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over a year ago
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Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx " If it was a guy he would be labelled a perv? |
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over a year ago
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I played with a 19 year old a few years ago, I wouldn't meet anyone that young again he was clueless in bed, and to be honest you cant expect any different at that age, I had to talk him thro absolutely everything which isn't my thing at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm 25 and I rarely find older ladies that are interested, to be honest even the younger ones find it a turn off.
So if any ladies are looking to meet a younger lad then say hello :p x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyone near the age of my son I couldn't get my head around
but each to their own
he is legal a man and you haven't done anything wrong " Legally no............morally I think 19 is just too young to be at this table. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its legal, then its purely your own preference. 19 will be too young for some, 19 will be fine for others.
At the end of the day, if you like the idea of meeting him, it would be a shame if you turned the opportunity down on the basis of someone elses age preference.
19 is fine in my books! x |
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th ebiggest age difference we have met and played with is 23 years so if yu look at it like that 19 isn't too young.
It wouldn't be my thing but life is very short and if you like the idea and he is up for it....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find myself attracted to the younger guys....think its the mmmmm fit torso pics "
I must admit younger look better but its a toss up between looks and experience, and most will go for experience that's why us older women get so many messages lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find myself attracted to the younger guys....think its the mmmmm fit torso pics
I must admit younger look better but its a toss up between looks and experience, and most will go for experience that's why us older women get so many messages lol"
Lol....very true ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've often mentioned that I once (well several times actually) had sex with a woman twice my age, and it was wonderful, personally I found the age gap a huge turn on. |
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By *aptzogMan
over a year ago
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There isn't a right and wrong answer as long as everyone is a consenting adult.
At 19 he knows what he's doing, doesn't sound like he's under duress, so go for it and enjoy it.
If an older lady had seduced me at 19, I'd have been delighted. |
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx "
If you can't decide what's right for you , you are too young for it.
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx
If you can't decide what's right for you , you are too young for it. The voice of experience filters into the forum rooms!
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx "
Well at 50 he would be too young for me. But I've met plenty who were 20 years younger. So I don't think the age gap is that much. |
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx
Well at 50 he would be too young for me. But I've met plenty who were 20 years younger. So I don't think the age gap is that much." That is because you like the younger man. I think its a bit too young (19) to be into this kind of past time |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx
Well at 50 he would be too young for me. But I've met plenty who were 20 years younger. So I don't think the age gap is that much.That is because you like the younger man. I think its a bit too young (19) to be into this kind of past time "
My fb was 19 when he started to swing. He's 35 now. Very experienced and has a lot of great memories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mind you having said all that I would have been quite concerned if my daughter had been having sex with a man twice her age when she was 19 ...and no, I can't tell you logically why " Because there could be an inequitable situation developing! |
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"mind you having said all that I would have been quite concerned if my daughter had been having sex with a man twice her age when she was 19 ...and no, I can't tell you logically why Because there could be an inequitable situation developing!"
but wouldn't it be the same with a 19 year old man and 38 year old woman? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx
If you can't decide what's right for you , you are too young for it.
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I didn't say I didn't know what's right for me, I just asked for people's thoughts. I personally think he's too young for someone my age, but I know him well enough to tell him so. I guess I'm just very flattered! ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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"I played with a 19 year old a few years ago, I wouldn't meet anyone that young again he was clueless in bed, and to be honest you cant expect any different at that age, I had to talk him thro absolutely everything which isn't my thing at all " should have told him there's a app for that .. Lol
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx
If you can't decide what's right for you , you are too young for it.
I didn't say I didn't know what's right for me, I just asked for people's thoughts. I personally think he's too young for someone my age, but I know him well enough to tell him so. I guess I'm just very flattered! "
In that case.
Age is meaningless. There can be 40 year olds who behave like chimps and are clueless as to sex.
It's always the person .... always. |
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx "
He sounds a barrel of laughs! ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So meet.. Not my thing but you should be able to tell within a couple of sentences if you want to go any further. Most young boys fantasize about the older woman encounter.. Will probably cum in his pants as soon as you say you'll meet! ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What I say is, if you both click, then age should not really matter.
I am 23, and there are many who are older than me that turn me on like mad! and it has been the same for them. But, then when she thinks of our age difference, we just cant meet.
Strange that, but it happens. Dont let age stop you. Its just a number at the end of the day.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am i the only curious what wargame shes playing ."
And there you go theres the difference lol
The 'older' ones don't care what the game is - it is irrelevant to the question pmsl
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want that I feel actually wants me... A young lad I wouldn't be comfortable that was the case.
Your kidding!"
No.. I don't want to have anyone that I think just sees me as an easy lay.. or that I should be flattered.. so I stick to over 30s mostly although I prefer guys older but not much older. |
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"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age
Minx "
Wont meet No one my sons age or younger and he is 33 so tend to meet 40 or over....safer that way ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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