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What makes a BJ good or bad?
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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I was surprised when I male friend said that the majority of women he has met give bad blowjobs.
He has been swinging for a very long time and is very experienced. He said that the very worst is the toothy, dry ones.
What makes for a good or bad blowjob? All tips gratefully received.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Not sure I have had a dry one. I agree with the teeth though. Imagine seeing someone's head lift off and their teeth still being wrapped around your cock  "
I don't think he meant dry because they had taken their false teeth out, but I will check with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bad - teeth. Perfunctory bobbing up and down thinking that's how its done. Drooling.
Good - licking kissing and sucking the shaft. Attention to balls. Variety of technique. A good gag reflex and willingness to swallow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"tongue action is good: around the bell end
teeth scraping is fucking dire
I guess biting would be a no no too then?  "
So when I use my teeth to pull down his foreskin and jab my finger in his pee-hole... that's a bad thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends on the person and situation, techniques differ. turn on is to take a phone call when being treated to one, a challenge then for both parties, one to distract and one to concentrate lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I feel I can contribute significantly on this thread
I've had blowjobs off guys and girls, and I wouldn't say one sex is bette than the other it just comes down to the person.
The very first I ever ad she had her tongue pierced, she kept my cock nice and wet and teased the tip with her metal bar. That was the best blowjob I've had
I had a guy give me one and I was shocked at this but he actually used too much tongue, didnt think that would be possible. He pulled my skin back too far and it was so sensitive I was almost in pain, horrible sensation,
So the key to a great blowjob is be gentle, keep it nice and wet, don't be rough with your hands either if u decide to use them too. Just concentrate on using nice long slow strokes from the tip to the balls, and give the bell end some love with your tongue. Personally I'd find that heavenly x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it depends on the guy, each man likes something different. Two mouths on one cock seems to go down well.  "
Exactly. My FB doesn't like his balls played with during BJs. He says its too sensitive. Some men like a bit of tooth action. Some men like the women to drool.
In my experience, most men seem to enjoy a bit of deepthroating, so that's probably on the list. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I think it depends on the guy, each man likes something different. Two mouths on one cock seems to go down well.
Exactly. My FB doesn't like his balls played with during BJs. He says its too sensitive. Some men like a bit of tooth action. Some men like the women to drool.
In my experience, most men seem to enjoy a bit of deepthroating, so that's probably on the list."
I'm going fail the finals then. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I think it depends on the guy, each man likes something different. Two mouths on one cock seems to go down well.
Exactly. My FB doesn't like his balls played with during BJs. He says its too sensitive. Some men like a bit of tooth action. Some men like the women to drool.
In my experience, most men seem to enjoy a bit of deepthroating, so that's probably on the list.
I'm going fail the finals then."
As the old joke goes, describe the worst BJ you've ever had....
Bloody marvellous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of saliva, tongue flicking and licking around the bell end. Rotate between ah hard & slow suck and rhythm.
Licking up & down the shaft.
Also paying attention to their balls and definitely no teeth! |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Lots of saliva, tongue flicking and licking around the bell end. Rotate between ah hard & slow suck and rhythm.
Licking up & down the shaft.
Also paying attention to their balls and definitely no teeth! "
Sounds like you have been practicing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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funny enough I met a gent recently who asked me to use my teeth. I felt very nervous about it. I was afraid to hurt him. But upon request, I dragged my teeth along the length of him, and bit down at several points too. It was a first for me, but what he wanted. At the end of the day, I take my cue from the gent in question... |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"funny enough I met a gent recently who asked me to use my teeth. I felt very nervous about it. I was afraid to hurt him. But upon request, I dragged my teeth along the length of him, and bit down at several points too. It was a first for me, but what he wanted. At the end of the day, I take my cue from the gent in question..."
Just an aside on your user name: I was born there - my favourite sugar too! |
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Absolutely no teeth. Ever! (for me anyway)
And please vary the speed. Going at it like a jackhammer is a sure fire way to guarantee boredom and a lost erection.
The stroke should focus on the back of the shaft. That's the point where the pivot of your fingers should be.
Everything else, you can get by reading the guys visual and audible cues. If he's enjoying it, he'll let you know for the most part.
(And most of all, don't assume he'll cum. A lot of guys can't cum from blowjobs)
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"Ive heard this n all....if its bad why let the women do it...is what i dont get.
And makes me wonder if guys lie to women about being good at it"
I usually let it happen for about 2 minutes. Then again, i'm usually upfront about not particularly liking them. Just so all involved parties are on the same page.
Just like some guys REALLY enjoy giving women oral, some women REALLY enjoy giving guys blowjobs. In a situation like that, i'd be happy to let the person get their rocks off for a time before moving on to other things.
Give and take and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Teethy bjs are terrible. Wet ones are good but not too wet. Had one once and the woman kept flobbing on my little chap. I had so much gob on my nob (I'm a poet) that for a moment I'd thought cum. Bleaagh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me guys seem to enjoy lots of moisture and tongue whilst sucking...pretty deep if not all the way and eye contact...varied speeds and attention to the tip  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sucking it like a lollipop ....that's the best way to push us guys really to the edge ....plus really wet spit and saliva and of course deepthroating ...even the attempt is much appreciated
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh you would have to be a brave man to tell a girl shes shit at giving a bj while your cocks in her mouth "
Well would you not advise them or give pointers if i was shit at something id want to know.
And if they dont woukd a person not know something was wrong caise of body language |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of saliva, tongue flicking and licking around the bell end. Rotate between ah hard & slow suck and rhythm.
Licking up & down the shaft.
Also paying attention to their balls and definitely no teeth!
Sounds like you have been practicing "
Of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"tongue action is good: around the bell end
teeth scraping is fucking dire"
In my years I've given many blow jobs. My ex loved gentle biting nibbling and lot guys I've been with since have loved it. Only 1 has said didn't like it |
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"tongue action is good: around the bell end
teeth scraping is fucking dire
In my years I've given many blow jobs. My ex loved gentle biting nibbling and lot guys I've been with since have loved it. Only 1 has said didn't like it "
I don't really get this. So because only one man has told you he didn't like teeth with his blowjob, that suddenly means the majority of guys do?
I could use that logic with going down on a woman, except that it would make no sense whatsoever.
The few women who used their teeth on me during a blowjob received a reflexive shove. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Overuse of teeth, pulling skin back too far and nails sunk in balls are fantastic at the time! But come the morning its not nice walking around feeling like you've had your privates slammed in a car door!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"tongue action is good: around the bell end
teeth scraping is fucking dire
In my years I've given many blow jobs. My ex loved gentle biting nibbling and lot guys I've been with since have loved it. Only 1 has said didn't like it
I don't really get this. So because only one man has told you he didn't like teeth with his blowjob, that suddenly means the majority of guys do?
I could use that logic with going down on a woman, except that it would make no sense whatsoever.
The few women who used their teeth on me during a blowjob received a reflexive shove."
U get idea of if guy does or doesn't like something. I like using teeth and theory of it guys don't like but when done right lot guys love it. I'm not sayin majority just saying of guys I've played with lots like me nibbling their cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Girls giving a great blowjob isn’t as simple as shoving a cock in your mouth.
Tip #1: Don’t immediately put it in your mouth, tease the shaft, the balls, rub the most sensitive parts of the head against your lips but make him desperate for it to enter your mouth
Tip #2: When you’re ready, take his cock in your mouth very slowly. Tightly wrap your lips around it as you take as much of it in as you can. Make your lips tighter at the head of his penis and then loosen them a little as you take the rest of his shaft. Do this as you move your mouth up and down his penis.
Tip #3: Don’t forget about your tongue. You can still move your tongue while his penis is in your mouth so make use of it to tickle the head and the shaft while it’s in your mouth. Rolling it around the head of his penis will really get him going and is a good way to finish him quickly if you need to.
Tip #4: So he's ready to cum and if you are going to take it in your mouth, you need to decide if you’re going to swallow it or spit it out. Swallowing is usually the best way for it as a lot of guys can get offended by you not swallowing it. However it’s completely up to what you whatever you prefer.
I couldn't comment on whether guys give a better blow job as its women all the way for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I slightly wank the base of the shaft while flicking and teasing the top and then take more in my mouth still using my hand.. sometimes the other hand on the balls.. tbh nobody so far has said they hated it... they were too busy cumming in my mouth.... but I also have to say I only do it if I see the cock and can't resist. So not that many recipients so far xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"tongue action is good: around the bell end
teeth scraping is fucking dire
In my years I've given many blow jobs. My ex loved gentle biting nibbling and lot guys I've been with since have loved it. Only 1 has said didn't like it
I don't really get this. So because only one man has told you he didn't like teeth with his blowjob, that suddenly means the majority of guys do?
I could use that logic with going down on a woman, except that it would make no sense whatsoever.
The few women who used their teeth on me during a blowjob received a reflexive shove.
U get idea of if guy does or doesn't like something. I like using teeth and theory of it guys don't like but when done right lot guys love it. I'm not sayin majority just saying of guys I've played with lots like me nibbling their cock "
Love it when Mrs nibbles me, she's so good at it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm still yet to cum from a blowjob..not sure what it is..
It is bad though, because it leaves her feeling unsatisfied.
A good blowjob for me would be the eye contact, and being able to feel every stroke in her throat..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was surprised when I male friend said that the majority of women he has met give bad blowjobs.
He has been swinging for a very long time and is very experienced. He said that the very worst is the toothy, dry ones.
What makes for a good or bad blowjob? All tips gratefully received.
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Whether I'm giving it or someone else!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personal opinion, I have had tooth dry BJ's from a very hot n horny woman, that did mre for me than the deep throat that one girl gave whom been watching more porn than me.
The experience, teamed with the lady, how horny you feel and how hot she makes you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm still yet to cum from a blowjob..not sure what it is..
It is bad though, because it leaves her feeling unsatisfied.
A good blowjob for me would be the eye contact, and being able to feel every stroke in her throat..
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It would be unfair (I think) of a woman to make you feel bad because you didn't cum. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my opinion if the lady makes the man cum and lets him cum in her mouth it can round off the 'perfect blowjob' with the tips from what some people have said already.... Wet.. Push the gag reflex(just not too much if your the type to be sick) lmao.. Keep a good rythem flowing.. And the number 1 rule... DONT leave out the balls lmao xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is cumming the pinnacle of a good blowjob then?
If it is then I'm never going to give a good one. "
I adore receiving quality oral and often don't cum for various reasons.
It takes an experienced lady who is well practiced in the art of giving for me personally the perfect oral session!
Everyone is different and I appreciate some guys will not agree with me that receiving a bi without cumming can be a very enjoyable experience.
Granted... on the rare occasion a lady has made me cum the overall sensation is one I saviour!! |
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"Is cumming the pinnacle of a good blowjob then?
If it is then I'm never going to give a good one. "
I've never cum from one, and its highly unlikely i ever will. It would be very unfair to base that as the yardstick for a good blowjob. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I slightly wank the base of the shaft while flicking and teasing the top and then take more in my mouth still using my hand.. sometimes the other hand on the balls.. tbh nobody so far has said they hated it... they were too busy cumming in my mouth.... but I also have to say I only do it if I see the cock and can't resist. So not that many recipients so far xxxx"
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By *ands12Couple
over a year ago
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I (mrs) was always told stimulate the shaft and tantalize the top. Mr never complains maybe few moans and groans but good ones. I have my tongue pierced twice and mr loves it when I run the piercing over his juicy pre cum bellend, I love to deep throat him too. And every now and again a nice spitt on his cock sends him wild xxx |
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By *ands12Couple
over a year ago
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"I'd be really annoyed to make a guy come from a BJ!!
Why? "
I had this before with ex and I use to get annoyed as in his mind once he had come it didnt matter about my satisfaction as he had his. We only lasted about a week the selfish arse. |
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By *ands12Couple
over a year ago
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"Is cumming the pinnacle of a good blowjob then?
If it is then I'm never going to give a good one.
I've never cum from one, and its highly unlikely i ever will. It would be very unfair to base that as the yardstick for a good blowjob."
When I met hubby he said the same thatt he had never come from a bj and never thought he would. I soon changed that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be really annoyed to make a guy come from a BJ!!
Why?
I had this before with ex and I use to get annoyed as in his mind once he had come it didnt matter about my satisfaction as he had his. We only lasted about a week the selfish arse."
I have no problem with a guy cumming from a bj, always round two or play beforehand and in relationship sense I think it is important sometimes to just concentrate on one receiving pleasure. |
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"tongue action is good: around the bell end
teeth scraping is fucking dire
I guess biting would be a no no too then?
So when I use my teeth to pull down his foreskin and jab my finger in his pee-hole... that's a bad thing?"
That is what my ex did every time |
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"tongue action is good: around the bell end
teeth scraping is fucking dire
I guess biting would be a no no too then?
So when I use my teeth to pull down his foreskin and jab my finger in his pee-hole... that's a bad thing?
That is what my ex did every time"
and another thing. No digging nails into the balls as you are sucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think as long as the girl wants to pleasure the guy in that way she'll be good at it. My man says the worst blowjobs are from girls who really appear to not enjoy doing it.
If you care enough about pleasing them, then you'll think logically about what will feel good and do it that way! |
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"I'd be really annoyed to make a guy come from a BJ!!
Why? "
Quoting simplepleasures2008 above ''A good bj is when u have to stop her because she is gonna make u explode before u get a chance to satisfy her''
I want him to come inside me so I can feel his pleasure too (gloved of course)! That's a great turn on for me. Plus not every man can be ready for more action immediately. |
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"I'd be really annoyed to make a guy come from a BJ!!
Why?
Quoting simplepleasures2008 above ''A good bj is when u have to stop her because she is gonna make u explode before u get a chance to satisfy her''
I want him to come inside me so I can feel his pleasure too (gloved of course)! That's a great turn on for me. Plus not every man can be ready for more action immediately."
Oh yes I agree however once in a while it can be good plus it is a good feeling to feel a man ejaculate in your mouth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My bj's - just the right amount of teasing and licking, making sure sensitive bits stay sensitive, kissing, licking and gentle sucking up and down the shaft, kissing, licking and GENTLY sucking the balls, taking them one by one into mouth.
Start with the head of the cock, slowly taking more into mouth, caressing the head with tongue, gentle sucking action.
As the heat builds, maybe use a hand to cup balls, other hand in a firm but gentle motion, start to slowly and sensitively wank the cock taking their reaction as a lead on speed and pressure, but following the hand up and down all the time with the mouth, taking more and more into my mouth, maybe a slight twisting action but making sure not pulling skin, or catching with teeth, till that nice juicy cock explodes, mmmm total heaven (for me)
Don't know if the blokes enjoy it, but the sticky face and repeat visits mean I must be doing something right, or perhaps they just think I need more practice and willing to help me |
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"I'd be really annoyed to make a guy come from a BJ!!
Why?
Quoting simplepleasures2008 above ''A good bj is when u have to stop her because she is gonna make u explode before u get a chance to satisfy her''
I want him to come inside me so I can feel his pleasure too (gloved of course)! That's a great turn on for me. Plus not every man can be ready for more action immediately.
Oh yes I agree however once in a while it can be good plus it is a good feeling to feel a man ejaculate in your mouth "
Yeah very true and I would pleasure the lady with my the tip of my tongue till she reached heaven |
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"I think as long as the girl wants to pleasure the guy in that way she'll be good at it. My man says the worst blowjobs are from girls who really appear to not enjoy doing it.
If you care enough about pleasing them, then you'll think logically about what will feel good and do it that way!"
Correct !! I've never had a bad BJ , but how awesome is it if the lady can deep throat . That feeling of your whole cock in her mouth is un beatable in my _iew |
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Bad - pushing my foreskin back with her lips so hard that my banjo string tore (still makes me wince thinking about it!)
Good - now classed as anything that doesn't lead to that result!
In the lady's defence, she was giving me the best blowjob I've ever had up until disaster struck, and when I trusted that I was healed (tough 6 weeks that was) I quickly went back for round two to put it behind us.
I agree that eye contact and enthusiasm are key.
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"Is cumming the pinnacle of a good blowjob then?
If it is then I'm never going to give a good one.
I've never cum from one, and its highly unlikely i ever will. It would be very unfair to base that as the yardstick for a good blowjob.
When I met hubby he said the same thatt he had never come from a bj and never thought he would. I soon changed that!"
Good for him i guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be really annoyed to make a guy come from a BJ!!
Why?
Quoting simplepleasures2008 above ''A good bj is when u have to stop her because she is gonna make u explode before u get a chance to satisfy her''
I want him to come inside me so I can feel his pleasure too (gloved of course)! That's a great turn on for me. Plus not every man can be ready for more action immediately.
Oh yes I agree however once in a while it can be good plus it is a good feeling to feel a man ejaculate in your mouth "
And it's a good feeling to ejaculate in yours!! |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Maybe I am odd, but I get that turned on giving a bj, I have actually cum doing it (just moving legs slightly to get some stimulation)  "
I'm odd too then! I love giving oral. I have been told I'm very good at it too. Technique varies from person to person, and also different things at different times. I'm very submissive, so do enjoy that aspect of giving someone else pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I am odd, but I get that turned on giving a bj, I have actually cum doing it (just moving legs slightly to get some stimulation)
I'm odd too then! I love giving oral. I have been told I'm very good at it too. Technique varies from person to person, and also different things at different times. I'm very submissive, so do enjoy that aspect of giving someone else pleasure. "
Hey, as long as we (and the guys) enjoy it, lets both be odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wet but not too slobbery is good, lots of licking and eye contact too
The eye contact can be difficult with some of the angles."
This may sound mad, but I'm sure I spoken to you on the train to Brighton. You was going to a carnival. Late July.
If its not you, you have a double x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Wet but not too slobbery is good, lots of licking and eye contact too
The eye contact can be difficult with some of the angles.
This may sound mad, but I'm sure I spoken to you on the train to Brighton. You was going to a carnival. Late July.
If its not you, you have a double x"
It was my double.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found that it varies guy to guy. Rushing never seems to do well but you can soon pin down what he like. Long slow full strokes, licking the stem, butterfly licking the frenulum. Reaction to ball licking together with light nibble tells you a lot as does the tilt of their pelvis, sounds and breathing.
Just my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wet and sloppy please !
Also i think because men never tell a lasy when its bad alot of ladies are covinced there good at it ! They even brag on there profiles how good they are ! Lol
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"I was surprised when I male friend said that the majority of women he has met give bad blowjobs.
He has been swinging for a very long time and is very experienced. He said that the very worst is the toothy, dry ones.
What makes for a good or bad blowjob? All tips gratefully received.
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I don't think there are any set rules...each guy I've been with has liked something different. Some love nothing more than being deep-throated which limits the amount of tongue action you can give, some get off more from shallow sucking and lots of tongue action (I do try to mix a bit of both in for all though). I've never had a guy stop me playing with his balls yet, and if I move to suck them then I keep stimulation on the shaft with my hand. I do try to keep eye contact, but that can be difficult in your nose is up against their body! Always keep teeth out of the way though and try not to slobber too much.
Think the fact I enjoy giving them helps as I do think that comes across, can't imagine it being enjoyable if someone is just going through the motions, and even the least vocal of guys usually show some appreciation. I'm also not adverse to a hand on the back of the head though and letting the guy take control sometimes too which is often popular.
I'm sure I haven't pleased every guy every time, but I've enjoyed trying! |
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"A good bj is when u have to stop her because she is gonna make u explode before u get a chance to satisfy her"
So it's a good sign that the last one I gave ended with "I need to fuck you NOW before I cum in your mouth"? |
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"A good bj is when u have to stop her because she is gonna make u explode before u get a chance to satisfy her"
So it's a good sign that the last one I gave ended with "I need to fuck you NOW before I cum in your mouth"? |
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"I was surprised when I male friend said that the majority of women he has met give bad blowjobs.
He has been swinging for a very long time and is very experienced. He said that the very worst is the toothy, dry ones.
What makes for a good or bad blowjob? All tips gratefully received.
I don't think there are any set rules...each guy I've been with has liked something different. Some love nothing more than being deep-throated which limits the amount of tongue action you can give, some get off more from shallow sucking and lots of tongue action (I do try to mix a bit of both in for all though). I've never had a guy stop me playing with his balls yet, and if I move to suck them then I keep stimulation on the shaft with my hand. I do try to keep eye contact, but that can be difficult in your nose is up against their body! Always keep teeth out of the way though and try not to slobber too much.
Think the fact I enjoy giving them helps as I do think that comes across, can't imagine it being enjoyable if someone is just going through the motions, and even the least vocal of guys usually show some appreciation. I'm also not adverse to a hand on the back of the head though and letting the guy take control sometimes too which is often popular.
I'm sure I haven't pleased every guy every time, but I've enjoyed trying! "
I appreciate and relate to both sides of this. |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
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"I was surprised when I male friend said that the majority of women he has met give bad blowjobs.
He has been swinging for a very long time and is very experienced. He said that the very worst is the toothy, dry ones.
What makes for a good or bad blowjob? All tips gratefully received.
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Enthusiasm first. Then responding to my response! |
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"A reluctant blow job is crap. Its only good if the giver is genuinely enthusiastic. "
I agree if someone does not like giving them them its not necessary I will pass. It's not something I ever ask for. |
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Think the giver needs to enjoy giving a bj or not really any point giving as your do a Crap job listen to the man hopefully lots of moans will show you your doubt it right and don't forget Thier balls and/or bum if they like that .  |
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"I was surprised when I male friend said that the majority of women he has met give bad blowjobs.
He has been swinging for a very long time and is very experienced. He said that the very worst is the toothy, dry ones.
What makes for a good or bad blowjob? All tips gratefully received.
Enthusiasm first. Then responding to my response!"
I think that sums it up perfectly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love to have my soft, pre erect cock taken into her mouth. It feels so differently sensitive. As it grows and hardens the feelings change. It's all wonderful.
The tip of a finger playing with my well lubed bum adds a bit more magic. |
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I pride myself on my BJ technique. It's all about the head for me, I twist my hand around the head, lick and suck the eye, lick up and down the shaft, kiss the balls whilst twisting my hand round the head. I'll then take it all in my mouth and suck and lick all whilst keeping eye contact. I coo and moan as the guy reacts to what I'm doing. Then, when he thinks it can't get any better I add flavoured lube and lick and suck and twist my hands round the head. sometimes i use teeth. When I feel the cock going rigid and about to cum, I change the pace and intensity to stop it. I can keep a guy on the edge of cumming for as long as I want him to! I swallow!
Also, a mint and a mouthful of fizzy drink adds to the excitement!  |
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I developed it the way that I do as I have a very strong gag reflex. I control it. It's all about the head and first couple of inches, it's not about deep throating. If you mean gagging on cum then perhaps it's not your thing, not sure how you'd get over that |
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"I pride myself on my BJ technique. It's all about the head for me, I twist my hand around the head, lick and suck the eye, lick up and down the shaft, kiss the balls whilst twisting my hand round the head. I'll then take it all in my mouth and suck and lick all whilst keeping eye contact. I coo and moan as the guy reacts to what I'm doing. Then, when he thinks it can't get any better I add flavoured lube and lick and suck and twist my hands round the head. sometimes i use teeth. When I feel the cock going rigid and about to cum, I change the pace and intensity to stop it. I can keep a guy on the edge of cumming for as long as I want him to! I swallow!
Also, a mint and a mouthful of fizzy drink adds to the excitement! "
thats some bj |
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I think people forget to actually suck in when they do it. They concentrate too much on what their tongue is doing (which of course is important) but forget that it feels fucking awesome when you suck in. |
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