hiya,i'm a tv who'd like to attend a swingers party,but keep meeting opposition as i'd only upset & confuse the str8's( poor them!)
am i right in thinking tv's are excluded by a ''moral majority'' or that you're all a bunch of precious bigots who are far from open minded as you profess?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really ?? A lot of events on here have tv's if your talking about private parties then its down to the host who they have attend and not a bigoted choice. Although judging by this post it may just be you |
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To be honest I’ve never come across any bigoted intolerance forbidding TV’s etc from attending events
But I certainly would not extend an welcome invitaion to anyone who displayed the sort of indignant attitude that prejudges the motives of people don’t share my views..
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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago
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Lots of parties are limited in size and content. We all have had to be excluded if that is what the host wants as it there party. Single males are excluded all the time as there are too many of them. Age is another exclusion zone. Just find the parties that want you to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" hiya,i'm a tv who'd like to attend a swingers party,but keep meeting opposition as i'd only upset & confuse the str8's( poor them!)
am i right in thinking tv's are excluded by a ''moral majority'' or that you're all a bunch of precious bigots who are far from open minded as you profess? "
As a part time TV and regular partygoer.. I feel inclined to comment. Firstly, I don't go to swingers parties or anywhere public dressed by personal choice.. however everyone knows what I do and I never feel any prejudice, just curiosity.. and we have on occassion taken a TV friend who seemed to be generally accepted and enjoyed her evenings.
I think what you should accept is that male bi-sexuality in ANY form is in my party-going experience, still very much a taboo subject and attitudes by the majority of males still a little 'victorian'.we rarely see any male to male interaction even though we know a good percentage of guys as parts of couples there are bi or curious
If you've never attended a full blown swingers party, you can be forgiven for thinking that they are all about free for all sex with everyone with piles of mattresses everywhere.. the majority of them are nothing like this.. Most larger swingers parties are mostly couples.. with very few singles invited.. and even then, in our circles, singles are generally invited on merit of their attitude rather than their sexuality or sexual prowess. The parties we attend are a gathering of friends and like minded souls that like a laugh and drink... Sex stuff may occur later upstairs between consenting souls and quite a few are just there socially networking new people for a meet later in private.
So I feel what you say is a little harsh to the general swinger party population.. However, I do get the frustration you appear to be feeling, but by calling people bigots, you ain't going to win any brownie points.. If you've never attended any generally swinging parties you're attitude could be deemed just as hypocritical? You yourself are judging a group of people that you don't understand..
I'm not a great wordsmith.. but I hope this comes across OK 
Kinks xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"to be refused admission because you are a tv ,if not bigotry is what then?
jurisprudence?  "
Maybe they just prefer listening to the radio? After all, who in their right mind would enjoy having sex when eastenders is on in the background. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've been to a couple, but they were mostly CD parties anyway. These weren't swinging parties, as most people sat around chatting and playing a game on the telly.
I've never really felt discriminated against, because I am a CD. I had one invite to a party given to me when I was dressed and then close to the date I was asked if I could go in male mode, but frankly I think the invite had been given in haste and he just wanted to put me off.
I'm with what Kinkypeeps say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest I’ve never come across any bigoted intolerance forbidding TV’s etc from attending events
But I certainly would not extend an welcome invitaion to anyone who displayed the sort of indignant attitude that prejudges the motives of people don’t share my views..
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Absolutely this!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" hiya,i'm a tv who'd like to attend a swingers party,but keep meeting opposition as i'd only upset & confuse the str8's( poor them!)
am i right in thinking tv's are excluded by a ''moral majority'' or that you're all a bunch of precious bigots who are far from open minded as you profess? "
Well, thats not going to win you any friends, or any invites for that matter. |
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" hiya,i'm a tv who'd like to attend a swingers party,but keep meeting opposition as i'd only upset & confuse the str8's( poor them!)
am i right in thinking tv's are excluded by a ''moral majority'' or that you're all a bunch of precious bigots who are far from open minded as you profess? "
try arranging your own party instead of expecting others to do it for you |
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