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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that hard! The FB and I had an MMMF Friday!
Keep looking and I'm sure you'll find a suitable candidate! Good luck!!
*I'd volunteer but the FB and I are at xtasia all weekend! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?!
think it would be dam well impossible as you've blocked guys ?"
Nothing stopping them messaging folks - saves a lot of 'no thanks' when guys they're not interested in mail!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As previous poster said, you want a mmf (so you claim) but block single men from sending you a message. So is it just men you message that cannot make it? I can understand why you do this but perhaps you need to be clearer in your original post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Problem we had was we had people contacting us from 250 miles plus away when we said localish. We like to chat to people first before anything proceeds, and we were called time wasters for this. So sad . |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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"there is alot of single guys on here looking for single guys it could be that you have the single guys block cause it does say you not looking for single guys"
Perhaps they've been innundated with fantasisers and timewasters when they've posted in the past so they've blocked single men.
Maybe the OP is commenting on their lack of success now they're trying to search for a suitable candidate! The more successful men have precious little time on their hands. Look at me ... my only free slot this month is Saturday 31st  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Problem we had was we had people contacting us from 250 miles plus away when we said localish. We like to chat to people first before anything proceeds, and we were called time wasters for this. So sad ."
local means different things to different people, uk is local to me,
state within 20 miles, or whatever you perceive to be local,
many people do reply to messages by saying your too far away, as an excuse to put someone off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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local means different things to different people, uk is local to me,
state within 20 miles, or whatever you perceive to be local,
many people do reply to messages by saying your too far away, as an excuse to put someone off.
Lets be realistic when our profile say we can't accom, so people think we will travel 200 miles for a few hours, sorry local is local ie up to 50 miles. Also we are honest if the person is not right for us we do tell them, same as people after chatting to us say we are not for them, I prefer someone to be honest than bull shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm assuming that as have you have blocked singlemales you are being proactive in seeking them out. In that case the advice is no different to most single guys, your profile is shockingly poor. |
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"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?! "
Ok, now I know this has been said before, you've requested that males inbox you yet we're blocked from doing so?
So those who say they are looking and making their choice as to who to meet should read what they've requested in their meet request in their profile page.
This is a very common error when arranging meets.
Couples who prefer to seek out males to meet decide to arrange a meet and then forget to adjust their likes section and unblock single males when they've requested to be in boxed.
I think it would be an idea for the site to have a reminder when creating a meet to unblock those that are normally blocked if you've selected them for this meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with OP - its easy to find MMF / GB with mates / brothers - but I find it near on impossible to being together two stranger men for MMF - most say yeah yeah then melt on the day - I only do it with mates/ brothers now ! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wouldnt say its difficult finding a single bloke, maybe the word missing is 'suitable'.
messages from london or scotland showing interest are hardly helpful if you live in the midlands.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have started looking and to be honest its quite difficult. Perhaps we better knuckle down and study the form. "
My lady friend and I have been looking for another male. It is interesting how many men seeking 1 on 1 with her suddenly shy away when a threesome MFM is mentioned.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with OP - its easy to find MMF / GB with mates / brothers - but I find it near on impossible to being together two stranger men for MMF - most say yeah yeah then melt on the day - I only do it with mates/ brothers now ! X "
Brothers? Isn't that incest or have I misunderstood?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with OP - its easy to find MMF / GB with mates / brothers - but I find it near on impossible to being together two stranger men for MMF - most say yeah yeah then melt on the day - I only do it with mates/ brothers now ! X
Brothers? Isn't that incest or have I misunderstood? "
would only be incest if the brothers fucked each other.
nothing stopping siblings sharing the same lady |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
To much on the OP blocking single guys!!!
You are assuming they dont contact single men!
Maybe, just maybe, the OP picks the profiles they like and mails them? Blocking single men simply prevents unwanted messages/attention from those they have no interest in!
Ever considered that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm assuming that as have you have blocked singlemales you are being proactive in seeking them out. In that case the advice is no different to most single guys, your profile is shockingly poor. "
Have you guys ever in your life pulled a punch? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.
We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.
We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected. "
I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard. |
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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago
Greensburg |
We haven't had as much luck with single guys as I thought we would, but its definitely not from a lack of messages, just from a lack of desireable ones. Some of the approaches and expectations defy explanation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We haven't had as much luck with single guys as I thought we would, but its definitely not from a lack of messages, just from a lack of desireable ones. Some of the approaches and expectations defy explanation. "
Feel that pain.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something. "
For me it's the ones that think they are joining in because the other man involved isn't good enough... I take great offence at that. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something. "
heck I'm just here to get my rocks off....I don't care if I'm crap shag as long as I enjoy it. gods gift ? Mmmmm maybe not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something.
For me it's the ones that think they are joining in because the other man involved isn't good enough... I take great offence at that. X"
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I've had a few mmf meets and I don't find it that hard to find a single guy, but like people have said it does take a while for the right guy. Especially those that can perform in front of a.n.other guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the problem of find a couple that would like me to join in I think there's to many blokes been idiots on here so the real genuine guys don't get a look in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really?? I'm surprised by this we have endless messages from men asking to join us? Maybe there aren't so many horny males in your area. Xx"
Oh great, hordes of competition  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really?? I'm surprised by this we have endless messages from men asking to join us? Maybe there aren't so many horny males in your area. Xx"
We get loads of guys asking.. but rarely ones we would accept. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im still looking for my first MMF. Have been lucky enough for an FFM somehow...if anyone is near London or looking for another to join. Im available (well, I have to give it a go eh).
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By *enguy30Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?! " Its a shame you are not in manchester!!!! im always looking for couples who are looking for MMF! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.
We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected.
I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard." free at the right time... so there wife's don't find out there fuckin another woman
* cReEpS rOunD cRyPt * -|- |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard. free at the right time... so there wife's don't find out there fuckin another woman
* cReEpS rOunD cRyPt * -|-"
Lol about right.. I'm also getting picky in my old age.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.
We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected.
I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard." bloody difficult, but hope to rectify soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.
We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected.
I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard.bloody difficult, but hope to rectify soon"
Still not understanding why though people have issues or problems. |
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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something.
For me it's the ones that think they are joining in because the other man involved isn't good enough... I take great offence at that. X"
Couldn't agree more. Its amazing to me how many guys have turned us completely off with little mind games and not nearly as clever and subtle as they think suggestions and assumptions.
We just like to push the envelope and find ways to get each other off even harder. We are already each other's ultimate lover. It has been surprising how many guys have messaged with the assumption that they are coming in to "help" me in an area in which I am deficient.
We have even had guys try to begin to joust with me for dominance in their earliest communications. Complete turn off.
My guess is they are the same guys that post that no one will meet up with them . |
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