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"do any younger girls real like older men or do they just like to string them along...."
sounds like something personal has happened to you ?
in the words of racey "some girls do, some girls don't" |
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over a year ago
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I put a post up a wekk ago on this very subject !
Most of my meets have been with girls in there early twenties and most messages i get are of younger girls !
I have less success with older ladies .
I actually prefer experiance too ! |
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"guess a certain percentage must have the older guy fantasy the same as men have the younger girl fantasyi think this is very true Sam"
in that case it would be wrong of me not to let any younger girls use me for the sake of there fantasy  |
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over a year ago
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As with all things there's alway someone who can make you happy, trick is finding them. Before I met Tor the largest age gap in a relationship for me was 4 years in both directions (different relationships obv) |
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over a year ago
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Older men all the way for me. The best sex I've personally had has been with older men. Although it's getting tougher because I'm no spring chicken anymore and I like older, but not pension age older. |
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The vast majority on here have an upper age limit of 50/55 Apparently over this age you are not eligible to have sex anymore 
Any who have their filters set up to 99 have mainly not bothered to set the age option and most definitely want younger.
I have replied to lots who allege they are looking for an older man but have found they are just stringing us along.
If your over 55 your cock shrivels up and disappears and a hard on is only a memory - OH how wrong is that and anyway you shouldn't be having sex at your age 
Just wait until all you hot swingers are older and being snubbed |
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over a year ago
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Ok so just grabbing numbers out of the aid here
Imagine there's 100 Women (even younger I suspect many would rather that than girls)
60 want men or women their age(ish)
20 want women or couples only
10 want younger
5 don't care
3 want older by a few years
1 wants older by 10 years or more and
1 wants 20 years or more older
You now have to find the one that actually fancies you.
No one is "snubbing" you
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As gar as swinging meets are concerned meeting younger women is good for the ego ! But after a while u start wanting an experianced woman to really take things to the next level !
But as for actually dating . Im sure a large age difference would show sooner or later ! What could u have in common as young people these days seem to be from a different planet !
I cant even listen to radio 1 anymore ! Pmsl |
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"As gar as swinging meets are concerned meeting younger women is good for the ego ! But after a while u start wanting an experianced woman to really take things to the next level !
But as for actually dating . Im sure a large age difference would show sooner or later ! What could u have in common as young people these days seem to be from a different planet !
I cant even listen to radio 1 anymore ! Pmsl"
Or you find someone who also doesn't listen to radio 1?
I'm fascinated by this "in common" thing
Why is age so important unless all you talk about is the past? We do lots of things we both enjoy and in fact of my ex gf's I have more "in common" with Tor in terms of enjoyable past times (travel,cooking,comedy,politics, music etc) than anyone I've ever met. Having said that she's rammed a lot in(oooer) and has an IQ off the charts, speaks 4 languages (including rather bizarrely Latin). Having met some of her gorgeous friends I'd have to say none of them would have held my interest for more than a few minutes. |
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"As gar as swinging meets are concerned meeting younger women is good for the ego ! But after a while u start wanting an experianced woman to really take things to the next level !
But as for actually dating . Im sure a large age difference would show sooner or later ! What could u have in common as young people these days seem to be from a different planet !
I cant even listen to radio 1 anymore ! Pmsl
Or you find someone who also doesn't listen to radio 1?
I'm fascinated by this "in common" thing
Why is age so important unless all you talk about is the past? We do lots of things we both enjoy and in fact of my ex gf's I have more "in common" with Tor in terms of enjoyable past times (travel,cooking,comedy,politics, music etc) than anyone I've ever met. Having said that she's rammed a lot in(oooer) and has an IQ off the charts, speaks 4 languages (including rather bizarrely Latin). Having met some of her gorgeous friends I'd have to say none of them would have held my interest for more than a few minutes."
We very similar to this, we both connect on nearly every level, except music taste !!
Been together 2 1/2 years and it just gets better |
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"Lol she's not your average young girl James !
Most justthink looking good and being in a reality tv programme is a career !
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Lol that's true she's not average in any way shape or form and fortunately for me airheads have never been my thing at any age! |
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everyone has their own preferences i prefer guys mid 20s to late 30s after all we are all here to spice up our sex lives just remember see the age criteria b4 u mail and as for being strung along a good bullshit detector is essential |
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"do any younger girls real like older men or do they just like to string them along...."
I'd hardly class you as older. I am older and I have a few young ladies that like to play with me. Some do some don't. The same answer to virtually every question asked on this forum |
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"Love the way some link liking older men to them having money. What's wrong with just wanting to be with someone because your comparable on so many levels bugger the age gap"
I think in many cases the image of wealthy man with younger more attractive woman is one we've gotten used to, Tor's friends all assume I'm loaded.
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"Love the way some link liking older men to them having money. What's wrong with just wanting to be with someone because your comparable on so many levels bugger the age gap
I think in many cases the image of wealthy man with younger more attractive woman is one we've gotten used to, Tor's friends all assume I'm loaded.
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we had that problem for a while, but people stereotyping really grates on me, can't young people have money or older people be poor. I'm only with jay to rob him of his pension  |
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Age like size should only be classed as a number and not a definitive rule - its the person that counts not their age or size.
Just remember all you beautifully trim young things, you are getting older day by day and probably putting on a few pounds.
Wait until you are older still as horny as hell and find no one will play with you. |
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"Love the way some link liking older men to them having money. What's wrong with just wanting to be with someone because your comparable on so many levels bugger the age gap
I think in many cases the image of wealthy man with younger more attractive woman is one we've gotten used to, Tor's friends all assume I'm loaded.
we had that problem for a while, but people stereotyping really grates on me, can't young people have money or older people be poor. I'm only with jay to rob him of his pension "
I'm only with Tor so I don't have to wipe my own chin when I'm old
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I love older men! The older the better I've never even had a relationship with anyone my age, my child's father is 25 Years older than me, we were together for 4 years.
I just love the thought of a dirty older man, more experienced than me using me for.his pleasure, it feels naughty, very erotic. Each to their own I guess x |
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"Love the way some link liking older men to them having money. What's wrong with just wanting to be with someone because your comparable on so many levels bugger the age gap"
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"do any younger girls real like older men or do they just like to string them along...."
I sure some young girls do, but on here , I think the vast majority are taking the piss  |
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"I put a post up a wekk ago on this very subject !
Most of my meets have been with girls in there early twenties and most messages i get are of younger girls !
I have less success with older ladies .
I actually prefer experiance too !"
same here ...... |
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"I am 52 and have been lucky enough to meet a 32 and 36 year old which is quite a gap xxx"
Lol if you listen to some on here meeting anyone here is a miracle |
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"I am 52 and have been lucky enough to meet a 32 and 36 year old which is quite a gap xxx
Lol if you listen to some on here meeting anyone here is a miracle"
Its easy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We met a young couple, 30ish, at a party about 3yrs ago now, and we got on quite well.
We bumped into them a few times and struck up a nice friendship, went out for a beer a few times.
There was no one more shocked than me when the lady of the couple asked if we'd meet them for sex.
Being a mid fifties baldy, I couldn't believe a young woman would want to play with me.
The fact that we prefer seperate room fun made it even more surprising.
We've met them four times since that first time and everytime has been great.
So, it does happen, perhaps not very often, but it does happen.
Now if only I could win the lottery....  |
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I dated a guy who left me for a woman half my age which was rather humiliating. But then tried to come back saying she was boring in bed cos she lacked my experience and was rather naive.
I always go for men around my age, i find younger guys a turn off, but each to their own i guess. |
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"I prefer older guys mainly because mentally i'm on the same level... Older guys also tend to be more respectful and experienced which is a bonus  "
I have met a couple of much younger couples in the past from another site and each said similar to you. Seems that us more "mature" guys are much more reliable when it comes to meets. Both had problems with no shows by younger guys. They also said the sex was better as well. |
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I used to love older guys for their experience and maturity. My ex was 11 years older than me. It had nothing @ all to do with what he could give me either. I was the main breadwinner for a long time |
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"Age like size should only be classed as a number and not a definitive rule - its the person that counts not their age or size.
Just remember all you beautifully trim young things, you are getting older day by day and probably putting on a few pounds.
Wait until you are older still as horny as hell and find no one will play with you."
If that happened to me in the future there's always the most simple solution - get married lol  |
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"I read in my magazines about some with very big age gaps and think if he had no fame no money I bet she would never be there."
Well said. The words "meal" and "ticket" spring to mind. |
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"I read in my magazines about some with very big age gaps and think if he had no fame no money I bet she would never be there."
Success is a great aphrodisiac. |
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I have to say I (ross) have a thing for older women. I don't know what it is, it's not fame or money. Older women just do it for me as do women my own age but I have a thing for a woman with more experience |
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"I have to say I (ross) have a thing for older women. I don't know what it is, it's not fame or money. Older women just do it for me as do women my own age but I have a thing for a woman with more experience"
Yep - can't disagree with that! |
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"I read in my magazines about some with very big age gaps and think if he had no fame no money I bet she would never be there.
Well said. The words "meal" and "ticket" spring to mind."
Really?
Perhaps in some cases. Although I'm "successful" her family come from quite a lot of money and land, she doesn't need me for a meal ticket in the slightest. |
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I was at a rave a couple of months back my jaw hit the ground when I saw a gorgeous 17-19 year old girl sitting on this 70 year olds man lap facing him and dry humping him |
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I like older men for fun but only older men who have looked after themselves and look good for their age.
I get a lot who think because I play witg older men I'll play with ANY older man, eg those who have scruffy stubble, monk like hair style and shriveled up dick but then I'd not play with a man of any age who was a bit of a mess.
Relationship wise I'd lower my upper age limit though. |
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I was talking with my ex today (we're on good terms and often chat about sex) and she told me how she has been really horny lately and wants to sleep with a guy in his 40's, she's 24. She was saying that she'd love to fuck the dad of the guy she was recently seeing but wouldn't realistically do it with him.
She's a gorgeous girl and I told her if she wants to make it happen she could pretty much just click her fingers and get what she wants- I'm looking forward to hearing if she does it. If she does, the guy is in for an incredible night- she has an incredible sex drive and loves to please |
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"I was talking with my ex today (we're on good terms and often chat about sex) and she told me how she has been really horny lately and wants to sleep with a guy in his 40's, she's 24. She was saying that she'd love to fuck the dad of the guy she was recently seeing but wouldn't realistically do it with him.
She's a gorgeous girl and I told her if she wants to make it happen she could pretty much just click her fingers and get what she wants- I'm looking forward to hearing if she does it. If she does, the guy is in for an incredible night- she has an incredible sex drive and loves to please"
I think you've got a point, people talk about older/younger being better/worse more experienced etc. But, the best sex I've ever had has been with Tor. It's not her age, it's how I feel about her and what she does that makes my world rock. I've been out with older women (than me) and it's been a little like dreaming about paint drying.
So your ex enjoying sex has little to do with her age, it's her enthusiasm and sense of fun that does it. |
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I have always preferred older men. If you want to get psychological you could put it down to lack of father figure blah blah, or maybe its just the maturity level of younger men these days. All too busy playing on their idiot boxes, and thinking sex should be like a porno film.
Oh and if anyone mentions the upper age limit on my profile it just acts as a filter, I play with older men in clubs if they are fit and distinguished looking
My main fb is 14 yrs older than me...
Oh and it could be that I am safe from them wanting a relationship - if still single at that age, they always will be! |
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"A lot of younger femaleds , prefer older people as they know how to please them unlike some younger males , wich weve been told , by girls , they just want a quick fuck and thats it .x  "
Damn right!
I personally like older guy (not too old tho) as they are more likely to be happy to meet up for a drink, and if we get on then play. They are more patience and would buy you are drink and get comfortable before getting naughty x Unlike most of the young guy, they say they don't mind meeting you for a drink, then 5 mins after sitting down, they just wanna try to feel you up and kiss you! No respect at all!
Also....younger guy tend to just send you a cock pic in first message and just a one liner e.g 'fancy a fuck?'...
hmm...NO THANKS. |
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I 'had' almost the same (if anything slightly more) age gap a week ago. Just gave the lovely girl a lift home after entertaining her at mine for a few hours.
I liked her, a lot and She seemed to like me.
Maybe they'll be more. I have regular 8 years older than me too. All extremly good fun |
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I am 21, I prefer older men, they have more experience, they have more respect, they know how to treat a woman and I don't mean financially, most of the men I play with are older and I they cannot spend a penny on me because I play at clubs like chameleons.
I live as part of an FFM trio, with a woman of 31 and a guy who is 58, his income is an army pension, he rents the house and has no savings, but he treats us both like no man has ever treated us and when it comes to sex, I have never had better.
How naïve, twisted and shallow some of the replies are here that some think younger women are only prostituting themselves when they are with an older man.
It wouldn't be for everyone but some of us younger women do enjoy the relationship benefits of being with an older guy regardless of the financial situation. |
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My ex was nearly 20 years older than me and we were together for 16 years very goid years. Was okay when I 1st met him but when I hit the mid 40s the age gap became a problem. |
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"A lot of younger femaleds , prefer older people as they know how to please them unlike some younger males , wich weve been told , by girls , they just want a quick fuck and thats it .x "
I hate that kind of generalities: I am young but still, the pleasure of the person I'm with is more important than mine and I can hold decent conversation too...
Age doesn't have anything to do with that as I'm sure that some older guys can be dicks too |
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"A lot of younger femaleds , prefer older people as they know how to please them unlike some younger males , wich weve been told , by girls , they just want a quick fuck and thats it .x
I hate that kind of generalities: I am young but still, the pleasure of the person I'm with is more important than mine and I can hold decent conversation too...
Age doesn't have anything to do with that as I'm sure that some older guys can be dicks too "
You right and I know a few |
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"We are not saying all young males are usless, a lot of them are great fun as we know , but SOME are , thats all ewe are saying .
sorry if offended any "younger" males , xx  "
No worries, I'm not offended, it is just that because some of them are not great, young guys are automatically considered as immature, selfish and useless....
As you said, loads of them are really great!! |
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"The vast majority on here have an upper age limit of 50/55 Apparently over this age you are not eligible to have sex anymore
Any who have their filters set up to 99 have mainly not bothered to set the age option and most definitely want younger.
I have replied to lots who allege they are looking for an older man but have found they are just stringing us along.
If your over 55 your cock shrivels up and disappears and a hard on is only a memory - OH how wrong is that and anyway you shouldn't be having sex at your age
Just wait until all you hot swingers are older and being snubbed "
old can be sexy.
bitter and old never is...
V prefers younger as a rule, never been with an older guy.
can see why younger women would like to be with older guys though, as has been said, experience, security lets not forget most younger 'people' look for someone like their parent, so generally its a father figure that makes them feel safe.
the problem we can see is that, come 40, a woman gets a spurt of youth again, wants to go out and let her hair down and so on, but if the guy is late 50's/60's is he really going to be wanting to go to nightclubs, so could cause tension.
but as long as people are happy, who cares about age. |
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Experience has shown me that my age seems to be too high for most younger women on here, (55-60 upper limit). It has though no relevance in a club. Real chemistry happens in clubs rather than messaging and pics, and I have always fared better in a club. However, it's nice to hear how younger women are reaffirming have they would like to be treated. Younger guys take note! |
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