we have lifted our ban on guys contacting us a week ago, since then we have had around 10 messages a day who obviously havnt read our profile. and our profile is clear as to what we are looking for.
its no wander guys have such a bad name on here, and the rub is, we really want to meet single guys, but ones that fit our wants, so guys before you message read and think  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I removed my 'looking for' options a while ago and that helped a great deal Then I added it back when arranging a meet and got inundated! Taken them off again now. I prefer to find my own meets. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"we have lifted our ban on guys contacting us a week ago, since then we have had around 10 messages a day who obviously havnt read our profile. and our profile is clear as to what we are looking for.
its no wander guys have such a bad name on here, and the rub is, we really want to meet single guys, but ones that fit our wants, so guys before you message read and think "
no offence then... as a couple.. rather than waiting on them to come to you, why do you not do the hunting..
see this is one of the things that couples sometimes do, and to be honest i think its actually lazy.....
you want someone/thing bad enough.. you do the legwork |
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"we have lifted our ban on guys contacting us a week ago, since then we have had around 10 messages a day who obviously havnt read our profile. and our profile is clear as to what we are looking for.
its no wander guys have such a bad name on here, and the rub is, we really want to meet single guys, but ones that fit our wants, so guys before you message read and think
no offence then... as a couple.. rather than waiting on them to come to you, why do you not do the hunting..
see this is one of the things that couples sometimes do, and to be honest i think its actually lazy.....
you want someone/thing bad enough.. you do the legwork"
we are also doing this, but you dont always get everyone in a search, so opened up message filters for those we have missed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have lifted our ban on guys contacting us a week ago, since then we have had around 10 messages a day who obviously havnt read our profile. and our profile is clear as to what we are looking for.
its no wander guys have such a bad name on here, and the rub is, we really want to meet single guys, but ones that fit our wants, so guys before you message read and think
no offence then... as a couple.. rather than waiting on them to come to you, why do you not do the hunting..
see this is one of the things that couples sometimes do, and to be honest i think its actually lazy.....
you want someone/thing bad enough.. you do the legwork"
I think it is good, put out what you want then shift through the replies.
Haven't put an add out for something 'wanted blah blah' and let people come to you with the items. |
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It's not just guys. I found couples the worst culprits for this.
When I first joined (before I realised the filters were there) my profile clearly said if I wanted to meet a couple I would contact couples... I didn't have couples on my "looking for" so they would have got the warning message when trying to mail me.... yet about 10-20 a day still mailed. |
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