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"Well if you're going to take the "oh its a swinging site" then thats fine but cheating on your partner without their consent isnt "swinging". This is why a lot of people tend to have these sort of things on profiles. " this ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ You will always get cheats on swinging sites aswell as on dating sites but it doesnt make it right, some accept it and turn a blind eye, alot clearly state they wont help people cheat, 1 thing that doesnt change is that cheating is not swinging. | |||
"Well if you're going to take the "oh its a swinging site" then thats fine but cheating on your partner without their consent isnt "swinging". This is why a lot of people tend to have these sort of things on profiles. this ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ You will always get cheats on swinging sites aswell as on dating sites but it doesnt make it right, some accept it and turn a blind eye, alot clearly state they wont help people cheat, 1 thing that doesnt change is that cheating is not swinging." Having liberal views about sex does not equate to we'll fuck anything. | |||
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" In the end we are all individuals and have a right to conduct our lives as we see fit. "Indeed! That is the truth. | |||
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As for couples knowingly playing separately: I've been caught in some strange and scary couple dynamics and I really don't want to do that again. I play with men and the site is bursting with genuine singles so why would I complicate things for myself?  | |||
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"oooh the righteous police are here again !!" I'm sorry, are we not allowed to use any moral guide that we may or may not have to pick whom we play with.... thats right.. I'm showing indignation at your indignation.... and have some rolled eyes as well.... | |||
"oooh the righteous police are here again !!" Hahaha there speaks a married man | |||
"oooh the righteous police are here again !! Hahaha there speaks a married man "However did you guess!!  | |||
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"Well if you're going to take the "oh its a swinging site" then thats fine but cheating on your partner without their consent isnt "swinging". This is why a lot of people tend to have these sort of things on profiles. " I could not agree with this comment more. Swinging should not be cheating. No profile pic, can't accommodate, hotel meets in profiles make me suspicious. | |||
"Just because its a swingers site doesn't mean my personal moral code goes out the window. I wouldn't get involved with a cheat outside of fab and I won't on here either. I know people say that they have their own reasons for cheating and every situation is different but I don't want to be a part of it. " In the past I have passed up several meets because they are playing away from home, I dont find it thrilling to cheat and would sooner go without than entertain a cheat. Yes it does mean less meets, but I can sleep with a clear concience "oooh the righteous police are here again !!" Having morals is something that is lacking in a lot of people Rant over | |||
"oooh the righteous police are here again !!" It's not righteous to have a preference and personal choice!!!! | |||
"oooh the righteous police are here again !!" is that a group formed when the Righteous Brothers made a record with Sting? | |||
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"I really couldn't give a toss whether the woman I'm going to meet is cheating on her partner or not. As I suspect most single guys don't but some like to say they are against cheating as they think it will put them in good stead with any potential playmates. "  | |||
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"I really couldn't give a toss whether the woman I'm going to meet is cheating on her partner or not. As I suspect most single guys don't but some like to say they are against cheating as they think it will put them in good stead with any potential playmates. " ....... and it is easy to be that "ballsy/brash" when the 3rd person is an anonymous figure but when that person is a voice down the phone, or heaven forbid standing in front of you face to face.... I'd bet that front would disappear quick sharp!!! feign innocent, weasel your way...... right??? I know of a fair few women that have been confronted when the "other women" has found out! some incidences have verbal, others physical.... I know I wouldn't knowingly put myself in that situation, because knowing how angry people will react is a crapshoot.... so it isn't about being in "good stead" as you put it... I kinda like self-preservation | |||
"Please swinger site a dating site?" swingers site however I prefer single guys, not because i'm after a date but I find attached guys are always on a timer/clock watching on meets, I want a guy who can relax and spend quality time on a meet not one that's got to rush of to get back before the Mrs Also I don't want the hassle of a piss off woman calling me up if she finds my number on my phone, all because someone don't want a guy whos attached that does not mean they are after a date  | |||
"I really couldn't give a toss whether the woman I'm going to meet is cheating on her partner or not. As I suspect most single guys don't but some like to say they are against cheating as they think it will put them in good stead with any potential playmates. ....... and it is easy to be that "ballsy/brash" when the 3rd person is an anonymous figure but when that person is a voice down the phone, or heaven forbid standing in front of you face to face.... I'd bet that front would disappear quick sharp!!! feign innocent, weasel your way...... right??? I know of a fair few women that have been confronted when the "other women" has found out! some incidences have verbal, others physical.... I know I wouldn't knowingly put myself in that situation, because knowing how angry people will react is a crapshoot.... so it isn't about being in "good stead" as you put it... I kinda like self-preservation " No, the third party hasn't always been anonymous and I'm confident in my ability to preserve my physical wellbeing should the occasion arise, which indeed it has Also, you should note I used the words "some" and "most" so obviously you fall into the minority category with the other paragons of virtue | |||
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" No, the third party hasn't always been anonymous and I'm confident in my ability to preserve my physical wellbeing should the occasion arise, which indeed it has Also, you should note I used the words "some" and "most" so obviously you fall into the minority category with the other paragons of virtue" well done of being "macho enough" to believe in your own abilities.... my first reaction was really tempted to just say "you can think with your dick, I'll think with my head" and just leave it at that.. but that would be really facetious... it not about being a "paragon of virtue" as you put it, I certainly wouldn't like it if it was being done to me, as I would guess most people on here would feel the same, and have enough respect for others not to knowingly do it to them.... did I do it when I first started, yes, after all... just sex, right! you could call it the innocence of youth... would I do it now... hell no! because I have seen the effects it has on the 3rd party, on the people who have been lied to, on various incidence that have happened..... my moral upbringing dictates my own rules... like I said, I don't fancy trying to predict how angry people will react... it can be dangerous, and it something that is suppose to be fun.. that is not a part of my sense of "fun | |||
" No, the third party hasn't always been anonymous and I'm confident in my ability to preserve my physical wellbeing should the occasion arise, which indeed it has Also, you should note I used the words "some" and "most" so obviously you fall into the minority category with the other paragons of virtue well done of being "macho enough" to believe in your own abilities.... my first reaction was really tempted to just say "you can think with your dick, I'll think with my head" and just leave it at that.. but that would be really facetious... it not about being a "paragon of virtue" as you put it, I certainly wouldn't like it if it was being done to me, as I would guess most people on here would feel the same, and have enough respect for others not to knowingly do it to them.... did I do it when I first started, yes, after all... just sex, right! you could call it the innocence of youth... would I do it now... hell no! because I have seen the effects it has on the 3rd party, on the people who have been lied to, on various incidence that have happened..... my moral upbringing dictates my own rules... like I said, I don't fancy trying to predict how angry people will react... it can be dangerous, and it something that is suppose to be fun.. that is not a part of my sense of "fun" | |||
" No, the third party hasn't always been anonymous and I'm confident in my ability to preserve my physical wellbeing should the occasion arise, which indeed it has Also, you should note I used the words "some" and "most" so obviously you fall into the minority category with the other paragons of virtue well done of being "macho enough" to believe in your own abilities.... my first reaction was really tempted to just say "you can think with your dick, I'll think with my head" and just leave it at that.. but that would be really facetious... it not about being a "paragon of virtue" as you put it, I certainly wouldn't like it if it was being done to me, as I would guess most people on here would feel the same, and have enough respect for others not to knowingly do it to them.... did I do it when I first started, yes, after all... just sex, right! you could call it the innocence of youth... would I do it now... hell no! because I have seen the effects it has on the 3rd party, on the people who have been lied to, on various incidence that have happened..... my moral upbringing dictates my own rules... like I said, I don't fancy trying to predict how angry people will react... it can be dangerous, and it something that is suppose to be fun.. that is not a part of my sense of "fun" Fabio, I can only smile when someone who uses a sex site and has as many verifications as you have refers to their "moral upbringing" I don't give a damn whether the women I see are married, have a partner or single. You do. You carry on doing what you do and I'll carry on with what I do. As you often say on these forums, it's all down to preferences... | |||
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"****Having liberal views about sex does not equate to we'll fuck anything**** is the best thing I have ever read on these forums....ever! " Totally agree, I wouldn't "fuck anything" either. Whether married or single  | |||
" No, the third party hasn't always been anonymous and I'm confident in my ability to preserve my physical wellbeing should the occasion arise, which indeed it has Also, you should note I used the words "some" and "most" so obviously you fall into the minority category with the other paragons of virtue well done of being "macho enough" to believe in your own abilities.... my first reaction was really tempted to just say "you can think with your dick, I'll think with my head" and just leave it at that.. but that would be really facetious... it not about being a "paragon of virtue" as you put it, I certainly wouldn't like it if it was being done to me, as I would guess most people on here would feel the same, and have enough respect for others not to knowingly do it to them.... did I do it when I first started, yes, after all... just sex, right! you could call it the innocence of youth... would I do it now... hell no! because I have seen the effects it has on the 3rd party, on the people who have been lied to, on various incidence that have happened..... my moral upbringing dictates my own rules... like I said, I don't fancy trying to predict how angry people will react... it can be dangerous, and it something that is suppose to be fun.. that is not a part of my sense of "fun Fabio, I can only smile when someone who uses a sex site and has as many verifications as you have refers to their "moral upbringing" I don't give a damn whether the women I see are married, have a partner or single. You do. You carry on doing what you do and I'll carry on with what I do. As you often say on these forums, it's all down to preferences..." I can only smile when someone who uses a sex site and has as many verifications as you have refers to their "moral upbringing" This confuses me?? Just because people are on a swinging site (not a sex site) where they arrange NSA meets with other like minded people does not in any way mean they have no moral code. What a ridiculous point! | |||
" No, the third party hasn't always been anonymous and I'm confident in my ability to preserve my physical wellbeing should the occasion arise, which indeed it has Also, you should note I used the words "some" and "most" so obviously you fall into the minority category with the other paragons of virtue well done of being "macho enough" to believe in your own abilities.... my first reaction was really tempted to just say "you can think with your dick, I'll think with my head" and just leave it at that.. but that would be really facetious... it not about being a "paragon of virtue" as you put it, I certainly wouldn't like it if it was being done to me, as I would guess most people on here would feel the same, and have enough respect for others not to knowingly do it to them.... did I do it when I first started, yes, after all... just sex, right! you could call it the innocence of youth... would I do it now... hell no! because I have seen the effects it has on the 3rd party, on the people who have been lied to, on various incidence that have happened..... my moral upbringing dictates my own rules... like I said, I don't fancy trying to predict how angry people will react... it can be dangerous, and it something that is suppose to be fun.. that is not a part of my sense of "fun Fabio, I can only smile when someone who uses a sex site and has as many verifications as you have refers to their "moral upbringing" I don't give a damn whether the women I see are married, have a partner or single. You do. You carry on doing what you do and I'll carry on with what I do. As you often say on these forums, it's all down to preferences... I can only smile when someone who uses a sex site and has as many verifications as you have refers to their "moral upbringing" This confuses me?? Just because people are on a swinging site (not a sex site) where they arrange NSA meets with other like minded people does not in any way mean they have no moral code. What a ridiculous point! " Because he mentioned his moral code in relation to whether he would knowingly have sex with an attached woman. It is this aspect of his code I find amusing for someone who frequents this site Oh, and people don't come on here to discuss items you can find in most playgrounds. Semantics...... | |||
" Fabio, I can only smile when someone who uses a sex site and has as many verifications as you have refers to their "moral upbringing" I don't give a damn whether the women I see are married, have a partner or single. You do. You carry on doing what you do and I'll carry on with what I do. As you often say on these forums, it's all down to preferences..." A) my profile has been active on this site for the best part of 5 years.... yours 7 weeks... your point being I should have less, or you should have more???? weak!!! B) a lot of my verifications have been at the Countless socials I have been to up and down the country, from scotland.. to wales... over to northern ireland... local ones down to the north west, the midlands, the south west and the south est.... Heck I have even been to social in Leicester a few years ago... don't assume a single thing went it comes to verifiations.... not one!! it does come down to preference in the end, I know how I would feel if it was done to me, I know I wouldn't inflict that pain on anyone else..... the causal-ness of the people who do it is the thing that bugs me! bullet-proof nature of it, as is not consequences... there are always consequences: some small, some huge, Some life changing, some soul destroying, some very very very nasty............. | |||
" Fabio, I can only smile when someone who uses a sex site and has as many verifications as you have refers to their "moral upbringing" I don't give a damn whether the women I see are married, have a partner or single. You do. You carry on doing what you do and I'll carry on with what I do. As you often say on these forums, it's all down to preferences... A) my profile has been active on this site for the best part of 5 years.... yours 7 weeks... your point being I should have less, or you should have more???? weak!!! B) a lot of my verifications have been at the Countless socials I have been to up and down the country, from scotland.. to wales... over to northern ireland... local ones down to the north west, the midlands, the south west and the south est.... Heck I have even been to social in Leicester a few years ago... don't assume a single thing went it comes to verifiations.... not one!! it does come down to preference in the end, I know how I would feel if it was done to me, I know I wouldn't inflict that pain on anyone else..... the causal-ness of the people who do it is the thing that bugs me! bullet-proof nature of it, as is not consequences... there are always consequences: some small, some huge, Some life changing, some soul destroying, some very very very nasty............." Now _abio!! Don't have any morals on a sex site! It's not allowed! | |||
"****Having liberal views about sex does not equate to we'll fuck anything**** is the best thing I have ever read on these forums....ever! " Awww I'm blushing
I'll also add that being on a swinging site doesn't determine one's moral code. Soooo those who suggest that a moral code of being anti cheats is contradictory to being on said site are quite frankly talking out of their big/little/ flabby/cute backsides
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" Fabio, I can only smile when someone who uses a sex site and has as many verifications as you have refers to their "moral upbringing" I don't give a damn whether the women I see are married, have a partner or single. You do. You carry on doing what you do and I'll carry on with what I do. As you often say on these forums, it's all down to preferences... A) my profile has been active on this site for the best part of 5 years.... yours 7 weeks... your point being I should have less, or you should have more???? weak!!! B) a lot of my verifications have been at the Countless socials I have been to up and down the country, from scotland.. to wales... over to northern ireland... local ones down to the north west, the midlands, the south west and the south est.... Heck I have even been to social in Leicester a few years ago... don't assume a single thing went it comes to verifiations.... not one!! it does come down to preference in the end, I know how I would feel if it was done to me, I know I wouldn't inflict that pain on anyone else..... the causal-ness of the people who do it is the thing that bugs me! bullet-proof nature of it, as is not consequences... there are always consequences: some small, some huge, Some life changing, some soul destroying, some very very very nasty............." Now you're just ranting. It's been established you have a problem with people knowingly playing with attached others. Move on... | |||
"****Having liberal views about sex does not equate to we'll fuck anything**** is the best thing I have ever read on these forums....ever! Awww I'm blushing
I'll also add that being on a swinging site doesn't determine one's moral code. Soooo those who suggest that a moral code of being anti cheats is contradictory to being on said site are quite frankly talking out of their big/little/ flabby/cute backsides
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" Now you're just ranting. It's been established you have a problem with people knowingly playing with attached others. Move on... "and it has been established that you dont.... so heed your own advice... move on!! don't be condescending of other peoples viewpoints that aren't the same... there are as valid as yours, its a forum, people will have different slants.... | |||
" Now you're just ranting. It's been established you have a problem with people knowingly playing with attached others. Move on...
and it has been established that you dont.... so heed your own advice... move on!!
don't be condescending of other peoples viewpoints that aren't the same... there are as valid as yours, its a forum, people will have different slants...."Agreed. However, I think you'll find the condescension and holier than thou attitude is to be found in your response to what I initially posted | |||
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"Why is it whenever a thread of this nature kicks off people, usually by those who seem not to give a shit about others come out with the phrases ‘self-righteous’ and ‘holier than thou’ and ‘morals brigade’ in the context of it being a negative accusation against people who do care about other people? It’s really quite simple, some people do care about other people and for that reason they will not knowingly help them betray someone else, even if that someone else is faceless and unknown to them. Whereas some people will take what they want and have no consideration for any pain, trauma, misery that it might cause someone else, regardless of if that someone else is a faceless unknown or not. Typically, threads of this nature are started by someone who ‘thinks’ they are getting a bad time because they are refused by people who do care for the welfare of others. So they come in here like they are expecting everyone else to lower their own personal standards just to make them feel better? Here’s an idea, if you don’t want to feel bad about being a cheat then don’t cheat. If you don’t want people pointing the finger and saying ‘you are a cheat who puts their own selfish sexual needs in front of your partners wellbeing’ then don’t cheat. Or maybe try this, ‘Dear wife/husband, I have decided that my sexual needs that are not being fulfilled by you are much more important than you (and maybe kids, house family etc.) so I’m off for join Fabswingers’. " So by your post, those who fuck attached people don't give a shit about others, are takers and don't care for the welfare of others...that's not "in the context of being a negative accusation against" folk who don't share your opinion of cheaters? For the record, I do shag attached folk (see my earlier post for full details), I'm a reasonably decent kinda person, don't call anti cheaters any names, do charity work and visit me old mum every day... Your post seems a bit ironic to me | |||
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"Question Has anyone ever changed their minds about meeting/not meeting married people after one of these threads?" Nope | |||
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"Question Has anyone ever changed their minds about meeting/not meeting married people after one of these threads? Nope " Doesn't stop people trying | |||
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"Question Has anyone ever changed their minds about meeting/not meeting married people after one of these threads? Nope Doesn't stop people trying "True. Lol. Every time this subject comes up I say the same thing (if I can be bothered) that if people want to cheat its up to them. I just choose not to be involved. | |||
"Question Has anyone ever changed their minds about meeting/not meeting married people after one of these threads?" Not us, as individuals we both learned better in our late teens. We don't have a problem with people who choose to cheat but we won't knowingly help them do it, in or out of swinging. Hence when Angie's (married with 2 kids) brother asked "Can I bring a 'friend' to your birthday party?" she said, "No". But it would be interesting to know if anyone has ever read a thread like this and reconsidered their situation. Maybe some folks just don't realise how devastating it can be to a person who discovers they have been betrayed by their partner. A guy local but unknown to us hung himself when he discovered his wife was playing around. It might be interesting to to ask her... Was that fuck worth the death of your husband? | |||
"Question Has anyone ever changed their minds about meeting/not meeting married people after one of these threads? Nope Doesn't stop people trying
True. Lol. Every time this subject comes up I say the same thing (if I can be bothered) that if people want to cheat its up to them. I just choose not to be involved. "
And that's probably the best approach.
Life is full of shades of gray (a lot like a shit novel) and people do all sorts of things for all sorts of reasons. Some we agree with, some we disagree with and some we don't give a shit about. | |||
" A guy local but unknown to us hung himself when he discovered his wife was playing around. It might be interesting to to ask her... Was that fuck worth the death of your husband?" Question is not just that but what lead up to the cheating. People who cheat are part of a marriage and often there's a problem elsewhere in that relationship. So what was his role in their relationship. People don't just hang themselves for one reason. | |||
" A guy local but unknown to us hung himself when he discovered his wife was playing around. It might be interesting to to ask her... Was that fuck worth the death of your husband? Question is not just that but what lead up to the cheating. People who cheat are part of a marriage and often there's a problem elsewhere in that relationship. So what was his role in their relationship. People don't just hang themselves for one reason. " I for one totally agree with you but it really is quite beside the point. I would NEVER be the 'other guy' (or woman) that the wife conspired with that lead to the betrayal that lead to the husband hanging himself. I don't fully sympathise with the husband either in this particular case as he hung himself over the stairs in the house... his children found him when they returned from school... just how selfish and inconsiderate is that? Maybe it speaks volumes for him and we might say, 'no wonder she was seeing other men'. There is always Mitigating circumstances, excuses, reasons etc. and so our choice is to stay well away from it. | |||
" A guy local but unknown to us hung himself when he discovered his wife was playing around. It might be interesting to to ask her... Was that fuck worth the death of your husband? Question is not just that but what lead up to the cheating. People who cheat are part of a marriage and often there's a problem elsewhere in that relationship. So what was his role in their relationship. People don't just hang themselves for one reason. I for one totally agree with you but it really is quite beside the point. I would NEVER be the 'other guy' (or woman) that the wife conspired with that lead to the betrayal that lead to the husband hanging himself. I don't fully sympathise with the husband either in this particular case as he hung himself over the stairs in the house... his children found him when they returned from school... just how selfish and inconsiderate is that? Maybe it speaks volumes for him and we might say, 'no wonder she was seeing other men'. There is always Mitigating circumstances, excuses, reasons etc. and so our choice is to stay well away from it." Not sure how to agree as I do but we can't totally agree as we meet in clubs so can't completely guarantee that we don't meet married people. But yes to the rest. The one similar case I know to this, he was also cheating but used his "failed" attempted suicide (he succeeded) to punish her and ended up only destroying his kids. | |||
" Not sure how to agree as I do but we can't totally agree as we meet in clubs so can't completely guarantee that we don't meet married people. But yes to the rest. The one similar case I know to this, he was also cheating but used his "failed" attempted suicide (he succeeded) to punish her and ended up only destroying his kids. " Couldn't say we have NEVER played with a cheat, only that we don't knowingly play with cheats. We haven't played with anyone at a club 'yet' who we didn't know already. A story comes to mind that to mind that has a funny side. A guy was caught out playing with someone else's wife. The husband told the guy, "You have ruined my life, and so I am going to ruin yours, you will have to look over your shoulder for the rest of your life". The aggrieved husband was true to his word too. He would appear out of nowhere from time to time and beat the crap out of the guy. In the end, the guy left the country and went to live in Spain... that worked for a while at least. This kicked off over 30 years ago and for all I know the quest continues | |||
" Not sure how to agree as I do but we can't totally agree as we meet in clubs so can't completely guarantee that we don't meet married people. But yes to the rest. The one similar case I know to this, he was also cheating but used his "failed" attempted suicide (he succeeded) to punish her and ended up only destroying his kids. Couldn't say we have NEVER played with a cheat, only that we don't knowingly play with cheats. We haven't played with anyone at a club 'yet' who we didn't know already. A story comes to mind that to mind that has a funny side. A guy was caught out playing with someone else's wife. The husband told the guy, "You have ruined my life, and so I am going to ruin yours, you will have to look over your shoulder for the rest of your life". The aggrieved husband was true to his word too. He would appear out of nowhere from time to time and beat the crap out of the guy. In the end, the guy left the country and went to live in Spain... that worked for a while at least. This kicked off over 30 years ago and for all I know the quest continues "It's difficult as I suspect some people say they would never play with one and what they mean is they'd never knowingly play with one. | |||
" Not sure how to agree as I do but we can't totally agree as we meet in clubs so can't completely guarantee that we don't meet married people. But yes to the rest. The one similar case I know to this, he was also cheating but used his "failed" attempted suicide (he succeeded) to punish her and ended up only destroying his kids. Couldn't say we have NEVER played with a cheat, only that we don't knowingly play with cheats. We haven't played with anyone at a club 'yet' who we didn't know already. A story comes to mind that to mind that has a funny side. A guy was caught out playing with someone else's wife. The husband told the guy, "You have ruined my life, and so I am going to ruin yours, you will have to look over your shoulder for the rest of your life". The aggrieved husband was true to his word too. He would appear out of nowhere from time to time and beat the crap out of the guy. In the end, the guy left the country and went to live in Spain... that worked for a while at least. This kicked off over 30 years ago and for all I know the quest continues "That's a funny side?  | |||
" A story comes to mind that to mind that has a funny side. A guy was caught out playing with someone else's wife. The husband told the guy, "You have ruined my life, and so I am going to ruin yours, you will have to look over your shoulder for the rest of your life". The aggrieved husband was true to his word too. He would appear out of nowhere from time to time and beat the crap out of the guy. In the end, the guy left the country and went to live in Spain... that worked for a while at least. This kicked off over 30 years ago and for all I know the quest continues
That's a funny side? "No not really funny at all, in fact its bloody tragic, you'd need to be there to appreciate the funny 'cartoon' aspect of it... Stood at a bar with 'the guy' when next time you look around, his beer is there, his ciggy in the the ashtray but he has vanished, then as you scan around the room when you get to the door you just see his feet going out, as the husband has just dragged him out to the car park for yet another random beating... it really couldn't have happened to a nicer bloke OK so you might think this was a love affair and 'the guy' was otherwise fully respectful to all others! NO... he was a first rate arsehole and deserved a lot more than he actually got. In fact I suggest he was on a mission to fuck everyone else's wife and from what I heard not all of them were willing! | |||
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"Not the sort of bloke to have a drink with in a bar then. Although the husband sounds like a twat too." Couldn't agree more, but who said 'having a drink with'? Yes, both a pair of twats of the first order and if someone could invent a 'twat detector' it could be used on swingers site and pubs | |||
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"Sorry - took the 'stood at a bar' perhaps too literally." In point of fact I knew the guy quite well, and it was a very long time ago, I was late teens or very early 20's, I increased distance from him as I learned what and arsehole he was/is. The 'wife' in question had a sister, 'the guys' mate was fucking her, until he got caught and a beating to go with it. But that couple managed to make up and get over it, then moved away, no idea how they turned out in the end. It could be suggested I hung around with the wrong sort in those days but it taught me a hell of a lot, it taught me how NOT to behave, I learned a hell of a lot about the meaning of respect from people who had no comprehension of what respect is all about... | |||
"Sorry - took the 'stood at a bar' perhaps too literally. In point of fact I knew the guy quite well, and it was a very long time ago, I was late teens or very early 20's, I increased distance from him as I learned what and arsehole he was/is. The 'wife' in question had a sister, 'the guys' mate was fucking her, until he got caught and a beating to go with it. But that couple managed to make up and get over it, then moved away, no idea how they turned out in the end. It could be suggested I hung around with the wrong sort in those days but it taught me a hell of a lot, it taught me how NOT to behave, I learned a hell of a lot about the meaning of respect from people who had no comprehension of what respect is all about..." Now back pedalling at a remarkable speed !!! | |||
" Now back pedalling at a remarkable speed !!!" How do you work that out? | |||
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"Well this thread started out as "funny story"....has the phrase "cartoon" in it to describe a guy being dragged out of bar and beaten senseless , then reverts to on my younger days....now know better...I'm now a paragon of virtue type post. You've posted some people don't agree, with what you've said and now your back peddling Why didn't you separate the two guys when the aggrieved hubby , drags shagger out of pub ?" Because... I was a young man at the time. I'm not the police or local Super Hero. "beaten senseless" are your words not mine. The guy getting the beating, sorry but I thought he brought it on himself. As for separating them... each of them would have a height, weight, experience and anger advantage over little me. Now I might look stupid and you might even think I'm stupid but it would have been like a cat trying to stop a couple of Rottweiler's scrapping. In fact both of the guys were of the fighting type. Not that it would make any difference because I'm not a "paragon of virtue" even today, because if a husband was "beating sensesless" bloke who's been fucking his wife behind his back then tough shit, he should have thought about the possible consequences before he let his cock do the thinking. Funny, cartoon-ish, yes it was, but like I said, you'd have to be there to appreciate it. It was over 35 years ago, back then if a guy got a beating for fucking another guys wife and the police were called, chances are the police would have given him a slap too. "I'm now a paragon of virtue type post" Your words not mine but yes, to a point you are correct. Back in my teens early 20's I was pretty much like any other guy at that age. I made mistakes, I did things that I didn't like myself for the next day but I learned from it. "I'm now a paragon of virtue TYPE POST" NO, not at all. A subject matter has been posted for discussion and as such people including myself will post their comments and opinions, that is what the forums are all about. All I'm doing is sharing some of my life experience and what I personally have learned along the way, while you seem intent on trying to find fault in it. Feel free to do so, because if you do find fault in it I might learn a bit more about self-improvement which I'll thank you for in advance
I, along with many other people stand on the side that says betraying someone, and or being a party to betraying is wrong. If you or anyone else wants to post arguments here to convince us otherwise then please do, then there will be 100's and 100's of offers for sexual events that we won't have to turn down any more | |||
"Well this thread started out as "funny story"....has the phrase "cartoon" in it to describe a guy being dragged out of bar and beaten senseless , then reverts to on my younger days....now know better...I'm now a paragon of virtue type post. You've posted some people don't agree, with what you've said and now your back peddling Why didn't you separate the two guys when the aggrieved hubby , drags shagger out of pub ? Because... I was a young man at the time. I'm not the police or local Super Hero. "beaten senseless" are your words not mine. The guy getting the beating, sorry but I thought he brought it on himself. As for separating them... each of them would have a height, weight, experience and anger advantage over little me. Now I might look stupid and you might even think I'm stupid but it would have been like a cat trying to stop a couple of Rottweiler's scrapping. In fact both of the guys were of the fighting type. Not that it would make any difference because I'm not a "paragon of virtue" even today, because if a husband was "beating sensesless" bloke who's been fucking his wife behind his back then tough shit, he should have thought about the possible consequences before he let his cock do the thinking. Funny, cartoon-ish, yes it was, but like I said, you'd have to be there to appreciate it. It was over 35 years ago, back then if a guy got a beating for fucking another guys wife and the police were called, chances are the police would have given him a slap too. "I'm now a paragon of virtue type post" Your words not mine but yes, to a point you are correct. Back in my teens early 20's I was pretty much like any other guy at that age. I made mistakes, I did things that I didn't like myself for the next day but I learned from it. "I'm now a paragon of virtue TYPE POST" NO, not at all. A subject matter has been posted for discussion and as such people including myself will post their comments and opinions, that is what the forums are all about. All I'm doing is sharing some of my life experience and what I personally have learned along the way, while you seem intent on trying to find fault in it. Feel free to do so, because if you do find fault in it I might learn a bit more about self-improvement which I'll thank you for in advance
I, along with many other people stand on the side that says betraying someone, and or being a party to betraying is wrong. If you or anyone else wants to post arguments here to convince us otherwise then please do, then there will be 100's and 100's of offers for sexual events that we won't have to turn down any more "Not trying to find fault or help with your self improvement program, but have you ever considered that the "shagger" is maybe a very different person now ? as he may have been a young man too at this point. You however seem to think that it's acceptable for an individual to dole out beatings over a long period, also re police comment of giving him a slap....have you being watching life on mars or the Sweeney again ??? Also love the " I, along with many other people" comment !!! The forums are a broad church , we can all comment, but we don't all have to agree....maybe I'm in the I, along with very few people camp ??? | |||
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