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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am yet to understand why people have the rule of no pics / no reply? Surely if they have sent you a message that catches your eye You should take a little time to view their profile? scene as they have taken their time to message you In The 1st place? I just don't think someone who may have just forgotten to put a pic should not even be considered to be met? |
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If someone has no pictures we don't reply experience has shown that no pictures means one of several things its a man pretending to be a couple, its a man who is so insecure in his looks that he thinks we'll be put off, someone who has no intention of ever meeting, someone who's scared his wife will guess his password and recognise him..... I could go on but you get the picture. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I am yet to understand why people have the rule of no pics / no reply? Surely if they have sent you a message that catches your eye You should take a little time to view their profile? scene as they have taken their time to message you In The 1st place? I just don't think someone who may have just forgotten to put a pic should not even be considered to be met? "
I agree that a well crafted message is better than a one-liner, but I will check out the profile and, if they don't have any pics, or haven't attached one to their profile, how will I know they're my physical type? |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I am yet to understand why people have the rule of no pics / no reply? Surely if they have sent you a message that catches your eye You should take a little time to view their profile? scene as they have taken their time to message you In The 1st place? I just don't think someone who may have just forgotten to put a pic should not even be considered to be met? "
When you get lots of messages from Black shadows what do you want people to do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swinging site where people [usually] meet up for a bit of adult fun 
Now call me a fussy mare but I like to see the man I'm about to have fun with and even worse.....I have to fancy that man  "
As requested your a fussy mare  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted? "
Oh, if they have face pics on their profile I have no problem at all, but the majority of people don't. |
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"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted? "
How do you know that's the reason it was deleted? |
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"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted? "
Is this because you did not attach a pic to a message you sent, or a fem or a couple sent a message with no pic attached? |
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"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted? "
Sorry but I found your original post quite difficult to understand. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted?
Sorry but I found your original post quite difficult to understand."
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"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted? "
How do you know that's the reason?  |
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"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted?
How do you know that's the reason it was deleted? "
Snap! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted? "
If someone asks for a picture you can pass them by. If you send them a message and don't bother to attach one I really fail to see how you can feel hard done by when the recipient doesn't respond. To be honest I'd dismiss you without even reading the message and assume that you hadn't bothered reading the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's not for no personal reason... I have a pretty enjoyable time on fab, just a general question? A LOT of people on fab say it on their profile and was just wondering why if they have pictures on their profile and just didn't put them in a message does that mean they shouldn't be considered for meeting? Just don't get why? |
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"If people read the post they might have read that I didn't say men with no pictures? I said men that don't leave pics (when sending a message) they still might have 10 pics on their page but because he/she/they didn't leave 1 in the message the message then gets deleted?
How do you know that's the reason it was deleted?
Snap! "
Great minds!! |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"It's not for no personal reason... I have a pretty enjoyable time on fab, just a general question? A LOT of people on fab say it on their profile and was just wondering why if they have pictures on their profile and just didn't put them in a message does that mean they shouldn't be considered for meeting? Just don't get why? "
What you're saying doesn't make sense...How do you know whether they send pictures or not? |
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"It's not for no personal reason... I have a pretty enjoyable time on fab, just a general question? A LOT of people on fab say it on their profile and was just wondering why if they have pictures on their profile and just didn't put them in a message does that mean they shouldn't be considered for meeting? Just don't get why? "
I would imagine some people (like myself) who have requested that people send a face pic with the first message to see if there is an attraction will also check the profile to see if there are pics there if one isn't sent. If not then message gets deleted. |
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"It's not for no personal reason... I have a pretty enjoyable time on fab, just a general question? A LOT of people on fab say it on their profile and was just wondering why if they have pictures on their profile and just didn't put them in a message does that mean they shouldn't be considered for meeting? Just don't get why? "
I have pictures but its my choice if I send them and who I send them too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have many people message without send pic,i do look at profile if it a smurf pro,i ask them to send,my reply can be a pic but mainly get numbers,whatsapp,skype,friends requests,of which i personally am not interested,all i want is a blooming mugshot to see if i like x people who choose not to send one,i say im not interested,then i get nagging for the above,so i stop replying i just dont do blind meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not for no personal reason... I have a pretty enjoyable time on fab, just a general question? A LOT of people on fab say it on their profile and was just wondering why if they have pictures on their profile and just didn't put them in a message does that mean they shouldn't be considered for meeting? Just don't get why?
I would imagine some people (like myself) who have requested that people send a face pic with the first message to see if there is an attraction will also check the profile to see if there are pics there if one isn't sent. If not then message gets deleted. "
OP - if someone requests a face pic with a first message you have two initial choices. Send a message or not.
If you send a message with a pic - you've fulfilled their request but there's no guarantee of a reply. If you send a message without one - they may see the absence of an attached pic (it shows!) and delete without opening. They may open it - then delete it because either a.) you didn't attach a pic as requested, b.) they look at your profile and aren't interested, or c.) the message may not interest them.
Then again - you might get away with it! Your message may be that good it spurs them to forgive your reluctance to attach said pic, or your profile may contain sufficient pics/decent text for them to want to hurl themselves at you naked and covered in whipped cream. They may have had no pics attached to any messages and have realised that they can in fact garner sufficient info to decide to engage in further discussion. They may read glowing veri's extolling your virtues as an all round good guy and great shag!
The long and the short of it is this. Nobody knows what goes through people's minds when they set preferences, 'rules' and demands re message requests - but themselves! You can only choose to acknowledge these choices and potentially increase your chance of a more positive outcome - or you can say 'fuck it' - and try your luck anyway!!
Or - you can just move on to a profile without such requests!
Only you can decide!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah still the same old forum trying to have a go at someone's post.... As I said before its not a personal thing.... I'm not asking because I see it as a problem.... It was a general why do people do it?.... Just curiosity.... But yet people are still answering AT me and not even answering the question??? :/ (some people need to stop trying to get at people)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they say " no pics no reply" I dont think it means you have to send a face photo with your initial message, it probably means they want you to have photos on your profile be it public or private...... thats how I would read it anyway. |
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"If they say " no pics no reply" I dont think it means you have to send a face photo with your initial message, it probably means they want you to have photos on your profile be it public or private...... thats how I would read it anyway."
Not how I interpret it. I wonder who's right? This is exciting! |
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Its not blind date to some (of us) attraction is key so unless there is a physical attraction there is little point in going further, we arent as harsh it sounds here to make life long friends, just have sex with like minded people we are attracted too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ask for a face pic with an initial message to a) know they have read my profile (an that's the big one as most don't!) and b) to rate my attraction to them. Looks aren't everything but I've always said initial attraction is a physical thing, then personality embeds the attraction or turns you off to them completely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would suggest they request the picture via the mail to speed up the proceedings as they can see in a instant what the mailer looks like (is there an attraction) if there is then they will read the message...just my thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have this in our profile. If no pic is attached then we will look at the profile. But 9 times out if 10 it is usually a one liner and shows that they haven't read our profile. It's like having a special word to show they have read it.
If they don't have a pic attach but do have some that we can see and like what we see we will reply, if nothing then it gets deleted.
And how many times can I say profile in one post.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course we expect to see pictures before meeting people. But I don't mind a bit of discussion beforehand.
The ones that amuse me are those that send you a message or a wink but then on their profile demand a face pic before any kind of contact. Tend to think profiles that make demands are a warning that they're likely to be hard work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course we expect to see pictures before meeting people. But I don't mind a bit of discussion beforehand.
The ones that amuse me are those that send you a message or a wink but then on their profile demand a face pic before any kind of contact. Tend to think profiles that make demands are a warning that they're likely to be hard work."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I ask for a face pic with an initial message to a) know they have read my profile (an that's the big one as most don't!) and b) to rate my attraction to them. Looks aren't everything but I've always said initial attraction is a physical thing, then personality embeds the attraction or turns you off to them completely. "
FINALLY!!!! a person who actually writes something constructive in a forum instead of trying to mock a persons thoughts or feelings towards something, thanks p.s I have had a look at your profile and you seem very nice xx |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I ask for a face pic with an initial message to a) know they have read my profile (an that's the big one as most don't!) and b) to rate my attraction to them. Looks aren't everything but I've always said initial attraction is a physical thing, then personality embeds the attraction or turns you off to them completely.
FINALLY!!!! a person who actually writes something constructive in a forum instead of trying to mock a persons thoughts or feelings towards something, thanks p.s I have had a look at your profile and you seem very nice xx "
You're question wasn't wrote in a way people could understand. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I ask for a face pic with an initial message to a) know they have read my profile (an that's the big one as most don't!) and b) to rate my attraction to them. Looks aren't everything but I've always said initial attraction is a physical thing, then personality embeds the attraction or turns you off to them completely.
FINALLY!!!! a person who actually writes something constructive in a forum instead of trying to mock a persons thoughts or feelings towards something, thanks p.s I have had a look at your profile and you seem very nice xx "
I was unaware that either of my responses mocked your posts, but its good to know that's how you feel about it. |
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