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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why can't single men just learn to leave it, now we do our share of single men as I like to watch Ali enjoying herself, so we do chat to some if they catch our eye,
BUT even after we have told them we are really busy at the mo with a couple of meets this week, (male and female) they just have to push it until BLOCK.
It's a swinging site not a free sex site, mailing saying I'll give your wife a good fucking really isn't going to get the invite they're looking for.
My advice to single lads is there's a free dating site that gets PLENTY of mentions on here, go on there find yourself a willing partner then come back on here, you'll find the world of swinging opens up to you.
Sorry if this offends anyone, not all single men are the same, and the ones who have shown Ali the respect she deserves have had the invite they were looking for.
RANT OVER. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't single men just learn to leave it, now we do our share of single men as I like to watch Ali enjoying herself, so we do chat to some if they catch our eye,
BUT even after we have told them we are really busy at the mo with a couple of meets this week, (male and female) they just have to push it until BLOCK.
It's a swinging site not a free sex site, mailing saying I'll give your wife a good fucking really isn't going to get the invite they're looking for.
My advice to single lads is there's a free dating site that gets PLENTY of mentions on here, go on there find yourself a willing partner then come back on here, you'll find the world of swinging opens up to you.
Sorry if this offends anyone, not all single men are the same, and the ones who have shown Ali the respect she deserves have had the invite they were looking for.
RANT OVER."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't single men just learn to leave it, now we do our share of single men as I like to watch Ali enjoying herself, so we do chat to some if they catch our eye,
BUT even after we have told them we are really busy at the mo with a couple of meets this week, (male and female) they just have to push it until BLOCK.
It's a swinging site not a free sex site, mailing saying I'll give your wife a good fucking really isn't going to get the invite they're looking for.
My advice to single lads is there's a free dating site that gets PLENTY of mentions on here, go on there find yourself a willing partner then come back on here, you'll find the world of swinging opens up to you.
Sorry if this offends anyone, not all single men are the same, and the ones who have shown Ali the respect she deserves have had the invite they were looking for.
RANT OVER.
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Shame that they pester you till you feel the need to block,they clearly must have reading problems or they would just leave you alone and its the ones like that,that make women and cpls block guys ....like its not hard enough on here as it is for guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the ones that's send a message then 2 minutes later they send another one saying "what do you think" then another 2 mins later saying "are you interested".....well if you gave me the chance to answer!!!! But now blocked because I hate pushy guys  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its the ones that's send a message then 2 minutes later they send another one saying "what do you think" then another 2 mins later saying "are you interested".....well if you gave me the chance to answer!!!! But now blocked because I hate pushy guys "
Yep, they just don't see that it makes them look desparate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its the ones that's send a message then 2 minutes later they send another one saying "what do you think" then another 2 mins later saying "are you interested".....well if you gave me the chance to answer!!!! But now blocked because I hate pushy guys
Yep, they just don't see that it makes them look desparate."
Some are desperate some just arses. Do they really expect you to change your mind  Just block or ignore them. |
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"Why can't single men just learn to leave it, now we do our share of single men as I like to watch Ali enjoying herself, so we do chat to some if they catch our eye,
BUT even after we have told them we are really busy at the mo with a couple of meets this week, (male and female) they just have to push it until BLOCK.
It's a swinging site not a free sex site, mailing saying I'll give your wife a good fucking really isn't going to get the invite they're looking for.
My advice to single lads is there's a free dating site that gets PLENTY of mentions on here, go on there find yourself a willing partner then come back on here, you'll find the world of swinging opens up to you.
Sorry if this offends anyone, not all single men are the same, and the ones who have shown Ali the respect she deserves have had the invite they were looking for.
RANT OVER.
Shame that they pester you till you feel the need to block,they clearly must have reading problems or they would just leave you alone and its the ones like that,that make women and cpls block guys ....like its not hard enough on here as it is for guys "
Oh stop it!
Jumping on your fellow single man to ingratiate yourself is ugly!
I find sweeping generalisations lazy. I only meet single men, yes, I've adapted my meet criteria and attitudes because of the actions of some of those I've met, but I take the blame for being naive, not showing due diligence, not blame an entire sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im respectful and non pushy and consequently get little response.
Sometimes sticking your neck out and border line pester is the only way to get noticed."
It also gets you ignored, sorry not having a go, just have to realise how many mails a woman or couple get a day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No wonder us guys get tainted with the same brush.... Come on guys take note and buck your ideas up...."
See that's the right attitude, we do meet single men, |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Im respectful and non pushy and consequently get little response.
Sometimes sticking your neck out and border line pester is the only way to get noticed."
so if being polite and respectful gets little response, ,,
Reading the responses on this and other threads being pushy gets no response,  ,
I m thinking somethings better than nothing 
You could always try the stalker approach ,,   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have decided not to meet single blokes anymore as the majority of messages are rude, pushy or desperate and have got to the point where we can't be bothered with it anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's so annoying when you meet a guy and they keep pressuring you to make another date and when you say you're too busy they sulk and feel they've been brushed off. Then when you do think they're a gentleman and would love to see them again they start messaging constantly " What are your boundaries?", " can I fuck your ass next time?"," how do you feel about me pissing on you?"! Right now they are annoying the hell out of me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't single men just learn to leave it, now we do our share of single men as I like to watch Ali enjoying herself, so we do chat to some if they catch our eye,
BUT even after we have told them we are really busy at the mo with a couple of meets this week, (male and female) they just have to push it until BLOCK.
It's a swinging site not a free sex site, mailing saying I'll give your wife a good fucking really isn't going to get the invite they're looking for.
My advice to single lads is there's a free dating site that gets PLENTY of mentions on here, go on there find yourself a willing partner then come back on here, you'll find the world of swinging opens up to you.
Sorry if this offends anyone, not all single men are the same, and the ones who have shown Ali the respect she deserves have had the invite they were looking for.
RANT OVER.
Shame that they pester you till you feel the need to block,they clearly must have reading problems or they would just leave you alone and its the ones like that,that make women and cpls block guys ....like its not hard enough on here as it is for guys
Oh stop it!
Jumping on your fellow single man to ingratiate yourself is ugly!
I find sweeping generalisations lazy. I only meet single men, yes, I've adapted my meet criteria and attitudes because of the actions of some of those I've met, but I take the blame for being naive, not showing due diligence, not blame an entire sex. "
Damn you saw through his cunning plan! Well said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm getting exactly the same thing from single ladies. "can I sit on your face","fuck me" and "do me from behind".Soooooo boring.
Cmon ladies be original. Offer me a sandwich afterwards and maybe I won't have to keep blocking grrrrrr
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have the same problem. ( we just dealt with one by blocking him.) We post a lot of pictures. We believe that they see the picture and think it's ok to send that kind of a message.( Think of it as a salesman sticking his foot in the door.) While most of us that participate in forums in some form or fashion read others profiles and respect them. There are a lot of others that don't read them at all. Wishes don't exist so the only fair solution is " The Magic Block Button." |
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Playing the Gent has worked for me as ive had a meet with a very sexy couple, check verification.
However, I do understand the frustration as it took ages, and fortunately I was desperate so didn't become rude, but I can see how it would happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Make me laugh when single guys say all the idiots are making it harder for them ect, ive never had no problems and met quite a few off here on this profile and my old 1 and they wernt just the desperate fattys who will fuck anything, my guess is if your saying you cant get a meet because of all the other men making it hard for you chances are you are 1 of the 'men'. Its not hard to talk to couples or women, they are people just like yourself and not pieces of meat so treat them with respect and it will get you places trust me. |
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Block em! Im particularly non pushy and polite. I think its helped me to meet the kind of FWBs that are my type of people. That with reliability, stunning looks, rapier wit and a body like Jason Statham has served me well..(ok, I'm reliable!)
Block the tossers, shortens the odds for us genuine guys. |
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