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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always prefer guys to be honest, if they are bi I don't see how that effects me to be honest.....unless i'm planning a bi mmf then its always good to know!!  |
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Honestly?? Yes It puts me off a bit.
I am one of those that doesn't like the idea of seeing 2 guys together. That being said a 1-1 meet with a bi guy would be fine by me. As long as I hadn't seen the pics in the profile of previous meets. Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't get it I honestly don't. Have we not moved on at all, is it a preconception that all bi guys want to jump on straight guys because that is how it comes off,
If a bi guy is with a bi guy and there is mutual agreement then yeah things might happen
If a bi guy is with a straight guy or a bi guy without agreement then it is pretty save for all concerned
Find it really irritating that people in swinging which is meant to be based on openmindedness and tolerance can have a hang up on what sexual preference someone has.
It's a bit neanderthal way to view things in my opinion. Live and let live
The worst its "my husband is straight so bi guys" grow up and keep your outdated insecurities to yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just realised I've confused myself a bit.
People should absolutely be honest on their profile. If your a bi guy then say so. Some will want to meet you some wont but honestly is always best x"
Couldn't agree more. Bi guys work for me  |
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"Don't get it I honestly don't. Have we not moved on at all, is it a preconception that all bi guys want to jump on straight guys because that is how it comes off,
If a bi guy is with a bi guy and there is mutual agreement then yeah things might happen
If a bi guy is with a straight guy or a bi guy without agreement then it is pretty save for all concerned
Find it really irritating that people in swinging which is meant to be based on openmindedness and tolerance can have a hang up on what sexual preference someone has.
It's a bit neanderthal way to view things in my opinion. Live and let live
The worst its "my husband is straight so bi guys" grow up and keep your outdated insecurities to yourself"
In that case I must be a neanderthal, need to grow up, outdated and insecure. Take it you don't accept individual preferences? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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prefer honesty,wish message filters included ones to block bi and bi curious guys contacting us,would save us explaining we don't meet them,at least if they have it on their profile we can reply that we don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello, I was just wondering what single ladies opinion is on bi blokes. Does someone being honest their profile put you off?"
Honesty is the best policy but it wouldn't bother me. xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get it I honestly don't. Have we not moved on at all, is it a preconception that all bi guys want to jump on straight guys because that is how it comes off,
If a bi guy is with a bi guy and there is mutual agreement then yeah things might happen
If a bi guy is with a straight guy or a bi guy without agreement then it is pretty save for all concerned
Find it really irritating that people in swinging which is meant to be based on openmindedness and tolerance can have a hang up on what sexual preference someone has.
It's a bit neanderthal way to view things in my opinion. Live and let live
The worst its "my husband is straight so bi guys" grow up and keep your outdated insecurities to yourself"
It has nothing to do with whether a bi guy will 'jump on' a straight guy. It's usually that the person just doesn't like the idea of two guys together. Which means that the person wouldn't feel comfortable with a bi guy. Same as a straight woman might not want to play with me. It doesn't offend me, I respect her wishes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello, I was just wondering what single ladies opinion is on bi blokes. Does someone being honest their profile put you off?"
I don't care if they say on their profile that they are bi or straight. It bothers me more when straight guys pretend to be bi to get meets with couples. Easy way round that is to tell them the guys will play first... |
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Don't think its the case of the man being worried about being jumped on, but more the preference of the female.
We have several good male friends that are bi/bi curious but Simone would never play with them.
Its her preference and that fine by me, we don't have any preconceptions just preferences.
"Don't get it I honestly don't. Have we not moved on at all, is it a preconception that all bi guys want to jump on straight guys because that is how it comes off,
If a bi guy is with a bi guy and there is mutual agreement then yeah things might happen
If a bi guy is with a straight guy or a bi guy without agreement then it is pretty save for all concerned
Find it really irritating that people in swinging which is meant to be based on openmindedness and tolerance can have a hang up on what sexual preference someone has.
It's a bit neanderthal way to view things in my opinion. Live and let live
The worst its "my husband is straight so bi guys" grow up and keep your outdated insecurities to yourself"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't get it I honestly don't. Have we not moved on at all, is it a preconception that all bi guys want to jump on straight guys because that is how it comes off,
If a bi guy is with a bi guy and there is mutual agreement then yeah things might happen
If a bi guy is with a straight guy or a bi guy without agreement then it is pretty save for all concerned
Find it really irritating that people in swinging which is meant to be based on openmindedness and tolerance can have a hang up on what sexual preference someone has.
It's a bit neanderthal way to view things in my opinion. Live and let live
The worst its "my husband is straight so bi guys" grow up and keep your outdated insecurities to yourself"
I have to agree with you on this. Just because a guy is Bi it doesn't mean he is going to be more interested in the other guy, I appreciate that everyone is entitled to their preferences but by saying no just because they maybe Bi or Bi-curious would urely make them keep quiet about it. Then you wil loose the honesty that you all say you want. xx |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Personally I prefer bi guys - doesn't stop me playing with straight guys though and I know who out of my friends I would invite to certain parties/clubs and who wouldn't be comfortable with the free for alls that sometimes occur...as others have said I prefer honesty...and in answer to the poster who mentioned folks attitudes to bi guys being Neanderthal, I disagree, it's another preference if someone doesn't like the idea of 2 guys together (and the OP was aimed at single women, not couples, so the idea of the straight hubby's arse and cock being pounced on by the nasty, predatory bi guy probably wasn't intended). I find the opinion which I've seen expressed in the forum on many occasions that bi guys are less safe in their play to be more stereotypical and offensive than the "backs to the wall chaps, here comes a woofter" attitude to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See one of my things with bi guys is I like men to be alpha males, rightly or wrongly I don't see being bi as an alpha male trait... So I tend to rarely choose in advance to play with bi guys..
I've also recently had some experiences that have made me more wary with bi guys trying to or actually touching the guy I'm playing with, without even asking which is wrong I think.
However I've played with many bi guys that know it's not for everyone and it's been great. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"As a straight person who gives blood regularly. I will not play with a bi guy as I am then unable to give blood for 12 months!! That is my main reason x"
You may well be playing with bi guys who have straight on their profile as it seems that quite a few lie and/or change their profiles... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've also recently had some experiences that have made me more wary with bi guys trying to or actually touching the guy I'm playing with, without even asking which is wrong I think.
However I've played with many bi guys that know it's not for everyone and it's been great. "
I agree... I'd be pissed off if any guy started touching someone that didn't want to be touched. It's rude and disrespectful. I know some bi guys can be too touchy feely and not care if they guy is straight.
Same goes for women touching other women or men though. Respectfulness is very important to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've also recently had some experiences that have made me more wary with bi guys trying to or actually touching the guy I'm playing with, without even asking which is wrong I think.
However I've played with many bi guys that know it's not for everyone and it's been great.
I agree... I'd be pissed off if any guy started touching someone that didn't want to be touched. It's rude and disrespectful. I know some bi guys can be too touchy feely and not care if they guy is straight.
Same goes for women touching other women or men though. Respectfulness is very important to me. "
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