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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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Am I the only one who chuckles a little when someone's profile has a statement say something like "Not meeting bi guys".
Given the number of guys with straight profile who contact me I alway think you want to bet on that. Unless their not meeting guys I think there's quite a chance they are. |
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"So many women won't meet with bi guys though. Look through the old threads and see.
It makes no difference to me at all. It is wrong to lie, however I can understand why. "
Whenever I see a woman say she won't see bi guys I can't help but wonder why. I can't see what difference it makes if it's a 1-on-1 meet.
Perhaps you can enlighten me? |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Whenever I see a woman say she won't see bi guys I can't help but wonder why. I can't see what difference it makes if it's a 1-on-1 meet.
Perhaps you can enlighten me? "
For me personally....
I dont like the image of man on man fun and that can and will put me off having fun with him....
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"It's mainly the perception that they're having random meets 24-7 with other guys and are utterly riddled with sti's.
Completely wrong, but you can understand the fear."
Erm..........we dont ALL think that!!! |
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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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Quiet a range of reasons will be given on that one. Most common seem to be perceived disease risk or being turned off by the thought of want they've been up to. With couples you can often add the fear that the man will jump on the male half during the meet. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Am I the only one who chuckles a little when someone's profile has a statement say something like "Not meeting bi guys".
Given the number of guys with straight profile who contact me I alway think you want to bet on that. Unless their not meeting guys I think there's quite a chance they are."
We don't chuckle - just move on to another profile!
Whatever their reason - it's there's and there's unlikely to be anything you can do to change their mind, even if you don't agree with their _iews!
Of course you could lie and say you're straight on your profile but bi/curious via message - but when guys do that with us we don't bother replying! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
" With couples you can often add the fear that the man will jump on the male half during the meet."
That gets me...
We have had couples reply rudely about how HE is perfectly capable of playing it straight and my man has nothing to worry about!
They assumed it was my OH that had problem with it, when in fact he couldnt care less...so long as they did play straight....Its ME that doesnt like it! |
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"So many women won't meet with bi guys though. Look through the old threads and see.
It makes no difference to me at all. It is wrong to lie, however I can understand why. "
for us swinging is all about honesty. If a guy contacts us with the I'm bi but don't put it on my profile as it puts off some people line. We just think so one of us is beeing told lies, not attractive |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
I dont state "Wont meet Bi guys" simple because they will change it when they message you....
IF I play with a guy at club and find out later he is bi.....Not a problem...
Knowing beforehand puts me off.... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I never understand why someone would want to have sex with people who may be uncomfortable... sex is great if all parties connect
I love sex but my personal integrity and self respect is more important than emptying my scrotum... I ain't lying for any meet.
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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago
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"IF I play with a guy at club and find out later he is bi.....Not a problem...
Knowing beforehand puts me off...."
Well that's the point. Sexual pleasure is all in the mind - it's what you know and how it affects you.
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
"I never understand why someone would want to have sex with people who may be uncomfortable... sex is great if all parties connect
I love sex but my personal integrity and self respect is more important than emptying my scrotum... I ain't lying for any meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one who chuckles a little when someone's profile has a statement say something like "Not meeting bi guys".
Given the number of guys with straight profile who contact me I alway think you want to bet on that. Unless their not meeting guys I think there's quite a chance they are."
well, those are the ones who are 'bi on the sly' who may be married and want something extra or just don't admit it on here in case anyone they know comes across their profile....and yes, that was an excuse given to me once! but you can usually tell whether they are bi or not by looking at their verifications, unless of course they have hidden them, they are usually always from men!!  |
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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Aaaaaah the elusive single bi guy who would be happy to bring along a bi friend for me to enjoy watching as well as actively taking part in the fun!  "
I guess their all getting lost somewhere between Dorset and Derbyshire trying to work out wherr you are. |
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"Aaaaaah the elusive single bi guy who would be happy to bring along a bi friend for me to enjoy watching as well as actively taking part in the fun!
I guess their all getting lost somewhere between Dorset and Derbyshire trying to work out wherr you are."
Damn! Maybe I should change my location to 'over the rainbow' |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Aaaaaah the elusive single bi guy who would be happy to bring along a bi friend for me to enjoy watching as well as actively taking part in the fun!
I guess their all getting lost somewhere between Dorset and Derbyshire trying to work out wherr you are.
Damn! Maybe I should change my location to 'over the rainbow' "
Made it to west Brom yet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love bi guys but understand it putting off some people cos there are some sexual practices that put me off knowing someone has done them beforehand. Such as drinking watersports |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I love bi guys but understand it putting off some people cos there are some sexual practices that put me off knowing someone has done them beforehand. Such as drinking watersports"
Not sure watersports has ever been more prevalent amongst bi guys than couples or single females?  |
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"Aaaaaah the elusive single bi guy who would be happy to bring along a bi friend for me to enjoy watching as well as actively taking part in the fun!
I guess their all getting lost somewhere between Dorset and Derbyshire trying to work out wherr you are.
Damn! Maybe I should change my location to 'over the rainbow'
Made it to west Brom yet? "
No means of transport (crying emoticon) so had to cancel...really gutted!  Next Sunday for sure in Chams  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't know what the big fuss is abt,yes would be niceif all honest,true people change it to suit who they are interested in,personally I like bi men so not a problem for me, |
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"Not sure watersports has ever been more prevalent amongst bi guys than couples or single females?
^ ^ This, very much! wtf??"
Did you read the original comment the poster just said that drinking watersports turned he off and she could understand why some things turned other people off. Does nothing squick you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The lying and deception about sexual orientation is one of the main reasons we stopped meeting.
We're sure some guys see it as a challenge and enjoy the thrill of being able to slip through the net.
It probably gives them an extra buzz knowing they've duped a shag out of someone who wouldn't normally meet them.  
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whenever I see a woman say she won't see bi guys I can't help but wonder why. I can't see what difference it makes if it's a 1-on-1 meet.
Perhaps you can enlighten me?
For me personally....
I dont like the image of man on man fun and that can and will put me off having fun with him....
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I'd imagine that's one of the main reasons people don't want to meet bi guys. I said something similar in a post the other day except I was less tactful.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure watersports has ever been more prevalent amongst bi guys than couples or single females?
^ ^ This, very much! wtf??
Did you read the original comment the poster just said that drinking watersports turned he off and she could understand why some things turned other people off. Does nothing squick you?"
thank you
as bi guys turn some people off cos of the thought of man on man is a turn off. I said i understand cos some things like people who drink watersports would turn me off them.
i love bi guys myself |
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