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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly it all depends on the person, and what you're hoping for. Personally for me it's all about the person and their reasons, I don't always step back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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step back all the time ..unless their partner knows ..i'm seeing a guy off here with the full blessing of his wife ..they both have singles profiles and so far its working out great x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly! Well as this is a sex site and i tend not to ask questions due to the fact that its none of my buisness to why anyone is on here or attached or not, for me everyone has their own reasons and should not have to justify themselves to anyone.... However as long as they dont live on my door step and i dont know either of them then doubt i would step back.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Knowingly get involved in breaking up a relationship 
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you or as the tried and tested playground taunt goes how would you like it if I did that to you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly! Well as this is a sex site and i tend not to ask questions due to the fact that its none of my buisness to why anyone is on here or attached or not, for me everyone has their own reasons and should not have to justify themselves to anyone.... However as long as they dont live on my door step and i dont know either of them then doubt i would step back.."
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By *stmateMan
over a year ago
Notts |
"Honestly! Well as this is a sex site and i tend not to ask questions due to the fact that its none of my buisness to why anyone is on here or attached or not, for me everyone has their own reasons and should not have to justify themselves to anyone.... However as long as they dont live on my door step and i dont know either of them then doubt i would step back.. "
spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!"
but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...
onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Depends
never shit on your own doorstep, if they lived miles away and was staying in a hotel via work id meet, if they was local i wouldn't "
Same here, I've no problem with married folk playing away from home so long as my neighbours aren't likely to remark on "Jane Smith's husband" coming to mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had this happen a couple of times. We don't really get involved in people who are playing with an unaware partner anyway - But the main issue for us would be that they were not upfront about it to start with. If we had been chatting for a while before they told us it would be an immediate step back.
Perhaps we are wrong but we take the view if it is a single person profile they are single. I know there is not an option for "attached but playing away" but if they are not single then they should be upfront about it, if not on the profile then when chatting to people via messaging. We think people deserve to have some idea of who they are playing with, especially if there is any possibility of repercussions from an irate partner. But that could just be us 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!
but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...
onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved"
That's rubbish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!
but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...
onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved
That's rubbish!"
how so
you have judged the situation by deciding its ok to get involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!
but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...
onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved
That's rubbish!
how so
you have judged the situation by deciding its ok to get involved"
If you read the post correctly then you will see that what I said referred to judging people not situations.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!
but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...
onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved
That's rubbish!
how so
you have judged the situation by deciding its ok to get involved
If you read the post correctly then you will see that what I said referred to judging people not situations.
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People or situations, either way you have made a judgement call |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whether we admit it or not we al make judgements. We judge the person we are chatting with, judge whether or not we want to play.
Married or not is none of my business, if a married person is on here either man or woman then they have their own reason for it & that is none of my business.
I personally have met with married men & had repeats with them & find them to be more truthful & discrete than others that are genuinely single. xx |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
"If u get talkin 2 some 1 on here an thay eventually tell u there in a relationship do u step bk or carry on any wAy"
I would walk away simply because they werent man enough to admit it from the beginning....
More respect for honesty on here than anything.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally have met with married men & had repeats with them & find them to be more truthful & discrete than others that are genuinely single. xx"
We did it once, we met with an FB couple.
Great sex, fantastic time but driving home we both thought there were two innocent victims at home somewhere who had no idea what their 'loved ones' were up to.
Imagining the pain that they would go through if the story came out made us vow to never knowingly do that again.
Having seen the devastation that friends have gone through when a partner cheats makes us realise we want none of that on our conscience. |
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Although i'm sympathetic to the moral questions posed on here, i would definitely play with an attached woman, as to me its only casual fun and sex we'll be enjoying, not a full blown relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And what happens when said married persons "better half" finds out?? They message the people their so called faithful hubby/wifie met and you get involved. Been there once and never again! He had 3kids of whom had 2birthdays in the same weekend he got kicked out cause he was dumb enough to not talk to her about his wants in sex and cheated on her! Step away and dont look back! Marrieds may be more discrete/truthful but when it comes to them not seeing their kids what would you rather for them?? |
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I personally have met with married men & had repeats with them & find them to be more truthful & discrete than others that are genuinely single. xx"
Truthful! Really? Presumably they are willing to lie to their long term partner why on earth would they be truthful to a relative stranger. I suppose they have nothing to lose by telling the truth in that situation so you're probably right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone saying its OK should put themselves in the shoes of the person being cheated on.
Have some respect for yourself and the other person who probably doesn't deserve the heartache. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Marriage does seem complicated when mixed with fab"
it isnt marriage thats complicated, its people that mix cheating with swinging when in fact they are 2 very different things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Marriage does seem complicated when mixed with fab
it isnt marriage thats complicated, its people that mix cheating with swinging when in fact they are 2 very different things."
Our marriage is just fine X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would depend more on the circumstances, why the person is playing away.
If its to get back at other half then absolutely not but if they are trapped in a loveless marriage or partner is incapable of fulfilling their needs any more. Then yes i would carry on.
But more often than not, i would not meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would step back every time. But would also put a note on there profile so they can't come back a few weeks or months down the line and try to say they are single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Marriage does seem complicated when mixed with fab
it isnt marriage thats complicated, its people that mix cheating with swinging when in fact they are 2 very different things."
I wasn't meaning my marriage, yes I'm cheating, so I don't expect people to want to meet me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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seeing as we generally talk to couples, then we would expect them to be in a relationship lol.
if a single of any sort, then generally chatting is as far as things would go. |
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