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Female Not Bi - am I missing out ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ive dabbled a tiny bit with a couple of women - not sure it was for me tho. However it seems every couples profile I read the lady is bi ? Is it really that good ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We think so and knowing it turns hubby on makes it even more fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive dabbled a tiny bit with a couple of women - not sure it was for me tho. However it seems every couples profile I read the lady is bi ? Is it really that good ? Xx

I was like you previously.. I'd been forced to play bi..and had hated it or failed to see what the fuss was about.. or worse humiliated over it..

Yet recently because I feel comfortable in myself I have been exploring... I have had some amazingly sexy times when playing with women too... I do tend to top the women though... But the enjoyment and arousal on the guys faces watching turns me on so much..

I've also found I love teaming up with Lee to play with women... Not that he needs my help... However I find it rather hot and sexy.

I wouldn't class myself as bi though .. just hete

exible...

or straight with a kink lol

Cali

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By *rank_SimoneCouple over a year ago

Bideford

Simone is straight and she isn't missing out, and nor am I.

End of the day its about what you enjoy, not what others do, and you should never feel pressured by your peers to do something you're not happy with.

Be yourself, there are too many sheep in this world.

As long as you enjoy what you are doing then be happy, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i used to fancy women more when i wasnt getting enough sex with men.

i dont think having sex with a woman is as good, i like looking at women though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I should have added that I don't feel I missed out before.. I just do what feels right at the time. I wouldn't actively seek out just a woman.. and without a guy their too I would be left wanting as a woman can not satisfy me..

just do what you want and feels right. I like the term situationally bi... Or bi playful lol x

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Simone is straight and she isn't missing out, and nor am I.

End of the day its about what you enjoy, not what others do, and you should never feel pressured by your peers to do something you're not happy with.

Be yourself, there are too many sheep in this world.

As long as you enjoy what you are doing then be happy, the grass isn't always greener on the other side."

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By *razy-CplCouple over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Mrs crazy has bi curious on our profile caus if u say straight no cpl realky wants to meet. she has dipped her toe in but is not sure about it yet.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple over a year ago

Fareham

I'm primarily straight but have bi on our profile as I have played with women and probably would again in the right situation with the right woman. When it comes to oral though, I've only ever given and haven't received - nor do I want to. I'd never play with a woman alone so I guess I'm not classically 'bi' but, like Cali, situationally bi.

Emm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy the best of both worlds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a very personal decision and only you can decide if you're missing out.

I would think that if you have to ask though, you're probably not missing out on anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I first started exploring my bi side when part of a couple on here, now im single I still play with ladies, so most definitely not doing it to please a man, I would even have a one on one meet with another woman as I really enjoy it. However I dont think I would have a relationship with a woman, so not fully bi in the classic sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone - some really good points to consider

I do like looking at other women as I admire the female form - but not really wanting to touch xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I first started exploring my bi side when part of a couple on here, now im single I still play with ladies, so most definitely not doing it to please a man, I would even have a one on one meet with another woman as I really enjoy it. However I dont think I would have a relationship with a woman, so not fully bi in the classic sense."

I prefer one on one meets with woman, and yeah, if the right lady came along I might even consider a relationship. Guess I'm pretty bi then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am quite happy to play with females and will enjoy but would not seek to as I am aware I am not bi-sexual.

Do what is right for you at this moment in time, as you evolve so may your sexuality and/or preferences. We do not stay the same (I once thought DP was sick and now I love it

), so enjoy your own journey and wherever it takes you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would class myself as very bi have had a long term relationship with a woman but realised I prefer being with a man. I joined fabs to satisfy my sexual urges in regards to women.

MissD

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"Ive dabbled a tiny bit with a couple of women - not sure it was for me tho. However it seems every couples profile I read the lady is bi ? Is it really that good ? Xx

If you tried it and didn't like it how can you be missing out? At least you are making an informed choice

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple over a year ago

North Wales

I'm bi and love sensual touch of another woman and the kisses are divine!

If you're not bi then no your missing out....you can't be something that your not, make the most of what you do enjoy

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too many straight women pretend they are bi to entertain their husbands. It really puts me off, I'm not a show. If a woman is doing it for herself then fair enough. If you're straight, be happy and don't bow to peer pressure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Too many straight women pretend they are bi to entertain their husbands. It really puts me off, I'm not a show. If a woman is doing it for herself then fair enough. If you're straight, be happy and don't bow to peer pressure. "

This!! And also don't assume that just because it says Bi on the profile that they actually are.

I learnt fairly quickly to ask the other LADY if they enjoyed it and were happy to play that way. The amount of times I have had "not really" as an answer was pretty surprising to start with. I have even had one reply that stated "I would NEVER play with another woman" - from a profile that was listed as Bisexual

It doesn't worry me either way apart from the fact that if I am to play with another girl I want to be sure that it is their thing and they are going to enjoy it as much as I do.

If it is a "I do it because my partner likes it" thing then I would rather not bother

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

totally agree. Peer pressure results in too many people claiming to like all sorts of stuff. Be honest with yourself first, partner second then everyone else.....I'm starting to repeat myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont think you are missing out at all !

I am very very straight in fact the thought of playing with another woman makes me heave, i tried it several times and hated it, it did nothing for me at all.

We all have preferences and likes and dislikes and thats what makes us interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bi playful here. Predominately the top fem though. Have given and received oral, and a multitude of other things but not going to jump on any fem that passes nor run off into the sunset with one. Hence bi cur not bisexual as no bi playful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I found that its not just straight women who pretend to be bi but also a lot of men on here say straight but would play with a man or have full sexual contact as bi lot do it to get to the woman and visa versa.me personally as long as all are happy with the situation then is it really something to worry about as long as there's trust and friendships in what you do then crack on and every ones happy.

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By *rjandmrskCouple over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

its just not for me at all and its hard trying to make people understand this. i was once at a social and a woman took offense that i wasn't interested in her. She was shouting into my taxi I will have you, you will be bi. No respect.

I have made it very clear from then on that i am deffo not interested and i did try it a cpl times. nope not for me.

Just go with what you feel about it. Mrs K xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't feel like I'm missing out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like a woman to get me going and a man to finish me off.

Women in general are more beautiful creatures than men (although there are some fine male specimens out there) so I find them more attractive but nature lures me to love the masculinity and power of a man (and his cock).

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