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My profile says don't message me. Result: 55 messages a week.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Two weeks ago I decided to change tactics with the "hi, wanna meet" messages I keep getting despite me saying on my profile that I can't meet right now and don't want to chat either as I'd had quite a few guys say they are happy to chat then pester me every week to see if I'm meeting yet.
I can't meet because I'm a full time carer for an eldery relative and it costs a fortune to get a decent nurse to cover for me when I want time out.
I don't see why I should hide my profile when I've made things quite clear as to whats what on it.
So I changed my profile to make it pretty obvious what will happen if you message me. Basically I block you.
I also put a little counter on my status to keep track of the number of blocks.
So after two weeks I've had an average of 55 messages a week. The majority were single guys (sorry to those who can read), there were a few couples and I think 5-10 who asked to be blocked - which I actually understand as I must come over as a right mardy-moo.
People, please read a profile and act on infomation given within. You don't do yourselves any favours spamming us with crap messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why don't you change the age range of who you're looking for? I get fed up sometimes so I change the age range to 98 - 99 and block anyone outside this range from mailing  Not many 98 and 99 yr olds n my area  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don't you change the age range of who you're looking for? I get fed up sometimes so I change the age range to 98 - 99 and block anyone outside this range from mailing Not many 98 and 99 yr olds n my area "
Really? there the ones I want the most  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don't you change the age range of who you're looking for? I get fed up sometimes so I change the age range to 98 - 99 and block anyone outside this range from mailing Not many 98 and 99 yr olds n my area
Really? there the ones I want the most "
You want to meet 98 and 99 yr old men?  Each to their own I suppose! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you take everything off the 'looking for' bit you don't show up on searches.
If you don't want any mail at all, copy my profile. I get about one mail a week.
When I went away and changed it to say 'not meeting' I got loads of mail.
Mental. I think people see it as a challenge. They like the chase.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you take everything off the 'looking for' bit you don't show up on searches.
If you don't want any mail at all, copy my profile. I get about one mail a week.
When I went away and changed it to say 'not meeting' I got loads of mail.
Mental. I think people see it as a challenge. They like the chase. "
u up for a shag!?-hurry up...am waiting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two weeks ago I decided to change tactics with the "hi, wanna meet" messages I keep getting despite me saying on my profile that I can't meet right now and don't want to chat either as I'd had quite a few guys say they are happy to chat then pester me every week to see if I'm meeting yet.
I can't meet because I'm a full time carer for an eldery relative and it costs a fortune to get a decent nurse to cover for me when I want time out.
I don't see why I should hide my profile when I've made things quite clear as to whats what on it.
So I changed my profile to make it pretty obvious what will happen if you message me. Basically I block you.
I also put a little counter on my status to keep track of the number of blocks.
So after two weeks I've had an average of 55 messages a week. The majority were single guys (sorry to those who can read), there were a few couples and I think 5-10 who asked to be blocked - which I actually understand as I must come over as a right mardy-moo.
People, please read a profile and act on infomation given within. You don't do yourselves any favours spamming us with crap messages."
I too was going to msg you but I read your profile and understand where your coming from but I would just redo your settings |
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"Couldnt you simply set your filters so that no mail comes through from anyone...save you getting all het up about it  "
But how else will one start indignant forum posts then ????
So many options to stop unwanted messages on this site I have no sympathy for someone complaining about getting them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two weeks ago I decided to change tactics with the "hi, wanna meet" messages I keep getting despite me saying on my profile that I can't meet right now and don't want to chat either as I'd had quite a few guys say they are happy to chat then pester me every week to see if I'm meeting yet.
I can't meet because I'm a full time carer for an eldery relative and it costs a fortune to get a decent nurse to cover for me when I want time out.
I don't see why I should hide my profile when I've made things quite clear as to whats what on it.
So I changed my profile to make it pretty obvious what will happen if you message me. Basically I block you.
I also put a little counter on my status to keep track of the number of blocks.
So after two weeks I've had an average of 55 messages a week. The majority were single guys (sorry to those who can read), there were a few couples and I think 5-10 who asked to be blocked - which I actually understand as I must come over as a right mardy-moo.
People, please read a profile and act on infomation given within. You don't do yourselves any favours spamming us with crap messages."
sorry so may men cannot read I send you a nice long neck kiss and cuddle with a bottle of rum as well xx |
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