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over a year ago
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Hi I travel for my occupation and find it hard to find meets on my travels couples groups singles is it because they think I'm miles away ? I always state where I am at any one place or is more that they would rather play with locals ! ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it don't bother me but lots of people don't like shagging guys who are just passing thro, I think it makes them feel like a make do shag while they are in the area ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I travel for my occupation and find it hard to find meets on my travels couples groups singles is it because they think I'm miles away ? I always state where I am at any one place or is more that they would rather play with locals ! "
Same here ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a guess here, (as i don't know the workings of a female mind, lol) but, quite a few females on here are wary of guys that cannot accommodate. Maybe put your reasons for that on your profile and then let them decide. Or not, as the choice is yours and its your profile after all. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Just a guess here, (as i don't know the workings of a female mind, lol) but, quite a few females on here are wary of guys that cannot accommodate. Maybe put your reasons for that on your profile and then let them decide. Or not, as the choice is yours and its your profile after all."
And we can rely on guys to tell the truth, can we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a guess here, (as i don't know the workings of a female mind, lol) but, quite a few females on here are wary of guys that cannot accommodate. Maybe put your reasons for that on your profile and then let them decide. Or not, as the choice is yours and its your profile after all.
And we can rely on guys to tell the truth, can we?"
Why not? Not all guys on here are liars. |
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A lot of people need enough notice to arrange things - when you've got family etc, or even to arrange transport. It's often not easy to meet, just because someone is in the vicinity today, and it's a one day only offer.
Also, if you message others in advance, I'm guessing that they'll give priority - from the dozens of messages they'll likely get - to locals, who also offer the potential for repeat meets. It's common for first meets to be socials, and if someone's around for a few hours or a day or so, there's not much possibility to follow up the coffee and chat with a full on session.
If it's an ongoing issue, maybe clubs are going to work better... but single guys often have to pay a fair bit for membership, so use them if you're a fairly regular visitor. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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When I am travelling I'll have a good look in the area I am visiting and message people who catch my eye. As I can't be bothered to change my profile location (I'd forget to change it back) I'll put 'Visiting XXXX' in the message header so when they check my profile they won't think 'why is she messaging me?' As I am in a hotel room there isn't any accommodation problems.
Give people lots of notice and you never know. Alternatively see if there are any clubs nearby and see if you can get in on a visitors pass. |
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