does anyone else think that if you have a cpls profile on here then there should be face pics of both partys not just the fem because i bet the fems want to see wot there fuck is going to look like antone else have same view |
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over a year ago
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yep it has been mentioned on forums quite a bit that the couples profiles nearly all female pics and female face pic hardly ever a male face pic but maybe it is because the male of the couple dont play but i certainly would wanna see the male of a couple if i was the female half of another couple if that makes sense  |
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over a year ago
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my pic is on display so you can see the ugly half first  Kate's much prettier than me, so if your missus wants to fuck me, either get her down to specsavers or write to us  |
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over a year ago
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It only my wife`s pics on our profile because only my wife plays. I do agree though that if both members of the couple are plating then both photos should be on show. |
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over a year ago
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It's totally up to the profile holder what pictures they put on their profile.
Only Mrs Red is shown in our public pics and it sure aint caused us any problems  |
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"I think people should concentrate on their own profiles and stop worrying what others do on theirs....
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I think people should concentrate on their own posts and stop worrying what others do on theirs....
Seriously though, it's a discussion forum, for each of these threads, there may be a little tip or hint to help those interested. |
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over a year ago
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we happly put face pic's on our account,if others don't want to do this that's fine,but if your not happy with putting face pic's up,when you mail some1 attach your face pictures,both face pictures xx  |
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over a year ago
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We have pics of both of us because most times the woman decides whether to meet or not.
If I show her a profile with only womens pics on,Trace just says "Where's the guy?",if there are none its game over.
Just because Trace is bi doesn't mean she only wants to play with the women,no matter how gorgeous they may be.
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Some people can't put face pics on the site because of their jobs! I know that "no one would use this site aqainst them" but it has been done using pics from other sites. I know 2 people who were sacked because they are in "the caring profession" and they posted pics on facebook which someone pointed out to their managers.
So it's not straightforward.
And, I agree with "Satisfy Jane" that people shouldn't be forced into putting their face pics on anyway. It's their business and their decision! |
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"Some people can't put face pics on the site because of their jobs! I know that "no one would use this site aqainst them" but it has been done using pics from other sites. I know 2 people who were sacked because they are in "the caring profession" and they posted pics on facebook which someone pointed out to their managers.
So it's not straightforward.
And, I agree with "Satisfy Jane" that people shouldn't be forced into putting their face pics on anyway. It's their business and their decision!"
YES!! i agree that some people can't put face pictures up because of there"jobs"  they could simply put face pictures in there private gallery,or even send them with an email on there first contact.. |
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"Some people can't put face pics on the site because of their jobs! I know that "no one would use this site aqainst them" but it has been done using pics from other sites. I know 2 people who were sacked because they are in "the caring profession" and they posted pics on facebook which someone pointed out to their managers.
So it's not straightforward.
And, I agree with "Satisfy Jane" that people shouldn't be forced into putting their face pics on anyway. It's their business and their decision!"
I don't think that's what the OP is saying - the point they're raising is why in couples profiles is it only the female half that is shown and not the male. I
I do find it funny when people say "can't show face pic because of job" if someone you knows sees your pics it because they registered to be on the site looking for nsa nookie too so what's the problem?!! 
Now if you say I keep my pics private because I'm discrete and it's my business - now that makes sense to me! |
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"Some people can't put face pics on the site because of their jobs! I know that "no one would use this site aqainst them" but it has been done using pics from other sites. I know 2 people who were sacked because they are in "the caring profession" and they posted pics on facebook which someone pointed out to their managers.
So it's not straightforward.
And, I agree with "Satisfy Jane" that people shouldn't be forced into putting their face pics on anyway. It's their business and their decision!
I don't think that's what the OP is saying - the point they're raising is why in couples profiles is it only the female half that is shown and not the male. I
I do find it funny when people say "can't show face pic because of job" if someone you knows sees your pics it because they registered to be on the site looking for nsa nookie too so what's the problem?!!
Now if you say I keep my pics private because I'm discrete and it's my business - now that makes sense to me! "
Just to make a point, that people don't have to be registered to see those pics.
Example, we received a message some time back from a guy that was convinced he knew Colleen from somewhere, even telling us what he believed was her real name, I explained he was wrong and that Colleen is her real name, he argued that he knew it was who he assumed, then said he will show his mates as they would be able to confirm it.
Not everyone is so secretive about swinging, it could quite easily be a mate saying 'isn't this so and so that works at your place'.
So I do get why some feel the need to hide faces, and it's their prerogative.
However, I also believe the OP meant couple that do have pics but only of one partner, usually the female.
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I think the OP is talkin about Pictures in general and not necessarily face pictures.
I agree put pictures on if you want it is your profile.
Downside is that there are people like us on here who will not consider meeting without seeing pictures of both of those we are going to meet.
We don't mind if those pictures are sent to us in that initial contact mail but we are not going to ask for pictures we simply say "sorry no blind dates"
We get a lot of winks and we are happy to get them, but if there are no pictures of both parties or pics of only one of the couple there is no way we are going to wink back to show interest because the truth is we have no idea if we are interested or not.
So don't have the pictures if you don't want to but be aware that you will get less responses and like Shagalooney I think that stating this or your own views in the forum might help people get the best out of the site. |
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i personaly dont think there jobs stop them putting pictures up because this is a swingers site and if your bosses seen them on this site then there only on this site for same reason as you so thay wouldnt have a leg to stand on if thay fired you |
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Not all couples want to meet couples,we're only meeting single men at the minute so I took Robs off the public profile and they're now in the private gallery for friends,but when we were meeting couples I did'nt entertain any that only had fem pics up  |
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"i personaly dont think there jobs stop them putting pictures up because this is a swingers site and if your bosses seen them on this site then there only on this site for same reason as you so thay wouldnt have a leg to stand on if thay fired you"
Read my post above.
Anyone here could be rather open with who they choose about their private life.
So, how easy is it for someone to say to a non swinging non member, hey take a look at this profile here, isn't that so and so that you know from work, local cafe, pub, a family member.
So,, it's possible that non swingers can get to see face pics, it's possible that members could pretend not to be a member also. |
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"I think the OP is talkin about Pictures in general and not necessarily face pictures.
I agree put pictures on if you want it is your profile.
Downside is that there are people like us on here who will not consider meeting without seeing pictures of both of those we are going to meet.
We don't mind if those pictures are sent to us in that initial contact mail but we are not going to ask for pictures we simply say "sorry no blind dates"
We get a lot of winks and we are happy to get them, but if there are no pictures of both parties or pics of only one of the couple there is no way we are going to wink back to show interest because the truth is we have no idea if we are interested or not.
So don't have the pictures if you don't want to but be aware that you will get less responses and like Shagalooney I think that stating this or your own views in the forum might help people get the best out of the site."
Thats exactly how we feel and its even worse when you get a Friend request from someone with no pics at all.
Whats that all about ffs? lol 
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