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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i'm new to swinging. never done a threesome. mmf or couples mfmf . i keep backing out because i don't know what to expect and i'm afraid i might get stage fright. has anybody any advice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to the couple and express that you are a bit nervous, a "good" couple will make single blokes at ease and allay your fears.
I think you would overcome your nerves in the thick of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nerves are natural. But, once you meet them, just have a light conversation, break the ice and so forth and lay out your expectations and take it from there..
Most probably they will be nervous too, but you just take your time and soon enough you will be comfortable in the scenarios mentioned.
Good luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was very nervous on my 1st, 2nd and probably 3rd. The fact that everyone I have either met or spoken to on here has been super cool has helped me relax a little. Don't let the nerves stop you from maybe having an amazing experience.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would say talk to the couple on here for a while get to know them well then
arrange a social that way you can see how you all get on in "real life"
Then go from there x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just dont do what i need when i was 18 with my first older cpl and high five the bloke mid shag its not as funny ss youd think"
Did he dislocate his shoulder twisting round for the high five?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm straight but would like to try mmf
Wouldn't do that as it may turn you bi
Then suddenly you become a cock hungry mincing jazz handed dancer "
ha ha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm straight but would like to try mmf
Wouldn't do that as it may turn you bi
Then suddenly you become a cock hungry mincing jazz handed dancer "
Decisions decisions  |
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By *kippy99Man
over a year ago
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Jazz handed dancer lmao very funny.
I've had the pleasure of a couple of couples, always terrified but always enjoyed it thoroughly. Have to agree with the majority nerves soon go when you get started. I'm no jazz handed dancer but recently experienced a mmmfexcellent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got stage fright twice, when I met people from another site. Turns out that my head wasn't in the right place as I just split from my wife and didn't have sex for over a year, so was just trying to get into bed with anyone. However recently I'm more relaxed, honest with myself and those I've slept with and not put any pressure on myself.
My advice would be firstly be honest with yourself, do you really want what you're looking for? Secondly are you actually attracted to the person/ people you're talking to or meeting with?
If you're happy with both of these, you're still probably gonna get nervous, but that should be part of the thrill. Dont take it too seriously, have a laugh, poke fun at yourself and the ones your meeting.
I think anyone who says they don't get nervous when meeting someone new that they're about to get intimate with, is either lying or very experienced and has become second nature. So chillout, relax and enjoy the ride. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i thank everybody for there advice and will take it all on board. except for the joke. i wouldn't tell anybody. good luck everybody i did laugh to some of the funny comments. and its nice to know there are people out there that are willing to give there professional advice take care all |
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