decide you want to go down the woods and get fucked by loads of strangers with lynx and hoop aftershave on.
Would love to hear that conversation to there partner. Alright luv were going down to the carpark next to the beach and let all these strange blokes that havent been washed since this morning que up to fuck you while I sit and do my sudoku.
Seems proper strange to me"
Pmsl, the image of the hubby sat in the car doing his Sudoku while his wife is being rammed over a picnic bench makes me smile. |
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"I don't get dogging at all. At what point are you sitting at your desk or wherever at work beavering away and you think I know what I'm gonna do when I finish work I'm going to go down the car park or woods and stand there and have a wank over someone having sex. Or decide you want to go down the woods and get fucked by loads of strangers with lynx and hoop aftershave on.
Would love to hear that conversation to there partner. Alright luv were going down to the carpark next to the beach and let all these strange blokes that havent been washed since this morning que up to fuck you while I sit and do my sudoku.
Seems proper strange to me
Pmsl, the image of the hubby sat in the car doing his Sudoku while his wife is being rammed over a picnic bench makes me smile. "
tell you this post have put me of ever going to a park or woods with picnic benches .. and eating food ......... I feel sorry for the people knowing others shag on them see why public hate it , |
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By *nnyMan
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Seems proper strange to me
Pmsl, the image of the hubby sat in the car doing his Sudoku while his wife is being rammed over a picnic bench makes me smile. "
There used to be an 'older' couple who'd frequent well known dogging sites in Lanarkshire.
She'd sit doing her kntting while he went off to play. |
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We use to be avid Doggers but as years have passed I cant think of anything better than doing it in a nice warm comfy bed and not roughing. It its an age thing |
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"we hate dogging as we find most of the guys that go to dogging spot are playing with eath other if no couples are about ,that means disease,,,how ever we do love outdoor fun but allways off fab "
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"I wonder if a club has ever thought of installing an old car in a room? They could hire it out on rainy nights AND make a killing in the hiring of anoraks and joggies! "
Good idea would love to try dogging but get sore nips in the cold lol |
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channel 4 did a documentary recently ..it was very sad .the people were a bit thick and quite hideous
it must have put anyone thinking of dogging off for life .it did me |
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"It bore no relation to the reality.
You'll have seen how television treats tv/ts - a bit like that."
i realise that still it was all rather sad .. yes your quite right its like when they do a program on trannys they always show the really bad ones .im sure it can be fun i did have a brief introduction once ..
too many scruffy oiks in trainers and jogging bottoms . |
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I so want to try dogging..been trying to persuade my FWB to take me for a while but he kinda thinks it might be a problem if there's a few weirdos there...I just fancy having safe sex with some random folk...will get there eventually |
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after seeing that programme about dogging on the tv, that just endorsed why I would no more want to go dogging than I would want to eat a bucketload of shit!
not only is it a very dodgy thing to do, it seems only chavs want to participate....i' sorry but I prefer my home comforts too much! |
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"after seeing that programme about dogging on the tv, that just endorsed why I would no more want to go dogging than I would want to eat a bucketload of shit!
not only is it a very dodgy thing to do, it seems only chavs want to participate....i' sorry but I prefer my home comforts too much! "
Don't believe everything you see on the telly . |
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"the police may get informed by the public and have pressure on them to do smething.. ie turn up when they have been advised dogging happens.. or even just patrol the area...
why shouldnt some one decide to go and get fucked by 10 people?.. it's their kick.. not for someone else to say they shouldnt... "
Well said if not for you then don't judge as everyone is different with likes and dislikes |
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